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Do You F*cking Mind?
By Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset CoachHealth & FitnessMental HealthEducationSelf-Improvement
Do You F*cking Mind? episodes
- Brain Fact: Munchausen Syndrome by proxy
Brain Fact of the week: Munchausen Syndrome by proxy
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11 min - 461. How to master detachment to get what you really want. 9 simple steps
Are you holding on too tightly to outcomes and wondering why things keep slipping away? In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why desperation leads to delusion and how to shift out of it. You’ll learn 9 powerful steps to detach with intention, stop sabotaging your own success, and finally become magnetic to the things you want most. Whether it’s relationships, career goals, or clarity in your life, detachment isn’t about not caring, it’s about choosing peace over panic.
I'll unpack the psychology behind why chasing can push things further away, how to rewire your need for control, and how to recognise the signs of obsession disguised as ambition.
If you’re tired of the constant overthinking, anxiety, or low-key obsession with getting it "right," this one’s for you.
Included in this ep:
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The psychology of detachment
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Why desperation warps reality
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How to get what you want by caring less
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9 actionable mindset shifts you can start today
Live Show TICKETS!!!https://www.dyfmpod.com/sydney-live-show
Suggested Episode:
144. Stop searching in others what is already within you. https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xPto5l7N5J6pzSaIxNnef?si=2Brwu6KOTL6OwIFLvj-plQ
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- 460. Do I stay or do I go? (Headnoise)
Beans! I am doing a Sydney Live Show in February, tickets are on sale here. In this Head Noise Episode I answer all your Voice Message Questions! If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
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- Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com
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30 min - Brain Fact: Water Intoxication.
Brain Fact of the week: Water Intoxication.
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9 min - 459. The Top Belief of people with High Self Esteem
In today's episode, I discuss and explain the core beliefs of people with high self-esteem! I cover key traits of high and low self-esteem, how self-esteem impacts various aspects of life including relationships and resilience and tips to improve your self-worth.
Sydney Live Show on February 4th, 2026, tickets are on sale here.
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39 min - 458. Building Deeper Adult Friendship & more (Headnoise)
Beans! I am doing a Sydney Live Show in February, tickets are on sale here. In this Head Noise Episode I answer all your questions you emailed in! From how to deepen new adult friendships and navigating sibling conflicts. If you would like to send in a question email please email: [email protected] or if you would like to send in a Voice Message go to dyfmpod.com
- Join the DYFM Facebook Group
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- Order your Brain Journal here: www.mindsetrecreationclub.com
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30 min - Brain Fact: Neurofibrillary Tangles
Brain Fact of the week: Neurofibrillary Tangles
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10 min - 457. The Psychology of Empowered Dating
This episode is brought to you by Bumble. Today's episode is all about The Psychology of Empowered Dating. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene or just looking for a fresh approach, this episode is for you. I talk about navigating dating apps, setting healthy boundaries and dating with confidence. I give you tips on how to avoid emotional traps and teach people how to treat you.
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45 min - 456. Navigating Relationship Dilemmas and Finding Inner Peace (Headnoise)
Beans, I am so excited to announce I am going on tour in Sydney for, "Lost, But Make It Look Intentional." Tickets are available to purchase here
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39 min - Brain Fact: Aphantasia: When You Can’t Picture It
Brain Fact of the week: Aphantasia
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About Do You F*cking Mind?
From the publisher's feed
Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.
On Mondays my episodes are a combo of neuroscience and psychology. I deep dive into everything from habit formation and how to live a carefree life, to friendships and heartbreak. And on Fridays we've got Head Noise - where I answer your questions!
Email [email protected] to submit your questions.
Order your copy of my latest book How to Chase Change at https://bit.ly/44xwszR