Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

Last week I received an email from a lady who asked me to warn others about loving too much. It was in response to my article loving through hard times, she felt she had done that too much. Which got me thinking can you really “love too much?”

Hear my opinion from working with hundreds of individuals and couples in their relationships. Also learn about the questions you should be really asking yourself if this comes up like;

1, Do you love, respect, value and care for yourself enough?

2, Are you / they loving or smothering?

3, Are you / they score-keeping?

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Are you fixated on wanting to why your partner or ex did or didn’t do something?

Relentlessly questioning why your partner or ex does or doesn’t do something can be frustrating, draining and leaving you feeling confused, disappointed and angry…

I listen to individuals in my coaching frequently saying that they just don’t understand WHY their spouse did this or they cannot get WHY their ex would behave in such a vindictive way.

Being Fixated and STUCK in a spiral of never ending Why thoughts is a nightmare.

I know this, because I’ve been there…

In this episode you will learn some tips to help you let go of the why fixation into PEACE

Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach

www.purepeacecoaching.com

for more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

Ever wonder why talking about your relationship issues can sometimes make you feel more annoyed, fed up or isolated than before you started? At the center of many relationship problems is the Shame-Fear dynamic Once you recognize this and follow the steps to overcome it, you like thousands of others can solve previously unresolvable relationship problems.

Inspired by the work of Love and Stonsy in their book: “How to save your marriage without talking about it.” I’ve added this principle to my marriage coaching packages and seen great results. I’m super excited to be sharing it with you. Let this be as helpful to you as it has been for the couples I’ve worked with…

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Marriage Support “7 Secrets to Save Your Relationship”

Divorce Support “10 Simple Steps you Can Take Now to Create Change after Divorce”

Nicola Beer, International Marriage, Relationship & Divorce Coach

Dubai, Middle East and Further Afield Via Skype

www.purepeacecoaching.com

International Relationship and Divorce Coach Nicola Beer Interviews Jeffrey A. Landers, CDFA™, the creator of the Think Financially, Not Emotionally® brand of books, webinars, seminars and eLearning courses designed to educate, empower and support women (and their advisors) before, during and after divorce. His current Amazon best-selling books include, Divorce: Think Financially, Not Emotionally® – What Women Need To Know About Securing Their Financial Future Before, During, And After Divorce, DIVORCE Financial Planner For Women, Volume I and the newly released, A Woman’s Guide To Financial Security After Divorce – The Basics: Creating A Solid Foundation.

He is also the founder of Bedrock Divorce Advisors, LLC, a divorce financial advisory firm that works exclusively with women throughout the United States.

Jeff has also been extensively interviewed about the financial aspects of divorce for women by CBS and FOX Television News

Nicola Beer is the producer and host of Divorce Talk and has more free resources (e-books, blogs and episodes) on her website. She helps couples save their marriage and prevent divorce or if divorce is happening helps guides individuals and their children through it. www.purepeacecoaching.com

This week I received an email from Marie, a lady in my 6 month coaching program who is devastated that her two teenagers don’t want to stay with her. This topic often comes up in my divorce coaching with parents questioning whether they should be concerned, worried their ex is bad mouthing them and whether to force their teenagers to stay or let them choose.

Having worked with several teenagers during and after divorce, experiencing my parent’s divorce at 14 and feeling unwanted, depressed and lonely…

It is important to distinguish between when a teenager is just being a teenager and when something deeper is bothering them and some attention or parent rebuilding needs to happen.

In this episode I will cover this. Hope you like it. From my heart to yours Nicola

P.S If you want more resources on supporting children through divorce click here to get your free e-book Parenting Through Divorce – Avoid the 3 Common Pitfalls most Parents Make http://www.purepeacecoaching.com/help-childrenwithdivorce/

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Dubai, Middle East and Further Afield Via Skype

www.purepeacecoaching.com

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What do you do if you’re sick and tired of your partner’s behavior? Perhaps you used to be closer, but sometimes you find you simply don’t want to be around them or that things they do really wind you up. It can be hard to give your love.

What do you do if you are co-parenting with a difficult ex but need to keep the peace for your children?

Today I will share with you my 5 steps to loving through hard times.

As let’s face it it’s far easier to love someone when they are fulfilling our relationships needs, showing us love and respect in the way we want to receive it. Whether that’s affection, words of admiration, through physical touch, giving us gifts or doing things for us. When they show us they for care and appreciate us, it feels good. Doesn’t it?

Not so easy is loving someone when we feel they are not saying, doing and behaving how we wish they would. Sometimes this could be to a disagreement on a topic, like child rearing, finances, family interference, putting work or friends before the relationship or their actions…

For further free e-support visit www.purepeacecoaching.com and down load your copies of

Marriage Support “7 Secrets to Save Your Relationship”

Divorce Support “10 Simple Steps you Can Take Now to Create Change after Divorce”

Children of Divorce “Protect Children Through Divorce, Avoid the 3 Most Common Pitfalls most Parents Make”

Nicola Beer, Marriage, Relationship & Divorce Coach

www.purepeacecoaching.com

Dubai, Middle East and Further Afield Via Skype

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Dealing With Your Ex’s Anger During Divorce

What can you do if your Ex is angry, playing dirty, being manipulative and aggressive during divorce?

In this episode I share 4 steps to dealing with an angry ex during a divorce. These steps have been proven to help those struggling with a difficult ex, de-stress and reduce financial and emotional cost of divorce.

Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs.

Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website

“7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.”

“10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make”

Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

Jumping to conclusions causes undue stress and drama, as well as destroy relationships.

In this episode you will learn how to improve your life and relationships by not making assumptions.

“a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof.” We make assumptions all the time and in relationships this can be a disaster.

Listen in to protect yourself from this trap…

Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs.

Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website

“7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.”

“10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make”

Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

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Clarissa Rayward, is the Director of Brisbane Family Law Centre and is also known as the ‘Happy Family Lawyer’. As a Divorce Lawyer, Clarissa specializes in helping separating families stay out of the Family Courts and stay friends as she believes that a divorce can be a positive end to a marriage.

Over the past 11 years Clarissa has worked as a specialist family lawyer and in that time, has helped over 2,000 Australian families through their divorce.

Clarissa is also the author of the successful ‘Happy Family Lawyer’ blog, providing weekly commentary and tips on issues relating to divorce and is about to publish her book 'Splitsville- How to separate, stay out of Court and stay friends'.

Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs.

Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website

“7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.”

“10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make”

Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com