Do Your Actions Match Your Word? – Episode 178 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Court, credibility is everything. If your actions do not match what your telling the Court, then you are hurting your credibility. This can have a negative impact on your case even when the “presentation” of your information went well. We’ll share some examples in this episode and some tips to help you keep your credibility intact. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Why Isn’t My Judge Listening? – Episode 177 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Going to Court is almost always a difficult experience emotionally. But, if you also leave feeling like the Judge didn’t listen to you, you are not alone. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to get inside the Judge’s head and understand what they are looking for. We’ll also give you helpful tips for presenting your case in a way that you can get the Judge to hear you. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

When to Stop Fighting – Episode 175 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorcing people tend to have conversations where each person is advocating their “position”. Much of the communication we see involves multiple paragraphs back and forth between the parties. The emotional exhaustion takes it’s toll on your entire life. In this episode, we explore what needs to be responded to and what you can safely ignore to save your sanity. For more information, please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

No Means No – Episode 174 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Much of the conflict between co-parents comes from “beating a dead horse” so to speak. We often see people argue back and forth endlessly, whether by email, through a messaging app, or text messages, and repeating their disagreements on an issue. Sometimes you have to agree to disagree in order to have peace. In this episode, we’ll help you recognize when you’re stuck in repetitive conflict and give you tools to end it peacefully. For more information, please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com

Jack of All Trades, Master of None – Episode 173 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. It seems daily life is a constant go, go, go and it can be difficult to manage everything that’s coming at us. And yet many of us have a hard time saying no and end up overcommitting ourselves. When we add divorce to that equation, it can make us want to crawl into bed and stay there. In this episode, we talk about how to do less and how to make sure what you are doing is the most important thing. For more information, please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com

Starting Small – Episode 172 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce, like many challenging life events, is overwhelming for most people, especially in the beginning. It changes so many aspects of your life that you don’t know where to start putting out all the fires. In this episode, we’ll discuss starting small to avoid overwhelm and building on prior action to gain momentum in moving through your divorce from both an emotional and practical perspective. Shout out to James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits, which was our inspiration for this episode. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Don’t Get Too Close to the Edge – Episode 171 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many couples have parenting differences during their relationship that become more magnified through a divorce or separation. Sometimes parents find themselves worried about their children when the children are in the other parent’s care or they do not agree with decisions the other parent makes. This conflict can cause untold harm in your co-parenting relationship. Today, we’ll discuss what concerns you should and shouldn’t address and how to do so in a way that won’t destroy your relationship with your co-parent. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

What Is a Through Line?  – Episode 170 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Through Line is a term you’ll be familiar with if you have acting experience. When someone portrays a character they develop a through-line for the character that helps guide them in predicting how a character will behave in various circumstances. In applying this to our own life, how do we respond in various situations, especially a crisis like a divorce? Is your through-line helpful? Or has it been chopped into pieces? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

New Beginnings – Episode 169 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most people that go through a divorce or breakup feel like everything is falling apart. We tend to focus on the loss, the loss of family, the loss of finances, the loss of who we were in that relationship. But life becomes hopeful again when you shift your perspective to the future. With Divorce comes the opportunity for a fresh start, a new beginning. How exciting! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!