Training tips for aggressive dogs flood the internet, all promising miraculous results!

There’s a mix of positive reinforcement, showering dogs with treats, and even giving dogs really scary punishments!

While all these solutions work for a while, I know one thing from my experience as a top dog trainer: you need to get to the heart of the problem to see real progress.

The key to addressing snappy behavior in dogs goes beyond mere techniques.

In this article, I'll explore why even non-aggressive dogs can become snappy and aggressive.

By understanding these root causes, we can use a more gentle yet effective training to transform our beloved dogs into well-behaved and calm pets.

• Snappy behavior in dogs often stems from fear, not aggression. Creating a secure environment and providing positive training can help them overcome this behavior.

1. Why Are Snappy Dogs Different From Most Aggressive Dogs

First, let’s talk about why snappy dogs are unique dogs, especially when it comes to aggression.

Snappy dogs possess a unique behavioral trait, distinct from outright aggression.

Their inclination to snap arises primarily from fear and boundary concerns.

Unlike overtly aggressive dogs, they may not intend harm but resort to snapping when they sense perceived threats.

You can see this in small dogs getting barky and feisty once you touch them. You can also see this in seemingly calm dogs whose energy levels spike up from a level two to a level nine when their personal space is threatened.

This behavior often emerges when unfamiliar people or situations encroach on their comfort zones or possessions.

Snappy dogs are not inherently aggressive but exhibit a protective mechanism driven by apprehension.

Understanding this uniqueness is vital for responsible ownership, emphasizing patience, positive training, and creating secure environments to help these dogs overcome their fears and develop more confident, non-snappy behavior.

For dogs, survival is the name of the game. Therefore, when they think they are the ONLY ONES dealing with danger, dogs become fiercely protective.

Our dogs are instinctively wired to seek a leader within their pack.

When they perceive a lack of clear leadership, they become anxious and agitated, always on high alert for potential threats.

This constant unease can lead to snappy and aggressive behavior as they attempt to assert control and protect themselves.

Consider this scenario: you're walking down the street, and a stranger suddenly comes up to you and say "Oh you're so cute, I love you!"

You'd likely feel violated and possibly react angrily. After all, somebody just got into your space without permission.

Dogs are no different; they can become snappy when they feel their territory or personal space is threatened.

And for dogs, space is a big deal!

This crossing of boundaries is a common scenario among small, popular breed dogs. These dogs are stranger magnets because they can be so adorable; being constantly mobbed by strangers can make them feel overly-protective and aggressive.

Being a pack leader is crucial in addressing snappy dog behavior for several reasons.

If they perceive themselves as the leader, they may feel responsible for handling threats or dangers around them, something that can contribute to snappish behavior.

You can flip this by embracing your role as the pack leader. It's like tapping your dog on the head to say, "Hey, buddy. I got this. You can chill and hand the danger to me."

When you help establish a strong association with you as a fierce, protective, confident, and reliable leader, your dog will learn to ease up and become more tolerant.

They needed a cohesive group to protect themselves from threats.

When a dog doesn't feel it can rely on a leader, it might take on this role, resulting in increased stress and potential aggression.

This sense of security can lead to decreased anxiety, making them more tolerant and less prone to snapping.

By establishing yourself as the pack leader, you create a harmonious environment that allows your dog to flourish mentally and emotionally.

Dogs may become snappy when they feel threatened, scared, or anxious by strangers and people they know.

Loud noises, unfamiliar people or animals, stressful situations, and changes in the environment are just some reasons for fear and anxiety.

Non-aggressive dogs can show their fangs as a typical response to perceived threats.

Dogs in pain or discomfort may become snappy as a defensive mechanism.

When dogs feel weak, they have all the more reason to be really, really protective.

Physical issues such as injuries, dental problems, or internal discomfort can lead to irritability and aggression. If you have an ailing dog, err on the side of safety.

Dogs are territorial animals, and they may become snappy when they think a threat is getting near their territory or possessions.

The causes for territorial aggression can include guarding their food, toys, or living space.

Dogs not adequately socialized during their critical developmental periods may become fearful or aggressive in unfamiliar social situations.

This can result in snappish behavior when encountering new people or animals.

A frustrated dog trying to protect a valuable resource, like food or a favorite toy, has a higher chance of snapping.

Resource guarding is one of the core by-products of trying a dog’s desire to survive.

When it comes to snappy dogs, here’s a formula I want you to remember:

You as the Pack Leader + Proper Training = a Calm, Chill Dog.

(Actually, this is the heart of my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️!)

Dogs are all about survival. They want to be safe, they want to feel protected. If you don’t make them feel that they can hand all the worrying to you, THEY WON’T STOP BEING SNAPPY…however hard you train them!

My 5 Golden Rules to becoming the pack leader in your dog’s eyes (which you can find in The Dog Calming Code) will solidify your leadership. You can take these simple but highly effective steps to make your dog say “Now that’s a pack leader I can trust to protect me and the pack!”

I’ve had dog owners come to me expressing their shock at how their non-aggressive dog attacked someone!

“We don’t know what caused them to react like that!”

Trust me: your dog WILL SHOW signs they’re triggered. We just need to really, really be keen in knowing what these triggers are.

Identify the specific triggers that cause your dog's snappy behavior.

Is it random strangers, other dogs, or specific situations? Perhaps a change in the environment?

When you know the triggers, you increase the safety of your dog and the strangers that interact with them.

Ensure that your dog is securely leashed and has appropriate gear to prevent harm to others in case of aggression.

I know it’s tempting to trust on your dog’s natural, kind character. But aggression is unpredictable; you have to take every step to prevent your dog from hurting others.

I totally understand this: you simply want to show your cute dog to your friends or to strangers you meet. However, your dog might not share the same enthusiasm.

When it comes to introducing your dogs to strangers, a slow introduction is key.

Gradual exposure to strangers can help desensitize your dog. Take your time and allow your dog to adjust at their own pace.

Avoid harsh training methods, as they can confuse and exacerbate your dog's aggression. Gentle, positive reinforcement techniques are more effective.

Implement timeouts when your dog displays snappy behavior. This gives them a chance to calm down and learn that aggression won't be tolerated.

If your dog becomes aggressive with a stranger, calmly remove them from the situation to de-escalate tension.

Inform strangers about your dog's needs and boundaries. Most people will appreciate your proactive approach.

Don't overwhelm your dog by exposing them to too many strangers at once. Gradual socialization is key to success.

By implementing The Dog Calming Code, you assume the role of the protector in your dog's eyes.

Not just one they need to protect, but one they can give all the protecting responsibilities to.

This shift in dynamics reassures your dog that there's no need for them to resort to aggression. They begin to trust your leadership and guidance, making them feel safe and secure.

This program delves deep into the intricacies of dog psychology.

It unravels the core reasons behind aggressive dog behavior, addressing the root causes rather than surface-level symptoms.

This comprehensive understanding is vital for creating lasting change.

The Dog Calming Code boasts a track record of success, having been tested and proven effective in over 88,000 dogs.

These dogs have transformed, becoming calmer, more relaxed, and placing increased trust in their pack leaders – their beloved owners.

The program offers a tested path to a harmonious and fulfilling relationship between dogs and their caregivers, fostering a more peaceful and loving home environment.

If you want to learn more about The Dog Calming Code, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

Doggy Dan, why is my dog overexcited? Also, how to calm overexcited dogs?

I often get this question from dog owners dealing with dogs that are always all over the place, jumping on the couch, on them, and on other dogs.

They bark, run, and lunge all because they are excited… something that causes a lot of stress not only to their owners but to other dogs as well.

These overexcited dogs often get shouted at or barked at because they're constantly invading space, always not listening.

In other words, these dogs always get into trouble.

And who wants that for their dogs, right?

You're in the right place if you have an overexcited dog and want to get to the bottom of the issue.

If you're looking for ways to calm an overexcited dog, I have important tips.

Read on.

• Overexcitement in dogs can manifest in various behavioral signs, including incessant barking, hyperactive jumping, pacing, and the inability to remain still. This behavior often arises from underlying issues related to the dog's perception of its role as the pack leader, a lack of physical and mental stimulation, and overstimulating environments.

1. How to Calm Overexcited Dogs: What Are the Signs to Look Out For

Is your dog really just happy or are they starting to show signs of being an overexcited dog?

The easiest way to tell is to look at the signs. From non-stop barking to hyperactive jumping, here are some critical signs that you have an overexcited dog who needs help.

This dog is relatively easy to spot. An overexcited dog barks at other people or dogs to get their attention.

It's like saying, "Hey, I want to play. Notice me! I'm here!" And when attention is not given, the barking gets more and more persistent.

An overexcited dog may bark persistently and excessively, often without reason. This non-stop barking behavior is always a manifestation of heightened arousal, and these dogs often continue barking despite attempts to calm them down.

In short, simply telling your dog to "Stop barking!" does not really work.

When faced with excitement, a dog might jump uncontrollably, especially when greeting their owners or encountering new visitors.

This jumping can become particularly overwhelming, making it challenging for the dog to focus or listen to commands.

When your dog gets their excitement meter through the roof, they often engage in rapid and erratic pacing, making them unable to settle down or relax.

Once your dog gets piqued up, they will find it hard to really calm down or tune in.

Overexcitement may render a dog unable to remain still, even for short periods.

You can see it in how they fidget, shift positions, or show restlessness.

Overexcited dogs might demonstrate excessive enthusiasm during playtime, which can sometimes turn into overly rough behavior or even aggression. Especially when the other dog don't share their excitement!

This behavior can result from the dog's inability to regulate their excitement levels, leading to potential behavioral challenges during interactions with other animals or people.

Understanding the underlying triggers contributing to a dog's overexcitement is CRUCIAL in devising the best training plan for managing their exuberant behavior.

When you understand the cause of dog overexcitement, it helps you address the issue clearly. You'll also know how to correct this issue in its roots.

If you don’t establish yourself as the pack leader, dogs will take on that role. And when they do, they will find it difficult to regulate their excitement levels.

Without clear guidance and reinforcement of desirable conduct, these dogs may become easily overwhelmed and struggle to remain composed in various situations.

(I teach the nitty gritty of how you can combat this through my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code.)

A surplus of unused energy due to insufficient exercise or mental stimulation can contribute significantly to a dog's overexcitement.

Always calling rain check on your walks and exercise? Don’t!

A lack of movement and exercise cause dogs to exhibit restlessness and hyperactivity, making it challenging for them to maintain a state of calmness and relaxation.

Environmental factors such as loud noises, crowded spaces, or frequent disruptions can overstimulate a dog's senses, leading to an increase in their overall arousal levels.

In such environments, dogs may find it difficult to focus or remain composed, resulting in heightened excitement that manifests through various behavioral cues.

And if you, their dog owner, come home with a frenetic, overexcited energy, your dog will absorb that.

Dogs, especially those with high intelligence or specific breed traits, require regular mental stimulation to prevent boredom and subsequent overexcitement.

Without engaging activities or interactive play that challenge their cognitive abilities, dogs may resort to hyperactive behaviors as a means of seeking stimulation and attention.

The very root of overexcitement is this: your dog feels that they are in charge.

It's not only the aggressive, fierce dogs who think they run the show… even the hyperactive, overly playful one feels the same.

Why?

Because they think they're in charge of playtime. They are the leader in their minds, so when they lunge, jump, or bark excitedly to signal to everyone it's playtime, they think everyone should listen.

And if the other dogs don't respond as your dog wants them to, they won't stop lunging or jumping at them.

You may have already seen this scenario play out in a park.

The excited dogs are working up every other pet in the vicinity because they can't stop asserting their authority through overexcitement.

What you expect as a quiet, calm, chill day with your dog at the park turns into a bark-fest, with your dog as the instigator.

Let's go back to the park scene.

In the park, some dogs are ABSOLUTELY calm and tranquil and just so in tune with the commands of their owners.

So different from your dog with a ranging level 8 energy level!

Let me tell you this: the only difference between your dog and the calm dog at the park is this: the latter knows who is in charge.

Your overexcited dog gets wired up every single time because they think they are the decision-maker.

They decide when playtime is.

They decide when to pull the strings of other dogs.

They decide on everything!

And if you're the decision maker, you can get overwhelmed. And this overwhelm often translates to overexcitement.

If you want to remove the factors that cause your dog to display frenetic behavior, become the pack leader who knows how to handle things.

When you take the leadership hat off your dog, it will show them that they're not in charge.

They're not in control of playtime.

They're not in charge of rounding up the animals for playtime.

They're not in charge of initiating play.

"But Doggy Dan, how can I show my dog I'm in charge?"

I have an entire series dedicated to this which you can check here. But let me give you a snippet:

• When your dog takes control of mealtime, they don't see you as a leader.

So when you take charge of EVERY SINGLE THING (food, attention, danger, walks) related to your dog, you're sending a message that you're the pack leader, the one in charge of everything.

They don't have to worry about playtimes at the park.

Or the dogs that don't play with them.

It's a matter that should be dealt with BY YOU.

It calms them down!

(You can learn more about how to become the pack leader with my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code™️.)

Help your dog diffuse their overexcitement by engaging them in regular physical exercise, such as brisk walks and interactive play sessions.

Incorporate mental stimulation activities, like puzzle toys or training exercises, to help channel their focus and promote a sense of calmness.

Establish a stronger bond with your dog through consistent obedience training, introducing commands like "sit," "stay," and "leave it."

These aren’t just commands for teaching discipline. But they also provide a constructive outlet for your dog's energy.

Reduce your dog's overexcitement by creating a tranquil home environment. I would recommend that you build a safe space for your dog.

Minimize stress triggers, such as loud noises or sudden disruptions, and implement a regular daily routine that will provide a sense of security and balance in your dog's life.

Also very important: check your energy. Your dog can absorb your overexcited energy!

If persistent overexcitement poses challenges, seek guidance from a professional dog trainer or behaviorist.

Their insights and tailored strategies can assist in managing your dog's hyperactive tendencies.

Approach the training process with patience, compassion, and a commitment to gentle leadership to help your dog find inner peace and develop a harmonious relationship with their surroundings.

Maintaining a consistent and gentle disciplinary approach is essential in preventing dog overexcitement.

Precise and positive reinforcement techniques, along with establishing boundaries, help dogs understand acceptable behavior, fostering a sense of security and predictability.

Providing dogs with designated safe spaces and implementing time-outs when necessary can contribute to regulating their excitement levels.

Safe spaces serve as retreats where dogs can relax and unwind. Time-outs offer powerful opportunities to help you establish rules, boundaries, and expectations.

In the dog training world, a lot of trainers know how to excite a dog. However, not a lot know how to calm an excited dog down.

And when dogs are wired up, worked up, and constantly on the go, they’re always tired, always anxious, always excited and aggressive.

This was one of my goals when I created my online dog training program, The Dog Calming Code.

I know that a calm dog is the HAPPIEST dog. And I know each dog deserves to just calm down and chill!

So if you’re on a mission to help your overexcited dog FINALLY calm down, The Dog Calming Code is for you.

Learn about the Dog Calming Code here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you are wondering how to deal with an overprotective dog, you MUST know that these animals are NOT naturally inclined to cause harm.

In fact, dog aggression from overprotectiveness is a case of a dog’s desire to keep harm away from you and the property they’re protecting.

But when is a protective dog too much? And how do you deal with an aggressive, overprotective dog?

In this blog, we’re going to talk about dog aggression coming from overprotectiveness and how you, as a dog owner, can help your dogs.

Read on to learn more.

• Giving dogs treats hoping it will stop their overprotectiveness doesn’t work at all. Your dog has to know they can count on you to protect them.

1. How to Deal with an Overprotective Dog: Why Are Dogs So Overprotective?

What is an overprotective dog?

This kind of dog is easy to spot. One of the overprotective dog types is the “security guard” dog.

They usually spring up at the very first sound of the doorbell. Their energy levels can go from 2 to an instant 10! They get up from their little corner to run and bark at the person or animal on the other side of the door.

The other kind is the “border patrol” dog. This overprotective dog restlessly goes around the property checking on gates and fences and making sure nothing gets in.

Although different, these dogs exhibit aggressive behaviors that drive their dog owners crazy.

But really, what causes a dog to be overprotective?

The number one reason for a dog who charges towards the door from the slightest knock or from a doorbell is this: they think they’re in charge.

Let me explain through an analogy…

Let’s say you come visit my house.

I ask you to sit, give you refreshments, and entertain you with conversation.

All of a sudden, the doorbell rings. Will you get up to get it?

You would probably say “No, I won’t because it’s not my house.” You know that it’s not your job to answer the door.

That’s the homeowners job because they’re in charge of everything related to their home.

And it’s the same with our dogs: because they think it’s their responsibility to answer to anyone who comes near the house, they go frantic at the sound of a doorbell, or bark when someone gets too close to your property.

They think they’re the leader of the house, so they are the first to the door.

They think they’re in charge of you and the property, so they rove and guard non-stop to keep you safe.

In short, these dogs are stressed, agitated, exhausted, and just can’t relax. All they have on their mind is protect, protect, protect.

So how can you help?

In your relationship with your dog, who is responsible for answering the door?

You could say that “My dog knows I am the one in charge.”

But do they really?

If your dog believes they are in charge, they will continue to be aggressive towards anyone near the door or fence.

The “security guard” and the “border patrol” dogs are constantly barking at the door, constantly patrolling the area with an aggressive energy because they think they’re in charge of it!

You're a big deal in your dog's world, and that can sometimes lead to them being a tad overprotective. In your dog’s eyes, you and the property are priority #1.

But you don’t want that! You just want your dogs to be calm and chill, and let you do all the worrying.

Here’s where the challenge comes in.

You’re probably thinking “I need to get a training program to stop this aggression.” A good move, yes. But which program?

Because here’s what I’ve observed so far: most programs aimed at stopping overprotectiveness by just giving dog treats so they will stop worrying.

Treats and rewards are not enough. You have to learn how to show them they have NOTHING to worry about.

How do you do this?

Remember this ONE CRUCIAL TRUTH before we discuss additional steps to handling an overprotective dog:

Your dog is overprotective because they don’t see you as the leader who will do the protecting.

“But Dan, I do all my best to protect my dog!”

I have no doubt you do.

But dog psychology is more complex than what us humans understand. Your actions can send your dog a different message.

(Dog psychology comes with various concepts that are essential for dog owners to understand. I talk more about cracking the dog code with my online training program The Dog Calming Code™️.)

The bottomline is telling your dog “Don’t worry, I’m in charge here” just won’t do it.

So how do you show your leadership, especially when it comes to answering the door?

Here are several examples of what you can do (taken from Doggy Dan’s Golden Rule #4: Dealing with Danger).

• If your dog is barking at someone from a distance, show them that you acknowledge what they’re barking at BUT DON’T MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT.

These are just some examples of dealing with a dog who can’t stop barking and worrying about their perceived threat.

(Important note: Remember, it’s you who needs to do the worrying!)

I talk more about dealing with perceived danger in Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4. I have a blog dedicated for this which you can check out here.

Dogs, with their innate sense of alertness, are often found keeping a watchful eye on their surroundings.

They are always alert, prepared to notice any possible intrusions or disturbances, whether it's the sound of leaves rustling or distant footsteps.

In the presence of unfamiliar sounds or movements, dogs can be seen standing tall, ears perked up, and muscles tensed, all in preparation for any potential encounter.

Their alert posture serves as a testament to their acute awareness and readiness to react.

At the slightest hint of a new presence in their environment, dogs swiftly redirect their attention.

Their keen focus on the newcomer reflects their instinctual need to assess potential threats or new companions, gauging whether they pose any danger or warrant a friendly approach.

When sensing a possible threat or intrusion, dogs often resort to vocal cues, expressing their unease or asserting their authority.

Their growls or barks serve as a clear warning, communicating their readiness to defend and protect their territory or loved ones.

In moments of perceived danger, dogs instinctively position themselves as a shield, placing their bodies between their loved ones and the potential harm.

This protective behavior showcases their loyalty and unwavering commitment to ensuring the safety of their human companions.

Once the situation deems itself safe, dogs swiftly ease back into their usual demeanor, relinquishing their defensive stance and resuming their ordinary activities.

Their ability to swiftly switch between defense and ease highlights their responsive and adaptable nature.

In the face of what they perceive as a genuine threat, some dogs may adopt an overtly aggressive posture, with their heads held high and hackles raised, signaling a clear message of intimidation.

This defensive stance is a visual display of their readiness to confront and defend against any potential harm.

In some cases, dogs may showcase an exaggerated response to new or unfamiliar situations, often reacting with heightened anxiety or aggression.

Their overreaction might stem from a place of heightened protectiveness, where they interpret the unknown as a potential threat to their territory or loved ones.

Through the act of urinating in specific locations, dogs establish their territorial boundaries, leaving behind scent markers to communicate their ownership or presence.

This instinctual behavior serves as a means of asserting their claim over their environment, highlighting their innate need to protect and secure their space.

To address dog aggression problems such as overprotectiveness, it is important for dog owners to take control of their dog's entire life, not just when there is a threat.

The reason behind this is you can’t tell your dog that you’re in charge of danger, while you let them take charge of everything else.

It will confuse your dogs.

Most dog owners don’t know their dog is already in control of EVERYTHING in their home.

This is where you take the reins.

Taking charge of the food, of the attention, of the cuddles and hugs, of the walk you do outdoors: this will build you as a strong, capable leader that your dog CAN TRUST.

This is the heart of my online dog program, The Online Dog Calming Code. I will teach you not just to tell the dogs “don’t worry,” but how to show them you’re the leader they can hand over their worries to.

Dogs are fast learners; they catch up quick especially when their owners set clear and consistent boundaries.

If you have an issue with your dog running to the door every time someone goes to your house, establish a boundary.

You can teach boundaries better through timeouts.

Whenever the dog starts barking and charging towards the door, calmly bring them to a room for a timeout. It’s also a great way for them to de-stress and steam off from the red zone.

Dogs get your message clearer if your words match your energy.

You can shout “Stop it!” all you can, but if your dog picks up a stressed, angry, anxious, or worried energy, they won’t stop it.

Your energy matters to your overprotective dogs more than your words.

After fiercely barking their hearts out to protect you, it’s tempting to just give them a hug and say “Oh, you’re such a good dog!”

But let me tell you this: don’t!

Giving affection to your dogs even after they exhibit overprotective aggression can confuse them. Affection can encourage them to continue the behavior… the very behavior you want them to stop.

Stay attentive to any changes in your dog's energy levels or behavior. If you notice any signs of heightened protectiveness, assert control immediately.

Redirect their attention and help them bring their energy levels down.

Create a safe space where your dog can unwind and release built-up tension.

Encourage them to relax and de-escalate any anger or stress they may be experiencing. Providing a designated room or area can give them the necessary privacy to regain composure.

When introducing your dog to new people or environments, ensure you maintain a safe distance initially.

Allow your dog to adjust gradually to the new stimuli, helping them feel more at ease and less threatened. Slow and steady introductions can promote a sense of security and comfort.

Early and consistent socialization can be pivotal in preventing overprotective behavior. Expose your dog to various social situations, other dogs, and people from a young age.

If your dog lacks socialization, seek guidance from a professional canine behaviorist. Implement a gradual and safe socialization plan to help your dog adjust positively to new interactions and environments.

Here’s the goal: to make you the strong, sure leader that can handle danger.

It’s the only way to make your dogs feel that they no longer have to spring to the door to do the protecting. They understand it’s your job. Even when the doorbell rings, they won’t have the tendency to react aggressively.

This is the goal of The Dog Calming Code: to make you the strong, sure leader that KNOWS how to handle danger.

I’ve seen this online program work for 88,000 dogs and I have the full confidence it will work for your aggressive, protective dog as well.

To learn more about The Dog Calming Code and how it can transform your protective dog into a chill, calm pet, you can check the program here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

When you deal with a fear biter, you have to understand that this dog’s tendency to bite is not fueled by the desire to simply bite.

These fear biters are fierce protectors.

When dog owners come to me and ask about aggression due to fear, I tell them when they deal with a fear biter, they have to halt the training until they solve the problem on a deeper level.

Because most of the time, fear-based aggression that causes biting is not a matter of lack of training but a lack of tactic.

In this blog, I’m going to talk about the number one reason why dogs bite due to fear, and how you — their dog owner — can actually change fear biters.

• Fear biters don’t bite out of habit. They use biting as a way to protect you and the property from danger.

1. How to Deal with a Fear Biter: The #1 Reason a Fear Biter Bites

So why do fearful dogs bite?

Like what I always mention in my previous blogs, dogs fueled by fear are driven by their primal responsibility to protect.

This issue puzzles dog owners: they usually have a pretty well-mannered dog, until a perceived danger or threat comes near.

They immediately show their fangs, and they don’t hesitate biting anything or anyone who they think disrupts safety.

I want to emphasize again: fear biters don’t just bite out of habit — they perceive themselves as the one in charge of their owners and their property so… they bite to protect.

Here’s a scenario that can explain it better.

As parents, we’re actually pretty chill when we’re alone. It’s a different story when we have kids that are under our care.

We become more wary about things around us — even anxious! — and always on the edge to protect our kids from the danger of strangers and threatening circumstances.

Why? Because we know that when it comes to our kids, we are the ones in charge.

And it’s the same with our dogs.

Of course they will be scared. Of course they will be protective!

The fearful biter is a dog that sees themselves as the pack leader and they want the source of danger to know that. They bite to make the danger stay away.

So how do you let the fear biter know that there’s nothing they should be worried — or biting — about?

Dealing with a fear biter requires both understanding and proactive steps. Becoming the pack leader is a powerful way to effectively address your dog's fear aggression.

Here's a detailed guide on how to do it:

Dogs often have a natural tendency to assume leadership, which can lead to constant anxiety, vigilance, and eventually fear-based aggression.

The best remedy is to assert ourselves as the leaders. Here's how:

Dogs pick up on our reactions.

When they sense danger, try to remain composed.

Even if their barking or biting tendencies can get into you, demonstrate that you are unfazed.

Let them see that you acknowledge the situation but are not troubled by it. This reassures them that there's nothing to worry about because YOU will do all the worrying.

If your dog continues to exhibit anxious or aggressive behavior despite your calm leadership, use calm and consistent corrections, such as timeouts.

Over time, this can help reinforce your position as the pack leader and correct any bad behavior before it becomes extreme.

A dog’s primal desire to protect is really strong.

So even if you tell them “Don’t worry about it!” they will still worry about it, especially if they don’t see you as the leader who can actually handle dangerous business.

By assuming the role of the strong, sure, undeterred pack leader (one they can confidently, totally trust), they can hand the baton of leadership to you.

As the pack leader, you have the responsibility to handle potential threats, whether they be danger, strangers, or unfamiliar sounds or objects.

Your confidence in dealing with these situations conveys to your dog that they are safe under your care.

After years of working with thousands of dogs as a top-notch dog trainer, I've got the lowdown on how to be the kind of pack leader your dogs can really rely on.

And guess what? I'm spilling the beans in the Dog Calming Code™️, an online dog training program that spills all the secrets of the 5 Golden Rules of dog leadership.

In the Dog Calming Code, you'll uncover everything you need to know about stepping up as the pack leader, earning your dog's trust, and helping them overcome their tendency to bite out of fear!

You can learn more about the Dog Calming Code here.

Biting due to fear aggression changes when our dogs see us as the Alpha. Our dogs start to understand that they don’t really have to protect us, we are going to protect them.

Now if they start to see you as a pack leader, your call to build confidence instead of fear BECOMES BIGGER.

Here’s a quick analogy:

Imagine there’s an ice cream truck in the middle of the woods.

This ice cream truck is a strange, very random sight to the wolves in there.

How will the rest of the pack react to this foreign thing? Totally depends on the pack leader!

If the pack leader or the alpha panics after seeing the ice cream truck, guess what will happen? The rest of the pack will panic, too.

If the pack leader or the alpha pees all over the ice cream truck, the pack understands they have nothing to worry about it.

If the pack leader ignores the ice cream truck, you can bet a dollar that the rest of the pack will ignore it, too.

However the pack leader reacts, the rest of the pack follows.

Dogs can exhibit fear aggression when introduced to new environments.

They may feel overwhelmed or anxious in unfamiliar surroundings, leading to defensive behavior, including biting.

When you do have to introduce a new environment to your beloved dogs, please do so gradually. A gradual introduction provides positive experiences and reassurance to ease their anxiety.

Is the change of season calling you to change routines as well? Well, you might soon deal with an anxious fear biter.

Changes in routines can trigger fear aggression in dogs because they find comfort in a frequently-followed flow.

A sudden disruption in their daily schedule creates stress and uncertainty. Just like navigating around new environments, try introducing routine changes one at a time.

If your dog has dealt with scary past experiences with other animals, introducing them to a new pet can spell trouble.

Fearful dogs may react aggressively when confronted with unfamiliar animals as a defense mechanism.

Careful and controlled introductions to other animals, under supervision, can help reduce fear-based aggression.

The most common fear biting trigger in dogs is stranger danger.

When dogs perceive a person as a threat, they may resort to aggression as a way to protect themselves or their owners. When a sound or an object looks strange enough to simply be ignored, your dog will be on high alert.

The solution to a fear biter’s problem with stranger danger? Socialization and consistency in showing your dogs YOU take care of danger! These are key to helping dogs become more comfortable around strangers.

Gradual exposure to new people, along with positive reinforcement, can help them overcome this fear.

Immediate aggression towards strangers is a clear sign of fear-based aggression in dogs.

When they perceive someone they don't know as a threat, they may react defensively by growling, barking, or even biting.

This response is their way of trying to protect themselves or their owners from what they perceive as a potential danger.

Dogs with fear-based aggression can be highly reactive to unusual noises, sounds, or changes in their environment.

Sudden loud noises, unfamiliar sounds, or any environmental changes can trigger anxiety and fear, leading to aggressive behavior.

Dogs may bark, growl, or even attack when they feel threatened or startled.

Growling is a common warning sign that a dog is feeling fearful or threatened. It's their way of communicating their discomfort or distress.

When a dog growls, it's essential to pay attention and address the underlying cause of their fear.

Ignoring this warning sign can lead to more severe aggression if the fear is not addressed.

A dog prancing towards someone or something can be a manifestation of heightened alertness and anxiety.

It's often a display of their readiness to react to a perceived threat. This behavior is typically seen when a dog is on high alert and may precede more aggressive actions if the threat continues.

A raised tail can indicate fear or anxiety in dogs. While some dogs may raise their tails as a sign of confidence, in fearful dogs, a raised tail is often a defensive posture.

It can be accompanied by other signs of tension, such as stiff body language or growling.

Perked ears are another sign of heightened alertness in dogs.

When a dog's ears are pricked forward and rigid, it indicates that they are paying close attention to their surroundings, possibly due to fear or uncertainty.

This is a way for them to gather as much information as possible about potential threats.

Baring teeth is a more overt sign of aggression and fear. When a dog shows their teeth, it's a clear signal that they are feeling threatened or defensive.

It's often a precursor to biting and should be taken seriously. Dogs displaying this behavior should be approached cautiously and with care.

A stiff or rigid body posture is a common indication of fear and anxiety in dogs.

When a dog's body becomes tense and immobile, it's a sign that they are on high alert and ready to react defensively.

Stiffness can be seen in conjunction with other fear-related behaviors like growling or baring teeth.

As the pack leader, you must exhibit confidence in dealing with potential dangers.

Dogs look to you for guidance, and your calm and composed demeanor can reassure them that you have the situation under control.

Confidence in your leadership helps reduce their anxiety and fear.

Dogs are highly attuned to their owners' emotions and energy. If you are fearful or anxious, your dog will pick up on those emotions and mirror them.

Maintaining a calm and confident energy is crucial when dealing with fear aggression, as your dog's reactions are often a reflection of your own state of mind.

Providing your dog with a safe space they can retreat to is essential.

I usually tell dog owners to bring their dogs to a safe space once they sense fear aggression picking up.

This safe haven should be exclusive to the anxious dogs, free of distractions and disturbance. A crate, a quiet room, or a space far from the triggers can help your dogs diffuse anxiety.

Gradual exposure to new animals, objects, and environments is crucial for dogs prone to fear aggression.

Rushing introductions can heighten their anxiety and trigger defensive behavior. Take your time to introduce them to new stimuli at their own pace, using positive reinforcement to build their confidence.:

Identifying the specific triggers causing fear aggression in your dog is essential for effective management.

Keep a record of situations or stimuli that provoke their fearful reactions; this can help you avoid or mitigate these triggers in the future.

Just one look at a dog with a fear biting aggression, and one can say “This dog needs help!”

If you have a fear biter, the terrified look on their face whenever they have to toughen up to ward off danger can be too much.

The good news is that YOU can help.

I know it can be overwhelming because you have to do things right.

But with the Dog Calming Code, you don’t need to change your fear biter on your own.

My step-by-step guide in helping you establish leadership and letting your dog know:

• They’re not in charge can change your fearful dog into one who knows they’re not in charge of danger.

If you want to learn more about how the Dog Calming Code can change your fear biter, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

The question of how to handle a bossy, dominant dog is common among dog owners who are exhausted, frustrated, and overwhelmed by their bossy dogs.

Bossy, dominant dogs have a distinct characteristic: they always want to be in charge over every dog they encounter. They love challenging authority, they display brute strength, and they don’t hesitate in showing aggression.

One can say “Oh, but that’s just a dog’s personality!”

Though it can be true, dominant behavior not corrected can lead to more serious challenges including your dog dominating you.

Stopping aggression in dogs is crucial to avoid other problems including your dog hurting another dog, a disorganized home, and having a dog that just doesn’t listen to you.

If you have an aggressive dog, you’re in the right place…

In this blog we’re going to talk about the dog psychology behind aggression, the 8 powerful strategies to stop aggression due to dominance, and the mistakes dog owners make that set their dogs back.

• A bossy, aggressive dog has one mission in mind: to let other dogs (and people!) know that they’re the one in charge.

1. How to Handle Dominant Dog Behavior: What’s Going on In a Bossy Dog’s Mind?

What truly drives your dog's need to assert dominance and display aggression?

Let me give the explanation through a common scenario often encountered by dog owners with aggressive and bossy dogs.

Picture this: when you take your bossy pet to the park, they tend to gravitate towards other dogs, sizing them up.

Dogs typically approach each other with erect ears, engaging in a circling ritual as they assess one another.

Soon enough, you might hear a chorus of barks, each dog unrelenting!

So, why do they behave this way? Especially when there is no food or toy around?

The answer is rather straightforward: they exhibit aggression because they want to know who is in charge.

The bossy aggression happens when your dog perceives themselves as the alpha… the leader of the pack, so to speak.

They have this HUGE need to assert themselves, and if either you or another dog fails to comply with their desires, they resort to aggressive behaviors to assert their dominance.

Signs of aggression in a dominant dog is different from a dog with aggression driven by fear. The aggressive behavior of bossy dogs come from their want to assert authority and put other dogs in their place.

Dog owners, knowing these signs by heart can protect you and your other pets from aggressive outbursts of your bossy dog.

Here are aggressive dog signs that gives you the cue you need to remind your dog “Hey, it’s me who is in control here.”

Is your bossy dog the king of non-stop barking?

Dogs use barking as a means to assert themselves as the leader of the pack. It’s their way of commanding attention, demanding for resources, or forcing compliance from other dogs or humans.

It's a vocal display of their perceived authority.

Growling is a sign you can’t simply brush off!

When a bossy dog growls, it's a clear warning that says “You are pushing the boundaries!”

A bossy dog can resort to growling in instances such as:

• Another dog getting into their space

The growling can escalate to aggression if the perceived threat persists.

It's a signal that the bossy dog believes they have the right to control the situation and are willing to use force if necessary.

You’ve probably seen this if you have a bossy dog: the dominant stance, which includes standing tall with their head held high, and a stiff body posture.

Aggressive, dominant dogs use this stance to communicate their readiness to engage in a confrontation if challenged.

It's a serious way of saying "I'm in charge, and I'm prepared to defend my position."

In the dog kingdom, head bumping is a show of dominance.

One dog asserts dominance by positioning its head above the other's, signaling its victory in the hierarchy struggle. The opposing dog resists and attempts to gain the upper position, leading to occasional head collisions.

The more they push back, the more they’re communicating “No, I AM THE BOSS not you.”

When a dog circles another, it’s an act of assessing their opponent.

Circling allows them to size up the competition, anticipate movements, and potentially find an advantage in a confrontation.

A dog who circles around strategizes on how he can completely cement his position as the alpha.

When a bossy dog attacks forward, it usually occurs when they feel their authority or dominance is being questioned or threatened.

Do dogs also exhibit dominance over their owners?

They can and do!

Some of the signs that your dog is showing dominance over you includes them refusing to come when called, persistently climbing onto your bed and couch despite your objections, or displaying aggression towards you.

And when you lose control over a dominant dog, it can be the start of difficult behavior issues.

So, how can you prevent these issues from escalating?

There are four signs that you should 100% watch out for.

Picture this: dogs encroached upon your personal space, freely climbing onto your bed without an invitation, perching on your head, or occupying your lap without consent.

It might sound sweet at first (“Yay, my dog wants me!”) but they are actually very subtle ways of dogs taking over the leadership. Even a dog lying on your feet is their way of showing dominance.

And the more your dog invades your space, the more they start to think “I can do this because I'm the one in charge here.”

When dogs growl at you, it's a significant sign.

This is because growling can be a precursor to an attack.

It suggests that your dog perceives you as a threat to their authority and security, prompting them to growl to assert dominance.

You call your dog, but there's no response.

You command them to stop, but they disregard your instructions.

Regardless of how loudly you may shout, they simply do not heed your words.

It’s a silent but powerful way of letting you know “Why should I listen to you?”

Dogs take matters into THEIR OWN PAWS, making decisions without waiting for your input.

They decide when to eat food, nudge you for cuddles, or fetch their leash to signal their desire for a walk. These actions may seem harmless, but they slowly build into a wrecking ball that eventually crushes your control.

Once these signs become evident, it's essential to regain control. I am sharing the powerful strategies for training bossy dogs I’ve learned from my experience. Read on below.

The journey of teaching your dog essential lessons begins right at home, and it's an indispensable starting point.

In fact, home is where the foundation for good behavior is laid, and there's no better place for this crucial groundwork.

By focusing on your dog's behavior within the home environment, you'll be better equipped to help them become less aggressive when they venture outdoors.

In my years as a dog trainer, I have seen how even the most bossy, authoritarian dogs turn into calm dogs who learn how to listen and chill.

These transformations inspired me to make the Dog Calming Code program featuring the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules.

These Five Golden Rules of Dog Training were created to help dog owners like you TAKE BACK CONTROL through SIMPLE but POWERFUL strategies.

Here’s a quick preview of how you’re going to achieve leadership in your bossy dog’s eyes through the Dog Calming Code.

Your bossy dog has to know that you control the food and everything that comes with eating: mealtimes, scraps, eating habits.

Food is HUGE for dogs, and the one who controls the food is the one who is in charge.

Read more about Rule #1 here.

After separation, your dog will challenge your leadership by going to you. This rule teaches dog owners the power of delaying acknowledgement to establish leadership, just like leader of the pack would.

Read more about Rule #2 here.

Your bossy dog has to see this: all the decisions come from you. They’re not the one in charge, so they absolutely just have to chill and hand all the decision making to you.

Read about Rule #3 here.

A dominant dog who thinks they’re in charge will always call out danger (thus the barking!). Rule #4 is about helping you become that calm, confident, CAPABLE leader who knows how to say to dogs “I am the one in charge here, so I take care of danger.”

Read about Rule #4 here.

Controlling dog aggression should not just stop at home. Even while you are outdoors, your dog has to know you’re in charge. This keeps them from challenging other dogs because they know it’s you who is the leader. Rule #5 makes this possible.

Read about Rule #5 here.

No one earns a dog’s affection even more than a caring dog owner who’s also sure and firm in their role as the pack leader.

A dog who knows their owner isn’t one to chicken out easily, they’ll see your authority.

However, if you’re not taking control, they will sense your emotions, including fear and worry about them.

By remaining confident and not easily fazed, you establish yourself as the dependable leader your dog can trust and follow.

Your personal space is important, and your dog understands that. When they invade your space without invitation, it sends a clear message that they can boss you around.

To maintain your authority, protect your space by only giving attention on your terms. This reinforces the idea that your dog has no power over you because YOU are the leader.

Dogs that are given too much freedom to make decisions may start to believe they are in control.

Be resolute in not granting your dog decision-making privileges. It's you who leads them, and you have the final say in matters.

Dogs may test your authority from time to time, probing to see if you'll bend the rules. Stay steadfast and unwavering in your boundaries.

Consistency is vital in reinforcing the rules you've set.

When correction is necessary, opt for timeouts as a method. This approach encourages a loving connection with your dog without resorting to threats or aggression. It reinforces the idea that your relationship is built on mutual respect and understanding.

Expose your dogs to proper socialization experiences.

Once you’ve started letting your dog know they’re not the boss, you can start to slowly socialize them with other dogs.

My recommendation as a dog trainer is to start in a place where your dog is comfortable and where they can meet other dogs as their equals.

One of the most common mistakes dog owners make is failing to address the initial signs of dominance in their dogs.

Dogs often give subtle cues when they are testing their boundaries and asserting dominance.

These signs can include pushing their way to the front during walks, growling when asked to give up a toy, or attempting to claim your personal space.

Ignoring these early warning signs can allow the problem to escalate.

It's crucial to address these behaviors promptly with appropriate training and correction to prevent them from becoming ingrained patterns of dominance. I often recommend using Timeout to nip these behaviors in the bud.

Some dog owners mistakenly believe that dominance aggression will naturally subside over time.

They may assume that their dog will "grow out of it" or that it's just a phase.

However, dominance aggression rarely resolves on its own and often worsens if left unaddressed.

This type of behavior can become deeply ingrained, making it more challenging to correct as time goes on. It's essential to take proactive steps to address dominance aggression through training, socialization, and consistent enforcement of rules.

Allowing your dog to rule the house is a common mistake that can contribute to dominance issues.

This can manifest in various ways, such as allowing your dog to claim the best spots on the couch or bed, letting them decide when and where they eat, or permitting them to demand attention whenever they please.

When dogs believe they are in charge, it can lead to a host of behavioral problems, including aggression, barking around the property and lunging on the leash. To prevent these, establish clear boundaries and rules within your home and consistently enforce them.

When rules aren’t reinforced consistently, your dog will fall back into a pattern of aggression.

For example, if you allow behavior that allows them to be the boss again (even though you’re training them not to be) it sends mixed signals to the dog.

To address this, it's crucial that you follow through with the rules and boundaries you’ve st. Make sure other family members are on the same page.

Perhaps the most significant mistake is not having a proper training routine in place from the beginning.

Some dog owners realize too late that they need to be a leader in their dog’s eyes.

A reliable training program introduced early on can save dogs and dog owners from the problems of dominant behavior.

Training your dog to see you as the ALPHA of your pack requires you do things right.

Why? Because there are so many small, seemingly insignificant mistakes that can mess up your training.

If you want a training guide for dominant dogs, I encourage you to check out The Dog Calming Code.

I made sure the training instructions are simple for even new dog owners to understand but POWERFUL enough to cover the issues that lead to dog aggression.

Because I believe that dominant, bossy dogs — when trained right — will happily switch off and pass the baton of leadership to you.

And every dog deserves to switch off, relax, and feel “I am not the leader here. I don’t need to fight with other dogs. I don’t need to be brave and alert all the time. I can absolutely chill!”

That’s an absolute gift to your pet.

If you want to learn about the Dog Calming Code, you can check it out here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you’re eager to know how to help fearful dogs, I know where you’re coming from. Fearful dogs are exhausted. You can read their exhaustion through their habits and body language: they can’t easily sleep, they’re reactive, and they’re triggered by the littlest things.

If you own a dog that is highly fearful, you already know telling them “Please, calm down” doesn’t work.

So what do you do as a dog owner to truly pacify your dog’s fears?

I’m sharing an IMPORTANT dog trainer tip I’ve learned through the years. Read on to learn more.

• If you want to know what causes dog fears, it’s important to check your fears as well. You can directly influence your dog’s reaction to things!

1. Dog Owners and Dog Fears: The Story of the Woman with a Reactive Dog

My heart is close to dogs struggling with fears and anxiety. So when a lady told me that she had a problem with her reactive dog, I recommended a consultation.

When I met them, I couldn’t sense any agitated energy in her dog.

So we started rolling the camera to record the dog’s interactions as part of the consultation.

(And boy, I’m sure glad we did!)

When I asked them to walk, the dog was chill… until they had to walk past my dog.

The woman’s dog snarled, barked, and poised to attack the other dog.

That immediately made me wonder “What caused the change?” I knew the dog was reactive, but the way they shifted from calm to aggressive caught my attention.

We decided to review the tapes to see what caused the change.

And the moment I saw it, I immediately knew the exact reason.

During the walk, both owner and dog carried a happy, calm energy. When the dog had to walk past my dog, the owner did a slight, almost unnoticeable tug on the leash.

A gesture that meant “Hey, there’s a dog and I’m quite worried with what you’re going to do. Don’t come near him.”

And the dog immediately thought “Oh, so that dog is danger!”

The reasonable next step is for the dog to react to the threat — it was their way of protecting their owner from something they think is scary.

I'm about to share a game-changing secret from my experience as a top dog trainer. When it comes to helping fearful dogs: your energy matters more than you might think.

Now, let's dig deeper with a few questions:

• Have you ever noticed that your fears influence your dog’s fears?

If you find yourself answering “yes” to all these questions, it’s time to understand a fundamental principle: “Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes.”

What does this mean, exactly?

It means that if you're focused on things that trigger either YOUR fears or YOUR DOG'S fears, there's a good chance your dog will start to fear those things too.

Let me illustrate this with an example:

Think back to the woman I mentioned earlier. When she paid no mind to my dog, her dog remained calm and unbothered.

But the moment she started to react with worry, her dog sensed that worry and began displaying fear-based aggression.

Now, picture a different scenario: What if that woman— instead of panicking — decided to ignore my dog and redirect her dog's attention elsewhere?

Do you think her dog would react with the same level of aggression?

I'd bet my bottom dollar that the dog wouldn't be as aggressive.

In essence, your energy and attention play a pivotal role in shaping your dog's feeling towards certain things.

Now that I laid out the number one cause for dog’s fears — which is your own fear as a dog owner — it is also important to talk about the other reasons that cause fearful dogs.

Lack of socialization causes fearful dogs because they feel everything and everyone is a stranger to them.

And unfamiliar people and things can cause fear!

Insufficient exposure to different people, animals, environments, and experiences during the critical socialization period (typically between 3 and 14 weeks of age) can lead to fear of the unfamiliar later in life.

Dogs who have experienced trauma, abuse, or negative encounters in the past may carry emotional scars that result in long-lasting fear reactions to certain stimuli or situations.

Some dogs may have a genetic predisposition to anxiety and fearfulness. Breeds or individual dogs with a more nervous temperament may be prone to fear-related issues.

Medical conditions that cause pain, neurological problems, or sensory deficits, can make dogs more prone to anxiety and fearful behavior. It's essential to rule out any underlying health concerns when addressing fear in dogs.

Dogs with low self-esteem or a lack of confidence may exhibit fear-based behaviors as a way of coping with unfamiliar or challenging situations.

“Doggy Dan, how can I tell if my dog is starting to absorb my fearful energy? What are the signs of fear in dogs that I should look out for?”

The best way how to help fearful dogs is to know what signs to look for. Here are some examples.

Picture your dog on a stormy night, cowering in the corner as thunder rumbles outside. If your dog senses your fear of the sound, your dog may start trembling or retreating in a corner.

Have you ever seen your dog hide under the bed when the vacuum cleaner comes out? This avoidance behavior shows they're scared of the noisy machine.

Imagine a scenario where your dog encounters a large, unfamiliar dog at the park.

If random dogs startle you, too, your dog may bark and whine as a signal of their unease and discomfort in that situation.

Think about when a stranger approaches your dog on a walk, and suddenly, their tail tucks between their legs. This is their way of saying, "I'm scared."

After a visit to the vet, your dog might pant excessively or drool due to anxiety. These physical signs can indicate their stress.

If your dog growls or snaps when a child gets too close to their food bowl, it's a sign of fear. They feel threatened and react defensively.

During a thunderstorm, your dog might shed more fur than usual due to their anxiety. It's a visible sign of their emotional distress.

Consider a situation where you leave your dog home alone for an extended period. When you return, you find a mess on the floor. This can result from their fear of being alone.

When your dog encounters a loud noise like fireworks, their pupils may dilate. This shows they're in a state of fear and arousal.

If your dog suddenly refuses to eat when you introduce them to a new environment, it could be related to their fear of the unfamiliar surroundings.

If dogs are within our property, they should feel safe enough to feel protected from any danger, right? Well, that is a common misconception.

You see, the reality is a bit different.

Even when dogs have a loving home, if their owner doesn't establish themselves as the leader of the pack, dogs will think they're in charge of protecting the home themselves.

This can actually lead to some unexpected anxieties and fears in our dogs.

Here are a few examples and how you can help.

Any unfamiliar sound is a sign of danger for a dog that feels they are in charge.

I talk about this being one of the fears that dog owners can resolve with the help of the Doggy Dan Rule #3: Dealing with Danger.

In golden rule #3, the solution is simple: you have to show your dog that the random sound doesn’t faze you.

You have to send the message “Don’t you worry about that. It doesn’t worry me. And if that one’s danger, then you can let me worry about it. You just chill out.”

Your dog will feel your confidence as a pack leader, and they will see you’re not fearful at all!

And if your dog feels your calm energy, they can stop worrying, too.

To help your dog overcome their fear of other animals, consider introducing them to a new fur-sibling outside your home, such as a park. This neutral environment can facilitate a more relaxed initial meeting.

When dealing with your dog's fear of people, it's crucial to approach introductions gradually and with sensitivity.

Begin by having the person your dog is afraid of maintain a calm and non-threatening demeanor. Allow your dog to approach them at their own pace.

Is going out such a stressful thing for your dog? Here are ways you can help.

It's a challenge many dog owners face: your dog might be calm and collected at home, but once you step outside, it's like a whole new world.

Here's the deal: being the pack leader in the comfort of your home is fantastic, but it's equally a must to assume that role outdoors to boost your dog's confidence and security.

One of the best ways to ease your dog's anxiety during outdoor adventures is to demonstrate that you're in charge of the walk, which happens to be Doggy Dan's Golden Rule #5!

As the leader, you take the lead, ensuring that if any potential dangers arise, you're there to face them head-on and handle the situation.

Understanding the social nature of dogs is key to making them feel comfortable around other pups.

Rather than overwhelming your dog with unfamiliar faces at the dog park, focus on regular playdates with a select group of familiar furry friends. This builds positive bonds and reduces anxiety.

Don't forget, your own demeanor matters too! Stay calm when introducing your dog to new pals, as they often take cues from your reactions on how to behave themselves.

Outdoors can be full of surprises for our dogs.

From strange-looking sticks to crossing streams, these new experiences can sometimes trigger fear in our dogs.

But here's a simple formula to keep in mind when helping dogs navigate through outdoor things that scare them:

First, show your dog that there's no need to be afraid. If you're crossing a stream, demonstrate how it's done calmly and safely. Your confidence can be contagious!

Then, shift their focus to something positive, like their favorite toy or a game of fetch. This helps them build a positive connection with the environment.

Remember, once your dog sees and feels that there's nothing to fear, they'll feel much more at ease.

Doggy Dan's Dog Calming Code transforms the lives of owners and their cherished pets!

As an experienced top dog trainer, I know how closely linked an owner's stress and their dog's fears can be.

It's a cycle that feeds off each other, making it vital to address our dogs' fearful behaviors before they turn worse.

Enter the Dog Calming Code, my online training program. Here, you'll discover the key to becoming the calm, confident pack leader in your dog's eyes.

When your dog senses your confidence, it sparks a chain reaction, boosting their own self-assurance.

The Dog Calming Code also equips you with practical knowledge and techniques to effectively ease your dog's fears. It's a holistic approach that cultivates peace and security that you and your dog so deserve!

~ Doggy Dan 😄

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Any loving dog owner gets concerned about the factors that cause dog stress. After all, we just want the best for our pets, from their physical to mental health.

You can attribute the cause of dog stress to multiple factors: unhealthy upbringing, violent history, a chaotic environment, and strained relationships with owners and other dogs.

But what most dog owners usually overlook is a stress trigger that affects more dogs than we know it: dog owner stress.

Yes, you read that right: your stress as a dog owner affects the stress levels of your dogs.

And although it is quite heartbreaking to know that dogs can absorb our stress, there’s a bright side: it is also YOU that can make it better for your beloved dogs.

This is what I’m going to share with you today. Read on to learn more.

A research found out that dog owners’ acute and long-term stress has a direct impact on their dog’s stress levels known as cortisol.

In one of the studies published in the Scientific Report where a team studied 58 dog owners and their pets, it was discovered that stress are synchronized between dogs and the ones caring for them.

Whenever dog owners get elevated stress, dogs exhibited a spike in cortisol as well.

It also indicated that the closer the bond and the stronger the reliance, the more susceptible dogs are to absorbing their owner’s stress and emotions.

The senior zoologist conducting the research, Lina Roth, emphasized that dogs truly understand their owners, especially in the emotional aspect.

“Dogs are quite good at understanding humans,” Roth added.

Hearing this can make a dog owner go “Awww…” but this sweet fact comes with a downside: when we’re sad and stressed, our dogs feel it, too.

I always say this: your dog can’t always hear what you say because your actions and emotions are louder than your words.

When you communicate with a dog, they assess your body language and tone of voice to make sense of your words.

You might say “I always tell my dog to calm down, Dan. I encourage them to not go crazy with stress!”

But here’s a dog trainer insight: no matter how much you assure your dog, if your stress levels are through the roof, they will know.

“Calm down” is just a phrase if your dog can see the worried, nervous, or annoyed energy behind your words.

Your dog can go “Wait, why are they worried? Why do I sense panic? Should I worry? My owner looks worried so I think I should be, too!”

And the cycle goes on and on: you’re wondering why your dog can’t seem to understand your request, while your dog can’t stop picking up the panic and frustration in your voice.

As a top dog trainer that has seen this scenario play out thousands of times, here’s a simple rule I always encourage dog owners to remember: your dog is your mirror.

Before they do anything, they must first see it in you.

I have seen a real life example of a dog owner directly affecting the personality and energy levels of their pets.

One day, while I was on my way to a consultation, I saw an interesting sight: a dog owner walking oh-so-calmly with his dog.

From the get go, it would sound like nothing out of the ordinary. But the dog in this story is a pitbull.

A dog that is so notorious, so scary, and always exuding boss energy!

But on that day, I was totally taken by surprise at how calm the dog was. So calm, they follow their dog owner wherever he goes.

The dog had no leash, and showed zen-like calmness.

It only took one look for me to know why.

His dog owner was absolutely chill. No worried stance, steps light and easy, and it looked like he was having a great time in their outdoor stroll.

It confirmed to me: yes, indeed, the pitbull was chill because his owner was absolutely chill.

If the man in my story can influence his dog to be relaxed and diffuse agitated energy, imagine the opposite: what will happen to our dogs if we perpetually show stress.

“But why are dogs influenced by our stress, Doggy Dan?”

The moment these dogs come into our home, they become our companions. When it comes to reacting, perceiving danger, and socializing they will be looking up to you as their example. Whatever you do, they will do.

But it does not stop there.

Whatever you feel, they also feel.

So if you’re wondering why dog owners cause dog stress, here are the reasons.

I totally know the look on your face right now. It’s the same look I usually get when I tell dog owners that they unintentionally cause dog stress.

But before you feel guilty, I want you to know that you’re not alone on this boat.

Even the most loving, most protective owner can make dogs feel stressed even without meaning to.

For example:

• Reacting in a worried tone all the time tells your dog they should always be on the lookout for danger.

These actions are easy to overlook as stressors for dogs, but they are. Being aware that our reactions and emotions cause our dogs stress can be the first step to change.

Our dogs are highly attuned to our emotions. They sense energy, and they take on the energy they’re exposed to.

Because dogs spend most of the day with us, the chances of them absorbing our energy is high.

So when we constantly carry a heavy, stressed energy, it won’t be a surprise if our dogs will start to show signs of stress as well.

Ever had a dog that seems to be constantly scared despite your constant reassurance?

It’s great if you can take a step back and ask: am I also scared? Is my dog picking up the energy of fear from me?

Remember: dogs feel what you feel. Dogs tend to feel and act like their owners, so if you want them to be more confident, you should start by showing them you’re calm, sure, and confident yourself.

Be mindful of your own energy and emotions around your dog.

Because we’re dog owners, we have to remember that dogs are quietly observing us and absorbing whatever energy we radiate.

Try to maintain a calm and positive demeanor, as this can have a soothing effect on your dog.

For example:

• Instead of reacting in an angry voice, take a few seconds to regulate your emotions by breathing in and out.

Dogs, like humans, need downtime.

Spend quality, quiet time with your dog where you engage in gentle activities like petting, cuddling, or simply being together in a calm environment.

In my previous blog, I shared the Three-Minute Quiet Time to help calm dogs down.

Here’s how you can do it:

• Every morning, start your day with a quiet, calm energy. Sit in silence for 30 seconds to 3 minutes.

Ensure your dog has a designated safe and comfortable space, like a crate or a cozy corner.

This little corner should be designed as a place they can retreat when they need a break from stimulation or social interaction.

Make this safe space off limits from kids or other dogs so your dog can let off steam and diffuse stress without any distraction.

Having a dog also means being responsible not only with how we react, but how we act as well.

Stomping our feet because we’re angry causes stress. Banging on doors causes stress. Even dropping stuff forcefully because of irritation causes stress.

And our stressed-induced actions can turn our calm dog into one that’s also on the edge.

At the heart of the Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code™️ Program is this: dog owners who become calm and confident leaders raise calm and confident dogs.

Unregulated stress can cause a strain in your relationship and training with your dog (which can even cause more stress!).

The Dog Calming Code helps with that by teaching YOU how to be the pack leader that sets the rules, takes charge, and knows how to help dogs become calmer.

(And when you do set rules and take charge, it takes a chunk of stress of your dog’s mind!)

Your dog is your mirror; if they see you as the leader they can trust, they will learn how to switch off from stress.

We know that dog owners cause dog stress, but it’s time to break the cycle!

The Dog Calming Code is a roadmap that helps dog owners raise and train dogs in a way that:

• Doesn’t involve casual shouting, hitting, or using intimidation

This program is all about teaching dog owners to manage their emotions while raising and training their dogs. With over 88,000 satisfied dog owners already, it's a proven way to help both dogs and owners behave in a calmer, less stressful way!

Get the Dog Calming Code today and say goodbye to dog stress and hello to a happier, calmer dog training experience with your dog.

If anyone comes to me for tips on how to get dogs to listen more, I always ask them to do this:

“Think of the most connected, most effective conversations you’ve had with a loved one. Were they done with shouting, or were they filled with calm, understanding energy?”

Surely, you would say the latter.

And it’s true. As a parent, the most effective conversations I've had with my children are ones done in absolute calmness.

No anger.

Without raised voices.

No hurtful words.

And like what I mentioned in my book “What The Dogs Taught Me About Being A Parent”, it’s the same with our dogs!

One of the best ways to make dogs listen and connect with us is to practice silence and calm energy whenever we communicate with them.

Read on to learn more about this.

• Dogs listen and connect with us more when we have a calmer energy.

1. How to Get Dogs to Listen: We Listen More to Silence Than the Noise

Let me share a simple story that shows why quiet moments matter when communicating with dogs.

My wife and I went on a double date with our friends one evening.

We all started chatting in the car and having a great time.

But during the trip, something interesting happened.

My friend and I stopped talking and focused on listening to our wives speaking softly.

My friend turned to me and said, "Hey, mate, I think they're talking about something important!"

We spent the rest of the drive in complete silence, eager to hear what they were discussing.

This experience made me realize that sometimes, being quiet and calm helps you communicate better than shouting!

This lesson from everyday life also applies to training dogs. Our dogs respond better to calm and quiet energy than loud noises.

If you really want your dog to listen, focus on the silence and the calm.

Important note: I have to add here that when I say silence, I don’t mean you say zero words to your dog. It is being intentional with words, ensuring we keep what we say, and our energy, in check.

So, why is silence important for dogs?

In the wild, dogs are calmer and quieter. They are not used to hearing shouting. In fact, they only use their sound — like barking and howling — to communicate danger and to protect the pack.

They use noise for the REAAAALLY important stuff.

It’s a different story for our domesticated dogs.

Every single day, they have to deal with different kinds of noise like:

• The hustle and bustle of morning preparations when kids and adults start their day.

And what seems to be regular noise to us is already too much for our dogs. Too much that it makes dogs tune out and not hear what we are saying!

And this overwhelm and tuning out makes it hard for dogs to understand your commands, which can make you wonder, “Does my dog even listen to me?”

I always tell dog owners this: a dog who doesn’t seem to listen is a dog who has tuned out.

Dogs are not inherently disobedient and defiant. Sometimes, it’s just hard for them to get you.

Here are some factors that could contribute to their inability to listen and respond to your commands.

Just like humans, our dogs can become overwhelmed by their surroundings or situations.

If your dog is exposed to too much stimuli, such as noise, new people, or unfamiliar environments, they may need help to focus on your commands.

It's crucial to recognize when your dog might be feeling overwhelmed and take steps to create a calmer and more controlled environment.

If you suspect your dog has tuned out, retrace what happened before. Have you been shouting more? Is the noise at home louder this time? Is there increased activity in your home?

Knowing what caused your dog to tune out can help you understand what’s causing your dog to become unresponsive to your commands.

Dogs are highly attuned to energy and body language.

In fact, they can sense your emotions and intentions often more accurately than they can understand your words.

Feelings of anxiety, frustration, or impatience… your dog feels them.

When they pick up on these negative emotions, it becomes more difficult for them to respond positively to your commands.

Always make sure that your energy matches your words. If you ask your dog to “Please calm down," you have to be calm as well.

Remember: dogs understand energy more than words! When they see that you’re calm, they can calm down, too.

Consistent shouting or using a loud, commanding tone can lead to confusion for your dog.

The louder you shout, the more they are desensitized to your voice, not knowing when a command is really essential.

As dog owners, there are crucial moments when shouting is a NEED. If you’re always shouting for every single command, you lose the power of a louder voice.

Use clear and consistent commands with a normal tone of voice.

Only use loud or urgent commands when you want immediate action from your dog. This way, your dog will better understand when it's CRUCIAL to respond promptly.

A strong connection with you is what makes dogs understand what you’re asking from them.

Your dog should have a strong connection with you to know that your commands are always for the better.

If you haven't invested enough time in building this connection and trust, your dog can go and think:

“Should I trust them enough to do what they’re commanding me to do?”

Connect with your dog using a non-threatening and calm energy. When your dog is agitated, calmly check for the reason and avoid reacting harshly.

Dogs are pack animals and naturally inclined to follow a leader they can trust.

Our dogs will constantly check on us to see if we’re the leader they can rely on. They will sometimes test us, checking if we’re easily provoked or if we are truly the leader capable of leading the pack.

The more we show a calm, sure, confident energy, the more they will trust us.

Establish yourself as a trustworthy leader by setting clear boundaries and rules for your dog. And always do things with a calm energy.

If your dog refuses your commands, you can use the strategy I call the Three C’s: the calm, consistent, consequence to an action. An example of this is gently leading your dog to a timeout when a behavior needs to be corrected.

It’s timeout with absolutely zero angry energy. It’s powerful for dogs!

A routine that begins in silence is one effective exercise to strengthen your bond with your dog and encourage a more attentive response. th

Here's how you can try it:

In the morning, when you check in with your dog, aim to keep your energy low and your actions almost silent.

You can start with as little as 30 seconds of this calm interaction, or if you're up for it, extend it to three minutes.

The key is to connect with your dog in a very calm, very serene way.

While you enjoy the calm, start observing how your dog responds to your quieter demeanor. This exercise will show you how your dog react to a positive change in your energy.

After a few minutes of this serene connection, gently say your dog's name, crouch down, and calmly call them over to you.

Observe how they respond as they approach you. They will exhibit a far calmer energy compared to when you initiate interactions with a more elevated energy level.

And when a dog is calmer, they’re more ready to listen to you.

I know that not yelling at dogs is easier said than done, especially when we feel like our dogs just don’t pay attention to what we are saying.

If you do struggle with yelling, here are some things I want you to remember the next time you feel triggered to raise your voice at your dogs.

The pack leader often exudes a calm and confident energy. They can’t be challenged because they know they’re capable. Even in danger, they show the pack they can handle it.

Dogs are pack animals, and if you want them to listen to you, you have to show them you’re worthy of being listened to.

How? By showing calm and confident energy… just like a pack leader would!

If you’re running around anxious, or if your dog’s actions trigger a stressed reaction, your dog will start to think

“They aren’t confident and brave enough as a pack leader. When I’m stressed, they get more stressed! They’re worried! They’re scared! Should I trust them? Can they really make me safe? Should I really listen to them?”

Remember this: in your dog’s eyes, leadership is not always synonymous with shouting.

Let’s take the example of a dog who does not stop barking.

Dogs bark when they feel the property they’re protecting is threatened.

Some dog owners think that dogs bark just because, and a “Stop it!” — in a shouty fashion — is enough.

It’s not enough.

As long as the dog isn’t pacified that you’ve seen the threat, you’ve analyzed the threat, and you’ve shown your dog that you got it covered, the barking will not stop.

(I talk more about this in Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4: Danger)

Calmly approaching a barking episode can help you see what really triggers the barking. Your calmness also tells your dog “I’m the leader and I’m not worried. I got it all covered for you. You’re safe. You can stop barking.”

It’s a connection that only happens when we stop yelling at our dogs !

Your dog doesn’t just feel your energy; they absorb it, too.

If you’re running stressed all around the house, your dog will absorb that stress, too. And a stressed dog is rarely a dog that obeys and listens.

If you want a calmer dog, the calm energy should start with you.

Choosing to be calm is such a journey for every dog owner. But it’s one worth taking because it comes with amazing benefits such as:

• A calmer dog

My online program, The Dog Calming Code™️, is for any dog owner who wants to know how to make dogs listen and obey more without using force or shouting.

Following this program lets you communicate with your dogs calmly and clearly. When calmness prevails in your relationship, you can enjoy a dog who connects with you, listens to you, and obeys you without any need for you to shout.

To know more about The Dog Calming Code, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you’re here because you’re wondering how to teach boundaries to dogs, I’m here to commend you!

I know it’s tough. When our dogs start to show their puppy eyes, denying their requests becomes so hard.

But there is power in SAYING NO.

When dog owners say NO, it paves the way for better obedience training, and dogs that are calmer and easier to take care of.

Additionally, dog owners who say NO are less likely to deal with aggressive, restless, stressed, and anxious dogs who don’t listen.

“How is that possible, Dan? Can behavior problems really start because of not saying NO?”

YES.

Giving NO to your dog equals you showing your leadership and boundaries.

And setting those two in place can make a BIG difference to your training and relationship with your dogs.

Read on to learn how to teach boundaries to dogs and why NO is one of your most powerful dog training tools.

• A dog that gets YES all the time will start to think that they’re in charge. And when they think they’re the leader, behavior problems such as barking, aggression, and disobedience come up.

• Why Set Boundaries With Dogs? My Experience with Spoiled Dogs

Here’s what I’ve learned in my years of working with dogs: some of the hardest dogs to train are the ones that receive SO MUCH LOVE.

Disclaimer: showering our dogs in love is not inherently bad. However, when great love comes with zero boundaries and no rules, it becomes a problem.

Dogs who are constantly given EVERYTHING they demand become a big problem to the owners that adore them.

I’ve seen this firsthand.

Some would come up to me asking “Dan, we’ve given our dog everything! What could be the problem?”

Here’s the problem: if your dog is acting up, not listening, and still charging around despite asking them to behave, you might check if you have a spoiled dog.

Ask these questions…

• Am I saying yes to my dog’s requests all the time?

If you said YES to any of these questions, you could be dealing with a spoiled dog.

Spoiled dogs are just like spoiled kids: they are defiant, they are hard to control, and it’s a challenge to get them to respect authority and boundaries.

Some may say “Oh, they’re just acting up because that’s part of their personality.”

But the bottomline is this: because your dog sees you respond to every bark, every request for treats, every nudge for snuggles, your dog feels they are in charge—they can get whatever they want, WHENEVER!

Giving a YES can be tempting, but in the long run, letting dogs have everything they want can have serious consequences.

Constantly saying YES to your dog’s demands has their mind going…

“Aha! They said yes to my requests. They gave me treats when asked for some. I peed on the floor and I didn’t get a timeout! I barked and we walked! They gave me everything! Looks like I am the new leader here now.”

You’ll see the signs once the leadership hat switches from your head to theirs—they’ll be more defiant, they’ll invade your space more demanding attention.

Sleeping is also difficult for dogs who think they’re in charge. Even if they do lie down, they sleep lightly…making them even more anxious. Because all the time they’re tightly focused on ensuring the safety of you and the property.

Their system is perpetually stressed from all the guarding and protecting, leaving them exhausted, worried and more prone to health issues.

Dogs are masterminds. Their seemingly safe, sweet cues can actually be their way of checking if you’re the leader they can trust and rely on.

And if you give in, you lose that leadership in your dog’s eyes.

When your dog starts to perceive themselves as the leader, they may not see any reason to listen to your commands.

They’ll ignore your requests, become disobedient, or refuse to follow basic training cues. This makes it difficult to manage and control your dog, leading to frustration for both you and your pet.

Saying "YES" to every request without setting boundaries or rules can give your dog the impression that they can do anything they want without consequences.

They may engage in destructive behavior, such as chewing furniture or digging in the garden, because they haven't learned appropriate limits.

Your dog might not understand the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior, which can lead to confusion and chaos in your household.

Here’s a quick scenario that can help you understand why NO should be an integral part of dog training.

Between a teacher who lets everything pass every single time, and one who gently but firmly reinforces the rules, who would you follow when they say “Please pay attention to me.”

I bet you would also say the latter.

And there’s good reason, right? They set clear rules, they firmly stick to it, and they have clear expectations that you follow them. They are in charge of the class, and they don’t allow anyone to freely challenge her rules.

It’s the same when you try to teach boundaries to dogs.

Setting boundaries with our dogs starts by saying NO.

Why?

Because for dogs to calm down, to behave, and to be more obedient, they have to know YOU are the Alpha who sets the rules in place for safety and survival.

If you’re familiar with Doggy Dan’s Five Golden Rules, you’ll know the way to make a dog switch off and calm down is to show them you’re the pack leader, the ultimate decision maker.

• You make all the decisions.

And the best way to show them you’re in charge, and that they don’t call the shots is BY SAYING NO.

Most dog owners hesitate to say No to their dogs because they associate the word with disappointment, anger, and exasperation.

Truth is, you can say NO in the most gentle, proactive way.

For dogs, it’s all about your energy.

Instead of saying (or shouting!) “No! You can’t do that!”

You can embrace calmness while saying to your dog “No, I won’t allow that. I don’t think it’s a good idea.”

Using a gentle tone communicates love despite denying your dog something they want.

Unfortunately, some dogs live in a household with zero rules, so the dog gets creative and makes these themselves.

And because they are now the rule maker, they demonstrate behavior like this:

There’s barking, resisting training, or just filling the home with hyperactive and reactive energy.

The best remedy to this is by stepping up and setting the rules for your dog. Be very clear with your rules and make a commitment to stick to it.

"No" isn't just a word; it's a powerful signal of leadership. You are the captain of the ship, the head honcho, and your dog needs to recognize that.

To be an effective leader, your top priority is to be firm but gentle.

When you say "No," it's not about anger or frustration — it's about clarity and consistency.

Your dog needs to understand that your "No" means business. It's a way of communicating boundaries, and it should be delivered with confidence, firmness, assurance, and love.

Think of it this way: you're the CEO of your dog's world.

Every aspect of their life, from mealtime to playtime, is under your control.

Demonstrating that you're in charge of everything helps your dog switch off from the constant decision-making.

When your dog sees you as the ultimate authority figure, they can relax and trust you to make the right choices. It's like a weight off their shoulders, allowing them to be at ease and simply enjoy being a cherished member of your pack.

I’ve had the privilege of working in a doggy daycare where I was in charge of 30 humongous dogs!

But what’s amazing about these dogs is their absolutely chill nature. They’re so relaxed, so calm, so happy… you can tell they’ve finally switched off.

And I can confidently say it’s because the daycare set rules and boundaries which they FIRMLY encouraged the dogs to follow and respect.

The dogs that were once running all over the place, leaping onto caretakers, and barking nonstop at strangers and other dogs, finally lounged and slept most of the day without any hint of stress in their body!

Just like raising kids, we’ll be in big trouble if we let them do whatever they like. If permitted, kids will choose to stay up until 2 AM with ice cream and sweet cereals. A combination laden with sugar and processed chemicals! We can all agree it’s TERRIBLE for kids.

But dogs are just like that, too! When we let them do whatever they want, I’m sure they won’t always make the best choices.

Given the chance, they’ll be pulling you down the street, choosing to play with their food, frolicking all over the furniture and making your bed their bed, too!

Through setting boundaries and rules, taking control, and showing your dog that you’re a leader they can trust forever, you can make sure that every choice made for your dog is f0r their best.

The art of saying NO, really taking charge and owning leadership in your dog’s eyes can all be found in my bestselling program, the Dog Calming Code™️.

If you’ve been doing all you can, and you still struggle with setting rules and boundaries, my online program can help you!

If you’re ready to change your dog’s behavior from CRAZY to CALM, you can check out the Dog Calming Code.

Because truly, what better gift can we give to our dog than giving them a NO for their own good?

If you want to learn about the Dog Calming Code, click here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

The best way to know how to walk a dog is to understand this crucial principle:

In every walk, there’s a follower, and a leader.

And most of the time, the leader is NOT you.

“What do you mean, Dan? Are you saying that even if I hold the leash, I’m still not in control?”

That’s right!

Which explains why dogs tend to pull ahead of you on the leash, or become so uncontrollable during the walk — stopping to sniff wherever they want, lunging at other dogs — they think they’re the CEO of the walk, and you have to follow them.

But here’s the thing: it’s SO HARD to know when you start to lose control and when your dog begins to take over.

This shift in leadership can be very subtle, but really impactful. And the problem is so common, I see thousands of dog owners struggling with it everyday.

For this reason, I created Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5 which aims to help dog owners tell their dogs “Hey, I know we’re not at home anymore but I’m still the leader here.” And when dog owners take charge of every walk, they enjoy a calmer, happier outing with their dogs.

Read on to learn more.

• Walking your dog gives you an opportunity to show to your dog that you’re in charge… even outdoors!

1. A Recap of The First Four Golden Rules

I always remind dog owners who want to know how to walk dogs better that Golden Rule #5 works so much more when the first four rules have been put in place.

If you haven’t checked them out yet, here’s a quick recap.

Your dog has to know that you have the ABSOLUTE control over food. You can find more about Rule #1 here.

If your dog jumps on you after separation, is that an expression of love or a challenge to your leadership? Rule #2 is about establishing your role as the pack leader through delaying acknowledgement after separation.

Learn about Rule #2 here.

To become the reliable, trustworthy pack leader in your dog’s eyes, you and your dog MUST DO EVERYTHING in your terms.

Check out Rule #3 here.

Stop barking and aggression by showing your dog when it comes to danger, YOU’RE THE ONE IN CHARGE AND YOU’RE THE DECISION MAKER. Not them.

Learn about the power of Rule #4 here.

Just like with the first four rules, the fifth rule in the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules zeroes in on making sure YOU establish yourself as the leader by taking control of the walk.

While the first four rules help you become the pack leader inside the house, the fifth rule communicates to dogs that you’re still the pack leader even if you are outside the property.

It’s you who is in charge, so it’s you they should listen to, depend on to, and obey.

Think about this: Ultimately, we want a calm dog who follows our directions, and does not come with a high-strung, protective energy during the entirety of our time outdoors.

And for that to happen, our dogs should know that they are not in charge. They also don’t call the shots before and during the walk.

The Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5 consists of three pillars that can help you take control of your walk..

Your dog has different energy levels. The higher the energy level, the more your dog will exhibit behavior that includes high-strung energy, aggressive lunging and pulling, and ignoring commands.

Ideally, you would aim for an energy level of one or two (three max!) when going for a walk. And the way to retain this calm energy is to show that you’re in charge of when, where, and how you want your walk to happen.

A spike in your dog’s energy usually happens when dogs feel like you have given control away to them.

This includes submissively giving in to your dog's request to be walked and letting them decide when to go, rewarding your dog's hyperactive enery, and encouraging them to dictate where to go on the walk.

BUT When your dog sees that you are the ultimate decision maker, your dog will remain calm all throughout, and will be receptive to your instructions.

You must understand that your dog has to see you’re firm in things that are acceptable or not.

This means clearly communicating IT’S YOUR WALK to your pet, through postponing the walk until they calm down, or stopping the walk mid-way if they start showing rowdy or uncontrollable behavior.

Your dog needs to know that if they want walkies, they have to follow the rules that you have set. Otherwise, the walk may not happen!

When it comes to which route to take, your dog has to know it’s going to be your call.

When to walk? Absolutely on you.

The pace? The directions? The frequency? All of these are your call, and your dog should clearly know this.

And when your dog knows they have NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT on the walk — that you decide what’s dangerous, not them — they can chill out and follow you.

Even before you take the first step of a walk, the question of “Who leads?” has already been answered.

What you do BEFORE THE ACTUAL WALK is a great predictor of how your walks will go.

From experience, most dog owners get confused by this!

“I’m not the one with a leash on, my dog is. What do you mean I’m not in control?’

Let me answer that with three questions:

• Who dictates where to go?

If you answered “My dog” to one or all of these questions, you’re not the one in control of the walk.

Some people may say:

• My dog is just unsocialized!

But here’s the bottomline: when your dog thinks they’re in charge, the walk comes with an overly high energy, an uncontrollable, leash pulling dog, and often, non-stop barking.

So what actually causes you to lose control of the walk BEFORE IT EVEN STARTS?

Barking, nudging, and even getting your attention by scratching the door are some of your dog’s ways of telling you “Hey, it’s time for my walk.”

It communicates “I want to go for a walk and I want it now. I am making the call here and if you say yes, I will be in control, not you.”

If you respond to their demands with “Sure, buddy” it’s telling your dog “Sure, it’s your call! You can do whatever you want with your walk.”

Dogs get energy spikes when they feel like you are rewarding their frenzied behavior. Remember, rewards make dogs think they should carry on with what they are doing.

Here’s an example…

Let’s say your dog peeked through the window and saw their best buddy across the road…

They start running to you with a noticeable increase in energy.

You stand up to get the leash. Dog gets more energy spike because you rewarded their behavior.

It’s taking you a while to get the leash, and by this time, your dog starts to think “they responded when I showed excitement. Let me do it again!”

And so your already-excited dog turns the energy up a notch.

Guess what happens if you also hurried to the door? You’re going to walk out the house with a dog who’s overexcited, thinks they’re in control, and who thinks listening to your commands is not all that necessary!

This is very important: unless you have not established following Rules #1 to #4, it will be a LOT more challenging to show you’re in charge.

In your dog’s mind, they will be thinking “I’m pretty much in charge with my food, and my demands for attention are always granted. SO WHY SHOULD I LISTEN TO MY OWNER DURING MY WALK?”

However, once your dog starts to see that you’re in charge around the house, it will be easier for your dogs to follow your cues and respect your leadership during your walks.

If your dog is agitated because they’re pushing you to hurry out, don’t respond. Don’t reward. Don’t move forward.

Your dog should know they don’t make the decisions for your walk. They can bark, nudge, run up and down, and even scratch on the door, but you’re not going to yield ever.

What you can do is wait for five to ten minutes or until your dog calms down before you go or resume the walk.

Dogs are really simple!

If your dog feels rewarded even after a hyperactive jumping spree, they will continue doing it.

However, if you want a more chill dog, you have to reward calm behavior (AKA: letting dogs know that unless they’re more relaxed and calmer, no walk will happen!)

If you want your dog to be calm and not aggressive while you’re outdoors, you have to be absolutely clear that those behavioral issues are unacceptable.

Your dog will eventually see which behavior to master if they want time outdoors.

Let’s say your dog showed calmer energy when you started your walk then suddenly starts acting restless?

What I recommend is to address this change of energy in a calm way. I’ve seen dog owners become stressed and shouty. This will aggravate the dog even more.

Stopping the walk is one of the best ways to let a dog know “We’re not going forward unless you calm down.”

If your dog eventually relaxes, you can continue the walk.

There’s a trick I follow that does not make sense in the eyes of people, but is powerful when viewed in the lens of dog psychology.

It’s this: taking a few steps forward, then doing a complete 180 and heading home.

“What? Why would I do that, Doggy Dan?”

It will let your dog know that YES — you are the ultimate decision maker. And any decision you make is final and will be followed.

Before you step out the door, be clear with that it’s you who leads the walk.

You can be clear about this by making sure that from the beginning, you don’t let your dog make ANY DECISION. Every aspect of your walk will be decided by you.

The structured walk is where you establish your authority with your dog.

In this walk, you are more particular with where your walks are going, and whether or not your dog is following your commands.

On the other hand, the social walk is about allowing your dog to have fun and interact. During the social part, dogs can freely do what they like, enjoying their freedom.

It's crucial for you to decide when to switch between structured and social phases. You have the control over this transition. For instance, you might have your dog on a structured walk for a short period.

After that, you can give them the command to be free. They might still be on a long leash, but you grant them the freedom to explore and engage with their surroundings. Then, you can bring them back to a structured walk by using commands like "walk" or "heel."

It's essential to avoid mixing up the two styles, where the walk seems social but lacks the structured moments.

To achieve the balance, there must be segments in the walk, preferably at the beginning and the end, where you assert your authority and the dog recognizes your leadership.

Now it’s very important that your dog walks next to you because it’s hard to lead from behind.

There are plenty of ways to get your dog to walk right by your side. One you can try is using treats or rewards to reinforce correct behavior.

Here's another neat trick: imagine your dog is on your left side.

Instead of going right, just go left and spin around. First, go left in front of your dog, then do it again, and even turn your dog a bit. This makes your dog slow down. If your dog's on your right, do the same thing but turn right. Don't make it easy for your dog all the time. Spin around in front of them. Show them that you are in control of where you’re going.

I prefer an easy walk harness, also known as a front clip harness like the Doggy Dan No Pull Harness. It's the best option.

When selecting your walking device, consider the choice carefully. Some use prong collars or devices that dogs dislike on their face.

If your dog hates a muzzle strap-type device, it's better to avoid it. I've discovered a much more effective device that dogs adore, you can check out the product here.

You can give your thigh a friendly pat and say something like "walk” or “heel."

Just be sure your dog really gets what "heel" or "walk" means. You could practice this at home first.

This allows them to see you’re making the shots, and helps them follow walking cues from you easily.

If you view it through the lens of dog psychology, a walk is not just a walk!

A walk is actually a great opportunity for you to show your dog that you’re still in charge even outside the home.

If you walk your dog the right way, you can have a dog who walks calmly wherever you go, who doesn’t bark at random strangers and other dogs at the park, and one who follows your commands wherever you go.

Isn’t that every dog owner’s dream?

With the Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5, it can be your reality.

Now, really owning the walk requires that you do it right, every time. Which also means you do things correctly every step of the way.

I know there are plenty of questions around mastering Doggy Dan Golden Rule #5. I encourage you to learn its full details through the Dog Calming Code!

In my course, you’ll learn answers to questions like:

• How do I make sure I train my dog correctly for the walk while we’re still at home?

And many more.

If you want to know how to win the walk with your dog, please check out the Dog Calming Code now.

To happier, healthier walks!

~ Doggy Dan 😄