Jacque asks Phoebe: Do you ever feel like... everyone is having more sex than you? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the obnoxious and very irrelevant (but also somehow still influential) question of how much sex is enough sex. They discuss how millennials are redefining what is important in their sex lives, our societal obsession with the sex lives of partnered people, and how these questions pop up in their own lives and relationships. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Grieving Leslie Jordan! Adele!

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Will & Grace 

Brittney Griner

I Drink Wine Music Video by Adele

Dr. Emily Bennett

We're Having Gay Sex

Lovecast

Esther Perel 

Cosmo Article

General Social Survey

Sex in Longterm Relationships

Katrina Marie

Orgasm Gap

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Phoebe asks: is motherhood a scam? In a maybe not that shocking SHOCKING conversation, Phoebe and Jacque discuss the perils around folks deciding to become parents. They ask the big questions around how people just "know" they want kids, how women decide to be mothers (do they even?), the privileges around such topics, and their own fears and tribulations around doing this big thing that seems literally soul crushing: being a mother. OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Phoebe isn't a morning person, dealing with tech issues when you have a pod is REAL, and more mercury retrograde conundrums. 

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Motherhood by Sheila Heti

Pure Colour by Sheila Heti

Patriarchy

MLMs

Grit Scale by Angela Duckworth

Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Dr. Becky Episodes on We Can Do Hard Things

Adnan Syed Case

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Jacqueline asks, do you ever feel like... women are the project managers of the world? Phoebe and Jacque yell about the burdens women carry such as over responsibility for family, friendships, partnerships, jobs, and like...the world. They discuss all women are considering, thinking, planning, at any given time - and where this emotional labor started and stems from. They also ask YOU listener - when do you feel like a bad lady? OTHER FUN TIDBITS: Jacque's wedding is over finally + Phoebe took a solo trip! 

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Glennon Doyle 

Women Aren't Nags - We're Just Fed Up by Gemma Hartley

Fed Up: Emotional Labor, Women, and the Way Forward by Gemma Hartley

I am the person who notices when we are running out of toilet paper

Ali Wong: Baby Cobra

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Phoebe surprises Jacque with the question of the season: Do you ever feel like Gilmore Girls won't go away? Phoebe and Jacque discuss why Gilmore Girls still has such a grip on us all, the good, bad, and annoying of the show, as well as their personal critique and relationship to the show. Other fun tidbts: the lalalalas + A GAME! 

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JUST GO WATCH GILMORE GIRLS 

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Phoebe and Jacque ask their FIRST GUEST (Podcast Expert and Host of "In My Non Expert Opinion"), Chelsea Riffe: Do you ever feel like you're not an expert? Chelsea shares about showing up consistently, being messy, why podcasts are needed, why you should make the thing that exists anyways, and attachment styles. Thank you, thank you to Chelsea for coming on the pod!

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Chelsea Riffe is a Mindset + Podcast Coach, helping creatives, coaches and entrepreneurs launch, grow and monetize their podcasts. She hosts the top-rated podcast "In My Non-Expert Opinion", covering the rollercoaster of entrepreneurship, the fun and chaos of travel, internet culture and money, honey.

Chelsea is an Aquarius Sun and Virgo Moon/Rising and 6/2 Reflector who loves vulgar rap music, nature documentaries, mysticism, reality TV (more specifically, Below Deck), travel, podcasts, chocolate, and learning about the mind, body, spirit, and scammers.

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Chani App

Mercury Retrograde  

Attachment Styles

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Jacque asks: Do you ever feel like you cancel everything all the time? Phoebe and Jacque discuss the elements of cancelling, the expectations of cancelling, and how what you cancel on may be able to tell you a lot about yourself and your relationships. Other fun tidbits: ALL THE THINGS WE NEED TO SLEEP!

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Ologies SLEEP Episodes

Motherhood by Sheila Heti

We Can Do Hard Things

The Financial Edit 

Jacque's Newsletter

Lady Gaga Blonde Brows

Chronic Fatigue

Keep it Moving by Twyla Tharp

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Phoebe and Jacque discuss using all the tools to be OKAY, and everything they need to stay okay. They discuss intersectionality, consumerism, conflict vs. abuse, celebrity, their own internalized misogyny, and how we ALL hate women. Other fun tidbits: MERCURY RETROGRADE. 

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Maintenance Phase

Simone Grace Seol

Brené Brown’s Atlas of the Heart

Don’t Worry Darling

Archetypes

Conflict vs. Abuse

Conscious Uncoupling 

Himpathy NY TIMES

Himpathy SCIENCE

Tik Tok SNL audition

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Phoebe and Jacque discuss the complication of friends, friendship, codependency, vulnerability, and if they are alone in the everyone-seems-to-think-they-are-closer-to-me-then-I-feel-to-them-feeling? Other fun tidbits: Jacque YELLS about wedding planning stress, Phoebe and Jacque are craving less, a check in about how they think the pod is going, and dogs barking!

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The White Lotus

Survivor 

Mike White

Call Your Girlfriend

Big Friendship

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Phoebe and Jacque marvel at the wonder that is artists being artists making art. They discuss their own lives as artists, the bravery of artists, how creativity is the only way, and how there is no such thing as bad art.

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We Can Do Hard Things: Tig Notaro + Stephanie Allynne

Finding Me by Viola Davis 

Reid Fleming's World's Toughest Milkman

I Am Glad My Mom Died by Jennette McCurdy

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Rothaniel

Both Sides Now: Recession Fears, VP Harris on Abortion, Heat Waves

Mad Max 

The Lascaux Caves

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