Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

Did you make any New Year resolutions?

Perhaps you don’t believe in them but have been wanting to make some positive changes in 2016.

Either way, how are the changes going?

If you have failed to do what you planned, don’t give up!

Set-backs happen, just recommit to your goals and start again if you need to. Those who succeed keep going, they “get back on the horse” and try again.

Another powerful method to is to install the changes at the unconscious level using Hypnosis… here I interview Anna Yates, Hypnotherapist who runs a successful practice in Dubai.

Tune in to learn how it works and what hypnosis can be used for.

Nicola Beer is an International Relationship Coach and Best Selling Author in 3 books. To get more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

The first conversation and thoughts about ending your marriage often results in numerous questions, doubts and fears come flooding in.

If you’re unsure, you may think it’s safer to ignore and bury your feelings but this won’t help you long-term. Fears must be dealt with, addressed or put to rest, in order to gain peace of mind and move forward. Especially if you have made the decision to leave.

Many clients share with me that before they booked my programs they were barely functioning, couldn’t eat, sleep their mind was constantly racing with a huge list of what if’s.

Many have questions like: Will the children be ok? Will I survive financially? Will anyone ever want to be with me? How will I pay for everything? Will I regret my decision? Will I be ok on my own?

Use this 3 step process to deal with separation and anxiety and divorce fears. For more free resources get my FREE e-books:

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Protect Children Through Divorce

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Nicola Beer – International Relationship Coach www.purepeacecoaching.com

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Face and overcome your fears this year. Whether it’s a fear of loving and trusting again after a break up, a fear of loving fully to your partner after a rough patch, a fear of starting something new. When we address our fears we become powerful.

In this episode you will learn a 5 step process to face your fears this year. I will share with you my biggest relationship and personal fears as an example and encourage you to seize back your power and make 2016 your best year yet.

If you want more free resources visit my website at www.purepeacecoaching.com and get free relationship and break up support.

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Are you too or your partner too busy with work for your marriage?

Does your profession own you?

Does work keep you away from quality time – or any time from your relationship and family?

Do the demands of errands, meetings and emergencies keep you from catching your breath?

If you answered yes to this you could be suffering from workaholism.

In this episode I cover 7 tips to stop work from interfering with your marriage and family time.

Nicola Beer – International Relationship & Divorce Coach

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Like many of the individuals I work with, when I went through a break up 6 years ago, I felt lost, alone, confused and exhausted.

I was stuck with no peace. Stuck with the same disempowering questions going round and round my in head:

Why did they do that? Why me? Why now? What’s wrong with me? Will I ever be happy? Will I ever meet someone that loves me again? Will I survive financially?

Then there are the questions about who, what and where you should be. Where the confusion over who you are and what makes you happy plays on your mind

You get frustrated with yourself because you’re so unsure of what to do next. Sometimes you’re confused over whether the relationship ending was good or bad, confused over who you really are now, confused over what your place should be in the world.

Lesson 5: When going through a break up and divorce you need to

Rediscover your place in the world

You do this by embarking on a journey of self-discovery and taking action.

Through my experience stumbling along the hard way, I created 10 steps for others to follow after divorce. Helping those get great results months not years.

Learn how you rediscover your place in the world in this episode.

Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach www.purepeacecoaching.com

Since working with individuals over the years to heal from infidelity and multiple marriages, I have learnt what successful rebuilders do compared to those unsuccessful in repairing their relationships after affairs.

Whilst there is no denying that affairs can destroy love, relationships and self-confidence, they don’t have to.

As long as the betrayer follows some crucial steps to help their spouse heal and together the couple look at ways to improve and strengthen their marriage.

in this episode I cover 6 things that are vital in recovery after affairs, my lessons from the 12 years I have been working with individuals with emotional distress and couples.

I hope they are useful, from my heart to yours Nicola

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During the training I learnt about the different types of relationship needs individuals have. I became aware that many individuals like I did, focused on giving their partner more of what they want and not what their partner needs.

The problem with this was clear. When you do this you IGNORE your lover’s needs.

Men and Women would find despite all their best efforts their partner failed to respond, reciprocate or appreciate. I noticed couples where it was obvious that they deeply loved and cared for one another just weren’t connecting.

In training I became familiar with the work of many famous marriage counselors and their application of the 10 needs in marriage counseling. These 10 needs are pretty much universal. Typically Men’s top 5 needs are different to Women’s top 5. Although every couple has a unique blend of their needs and how they want the need to be met.

In this episode discover Women’s top two needs and men’s top two needs and why this is important to know…

Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach

www.purepeacecoaching.com

The Love You Have is Determined By YOU

Before…

Before I became UK certified in grief and loss, studied relationship coaching and emotional healing techniques - I didn’t love myself enough, or really at all for that matter…

I rarely took time for me, it was work, work, work or running round after others.

Often I would find it hard to accept compliments and gifts.

Somehow I felt I don’t deserve it…

All of this is blocking love from coming in.

During…

the training I learnt that loving yourself is only the first step.

The second step is growing and nurturing the love you have so it can flourish.

The third is letting go of things in the way of you experiencing true love.

Inside this episode you will get my 3 STEP PROCESS which have been described as Transformational. These 3 steps are part of my exclusive VIP program GET THE LOVE YOU WANT! and for the first time I am sharing them with you.

Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach www.purepeacecoaching.com

Lesson 1 of 7 – Emotional Honesty & Expression Is Key – Overcoming Gridlock - -

Before, I never use to say when I was upset or share my feelings.

Mainly because I didn’t know how to share my feelings and bring up topics. During studying more about relationships I realized that successful couples in marriages, express themselves and that a solid relationship is based on emotional honesty.

Working with couples, I recognized that not sharing is unhealthy as unresolved annoyances, anger, doubts, hurts, fester and leave you to build up resentment and frustration, which can lead to explosion, angry outbursts or further withdrawal and shut down.

The shut down and emotional dishonesty leaves a couple grid locked unable to solve problems which can lead to separate lives and affairs.

Here I explain what you can do if this is resonating with you and your partner.

It’s from our lessons we can get true peace. Peace with the past, peace in the now and peace for our futures.

Nicola Beer – Pure Peace – www.purepeacecoaching.com – International Marriage and Divorce Coach

Divorce for children can bring many losses at once; such as loss of expectation family will be together, loss of familiarity, residence, childhood, safety, trust, faith in relationships and marriage, to name a few. _____

Included in this episode are 7 tips to help them cope with the losses and why this area is so close to my own heart.______

Although divorce is always a difficult transition, the way parents handle it can greatly influence how well children cope. Children need to be able to mourn the losses, freely express feelings, and ask any questions. _____

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