No Pain, No Gain – in Episode 98 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about that famous saying we've all heard "no pain, no gain". During divorce, no doubt we have all experienced emotional pain. But are there benefits to that pain? Where can we find the "gain"? Join us as we help you find the silver linings of divorce. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Can I Save This Marriage? – in Episode 97 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about saving marriages and what situations or behaviors lead to a struggling marriage. We dive into our own experience in our marriage that is successful and our past marriages that have ended. It takes two people to have a successful marriage. We dive into habits that you and your spouse can form or get rid of to help save your marriage. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Using Humor to Help You Have Difficult Conversations – In Episode 96, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about using humor in certain situations to help lower conflict and stress in difficult conversations. We know divorce isn't exactly a funny topic, but as the old saying goes, if you don't laugh, you'll cry. So, why not try some of our tips on injecting humor into this difficult situation. It will make it easier for you, your spouse, and anyone else involved in your case. Honestly, it's the main tool we use on a daily basis to help us maintain our sanity in this chaotic work. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

How to Get the Best Result in Divorce Mediation – In Episode 95, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk divorce mediation. Mediation is a great alternative to the typical divorce process and mediation nearly always succeeds in resolving the issues if you have a skilled, knowledgeable mediator. An experienced mediator can provide you with the education and information you need to make optimal decisions and can help you resolve almost any dispute by facilitating the conversation. Join us as we share how to get the best results possible in your mediation process. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

When Should I Introduce My Kids to My New Mate? – In Episode 94, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk new mates. People often ask about if, when, and how they should introduce new mates to their children. We find that ex-spouses often disagree on this issue and new mates often create a hiccup in co-parenting at a time when things were just starting to calm down. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share their own experience as well as what they've seen go right for clients and what they've seen go very wrong. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

7 Tips to Deal with Uncertainty - In Episode 93, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about uncertainty, which most people find to be an uncomfortable feeling. Uncertainty often accompanies change and as you know, divorce is all about change, and lot's of it! So, how do you deal with uncertainty when your anxiety, stress, and emotions are out of control. Join Tammy and Thomas as they share practical strategies to help you cut through the uncertainty and get your life back on solid ground. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Can This Marriage Be Saved? - In Episode 92, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the possibility of saving marriage even though it's been pushed to the brink of divorce. In a large percentage of cases, one spouse does not want the divorce. But can your marriage be saved or are you holding on to false hope? Listen now as we look at characteristics that we feel are key indicators of whether or not a marriage can be rescued from the brink of divorce. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation? - In Episode 91, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about child custody mediation that is conducted by the Court, not a private mediator. Whether your Court system keeps the mediation private or has the mediator report to the Judge, there are certain things you should do and say and certain things you should not. If you want things to go your way, you need to be prepared with an effective strategy for communicating your desires and concerns involving your children. Listen now as we share our insights from years of coaching hundreds of parents in preparing for custody mediation. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Difficult Conversations - In Episode 90, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the difficult conversations that are often part of divorce. Maybe you are making "the announcement" or maybe your negotiating finances or a parenting schedule. Or maybe, you need to talk about the difficulty one of your children is having. Regardless, these types of conversations are particularly difficult during divorce when emotions run high. Listen now as we share tips and advice to help your conversations remain calm and effective. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

It All Starts With Your Thoughts - In Episode 89, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we dive inward to look at common internal thoughts people have during a divorce or breakup. Your thoughts can often be your own worst enemy. They can lead you to say and do things that hurt you, your ex, your kids, and your Court case. Listen now to learn about the damage these thoughts can do and more importantly, how you can stop them. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!