Are You Seeking Closure? – Episode 158 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Closure is something many people struggle with after the divorce. We want our pound of flesh. We want the other person to understand what they’ve done. Divorcing parties are often seeking closure through the Court process though they almost never realize that is what they are after. So, how can you get the closure you’re seeking and if you can’t get it, how can move forward? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Two Strategies for Winning – Episode 157 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost all high-conflict (and expensive!) divorces involve at least one party, and sometimes both, using a “negative strategy”. A negative strategy involves tearing the other person down, telling the Court what a horrible person or parent they are, and engaging in all manner of mudslinging. So, how do you beat them at their own game? You use a different strategy, one that is built for long-term success and will expose their mudslinging. We’ll tell you what that second strategy is in this episode. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Understanding the Psychology of Divorce  – Episode 156 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Why is there so much conflict in divorce? If the marriage is over, why can’t we just walk away peacefully and leave each other to live our lives? Having conflict is the flip side of the intimacy and connection in a marriage. Not caring would allow us to walk away but because we do care, we have conflict. So, how do you disengage when your emotions are working against you? Join us as we discuss what works and what doesn’t. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

How to Embrace Your Inner Awesomeness!  – Episode 155 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you are in a co-dependent relationship or perpetually have a victim mentality, then you are not embracing your inner awesomeness. Embracing your inner awesomeness is feeling confident, worthy, and empowered. This is easier said than done when you are going through an inherently negative life experience such as divorce. So, how do you get there? Join us as we dive into this topic. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

I’ve Been Served with a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Now What?  – Episode 154 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Domestic Violence Orders are, unfortunately, a very necessary part of the judicial system. But when you’re the one being accused, it can be very stressful, particularly when you feel like the allegations are false. Domestic Violence Orders can impact your ability to see your kids, your career, your ability to rent a place to live, your ability to own a firearm, and other personal aspects of your life. Join us as we discuss what to do and more importantly, what not to do in Domestic Violence situations. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

I’m Self-Represented. How Do I Prepare for a Court Hearing?  – Episode 153 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most people get nervous before Court (Here’s a secret: Even attorney’s get nervous!) Attorney’s often appear very smooth and well-spoken but what we don’t see is the hours of preparation that went into that one court hearing. It’s hours! And if you don’t believe us, just look at your attorney bill! So, what steps does an attorney go through to prepare for a Court hearing and how can you duplicate that to improve your chance of success? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Are You Flexing Your Emotional Muscles?  – Episode 152 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Let’s face it, when divorce first hits you, you often feeling like crawling in a hole and not coming out. We want to withdraw and shut down. When that happens, we become emotionally weaker and the divorce process requires emotional strength. So, how can we flex our emotional muscles in a way that builds strength, confidence and courage? If you’re still in that place of emotional struggle, this is the episode for you! Listen now! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

How to Win in Mediation  – Episode 151 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In our experience, no one truly wins in divorce. Everyone usually walks away from the process feeling like things were unfair or like they just didn’t get the outcome they were wanting.  But the beauty of divorce mediation is that, unlike Court, you can find opportunities to create win-win outcomes. With preparation, you can advocate for your own interest while focusing on problem-solving for the benefit of both parties. Listen now! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Presenting Documents to Win in Child Custody Court  – Episode 150 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding how to present evidence to the Court is where we see many self-represented people struggle. There are rules for what can present when you can present it, and how you must present it. In this episode, we’ll give you a few simple guidelines that will help you present your case like a pro! And if you already have professional help, this will help you understand how you can be of help to them in presenting your case! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Perjury, Contempt & Enforcement  –  Episode 149 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The first thing we often hear from clients is that the other party’s statement to the Court is “full of lies”. Then we get questions about the other party getting in trouble for perjury. Contempt is another big question. Isn’t my ex going to be held in contempt for not following Court orders? And if they don’t follow Court orders, how do you enforce your orders? These are all more complicated aspects of divorce and child custody cases but in this episode, we’ll boil them down to some key takeaways that will help you have a better understanding of how to handle them. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!