I’ve Been Served with a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Now What?  – Episode 154 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Domestic Violence Orders are, unfortunately, a very necessary part of the judicial system. But when you’re the one being accused, it can be very stressful, particularly when you feel like the allegations are false. Domestic Violence Orders can impact your ability to see your kids, your career, your ability to rent a place to live, your ability to own a firearm, and other personal aspects of your life. Join us as we discuss what to do and more importantly, what not to do in Domestic Violence situations. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

I’m Self-Represented. How Do I Prepare for a Court Hearing?  – Episode 153 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most people get nervous before Court (Here’s a secret: Even attorney’s get nervous!) Attorney’s often appear very smooth and well-spoken but what we don’t see is the hours of preparation that went into that one court hearing. It’s hours! And if you don’t believe us, just look at your attorney bill! So, what steps does an attorney go through to prepare for a Court hearing and how can you duplicate that to improve your chance of success? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Are You Flexing Your Emotional Muscles?  – Episode 152 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Let’s face it, when divorce first hits you, you often feeling like crawling in a hole and not coming out. We want to withdraw and shut down. When that happens, we become emotionally weaker and the divorce process requires emotional strength. So, how can we flex our emotional muscles in a way that builds strength, confidence and courage? If you’re still in that place of emotional struggle, this is the episode for you! Listen now! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

How to Win in Mediation  – Episode 151 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In our experience, no one truly wins in divorce. Everyone usually walks away from the process feeling like things were unfair or like they just didn’t get the outcome they were wanting.  But the beauty of divorce mediation is that, unlike Court, you can find opportunities to create win-win outcomes. With preparation, you can advocate for your own interest while focusing on problem-solving for the benefit of both parties. Listen now! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Presenting Documents to Win in Child Custody Court  – Episode 150 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding how to present evidence to the Court is where we see many self-represented people struggle. There are rules for what can present when you can present it, and how you must present it. In this episode, we’ll give you a few simple guidelines that will help you present your case like a pro! And if you already have professional help, this will help you understand how you can be of help to them in presenting your case! For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Perjury, Contempt & Enforcement  –  Episode 149 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The first thing we often hear from clients is that the other party’s statement to the Court is “full of lies”. Then we get questions about the other party getting in trouble for perjury. Contempt is another big question. Isn’t my ex going to be held in contempt for not following Court orders? And if they don’t follow Court orders, how do you enforce your orders? These are all more complicated aspects of divorce and child custody cases but in this episode, we’ll boil them down to some key takeaways that will help you have a better understanding of how to handle them. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Think Like Your Judge to Win in Child Custody Court  – Episode 148 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Is your Child Custody case the type that judges dream about or is it the opposite, a nightmare they can’t seem to wake from? If you like many people, you and your Judge are caught in this nightmare. To succeed in Court, you do not want to do “more of the same”, in other words, you don’t want to make the mistakes that most parents make. In this episode, we help you understand the Judge’s perspective, what factors they consider when making decisions, and how to get them to rule in your favor. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Get Coached Up to Defend Your Domestic Violence Case  – Episode 147 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Domestic Violence cases are serious business and expensive business. If you are trying to defend yourself in a DV situation and you can’t afford an attorney, a little coaching can go a long way without breaking the bank. There are strategies that can help you attack the other person’s credibility while building a strong foundation for your case. And if the worst happens, and you have an order against you, what can you do to help make it as short as possible? For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Be Positive in Child Custody Court  – Episode 146 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many parents make the mistake of focusing on attacking the other parent in court. When in fact, the most effective approach you can take is to focus on the positive aspects of your relationship with your child(ren). The Court wants to you to cooperate and want you to support the other parent. This is the opposite of how many parents approach their case. Join us as we explain the Court’s view and why the positive approach is far better than the negative. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!

Who Is Responsible for You?  – Episode 145 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Who is responsible for you? Who is responsible for your relationship? And what happens when the person you have relied on so heavily fails you? In order to move forward, you’ve got to take inventory of where you’re at. For more information, please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thanks for listening!