Father's Day is this Sunday. Most divorced dads are waiting to be honored. This episode flips that. The challenge: write one letter to each of your kids before Sunday — not a text, a letter. Three things only. Anthony reads from his own letter on air and walks you through exactly what to write, whether you have your kids this weekend or not.

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One text. That's all it takes. Everything you built — the routine, the peace, the progress — gone in seconds.

And across town, a dad is driving his teenage daughter to her third activity of the week in complete silence, wondering if he even exists to her.

Both of these dads are losing ground they can't afford to lose. This Wednesday — Anthony gives them both something they can use today.

Q1: "I have systems and routines. But one text from my ex or my lawyer and my whole day falls apart. How do I stay on track when everything keeps derailing me?"Q2: "I feel like I'm losing my teenage daughter. All I do is drive her places. I feel like a doormat. How do I get my daughter back?"

— Why one text can derail hours of momentum — the neuroscience of trauma triggers— The 4-move Trigger Protocol: don't respond, break the state, contain it, return— Why you cannot think your way out of a nervous system response— The research on what teenage daughters actually need from their fathers— Why she is logging the drives even when she doesn't acknowledge them— 3 moves to rebuild the relationship: invest without return, find her one thing, say it out loud— Psalm 27:10 — what your daughter is actually testing when she goes cold

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The math didn't work. The savings were gone. The income was gone. The options were gone.

On the same day Anthony signed his divorce papers he was laid off from his six figure job — the exact number everything in the agreement had been calculated against. His lawyer told him the savings was for a rainy day. This was the rainy day.

What happened next is not a hustle story. It's not a strategy story. It's a manna story.

— Why God waits until the hustle runs out before He moves— The psychology of post-traumatic growth and complete resource depletion— The Manna metaphor — daily provision, exactly enough, never more— Elijah fed by ravens — what supernatural sustaining actually looks like— 3 postures for the financial wilderness: minimize, find the joy, stop planning three years— Matthew 6:31-33 — your Father knows what you need

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At 24 years old, Dominic Ciambrone was making shoes for Justin Bieber.

Twenty pairs. Less than a week. He said yes.

What happened next — a manic episode, a window, a hospital bed, a bipolar diagnosis — wasn't the story anyone was telling about the kid who turned a grandmother's sewing machine into one of the most sought-after custom shoe studios on the planet.

But it's the story that changed everything.

This week Anthony sits down with Dominic Ciambrone — known to the world as The Surgeon, the man who has rebuilt, reimagined and customized for Drake, Bieber, Jake Paul and some of the biggest names alive. But this conversation isn't about the shoes. It's about the man who spent years creating from a place of not good enough. The man who became a father and kept running to work instead of home. The man who had to lose everything familiar before he could finally build something real.

In this episode:

• What it actually felt like to wake up in a hospital at 24 with a bipolar diagnosis — and how that moment cracked open everything that came after
• Why Dom created at the highest level of his craft for years from a place of "not good enough" — and what that actually cost him
• The moment alone with his daughter that made the separation finally make sense
• Why he never stayed alone with his kids until his daughter was two — and what changed when he did
• How he went from never doing school pickup to making it non-negotiable two days a week no matter what
• What "doing the work" actually looked like beyond the therapy session — the daily habit that rewired his self-talk
• What he says to his kids when he loses his temper — and why apologizing fast is now one of his most powerful parenting tools
• What he would tell the dad right now who doesn't know if he has the materials to rebuild

Dom said it plainly: he created from a place of not good enough for years. And if he hadn't been forced to stop — by a hospital bed, by a separation, by a daughter who needed her dad present — he'd probably still be there.

This one is for the builder who's been building everything except himself.

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She's gone. But she's still in your head — in the car, at the store, every time you pass that place.

Every time your mind loops back to her you lose energy, focus, and peace. And the harder you try to stop thinking about her — the louder it gets.

In this episode Anthony unpacks the real reason divorced dads can't stop thinking about their ex — and it's not what you think. It's not about her. It's about the identity you lost when she left.

— Why your brain confuses pain for connection — the neuroscience of emotional memory— Why you're not obsessed with her — you're attached to who you were with her— The browser tabs metaphor — what forgiveness actually does to the loop— Why social media stalking is guaranteed to destroy your forward momentum— The FAST framework: Focus, Awareness, Strategy, Transformation— 3 questions: What belief keeps you tethered? Are you addicted to pain? What if you forgave yourself?— Philippians 3:13 — the life verse for every divorced dad rebuilding

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You're a hard worker. Always have been. And right now you're working harder than ever — and nothing is moving.

What if your greatest strength is exactly what's keeping you stuck?

In this episode Anthony shares the three questions his coach asked him that hit like right hand hooks to the face — and the realization that his work ethic, his greatest gift, had become his most sophisticated avoidance strategy.

— Why action bias makes high performers feel like they're winning while going nowhere— The dark side of being a hard worker — what the drive is actually protecting— The Strong Current metaphor — why swimming harder in the wrong direction is still wrong— The 3 coach questions: What are you learning? What's hardest? What are you avoiding?— Why gifts used to avoid growth become cages— Isaiah 40:31 — why the verse starts with waiting, not running

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He never met his father. His mother was murdered when he was a baby. By eleven he was gang banging. By fourteen he was selling crack.

Today LaMorris Crawford walks the sidelines of the NFL as team chaplain for the Carolina Panthers — and he has spent his life becoming the father he never had.

In this episode Anthony sits down with his friend of decades for one of the most raw and real conversations on fatherhood, isolation, accountability, and what it actually takes for a divorced dad to show up when everything is working against him.

— Why the enemy can only pick you off when you're isolated — the sniper principle— "Sometimes you have to believe in someone else's belief in you until your belief kicks in"— What LaMorris told his son after he fumbled twice in a varsity game— Why boys who are told not to cry become husbands who can't meet their wife emotionally— The love language breakdown for sons vs daughters — and how to find the door your teenager will open— Agape love as the only force that guarantees your kids come back— What the NFL's 75% post-retirement divorce rate teaches every dad about preventative work— How to build bonds with your kids in limited time after divorce

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You've been fighting to get out of this season as fast as possible. More hustle. More control. More grinding. And nothing is moving.

In this episode Anthony shares the moment pounding his steering wheel — broke, alone, pissed — and the image of his baby daughter that finally cracked the code. The fighting isn't the solution. It's the problem.

— Why control is just fear with a productivity mask on— The neuroscience of illusion of control under stress— The Baby metaphor — why the firm hold is not punishment, it's preparation— 3 daily practices: focus on process, release the timeline, stop comparing chapters— Why sometimes what you want happens after you get what you need— Psalm 46:10 — what "be still" actually means in the season you're fighting

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Every divorced dad says his kids mean everything to him.

So why doesn't he do everything?

In this episode Anthony shares the story of a dad in The Climb who drove past the same store every single day — and the four-gate framework that finally sealed the hole. Because love without a system gets demolished by the first trigger that hits.

— Why willpower alone will never break a habit loop— The neuroscience of habit grooves and why the brain defaults to the pattern— The Leaking Bucket metaphor — why you can't out-fill a hole you won't seal— The Gates of Change: Awareness, Acceptance/Ownership, Accountability, Action— Why the dad who told his attorneys he was in The Climb is the model— James 1:22 — the comfortable deception most divorced dads are living

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He had everything.

Billy Graham's grandson. Lead pastor of a massive church. Books. TV. Radio. Conferences. A rising voice in the evangelical world. A life that looked, from the outside, like it was exactly what it was supposed to be.

Then in the spring of 2015, it all went public. The marriage. The infidelity. The collapse.

Publishers canceled. Fifty-two speaking engagements gone in 48 hours. The church emptied. The phone went quiet. And he moved from a beautiful home into a blank two-bedroom apartment with a few boxes and a U-Haul truck — completely alone.

This week Anthony sits down with Tullian Tchividjian — pastor, author, philosopher, and the man who has bled out, rebuilt from zero, and is now doing some of the most honest work of his life. His new book, Fragments of Freedom, drops June 2nd. But what he shares in this conversation is what no book chapter could fully hold.

In this episode:

• What it actually felt like to wake up every morning in that empty apartment after losing everything — and what the silence taught him that success never could
• Why Tullian doesn't believe in "forgiving yourself" — and the more powerful truth that finally set him free from shame
• The difference between transparency and vulnerability — and why the church celebrates one and fears the other
• How the recovery community saved his life when the church community disappeared
• What his mentor said in his darkest moments — "Stick with that" — and why doing nothing was the most faithful thing he could do
• The one line from his book that reframes everything: freedom rarely arrives all at once — it comes in pieces
• What he would say directly to the dad who's convinced his best days are behind him

Tullian said it plainly: you don't really know what you're depending on to make life worth living — until it's gone. And sometimes that loss is the most merciful thing God ever does for you.

This one is going to stay with you. Share it with a man who needs it.

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