The one year old experiment is still continuing. What is the 1-yr old experiment anyway? This is where I try my best to NOT hold my wife accountable, or ask that she take extreme ownership. When the 1-yr old drops a glass, you don't scold them or make them clean it up. you simply remove them from the sharp objects and make them feel better about the wrong they did. Rub their back, soothe them if they were scared from the sound of the breaking glass, and then you ensure they cannot get their hands on another glass to break it until they grow up and are ready to handle such a task. In my case, and in my experiment, I treat my wife as a perpetual 1-yr old. Soothe her, make her feel pretty, fain impressed attitudes toward her.