Seashells By The Seashore – Episode 197 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this episode, we share a heartwarming story about a father that regularly took his children to hunt for seashells on the beach. For his daughter, these became very fond memories and she even kept her collection of seashells as an adult. But her father had a secret about the adventures that the daughter never learned until her father became elderly. How can this secret help you in your custody and coparenting situation? Tune in to the learn the secret in this special story. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Are You Chasing Sunk Costs? – Episode 196 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Sunk cost is an economic term used to describe costs that in the past and should not be considered in the current financial analysis of a project to help determine whether the project is worth pursuing financially. This theory can be applied to divorce to help you determine whether you should continue fighting or consider letting go. In divorce this issue reaches far beyond financial aspect because divorce also takes a heavy emotional toll. So, how much is your divorce costing you? Listen now to find out. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Children Caught In The Middle – Episode 195 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Studies show that conflict between co-parents is one of the things that does the most damage to children post divorce. Sometimes one parent is manipulating or lobbying the kids intentionally and sometimes parents just have difficulty getting past their own emotions or recognizing what is happening. In this episode we give some examples and talk about how you can handle this issue, whether it's a mistake you have made yourself or whether you're dealing with this behavior from your co-parent. We'll give some tips on how to handle it and how to keep your kids from feeling the pressure. For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Lighting Your Fire – Episode 193 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this episode we talk about how to find motivation before, during and after divorce. Many times people know divorce is inevitable but have a hard time motivating themselves to take the first step. Once you're "up to your eyeballs" in divorce it gets even harder to see the long-term picture. So, how do you stay focused and set goals that will get you where you want to go? For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Starving the Beast – Episode 192 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. "The Beast" can be any high-conflict personality issue you are dealing with in your ex. Women often feel that their ex's are narcissistic, although some men do as well, and many men we encounter feel that their ex is a "crazy chic" or has borderline personality disorder. Regardless of what type of high-conflict personality you're dealing with, we'll give you strategies to "Starve the Beast". For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Your Divorce Song – Episode 189 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this light-hearted episode we share our own divorce songs and talk about some of our favorites. We'll also share other humorous coping strategies we employed along the way to help us cope with the hurt and anger during our divorces. We'll even pull a few skeletons out of the closet and share a couple of our not so proud moments. We hope this one adds a few laughs to your day! For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Brevity Is Effective – Episode 188 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In almost every single case we see, the parties say too much! They say too much to each other, in Court, and in their written statements to the Court. It's easy to do because we feel like we have so many important things that need to be said to the Court and our ex. But brevity wins the day and creates the best outcomes both in Court and in your co-parenting. So, how do you decided what to say and what not to say? For more information, please visit us at www.divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!