Divorce University Online

Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation? - In Episode 91, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about child custody mediation that is conducted by the Court, not a private mediator. Whether your Court system keeps the mediation private or has the mediator report to the Judge, there are certain things you should do and say and certain things you should not. If you want things to go your way, you need to be prepared with an effective strategy for communicating your desires and concerns involving your children. Listen now as we share our insights from years of coaching hundreds of parents in preparing for custody mediation. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Difficult Conversations - In Episode 90, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about the difficult conversations that are often part of divorce. Maybe you are making "the announcement" or maybe your negotiating finances or a parenting schedule. Or maybe, you need to talk about the difficulty one of your children is having. Regardless, these types of conversations are particularly difficult during divorce when emotions run high. Listen now as we share tips and advice to help your conversations remain calm and effective. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

It All Starts With Your Thoughts - In Episode 89, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we dive inward to look at common internal thoughts people have during a divorce or breakup. Your thoughts can often be your own worst enemy. They can lead you to say and do things that hurt you, your ex, your kids, and your Court case. Listen now to learn about the damage these thoughts can do and more importantly, how you can stop them. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Co-Parents! Written Communication Is Better - In Episode 88, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about why it is imperative for co-parents to use written communication. This is especially important if you have a high-conflict relationship with your ex. Written communication can even give you an advantage in your Court case, if you are communicating correctly. Join us now to learn what you should and shouldn't do when communicating with your co-parent. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Is Litigation Killing You? – In Episode 87, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the most common problem in the industry that no one wants to talk about, litigation. Litigation can cause major rifts between families and hurt feelings or damaged relationships for years to come. Worst of all, it can be especially damaging for children going through the process. But why is litigation so damaging? Why do alternative options have less conflict? What can be gained for your life by avoiding the litigation process? Listen in for the answer to these questions. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Do I Need A Divorce Coach? - In Episode 86, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the most under utilized divorce professional in the industry, a Divorce Coach. What is a divorce coach and how do you know if you need one? A divorce coach can be an invaluable resource in almost any divorce, if you find the right one. And unlike your attorney, they have no vested interest in making the situation take longer or be more expensive. Listen now to learn how you can gain a great advantage in your case and your life by relying on an experienced Divorce Coach. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

The Right of First Refusal - In Episode 85, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss a common Court order in many parenting plans, the "Right of First Refusal". If you don't know what that is, then this a must-listen episode for you. A Right of First Refusal, at first glance, seems logical and good for the kids. But there are many aspects of this arrangement to explore. If you have a particularly controlling or manipulative ex, then a right of first refusal can backfire unexpectedly. Join us now as we explore whether you should or shouldn't ask for a right of first refusal in your own Court orders. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Moving On From Divorce - In Episode 84, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the difficulty of moving on after divorce. Many people feel stuck emotionally, financially, and in their co-parenting. We'll discuss how you can deal with all of these issues in a way that helps you create a post-divorce life that is free from the interference of your ex. Join us now as we help you create a happy, peaceful future. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

My Kids Are Saying……… - In Episode 83, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the kids and the things they say about the other parent or the other parent's home. Often, it's TMI and you can find yourself thrown back into the emotional rollercoaster of divorce. So, what do you do? You want your kids to feel heard and feel like they can talk to you. But how do we know if what they are saying is accurate? And how do we know if we need to be concerned? Join us now as we explore this delicate issue and how to handle concerns in tactful way. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!

Verbal and Emotional Abuse - In Episode 82, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the number one complaint we hear about relationships, verbal and emotional abuse. Courts are concerned about abuse, but abuse that comes in the verbal and emotional form is much harder to prove. This often leaves the person being abused with no real resource to deal with it except for their own management of it. Often, when verbal and emotional abuse was present in the marriage, it will remain present in the post-divorce relationship. So, how can you help the Court understand what's happening on what steps can you take to stop it? Join us now as we explore this complex issue. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com Thank you for listening!