Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

Good communication is often the first thing to go when a relationship breaks down. So it is not surprising that communicating with your ex after a breakup and during a divorce is emotionally difficult.

To say communication is “Emotionally Difficult” is a HUGE understatement for many as the pain, turmoil, confusion and stress involved can be unbearable.

So in this episode you will learn 8 helpful guidelines when communicating with an ex.

Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again.

Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website

“7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.”

“10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make”

Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

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There is no doubt that work stress has become an increasing factor in marital dissatisfaction and even divorce. Today couples work on average a thousand more hours each year than people did thirty years ago. All the extra work and constantly checking work emails means that there is less time for talking, relaxing, eating and even sleeping.

Difficult working environments and commuter stress make all too easy for arguments to erupt and a stress cycle develops…

Stress at work causes stress at home and then the stress of neglecting the home and our health, affects work performance, which in turn causes further stress at work than is then brought back into the home and therefore relationship.

In this episode I will list 10 helpful guidelines to help you make sure any work stress strengthens not ruins your relationship.

Nicola Beer, helps couples on the verge of a break up save their marriage, as well as help individuals create a new life after divorce and find love again. She also helps children through divorce in her parenting programs.

Take advantage of her 3 e-books on her website

“7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage.”

“10 Simple Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children through Divorce – Avoid the common pitfalls most parents make”

Visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

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Fear of an uncertain future can stop us from doing great things, keep us holding onto things that hurt us, listen to 5 Secret Steps to deal with separation and divorce anxiety that work for hundreds of my clients.

Currently I am working with clients online in London, New York, Mumbai, Melbourne, Phoenix, Paris, Hong Kong and Singapore, as well as in person coaching in Dubai. Despite the differences in culture, religion, and location, fear of an uncertain future, separation and divorce anxiety is widespread.

Many wonder whether they will be happy in the future, have enough money, find someone they love. Others worry about their children. How will the children be affected, will their children forgive them for leaving, the affair or divorce.

Some are concerned about how family, friends, colleagues, business partners will react to their divorce.

Then there are those who are still in grief, dealing with the loss and questioning whether the pain, stress, frustration, guilt, sadness or resentment will ever pass.

The common theme between them is the desire to know if they will be happy again. Some anxiety over an uncertain future is natural. But constantly thinking about it is draining and damaging. If this is you work through the 5 powerful steps I am sharing with you today. If you are looking for further support contact me today.

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From my heart to yours, Nicola

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Are you struggling to forgive your ex or current partner?

Are you still carrying a grudge, feel resentment or anger towards them?

In all romantic relationships there will be times where the one you love will hurt you. It could be something small, like a comment on the way you look, not calling when they said they would or forgetting important dates. Then there are bigger issues; infidelity, insulting your family, abusive or addictive behavior. When divorce begins one or both parties can become very spiteful.

When you’re hurt, how do you respond? Can you let go or do you want revenge? There is no time table on forgiveness, but if you are holding a grudge for a long period of time recognize that you are hurting you.

Whether you are in a relationship, separated or divorced research shows holding frustration, bitterness and resentment within you in is bad for you and your blood pressure. It also causes stress, anxiety and can reduce your overall life expectancy. Listen and learn one step to let it go.

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“10 Steps You can Take now to Create a New Life after Divorce”

“Protect Children Through Divorce –

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“7 secrets to saving your marriage”

Hope these resources help, from my heart to yours Nicola

Introverts and Extroverts manage conflict in different ways. Whilst many introvert - extrovert couples are likely to know some of these differences already about their partner, in the heat of a debate or when a crisis occurs we tend to forget and misjudge each’ others behavior as a sign they don’t care or are being deliberately difficult.

The episode covers suggestions on what to do when you have the “I don’t want to talk about it” Introvert and the “Let’s get it all out in the open and talk through it” Extrovert?

Whether you are hoping to improve your relationship or currently single and want to learn skills for the future understanding the differences between extroverts and introverts in conflict can be beneficial.

Nicola Beer is an International Relationship and Divorce Coach practicing online or in person in Dubai. She has free e-books available at www.purepeacecoaching.com

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10 Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life After Divorce

Most unfaithful partners underestimate the damage and fallout after infidelity. Many claim that they didn’t think of the consequences and often, when faced with losing what they have, panic. This panic can lead them to make further mistakes in their attempts to help their injured partner.

If you have cheated on your spouse, but have regrets and hope to save your relationship, don’t let another mistake-ridden day go by without getting some support. Or, if you are the wounded spouse and your unfaithful partner unintentionally keeps on hurting you in their attempts to make you feel better, put this article in their hands.

Having studied and worked with many couples going through this, today I am sharing the secret of a helpful apology which is part of my “How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair” program. This is just one part of the ten part program I run.

The aim is to help you learn the secrets between couples who not only survive but thrive in the aftermath of an affair and those whose relationship blows up. If you want to make your relationship even better than before, healing MUST take place first.

Nicola Beer is an International Relationship and Divorce Coach – who helps couples on a verge of a breakup get back the love, passion, respect and fun they have been missing. She also helps individuals get through and create a new life after divorce including finding someone to date again.

You may like her free e-books

“7 Secrets To Save Your Marriage”

"10 Steps You Can Take Now to Creating a New Life After Divorce."

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Our guest on this podcast is Rosalind Sedacca, who is recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce. Rosalind has written a unique book based on her own experience with divorce. She developed an innovative new approach to breaking the news to her eleven year-old son who today is a grown man who proudly wrote the foreword to her internationally-acclaimed ebook, “How do I Tell The Kids About Divorce? A Create a Storybook Guide to preparing your children with love.

Rosalind is a Divorce & Parenting Coach as well as the Founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network for parents. Today she will share her personal insights on avoiding dangerous divorce mistakes parents make.

Show hosted by Nicola Beer International Relationship and Divorce Coach. For more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com

In this episode Dr Doug Weiss talks about Sex Addiction, where the addict and the addict’s spouse can get support.

Dr. Douglas Weiss is a Licensed Psychologist and the Executive Director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado. As Director , Dr. Weiss maintains a number of counselors , support groups , 3 and 5 Day Intensive work shops. Dr. Weiss is al s o t he President of the American Association for Sex Addiction Therapy ( AASAT) . Dr. Weis s is a frequent guest o national television, radio and print media and a prolific writer on marriage, addiction and self help topic s pertaining to Intimacy in marriage, singlehood, men’ s and women’ s issues and recovery from addiction.

For more information visit http://drdougweiss.com/about/

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Divorce Talk is produced and hosted by Nicola Beer International Relationship & Divorce Coach – contact her via linkedin or [email protected]

Do you ever weigh up what you have done in your relationship and what your partner has done?

Do you reach the conclusion you are doing and giving way more?

Do you feel frustrated, annoyed or generally negative inside when you do this?

If the answer is yes then you have fallen into the trap of turning your love into a transaction. Transactions are for businesses and banks, not relationships.

I am guilty of this myself, but now stop this way of thinking because it gets you and your relationship no where. To some degree I think many of us think “I am doing this for you, what are you doing for me?” from time to time. But if you let this be the way your relationship works, then it becomes a balance book marriage - where you hope and try to even everything out.

This damages the relationship because when we give love to get something back and when we want the marriage to be equal: giving and getting, we are acting from a mentality of fear, scarcity and lack. We don’t think there is enough love to get or give, so we limit it. So in a way we are putting out there to the universe that there is not enough love for me, so I better limit what I give you. Does that make sense?

What’s are your spouse’s most annoying habits? Is it the way they talk, eat, sit, clean up? Do they perhaps hum an annoying tune or crack their knuckles? And when was the last time they did something that irritated you? Last week? Yesterday? An hour ago?

One of the most annoying things about annoying habits is that they can be so small, but still drive you mad. Overtime you may find the list of annoying habits grow. It may not be that your spouse has added more irritating habits as years have gone by, but instead, a sign your “honeymoon period” is over.

In this episode I share tips to tackle annoying habits so they don’t destroy your love and connection with one another.

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