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Dogs do not bark just because. Anyone who wants to know how to stop dog barking should understand behind any excessive barking is a real, serious trigger… at least in our dog’s eyes.

Indeed, barking is a big behavioral issue! But it is often misunderstood. Most dog owners and even dog trainers treat barking at face value, as if there’s nothing more to it.

This is where most solutions get it wrong — they focus on stopping dog barking without addressing the root cause of the problem. Dog owners get frustrated because even if they do get some success, after a few days of silence, the barking resumes!

This is what I aim to change with Rule #4 of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules.

As a top dog trainer who has seen the most notorious of barkers switch off after just a few tries, I have proven that the best way to solve a barking issue is to be the leader WHO DEALS WITH DANGER.

A leader who can tell a dog “You can hand over the protecting to me. I deal with danger. I've got you covered. You can relax.”

What does this mean and how can you be this kind of leader? Read on to learn more about Doggy Dan’s Golden Rule #4.

• Dogs are naturally protective because for them, all that matters is their survival and the pack’s.

1. Recap: Rules #1, #2, #3 of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules

Important Note: Before you implement Doggy Dan Golden Rule #4 — Dealing with Danger — with your dog training, it’s imperative that you are already following Rules #1, #2, and #3.

Unless these rules are in place, you and your dog won’t be able to make Rule #4 work as effectively.

To recap, the first three rules focus on winning your dog’s mind by showing them you’re the pack leader, not them:

• Rule #1 talks about controlling the food and understanding why being in control of the food communicates that you are in charge. (You can check Rule #1 here.).

These rules are important prerequisites to make sure Rule #4 really does its magic on your dogs.

Dogs are naturally very protective of us. Why?

As established in the first three blogs for this series, nothing matters more to our dogs than their survival, and the pack’s.

(Watch the full video below for Rule #4)

This protectiveness comes from their wolf ancestry as wolves are stalwart in protecting the pack from potential threats. Therefore, anything they think poses any danger to the pack are dealt with VERY SERIOUSLY

• Strangers walking past the property? Dog will bark.

I often say this: unless trained, dogs are instinctive—they DO what’s natural for them. And what’s natural is to ensure the pack and the property are safe.

WE CAN’T BLAME A DOG FOR BARKING AT RANDOM THREATS ALL THE TIME: THEY NEED TO ALERT US TO DANGER TO KEEP US SAFE.

In every “woof, woof” your dog makes to a stranger across the street, or a distant sound is this message:

“Hey, this is my property and I am in charge. I will deal with you! You look dangerous, you have to stay away! I’m going to bark so you will be scared to come near.”

If you want to know how to stop dog barking, this is crucial info! Simply saying “STOP!” won’t do it for our dogs, no matter how much we try.

They’re protectors — they won’t get it why you’re asking them to stop when danger is really there!

They’re worried the strange shadow that passed the window will harm you or the property, so unless their fear of the danger is pacified, barking will persist.

Rule #4 enables dog owners to communicate this clearly to dogs:

“You are not the one in charge of danger, I am. You can relax. I’m going to handle every decision around danger. I deal with the threat. Thank you, you can calm down now.”

Of course, we can’t just say this out loud expecting our dog to immediately walk away from the threat.

Your dog has to feel, see, and hear that you are indeed a confident, capable leader they can trust to handle danger.

And when they feel your confidence—your calm, unbothered energy, with body language that’s relaxed—they will catch on.

But what do you need to do to become a capable Alpha in your dog’s eyes?

In situations where your dog barks non-stop, you can seize the chance to tell your dog: "I've got it handled, buddy. No need to worry or agitated. I got you covered."

You can convey this POWERFUL message through your words, voice, body language, and overall demeanor.

Communicating this message is purely done through dog psychology so your dog can absolutely get what you mean.

If your dog is in a middle of a barking episode, here are three things that can encourage your dog to switch off and be calm.

Your dog has to know that you hear “Danger! Danger! Danger! I’m protecting you so I’m barking” instead of just… well… barking.

You can’t be the protector in their eyes if you can’t even understand the urgency of their barking!

Now, there’s a thin line between letting your dogs know you get them, and indulging them.

I’m sure it’s tempting to go to your dog and give them a comforting pat or hug and say “Where’s the danger? You scared right? Good boy, I’m here.” But that only tells them they are still the ones making the decisions around danger.

All I would do is say “Thank you!” in a calm, gentle, relaxed voice just to let your dog know you hear them but you’re not worried.

From experience, I know that some dogs aren’t satisfied with just hearing “Thank you!”

They persist with the barking as if saying “You don’t get it! There’s danger outside! How can you be unbothered when you haven’t even checked yet!”

It’s very powerful when they see you get up, walk calmly over and check what they’re seeing, remaining unfazed, then turning your back on the “danger”, and walk off with a “Thank you!”

Your. Dog. Will. Get. It.

You’ve seen the “danger” and you’ve totally ignored it! You made the decision that you’re not worried about the threat your dog sees.

It’s an effective way to let your dogs know “I’ve seen the danger and I have a decision about it. The bird you are barking at does not bother me so it should not bother you. Go on and relax.”

In some cases, using the two solutions I mentioned above won’t immediately work for the first or second time.

Your dog may still continue to bark.

If barking persists, you can calmly take them to timeout for a few minutes until they relax.

This powerful rule has three pillars that dog owners ABSOLUTELY have to know:

Rule #4 lets your dog know “I am the leader here, so I will protect you. If there’s danger, I’ll handle it. You don’t have to worry.”

Dogs naturally look up to a strong and confident pack leader, someone they can trust to make decisions in potentially dangerous situations.

Being a leader who makes the decisions and remains unbothered by threats makes your dogs feel “Ahhh, someone capable is taking the protector hat from me. Finally, I can relax!” Dogs will start to switch off their vigilance (and non-stop barking!) and have faith in you as a leader.

It’s true — your dog barking aggressively at a bird’s shadow looks ridiculous! But your dog doesn’t know a bird is NOT a big threat.

However, you do! And the simple gesture of saying “Thank you!” and calmly acknowledging the source of the barking without a worried energy can help your dog understand there’s nothing to stress about.

Rule #4 helps you communicate “Relax, it’s not a threat” through your energy, tone of voice, overall demeanor, and body language!

To explain this fully, let me tell you a story about an Alpha, their pack of wolves, and an ice cream motorcycle.

For wolves, the ice cream motorcycle is totally alien! It’s not a creature of the woods. It’s strange, so therefore, dangerous.

When it comes to tricky situations like this one, the Alpha is steps in to do the checking while the other pack members wait.

Then, after a few minutes of checking, the Alpha walks away, totally ignoring the bike.

Do you think the other wolves will cry out “Uhm, excuse me? It’s still dangerous!”

NO!

The Alpha knows. And because they walked away calmly, ignoring the thing that all of the pack thought dangerous, the other wolves understand there’s nothing to worry about.

Oh but how different would it be if the Alpha started barking at the bike! Other wolves surely join in in no time!

In situations your dog perceives as dangerous, THEY WILL BE LOOKING TO YOU.

The way you react to things your dog considers as threats has the power to stop your dog from having a full-on barking spree!

Yes, even the most well-meaning gesture can encourage frequent barking responses from your dog.

Let me explain…

In an ideal world, we dog owners should be reacting to our dog’s barking episodes with a calm energy and an unbothered body language.

However, this is NOT ALWAYS the case.

In fact, I have worked with dog owners who correct dog barking through this scenario:

Let’s say a dog named Rover starts barking at someone walking past the front gate.

In the eyes of Rover, the stranger poses a threat of real danger!

But here’s the scenario that PLAYS OUT MOST IN REAL LIFE.

Rover: *Barking to say “Hey everybody, there’s a stranger close to the property. Is this danger real? What should I do?”*

Dog Owner: “Cut it out, Rover!” (in a shouty voice)

Rover: *Continues barking to say “But seriously, I’m barking because they look dangerous, and you’re shouting back so I’m barking louder—can’t you hear me?!”*

Dog Owner: “I said cut it out now!!” (more irritated)

Rover: *Barking louder than ever “There’s danger present and I’M BARKING THE LOUDEST BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT SEEING THIS FOR YOURSELF PLUS YOU SOUND AGITATED SO I’LL BARK EVEN MORE!”

Finally, the stranger is no longer in sight. Rover stops barking, and goes over to his owner who says “Good boy, Rover. Good boy.”

From the interaction above, we learn of FOUR BIGGEST MISTAKES that you can do when teaching your dog to stop barking.

They made no effort to confirm if there was danger or not, sending the signal to the dog that danger is their job to deal with. That puts stress on the dog to take charge and become overly protective.

Dogs are big energy readers and absorbers. You can influence them with your energy.

Even if you’re saying “Thank you!” but you’re doing it with an irritated tone, your dog will think the danger is bothering you.

If you give your dog a pat, a cuddle, a hug, or a treat after they barked non-stop, your dog will start thinking they did the right thing!

Your dog will think “If I sense danger, my owner wants me to bark my loudest because I have to do all the protecting.”

The more you give rewards to a dog that barks non-stop, the more they will think that there’s no problem with barking all the time!

Now, I’m going to include two more mistakes not found in the scenario above, which often stall the success of Rule #4.

I empathize with you — it’s heartbreaking to see a stressed dog. It’s so easy to give in to hugging them or patting them while on a barking episode.

You might go “Oh, Rover. Is that bird making you scared? Go away, bird! How about now? Are you still scared?”

Let me tell you this: it’s going to do more harm.

You have to be absolutely clear that it’s you who will have the final say whether or not something is worth the worry.

Some dog owners give up after the first “Thank you!” thinking it will still work on their dogs.

Truth is: it won’t.

You have to operate in a language dogs can process and understand. And the process of saying the first “Thank you,” checking out the source of the barking, showing calm and unbothered demeanor, and giving timeouts when necessary should be done in order for it to work.

Dogs — especially those who have taken on the responsibility of protecting you and your property — can’t relax.

They’re constantly running around, barking non-stop at everything and everyone, and often exhibit serious separation anxiety.

You can easily tell a relaxed dog from a wired one, and the difference is always so sad.

I remember the first time a dog licked my hands after using Rule #4 on him.

In that moment, I thought it was just a sweet coincidence.

However, so many dogs I’ve helped since then would do the same.

Dogs who FINALLY SWITCHED OFF would lick my hands as if saying “Thank you!”

It’s as if it’s their way of telling me:

“Wow, mate. You finally got the security covered. I’m gonna switch off now.”

This is why I always ask dog owners to learn Rule #4 of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules as it is the solution that solves both the root cause of the problem and the non-stop barking.

I’ve seen it transform my dogs and the dogs of the people I have worked with.

Dog owners who follow it have less stress on the park and during walks because unfamiliar stranger and dogs in the park no longer triggers their dogs!

I know you love your dog, and I know that aside from the barking, you also want them to be the happy, calm, relaxed, healthy dog you’ve always wanted them to be.

I have four words: follow Rule #4.

I hope by now you see that Golden Rule #4 of dog training is a gift our stressed, anxious, high-wired dogs WILL ABSOLUTELY THANK US FOR.

However, as a dog trainer who has helped thousands of dog owners navigate their dog’s barking problem with Rule #4, I know that it’s also EASY TO GET THIS WRONG.

But in your quest for a bark-free household and happier dog, I’ve made sure YOU WILL NEVER FEEL ALONE OR CONFUSED BY HOW TO IMPLEMENT THIS RULE.

In my online dog training program, the Dog Calming Code™️, you’ll discover the thorough, step-by-step instructions on Rule #4, and all the other Golden Rules.

• What do we do if we don’t know what our dog is barking at?

Let me assure you: this is not one of those temporary, quick-fix, no-more-barking-solutions.

Rule #4 talks to your dog’s very core, assuring them “Hey, you’re not in charge. And the one in charge has you covered 100%. No need to bark, or bite, or chase anymore. Take a break, buddy. You deserve it.”

And really, isn’t that what YOUR dog absolutely deserve?

If you agree, click here to learn more about the Dog Calming Code.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

The question of how to improve dog obedience boils down to one thing: in the eyes of your dog, who is in charge?

When no leadership is in place, dogs usually take on the role of the leader... and this paves the way for bad behavior issues to arise.

I always tell dog owners that if they want to see a significant improvement in dog obedience, they HAVE TO BE THE LEADERS.

And Rule Number Three of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules — DOING EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN TERMS — helps dog owners become just that: the leaders dogs respect and trust.

But what exactly does “DOING EVERYTHING ON YOUR OWN TERMS” mean? What does it entail? And why is it such a CRUCIAL rule?

Read on to learn more.

• The dog who feels they can invade and control your space will be very protective of you because they feel that they’re in charge. This is where behavior issues come in.

1. How to Improve Dog Obedience: Recap of Doggy Dan Golden Rule Number 1 and Rule Number 2

The common factor between these two rules are taking control and being the leader in your relationship with your dog.

You see, most behavior issues come from dog owners not putting these rules in place. And through the lens of dog psychology, without these rules, your dog has no other choice but to be the leader instead.

So here’s why Rule Number One and Rule Number Two are essential pillars in dog training.

The goal of Rule Number One is to help dog owners understand that for dogs, FOOD IS NOT JUST FOOD. The power of food is HUGE and dog owners can really use their dog’s daily meals to teach BIG lessons.

Dogs regard FOOD as a treasure. It’s their lifeline. When they have it, life could not be better. FOOD IS EVERYTHING!

And when you take control of the food, it sends a powerful message to your dog about who is really in charge.

Rule Number Two is inspired by how wolves operate in the wild.

Every after separation, wolves would go to their leader NOT TO SHOW AFFECTION but to actually see if the Alpha is still capable of providing food and protecting the pack.

Our dogs are domesticated, but they still operate like this!

Some dog owners would say “My dog is just so affectionate. They just want to reconnect with me.”

In the eyes of your dog, it’s a different story. They’re also checking on you, eager to see if you truly are a capable leader.

Delaying acknowledgment or attention is like an Alpha’s way of assuring the other pack members “Don’t challenge me. I am still the leader.”

In the first two rules, we really stress the idea that your pup should see you as their food provider and as the confident leader who can handle anything that comes their way.

For Rule #3, the golden rule is EVERYTHING ON YOUR TERMS

What does it mean?

In every interaction, only two things can happen: you do everything on your terms OR your dog gets the upper hand and does things on their terms.

Being in control and being in charge DOES NOT STOP with food and affection. Decisions like where to go, what to do, where to potty, when to give hugs and pats, and when to train, are your call.

It’s like this: your dog should know when it comes to decision making, YOUR word is the green light.

Why? Why does it matter that YOU give the go signal for everything?

Because dogs ARE ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR THE ONE WHO IS IN CONTROL. They are also VERY PARTICULAR WITH HIERARCHY.

Dogs actually play mind games with us. A dog’s cuddles and bid for attention, DO NOT ALWAYS MEAN AFFECTION.

It’s always their way to check if YOU ARE A WORTHY LEADER.

You can counter these games by showing to your dog “No, in this house, I call the shots. Everything’s on my own terms.”

However, in my years as a top dog trainer, I have seen a lot of dog owners fall into the trap of letting their dog INVADE THEIR SPACE.

DOGS KNOW SPACE and they know getting into your space means they’re challenging your leadership.

Here’s a quick example...

Let’s say your dog is being affectionate to you. They come up to you and start licking your arms for attention or a pat, or they jump up to share your seat.

Now, giving them a pat or a cuddle SEEMS HARMLESS, RIGHT?

But this is where most dog owners get it wrong: the moment you give in to ANY request, you are letting them invade your space without your consent. Your dog will think they’re in charge.

After all, THEY requested, and YOU answered. It’s telling your dog that they — not you — are the actual leader.

Here’s a quick disclaimer: I AM NOT SUGGESTING YOU COMPLETELY IGNORE REQUESTS FROM YOUR DOG.

In truth, I encourage you to listen to your dog’s needs.

Our dogs require love, food, and plenty of playtime from us! And as dog owners, that’s our responsibility.

However, the general rule here is EVERYTHING MUST BE ON YOUR OWN TERMS.

You can give your dog a treat, or a hug or a pat WITHOUT indulging to your dog’s every request.

You are NOT going to deny food, but YOU control when to give the food, what to give, and how to discipline a dog’s approach to mealtimes.

Of course, you can play with your dog! But making the decision what to play, when to play it, where to play it is yours alone to make.

When you do this, there will come a MAJOR shift to how your dog views you and themselves.

The dog — the rowdy, restless, anxious, aggressive, and even resistant one — who previously saw themselves as the Alpha will start to look up to you, THEIR BELOVED LEADER!

I received a phone call one day from a woman who called me about a concern she had with her aggressive German Shepherd.

Her dog had barking issues and was very aggressive to anyone getting near the property! The family was seriously considering putting him down.

She was a smart dog owner who was already following Rule #1 and Rule #2.

But she was still having major issues and her dog had started to bite strangers.

“What would you do, Dan? My big dog is still aggressive to everyone!”

I then asked if the dog was constantly asking for pats and cuddles.

“Hang on! Yes my big dog loves asking for pats and cuddles! All the time!”

I immediately knew what was wrong. He was always being rewarded whenever he invaded her space and demanded attention!

Remember: a dog who feels can freely invade and control your space is far more likely to over protect you and react to anything that comes near you.

This explains her dog’s aggression, and why the dog bites! He felt like he was in charge and was being very protective of his owner!

I told her to put Rule #3 in place. EVERYTHING should be on her terms.

A day or two after the call she cancelled her appointment, so I rang her up to check on what happened.

“It worked, Dan! His aggression stopped after I followed your suggestions. Not giving in to his requests has changed him!”

I can still hear the excitement and disbelief in her voice!

What made the difference? Through Rule #3, she was able to let him know “Hey, I can handle myself. Thank you, but I don’t need protecting.”

Can you imagine? The dog who was previously chasing and biting people, and barking excessively around the property, FINALLY calmed down!

These are three of the biggest reasons why Rule #3 resonates with our dogs.

For dogs, hierarchy makes them feel that everything in life is right and in order.

Dogs thrive in packs... after all, they share 99.998% of their genes with wolves! And because they belong in packs, having a leader is a must.

Our dogs are relentless when it comes to keeping the leader in check.

The leader must be capable of protecting and providing. It’s a risk if they’re not!

This leadership check-up continues even with our domesticated dogs.

One of the BEST WAYS to tell your dog “I’m fine, I can lead” — inspired by dog psychology — is to call the shots and do everything on your terms.

When your dogs can depend on you and your decisions, they will trust you as their leader.

The moment they get into your home, dogs naturally seek out who’s in charge. You can see this in the way they challenge everybody.

You might think “Did I get a bad dog?” The answer is NO.

It’s simply this: the dog has assumed the responsibility of being charge, and feel the need to control everything that’s happening around YOU.

If they don’t see you in control of their food, you are not the leader.

If they can easily invade your space, you are not the leader.

If you give in to requests, you are not the leader.

So what choice do our dogs have? BECOME THE LEADER INSTEAD.

AND BECAUSE LEADERSHIP MEANS PROTECTING YOU, your dog is always uneasy, and even anxious. They may resort to barking and leash pulling, and can show more signs of separation anxiety.

Leadership is ESSENTIAL for dogs to thrive, and if the dog can’t get it from you, they will assume it.

And because dogs don’t see us as equals, they can easily feel that they’re ABOVE us.

Obedience problems come up, they don’t respond to your call, and no matter what you do they remain aggressive.

You can nip the problem in the bud with the Five Golden Rules of leadership in place.

AND I KNOW IT’S HARD!

I empathize with that: you love your dogs, you want to shower them with all the love!

But your dog DOESN’T SEE YOU AS THEIR EQUAL. It’s either you’re the alpha, or simply a pack member who needs all the guarding and protection.

Dogs are not inherently bad; they don’t disobey just because. Leadership is simply not there.

Any loving dog owner can find Rule Number Three challenging! After all, we just really want to give in to what our dogs ask from us.

So if following Rule #3 becomes challenging, here are some facts to remember.

Let’s bring all the first three rules together and discuss how they play out through the lens of dog psychology.

If you control the food, your dog will be able to switch off from being constantly on guard and protecting the family. They can relax, knowing someone else in charge. This is when you start seeing them nap a lot more during the day :)

If you delay acknowledgment after separation, your dog will see you’re still a most capable leader even after being away from them. It shows your dog YOU CAN PROTECT AND PROVIDE.

Once you start doing everything on your own terms — from feeding, to training, to leisure, to exercise — your dog will understand they really don’t have to make the decisions. There’s you! You know what to do!

All these rules make a calmer dog! They’re protected! No matter what happens, they’re in good hands!

And a calmer dog performs better in training and in real life!

An endless supply of the best treats in the world means nothing if your dog doesn’t see any reason to obey you.

Why should they listen to you when they’re busy finding food, protecting the property, and staying on the lookout for threats?

This is why I don’t agree with shock collar training or overusing treat training. They would never work UNLESS you know what pushes dogs to listen and obey.

Just like in the story of the woman and her German Shepherd, you won’t only see a change in dog obedience, but in your dog’s overall behavior.

Dogs can overcome food aggression because now they know someone else is in charge of food. It’s no longer a life-or-death issue for them of protecting the food.

Separation anxiety also improves because your dog will no longer see you as a pup they need to protect. You’re now the Alpha! Not a pup in danger.

Recall training can also come with lesser resistance because you embrace your role of the leader in such a solid way that makes dogs say “Yes, I will listen and obey!”

I always say this: the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules is a surefire way to making your dog TRUST AND LOVE you.

You’re showing you are an Alpha — the one that protects and feeds the pack — and the leader of the dog pack that can’t be swayed or toppled by brute force.

And after you check the boxes off your dog’s “Is This Human Still Capable of Taking Care of Me” checklist, their respect for you will grow because you’re their lifeline.

You control the food. You are the giver of affection. You do everything on your own terms.

Your dogs can happily say “Well, someone’s here to protect me now. I better chill and listen to their instructions.”

It’s just so beautiful how dog psychology works!

Improving dog obedience — when done right — will not call for force or fear. Once operated within the rules of dog psychology, improving dog obedience will be less harsh but FAR MORE EFFECTIVE.

By following Rule #3 (together with Rule #1 and Rule #2) you will find a more effective way that will surely leave a mark on your dogs.

Now, if you’re new to the concept of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules, you might have questions about Rule #3 such as:

• Is it OK for my dog to sit on the couch with me?

...and so much more.

My program, the Dog Calming Code talks extensively about Rule Number Three and the Five Golden Rules of Dog Training. If you’re a dog owner looking into improving both dog obedience and dog behavior, this is your comprehensive and complete guide.

You can learn more about the Doggy Dan Dog Calming Code here.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

Rule Number Two of the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules always surprises dog owners who are new to the concept. If viewed through the lens of human psychology, Rule Number Two can make any dog owner go “But oh, isn’t that going to hurt my dog’s feelings?”

After all, Rule Number Two is about delaying acknowledgement after a moment of separation from your dog.

As a trainer who has seen the Five Golden Rules successfully adopted by over 88,000 dog owners, I’m here to tell you that in the eyes of your dog, observing Rule Number Two is ESSENTIAL in gaining their respect and love.

And no, it will not hurt their feelings 🙂 The reason they’re demanding attention everytime you reconnect has nothing to do with showing love.

In this blog, I’m going to share what’s behind Rule Number Two and why it’s a crucial foundation for your dog training and dog care journey.

• In the eyes of your dog, observing Rule Number Two is important in gaining their respect and love.

1. Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules and Rule Number 1 Recap

First of all, let’s talk about the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules before we jump to Rule Number 2.

As a recap, the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules serve as the foundation for both managing dog behavior and nurturing a strong, affectionate bond between you and your dog.

I made these POWERFUL rules as the backbone of my highly effective Dog Calming Code™ training program.

What makes the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules different from other training methods?

Unlike the regular training route where the solution is usually to go for a quick fix for certain issues, the Five Golden Rules use dog psychology to uncover the root causes of the most common dog behavior problems.

These Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules tap into your dog's natural instincts by helping you THINK LIKE YOUR DOG!

Remember: You can’t use human psychology, or child psychology, or a general approach to animal psychology. Dogs have a very unique way of seeing things; and this is where the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules come into play.

The Five Golden Rules is different from ANY dog training strategy because it doesn’t just address behavior problems — it actually flips who is in charge in the relationship with your dog.

By showing leadership to your dog—in a way they understand—your dog immediately begins looking to you for direction and starts to follow your lead.

Once your dog starts listening and respecting you, you will start to see the effect of this shift! You will be surprised that this approach challenges traditional dog training by eliminating the need for constant food incentives, shouting or shock collars, or an overwhelming array of tricks. BUT IT’S STILL SO MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE.

The Dog Calming Code and the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules promotes genuine understanding and connection — a strong foundation for a successful dog training journey!

As discussed in the previous blog, the Doggy Dan Golden Rule Number One is all about controlling the food.

It’s important to note that the first rule does not simply talk about “feeding your dog” or “giving treats” but actually “controlling the food.”

The first rule uses the power of food to create the right dynamic in the relationship between you and your dog.

You might wonder “Can food really do that?” The answer is YES!

Why?

Because food is NUMBER ONE for our dogs. It is their reason for survival, and their number one motivation!

FOOD IS EVERYTHING FOR DOGS! And the one who controls the food and the one that eats first leads the pack.

Rule Number One helps establish that by making your dog see you as their number one source of food. You’re the one controlling the food, meaning your dog’s ONLY access to food is YOU.

When your dog sees that you’re their number one source of food — not the crumbs and leftovers on the ground, or the scraps of food they’ve hidden underground — they will begin to see you as their life source. Their leader! The one they should respect.

And that totally shifts your dog from being the one in charge to one who needs to listen, obey, and depend on you — their leader!

Controlling the food is also knowing that the two meals you feed your dog per day is YOUR MOST POWERFUL TOOL in your dog training journey. You can teach lessons about food aggression, separation anxiety, and even barking just by showing through food that you are in charge.

You can learn more about Rule Number One here.

Before I proceed with going into the details of Rule Number 2, I’d like to add an important disclaimer: Rule Number Two does not mean you’re going to TOTALLY deny your dog affection.

You CAN still give as many kisses, cuddles, and hugs to your dogs. But just like in Rule Number One, affection and acknowledgement should be given ON YOUR TERMS, not theirs.

Let me explain…

Unless you have established a SOLID leadership base, your dog will NATURALLY think they’re in charge of you, the family, and the entire property. Taking on the role of the leader is second nature to dogs!

Now, your goal as a dog owner is to let your dog know that YOU ARE IN CHARGE. Not them.

And just like with controlling the food, the attention you give should be on your own terms.

You see, your dog will play so many games to get your attention after being separated from you. One of the MAJOR FACTORS is because they NEED to CHALLENGE you and your control.

This is a golden dog psychology nugget here: when dogs meet, they don’t see each other as equals. For dogs, leadership SHOULD ALWAYS BE SORTED OUT.

AND THEY SURELY DO THAT TO YOU!

When you reunite with your dog, what happens when you give in and respond to their barking, jumping, or whining?

THEY’LL THINK THAT THEY ARE IN CHARGE.

I know… giving a pat or a cuddle to your excited dog is a seemingly harmless gesture! You think you’re simply showing your dog love, right?

But even affection and attention not given in a proper manner can SEVERELY get in the way of your dog training AND dog care progress!

Of course, you set the rule when it’s time to give your dog affection (after they relax, stop barking or running around) but it’s important to remember that even giving affection should be on your own terms.

Now let’s go to the nitty gritty of Rule Number Two, which is delaying affection, attention, or acknowledgement after separation from your dog. It’s basically ignoring your dog for a short while once you reconnect.

Separation can either be short (a trip to the bathroom) or extended (long vacations). Some dog owners ask me “Can I consider a 10-minute grocery store run separation from my dog?”

In the eyes of your dog, yes, it is.

Our dogs have 99.998% the DNA of a wolf, and this fact explains why Rule Number 2 makes sense.

Here’s why…

Wolves have a very systematic way of hunting for their food. When it is time to hunt for larger game like elk, deer, moose, or caribou, the pack usually separates — some wolves stay to watch over the pups, while the stronger wolves hunt.

What happens after every hunt is really interesting: wolves do a kind of roll call to check on those who went for the hunt. Hunting for large prey often takes its toll on even the strongest wolves, so the roll call is a way for the pack to assess if these wolves — Alpha included — are still fit to lead the pack. Or if new leadership needs to be put in place.

This checkup happens AFTER EVERY HUNT. Of course, wolves don’t want an injured Alpha to lead them — that would endanger the survival of the entire pack!

So every time they reunite with the pack leader, they must determine if the Alpha remains capable of leading and protecting them.

Now, how does the leader of the pack show that they can still lead? By not letting other wolves challenge them with jumping up or trying to dominate them. The leader stands their ground — they can’t be fazed by any show of forceful challenge!

Even though our dogs have now become domesticated, they are still trying to test our leadership AFTER EVERY SEPARATION. It’s hard-wired into their genes.

When you reunite with your dog, they will TRY SO HARD to get your attention. In their minds, they are thinking “Hey there! Let’s see who is really in charge in this household because I think it’s me!”

But that’s not the message you want your dog to get. The very heart of The Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules is letting your dog know that “No, you’re not in charge. I AM.”

Here’s another reason why keeping silent and ignoring your dog is worth those few precious minutes: you can teach BIG lessons in silence.

Just like the Alpha who has returned from a hunt, you have to show your dog YOU are capable of leading your pack. How? By protecting your space.

How do you protect your space?

Once you reunite with your dog, they will be all over you! They could be jumping up, barking, trying to get you to play with them, climbing onto you, or even nipping you!

It’s important that DOGS SEE that you cannot be challenged.

In those few moments where you show your dog silence, you are shifting the leadership hat from them to you. Additionally, your silence shows your dog that no matter how much they bark, or jump, or whine in front of you, they ultimately have to wait for YOUR CALL.

(I made a full video about this topic. You can watch the video below.)

Here comes the golden question: does Rule Number Two work?

Does ignoring your dog come with benefits? Or will it give more reasons for your dog to sulk and become distant from you?

Let me answer your question through a story.

I remember being approached by dog owners who had a really restless dog. You get the picture: dog jumps non-stop, barks at every passerby, and runs around in loops!

These dog owners had enough of their dog’s antics that they want to solve the problem once and for all.

Before visiting them, I already knew what the problem was: the dog thinks they are the leader of the house.

To test my hypothesis, the very first thing I did the moment I entered their home was to ignore the dog! I completely held back on acknowledging him.

The dog’s owners could not believe their eyes! “He’s never done that before,” they said. For a moment, they thought it was because it was a different day, or the dog’s more relaxed because he was well-fed.

There was a moment when a stranger passed by and the dog did nothing! No barking or running!

His owners were even more surprised! “It could be the treats!” one of them said.

I politely told them that it was actually because of the fact that I ignored the dog. By simply not giving the acknowledgement he so demands, I switched the leadership from him to me.

All because I was silent and withheld attention for a few minutes!

This is how powerful Rule Number Two is!

I know it sounds ironic! I have had dog owners ask me “How can silence make my dog respect me? I am worried that it will just make him sad!”

And I totally get what you feel. I’ve seen thousands of dog owners who love their dogs so much hesitate to follow Rule Number Two!

But here’s a very important fact: dogs don’t think like us. They look at everything from the perspective of dog psychology.

Sure, your dog may sulk for a few minutes, but Rule Number Two will ABSOLUTELY make a shift in your relationship.

Why?

Because dogs CRAVE leadership. They look for structure and authority. They will assume it if not given, but imagine if YOU are the one that gives your dog the leadership they’re looking for!

It will definitely give your dog that feeling of “Phew, now I can relax because I am safe and secure.”

Your dog will absolutely respect and love you for taking on the role of the leader!

The thing about Rule Number Two is it’s a completely accessible and FREE dog training tool. It’s also one of the most powerful strategies to establish leadership WITHOUT raising your voice or stressing out too much.

Using SILENCE and DELAYED ACKNOWLEDGEMENT the RIGHT way is a must because your dog will try so hard to make you bend. And if YOU or the people in your family don’t get it right, you can fall into the same bad behaviors, and that can stall your training process.

This is why the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules is an integral part of my program, Dog Calming Code. Within my program, you can learn more about Rule Number Two and get answers to questions including:

• I know I should remain silent, but for how long?

Giving our dogs silence even for a few minutes is TOUGH so it’s crucial that you use the Dog Calming Code for guidance around the WHYs and the HOWs of Rule Number 2.

Because silence and a little tough love can tremendously change your relationship with your dog… for the better.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

Food training for dogs is Rule #1 of my Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules, because of this simple truth: when dogs have food, they feel like they’re the richest animal in the world.

It’s not their toys, not their new clothes, or their cozy bed that makes them feel great.

It’s food. For dogs, it’s all about the food.

In fact it’s not just about the food, it’s about CONTROLLING the food.

Because FOOD is the most important thing for your dog, it is also THE MOST POWERFUL TRAINING TOOL. It’s dog psychology 101…

Food has a DIRECT INFLUENCE on your dog’s behavior and we have to get this bit right before our dogs will start listening and obeying us.

As dog owners we may think that as long as we’re buying the food and doing all the feeding, and even using treats for positive reinforcement training, then we’re all good….we must be the ones in control, right?

Wrong. I can virtually guarantee you that right now, your dog thinks THEY control the food in your home…

If you are letting your dog eat from the bowl whenever they want, letting them chew on bones whenever they want, and if they eat before you do… then THEY are actually in control. And whoever’s in control, is in charge. Which is a bad thing, as I explain below.

HOWEVER when done right, food training (or controlling the food) can completely transform your dog and improve their behavior almost overnight. Golden Rule Number One shows you how to convince your dog that YOU CONTROL the food.

• Food has a direct influence on your dog’s behavior and we have to get this bit right before our dog’s will start listening and obeying us.

1. But First, What Are the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules?

The Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules are the cornerstone of my training approach. They serve as the bedrock for not only controlling dog behavior—but more importantly—building that solid, loving relationship between you and your dog. The Five Golden Rules are the principles behind my most successful training program, the Dog Calming Code™.

(Watch the full video below for my introduction to the Doggy Dan Golden Rule #1)

What makes this dog training approach so successful is that it’s not just based on symptom-solving techniques.

Yes, it will solve almost every dog behavioral issue, like excessive barking, aggression, jumping up, running away, pulling on the leash and many more, but the way it works compared to traditional dog training is VERY DIFFERENT…

It identifies the root cause of the behavioral problems—instead of just administering bandaid solutions. It taps into your dog's NATURAL INSTINCTS and helps you THINK LIKE A DOG to discover and solve what’s really going on.

The 5 Golden Rules is a revolutionary way of training dogs that defies the traditional methods so many dog owners have tried and failed with. Because it’s based on dog psychology, the method I teach doesn’t require constant food-bribery, or learning hundreds of games or tricks.

There’s also no shouting or smacking, and NO SHOCK COLLARS or other torture devices. And the beauty of it is, it won’t take up any more of your time—it just shows you how to do some of things you already do with your dog in a different way, which generates massive results.

Yet strangely, it’s a method that very few dog trainers even know.

With the Doggy Dan Five Golden Rules, YOU WIN YOUR DOG’S MIND FIRST, before any “training”, by establishing the PROPER leadership in your dog’s eyes.

You see, when a dog can’t recognize a leader in their home—through dog psychology (not human psychology)—they’re forced to take on that leadership role to ensure their own survival. This is a built-in DNA driven response.

Now I’m not talking about the kind of leader who buys the food, or whoever can shout the loudest. No, what a dog is seeking are signs that there’s an Alpha present. When you put the Five Golden Rules in place, your dog will start to acknowledge you as the Alpha, as their trusted LEADER, and they can start to relax.

They’ll step down from over-protecting the family and property, and being on guard 24/7. They will start sleeping and chilling more (and irritating you less) because someone else is now making all the decisions.

And one of the MOST powerful ways to establish this leadership is by controlling the food.

I have proven it through the years, with over 88,000 dogs trained, that unless you control the food and use all Five of my Golden Rules, your dog training will most likely fail.

Important note: in the following weeks, I will be talking about the Five Golden Rules one by one and how each rule impacts dog training. So stay tuned for that!

Notice that I used “controlling the food” instead of “how to feed your dog.”

But what exactly do I mean by “controlling the food?”

As I mentioned before, the common perception is that as long as you buy the food and feed your dog, you’re already controlling the food.

But that’s not the case. You see…

• Even if you’re the food provider but the food can easily be accessed by your dog at any time — think bowls of food left on the floor or buried bones and scraps left in corners — YOU’RE NOT in charge.

Your dog should understand that you are the only one with ULTIMATE CONTROL over the food. They should know that behavior towards food is NEVER on their terms.

Controlling the food is remembering that the way you deliver those two meals a day and all the other food treats, has SIGNIFICANT power to influence your dog.

Why?

You can teach the most powerful lessons and establish leadership during mealtimes.

Dogs WILL LISTEN when food is involved. Not so much during playtime or rest time. It is during meal times when they clearly see who’s in charge and who they should listen to.

Following Rule Number One is realizing that food is the most influential tool in your dog training arsenal.

I’ve told this story before, but I think it’s important to re-tell it, as it demonstrates just how powerful Rule Number One is and how it can impact even the toughest dog issues.

Kelly, a woman living an hour away, contacted me in distress over her Bichon Frise, Terri.

Terri had been suffering from relentless itching, self-chewing, and self-licking for over two years. Despite trying numerous medications, her vet suspected stress as the root cause.

Upon arriving at Kelly's home, I found Terri exhibiting anxious behavior, continuously chewing and licking herself, with her legs showing signs of wear from years of this self-destructive behavior.

My solution was straightforward yet effective: I addressed the underlying cause by showing Terri that she was not in charge and teaching her to relax instead of stressing and licking incessantly.

Understanding that dogs follow a pack mentality, Terri had taken on the role of being the leader of the pack, feeling responsible for her human family and vigilantly guarding the den (the house and property). This responsibility left her wound-up and anxious.

To help solve the problem, I introduced the family to the Five Golden Rules of becoming the Pack Leader, which focused on principles of ownership rather than simply commanding Terri not to lick or chew herself.

Rule Number One involved implementing a powerful feeding procedure, which totally captured Terri's attention and changed her behavior.

After just two weeks of following these rules, Kelly sent me a heartwarming email, reporting that Terri's self-chewing and licking had ceased.

While I was pleased to have been of help, I wasn't surprised by the success; these Five Golden Rules have consistently resolved countless issues for many dogs over the years.

In the next few weeks, you’ll hear me refer to dog psychology more frequently. We need to speak a language that really tells our dogs “Hey, I’m the one in charge here. You should listen to me.”

Read on below to learn about the major role that food plays in dog psychology.

Bigger car, bigger house, new wardrobe — these things don’t matter to your dog.

Dogs are all about survival, and food is the main thing that keeps them alive. So when you control the food, AND you keep your dog alive, that is a really big deal.

When you take control of the food, your dog will start to see they're not the one in charge around the house. The’ll settle down and start listening to YOU.

In dog psychology, food is ALMIGHTY. It’s the great motivator, so dogs understand the concept of Do’s and Don’ts better when the trainer uses food. It’s called positive reinforcement training where they only get their share of delicious treats when they do good.

Using food training for dogs to establish the right and wrongs makes your training so much easier. With Rule Number One you also learn that once you’ve established the boundaries of what’s okay and what’s not, the trust you’ve built by connecting through their psychology allows you to slowly move away from relying on treats.

I have heard dog owners say “Well, my dog is absolutely not food motivated.”

Believe me, having worked with thousands of dogs, I can say that dogs find motivation in food. Note that I’m not talking about ‘treat training’, I’m talking about food in general.

HOWEVER, our dogs are smart, and they want to play little mind games with their owners (also: dogs THINK they are in control – so why should they do what you want for a measly scrap of food?).

Remember: the devil IS IN THE DETAILS. What seems harmless can really stall your progress.

For example, let’s say your dog does not eat the food that you serve. What you do next will make or break your training.

My recommendation is to take the food away immediately to establish that you’re in control. If we leave the food down and wait for them, it turns on the “I’m in charge” button. It shifts control from you to them.

And don’t worry, they won’t starve. But they’ll certainly be paying attention the next time you serve their meal!

There’s no such thing as “Ahh, that’s just an old bone!” when it comes to controlling the food.

Dogs collect, hide and bury food to keep their control of the food. If they know where even ONE bone is hidden, they will still think they have the control. The same goes for rawhide, chew-sticks, pigs ears, hooves or any other kind of food.

To your dog, food is FOOD!

And for wolves in the wild, food dictates who is in charge.

For example, in a wolf pack, the Alpha always eats first.

If you follow the rule that your dog can only eat after you, it’s powerfully telling your dog “I eat first because I’m the Alpha. I’m the one in charge.”

How exactly do you do that? Good question… There’s so many nuances to the feeding process that shows you’re in charge (which would take too many articles for me to write) so I’ve recorded them as video lessons in my bestselling course, the Dog Calming Code.

It shows how I enter people’s homes and teach them Rule #1 and you’ll witness the almost instantaneous change in their dog’s behavior—just by altering how they feed their dog—going from over-excited and misbehaving to relaxed and watchful.

Sure, food is important, but it’s easy not to think of it as THE most important in a dog’s life.

Thinking “food is just food” causes dog owners to struggle with controlling negative dog behavior.

Food is a life-or-death thing for our dogs. This fact emphasizes how much focus you should put on your dog’s food.

Some dog owners believe that a single type of food is all a dog needs to keep them highly motivated.

In reality, dogs have varying preferences and tastes. While one dog may be highly motivated by a particular treat, another dog may find it uninteresting.

It's important to experiment with different types of food, including soft, chewy, crunchy, raw and cooked to determine what resonates best with each individual dog during training.

You’ll be amazed at how laser-focused your dog can be when you’re holding a bag of small pieces of cheese and cooked chicken and bacon!

The truth is indulging dogs with food whenever or wherever they want can have serious repercussions.

Remember that the very core of Rule Number One is to establish who is in charge. If you give in to every request for food, it sends a message to your dog that they’re the one calling the shots.

Imagine giving in to your child's every single whine for sweets and chocolates, it would be absolute chaos and they would run riot all over you and the household.

And that can absolutely hurt training!

Now you know how CRUCIAL it is to control the food. And I’m sure you want to get this right, but it’s also so easy to get it wrong!

I encourage you to learn the first rule inside my course, the Dog Calming Code, because it answers questions such as:

• Is it okay to leave the bowl down if my dog has eaten all the food?

I’ll repeat this: the devil is in the details, and one seemingly harmless choice can actually stall or even reverse your training. It’s crucial that you use the Dog Calming Code as your guide to making the right decisions around controlling the food.

And I know following Golden Rule Number One CAN FEEL like more work! But it actually isn’t – you just do the same things slightly differently… and listen: after working with more than 88,000 dogs, I know that Rule #1 of Doggy Dan’s Five Golden Rules works.

YOU. HAVE. TO. CONTROL. THE. FOOD.

We must allow our overly-stressed dogs to relax. I’ve seen the Golden Rules transform so many ruckus dogs into calm, well-behaved ones.

Yes! Even dogs with severe separation anxiety recover quickly with the help of food.

And this is what I want you to know: the right feeding protocols for dogs can really help propel your training in the right direction.

Now I know you have more questions about controlling the food and my Five Golden Rules, so I encourage you to check out my online program, the Dog Calming Code™️.

The program goes into the nitty gritty of how to properly use food in food training for dogs, so your dogs can experience a life filled with relaxation and overflowing with happiness!

You got this!

~ Doggy Dan 😄

Using dog psychology requires a deep understanding that our dogs do not think like us.

We love our dogs, and we want to communicate with them and know what they are thinking. But here’s an important truth: dogs do NOT think like humans!

One of the most common dog training and dog care mistakes is that we communicate and relate to our dogs using human psychology. Typically, we view them as young children. This is where everything goes wrong because using human psychology on our dogs can only lead to misunderstandings.

By understanding dog psychology, you can help identify the reasons for certain dog behavior such as non-stop barking, running away episodes, and unexplained aggression.

With dog psychology, you’ll find solutions to their behavioral issues better because you finally get your dog.

So how can you master dog psychology in communicating with and raising your dog?

Read on to learn more!

• Dogs don’t think like humans. And if you use human psychology to understand a dog, it can lead to misunderstandings.

1. Using Dog Psychology to Understand Odd Dog Behavior: The Story of Zippy

My experience with Zippy is what stands out the most whenever I have to emphasize to dog owners how dog psychology benefits both them and their pets.

(Watch the video below for Zippy’s story)

Zippy’s a lovely dog! You could say that she’s an “almost-perfect” dog.

She’s very obedient, she comes when called, she’s relaxed, and she’s the best at potty training.

But one day, Zippy began showing odd behavior: SHE WAS CONSTANTLY RUNNING AWAY FROM HOME!

Despite putting up a fence, covering holes where Zippy typically goes through — Zippy would still find a way to run off.

The story became more interesting when the owners said she would go to another house where a male dog lives.

It only made sense when Zippy’s lady-owner said “The same thing happened when I was pregnant last time.”

I asked “Are you also pregnant now?”

The lady said yes.

I immediately knew why Zippy was running away.

Zippy has always felt that she was the alpha of her “pack” and for her, bearing puppies should be HER role.

To her, it was a travesty of justice that some other woman in the pack would be birthing a pup.

So in true alpha female fashion, Zippy runs away to another home to build her own pack with another dog.

At first, it was a surprising realization for owners. But I explained to them: you have to use dog psychology to really know how dogs think!

Dog owner, it’s important to understand the nature of your dog before you start training them. This effort includes knowing the psychology of dogs, honoring their natural state, and respecting how THEY see the world. You should acknowledge how your dog sees the world BEFORE you impose your human interpretation.

Only by doing so can you make a real relationship with your dog built on trust and understanding.

Here is some basic info to remember when it comes to learning how dogs think.

Dog behavior such as barking, or aggression, or even restlessness can be attributed to a dog’s instinctual reactions, NOT just because they’re acting up. Same with other animals, dogs have natural instincts that are there to help them survive.

A dog’s instinctive behavior is passed down through genetics and is usually a result of what their breed is genetically-engineered to do. Even as domesticated breeds, dogs will naturally engage in various activities such as hunting, digging holes, shepherding, and barking, all of which serve a purpose and remain part of their inherent behavior.

Let’s take a look at some examples.

Dogs pee everywhere because that’s what they feel is natural; when they feel the need to pee, they will pee.

Our dogs are also very protective. When a dog feels that they are the “pack leader,” their instinct to protect heightens. Barking — one of the dog behaviors that can really get on the nerves of dog owners — is one of the signs that a dog is fierce in protecting the household.

In Zippy’s story, she wasn’t running away just because she wants to give her owners a hard time — she was doing what was natural for an alpha female.

Can you imagine how frustrating it would be for you and your dog if you interpreted everything through the lens of human psychology?

Dog instinct is part of a dog’s innate behavior — it’s built into them. Some breeds — despite being domesticated — have it in them to exhibit unique behavior.

For example, beagles tend to run around a lot because they were previously used for hunting rabbits. Greyhounds are hunters, so they can still show signs of this through their high-speed running. Border Collies love shepherding because that’s what they are predisposed to do.

“Doggy Dan, I’ve been telling my dog over and over again to do this. But they just don’t get it!”

Here’s an important fact: dogs don’t speak English. They don’t speak the language of humans. HOWEVER, dogs can interpret what you are trying to say through assessing your body language, the tone in your voice, and association with rewards and punishments.

In my program the Dog Calming Code™️, dog owners will find ways how to command behavior or communicate something to their pets using a strategy that dogs will understand.

Why am I keen on making sure dogs and dog owners get each other? Because when you take misunderstandings out of a pet-owner relationship, both the training and relationship improves.

Through learning dog psychology, dog owners can feel less frustrated, and smarter in addressing dog behavior issues.

To our human eyes, some of these behaviors can appear as odd, weird, or not making sense.

However, the natural instincts that cause odd dog behavior serve a purpose: to protect, feed, and keep them alive.

Like what I mentioned above, dogs act on what’s natural and instinctual to them. Let’s take a look at six unique dog behaviors through the eyes of our dogs.

Ah, digging!

It's an age-old habit that's deeply ingrained in dogs.

Why do dogs dig holes?

In the wild, dogs used to dig to create safe and comfortable dens for themselves or to hide food from potential scavengers. Even though they might have cushy beds now, the urge to dig is just too hard to resist sometimes.

Barking is their way of communicating with the world.

Dogs may bark to alert humans of potential threats, to express excitement or anxiety, or simply because they heard something intriguing.

Sometimes, your dog just wants to get your attention and make sure you know they’re there and ready for some fun!

Food is precious to dogs, just like it is to most living beings. Dogs need food to survive, so food is like GOLD to them! All a dog needs to feel rich is to have a full tummy. It is EVERYTHING to them.

In the wild, resources can be scarce, so dogs learned to guard their food to ensure their survival. Even though their bowls are filled regularly now, that instinct to protect what's theirs still remains.

In one of the Golden Rules of my online program, the Dog Calming Code, I teach that dogs who hide their food also feel that they’re in control of the food. It’s one of their ways to assert leadership.

It might seem odd to you, but it stems from a dog’s ancestry. In the wild, dogs used to bury excess food to keep it safe for later. It's like a built-in pantry for the future. Even though they no longer need to store food this way, old habits die hard!

They will bury their bones, rawhide and pigs ears, then dig it up whenever they want — often to express their leadership in front of others in the family.

Similar to hiding food, dogs who control the toys are also displaying their household leadership. By displaying YOUR slipper or the dog's favorite toy in front of you, in THEIR possession, it shows you they have a firm grasp of who's in charge…and it's NOT you!

You might have noticed how dogs love carrying random objects around, like your shoes, socks, or toys. It's a throwback to their ancestors, who would carry prey or other items in their mouths. To dogs, it's like a game and a way to bond with you — after all, sharing experiences is what companionship is all about.

Licking is one of the versatile behaviors in dogs. It's how they groom themselves and show affection to both humans and other dogs. In the wild, licking also played a role in social bonding among pack members. So, next time your dog gives you a good lick, know that it's their way of saying "you're part of our pack!"

As you observe these behaviors, remember that they are rooted in evolutionary history.

While dogs have become beloved companions in your homes, the instincts of their wild ancestors still run through their veins. Embracing these unique behaviors with understanding and patience will make their bond with you even stronger.

Familiarizing with dog psychology and how dogs think requires conscious effort on our part. It’s going to be hard, but it will significantly change how you see your dog and how you train them.

Here are some ways you can get your dog better.

Dogs communicate mostly through body language. Pay close attention to their tail, ears, eyes, and overall posture to gauge their emotions and intentions. By understanding their non-verbal cues, you can respond appropriately and strengthen your connection.

Dogs are not created equal, and some breeds are unique than the rest!

Researching your dog's breed traits and history provides valuable insights into their natural instincts and behaviors. Each breed has unique characteristics, and understanding them will help you tailor your training approach to suit their needs.

Dogs can’t operate well when there’s fear.

When dogs can’t show their true nature to you, it will be more difficult to know how to train them better.

Training should be a positive experience for both you and your dog. Approach it with gentleness, patience, and kindness. Avoid using harsh methods, as they can cause fear and hinder the learning process. Positive reinforcement encourages better results.

Dogs are instinctively pack animals and look for a confident leader.

Establish yourself as the pack leader by setting clear boundaries and rules. A consistent and confident approach helps your dog feel secure and more willing to follow your guidance.

When they see you as a pack leader, they can connect with you better because they trust you. And when your relationship is that of trust and understanding, you’ll start to see why your dog behaves the way they do.

My program, the Dog Calming Code, can help you make this happen!

Be consistent with your commands and routine. It is in consistency that certain behaviors that tell something about your dog stand out.

When your dog displays unwanted behavior, consider using timeouts to redirect their attention. At the same time, reinforce good behavior with positive rewards like treats, praise, or affection. This encourages your dog to repeat positive actions and learn from their mistakes.

Remember that being a master of dog psychology is a gradual process that requires time and patience. Every dog learns at their own pace. Celebrate small successes and stay patient throughout the training journey. Being patient and understanding helps build trust and confidence in your dog.

An amazing shortcut to understanding dogs better is getting guidance from professional dog trainers!

In my online dog training program, the Dog Calming Code, I offer strategies that help dog owners connect to their pets better through communication strategies that dogs easily get!

One of the biggest frustrations in dog training comes from wanting to change our dog completely. But here’s a beautiful fact: you can actually use your dog’s natural behaviors to your training advantage.

In dog training, tapping into dog psychology, embracing their innate behaviors, and getting in tuned with how dogs think can unlock the key to effective and harmonious training methods. Instead of attempting to reshape a dog entirely, aligning training techniques with their natural instincts proves immensely beneficial.

Here are some ways how understanding dog psychology and their natural instincts can help in dog training.

By understanding and respecting their unique behaviors, we create a bridge of communication that fosters a deeper connection.

This approach empowers both the dog and the owner, paving the way for successful training experiences based on trust and mutual understanding.

With dog psychology, you'll learn how to teach your dog in a fascinating way. By understanding their instincts and behavior, you'll tailor your training methods effectively.

This helps you communicate with them better, creating a strong bond based on trust. Armed with this knowledge, you'll find the best approaches to guide your furry companion's learning and growth, forming a lifelong connection.

If your dog is not that enthusiastic with the games and exercises you have prepared for, don’t fret.

Your dog might not be a runner or a walker, and they might prefer another activity for physical and mental stimulation.

By knowing dog psychology and how dog’s instinct works, you can come up with better activities that both you and your dog can enjoy.

By comprehending their emotions and innate communication signals, you can adapt your training methods to resonate with their unique perspective. Replacing harsh discipline with positive reinforcement and patience fosters a bond built on love and trust.

This mutual understanding creates a safe environment where your dog feels secure, motivated, and eager to learn. With each training session, your connection deepens, resulting in a well-behaved and emotionally fulfilled companion that brings immeasurable joy to your life.

When you really know how your dog thinks, you save yourself from the frustration of feeling like no training ever works!

Yes — you even save yourself from using training strategies that are not compatible with your beloved pet.

When you apply dog psychology to dog training, it just clicks on you what’s best for your dog. You begin communicating in a way that your dog understands. Your relationship begins to shift from exhaustion, to one that actually brings joy.

I can’t stress this enough: understanding dog psychology is one of the biggest factors that make dog training successful.

A true, clear, and deep understand your dog is as important as any training technicalities.

When you get them, your dog will absolutely thank you.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

What affects dog behavior can be traced back to multiple factors — dog personality, dog-owner relationship, their past history, and even the environment where they live!

No dog is ever the same as another — and that’s the beauty of raising them. Each dog has a unique quirk that makes them so lovable.

However, in my years as a dog trainer, I have also had dog consultations specifically for certain dog behaviors that were driving owners crazy!

“I don’t want to compare, Doggy Dan, but ONLY my dog does this. And I don’t know what’s going on.”

Perhaps you’ve felt this, too: your dog showing a different behavior that you feel is unique and causing problems.

As dog parents, we just want to know what affects our dog’s behavior — and ways to correct it. But I always believe that before we jump into the solutions, we have to know what influences dog behavior first.

The roots. The main cause. Then we shoot for the remedies.

If you want to know why your dog acts a certain way, read on.

• As a dog owner, you have the biggest influence in a dog’s behavior, so it’s crucial to always keep your emotions and energy in check.

1. What Affects Dog Behavior: The Story of Frisbee, the Dog Terrified of Flies

Dog owners are a dog’s FIRST dog trainers. And I have seen wonderful dog owners who have trained their dogs wonderfully!

I have also seen other owners who have trained their dogs to react in ways they couldn’t imagine.

In this blog, I will be featuring the story of an ALMOST perfect dog…who had a very odd fear of flies.

(Watch the full video below for Frisbee’s story.)

Frisbee — the dog — baffled his owners for a dog behavior that was unique to him: he would leap, jump, become restless, and bark non-stop, just at the sight of a single fly.

“Doggy Dan, this is such a puzzling dog behavior,” his owner said, “I have never seen a dog as scared of flies as he is.”

During the course of our consultation, the owner finally said something that helped me understand what influenced Frisbee’s dog behavior.

“Is it possible that our sensitivity to flies made him act the way he does?” his owner asked while showing me the fly swats each family member had.

All of them had fly swats! The entire family had their very own fly swats, and would smash away at any fly in the vicinity.

It finally made sense!

Frisbee’s dog behavior was affected by his household’s strong dislike for flies.

The poor dog must have been feeling like a fly invasion is a life-and-death thing!

What’s my point to this?

I want each dog owner to understand the first factor that affects dog behavior: YOU.

Dog owners, your dog spends more time with you than with anyone else.

And it’s understandable considering that statistics say almost 70% of dog owners prefer to spend time with their dogs!

That amount of time spent with your dog can significantly affect dog behavior… for good or for bad.

How can dog owners affect, change, or influence dog behavior? Check out the list below.

Just like in the story of Frisbee, it was his owners who influenced his fear of flies.

You see, dogs are great imitators.

There was a news article once of a man who developed a limp due to a fall, whose dog suddenly started limping as well.

He took his dog to the vet and it turned out that the dog had zero leg issues — the dog was simply mimicking their owner.

Our action as dog owners are what affects dog behavior. Because our dogs love us, and are loyal to us, and look up to us, they think that whatever we do IS right.

And that could be a big problem if we don’t keep our behavior in check.

I say this over and over and over again: because you’re always with them, dogs take on your energy, and the energy of their surroundings.

And energy is one of the biggest drivers of dog behavior.

The emotions that we feel — anxiety, stress, sadness, nervousness, and fear — are apparent to our dogs. They see our emotions and dogs can feed off our energy. Because they take on our heavy emotions, dogs can display negative behavior, like non-stop barking because of anxiety or aggression because of fear.

Dogs need to see leadership in place.

In my online dog training program, the Dog Calming Code™️, I emphasize that dog owners should be in charge. Not their dog, but them.

Why? Because dogs are pack animals, and it comes natural to them to look for a leader in the home.

If you don’t show your dog that you’re the leader, that you’re in charge, your dog will be forced through their natural instincts to assume that role.

And when your dog feels like they are the leader, it affects dog behavior. This is where issues like increased dog anxiety, restlessness, aggression, separation anxiety, and non-stop barking manifest.

With the right dog training program and foundation, you will learn the best ways to correcting dog behavior.

Additionally, you will not feel lost! You will know what to do…

I encourage dog owners to understand this: a proven dog training program can influence how a dog sees you, how they behave inside and outside the home, and their behavior towards you and other dogs.

And a dog training program tailored to help you connect with your dogs can influence dog behavior tremendously.

However, as a dog owner, you have to understand that YOU are the one who really needs to push for dog training.

When you’re committed to train your dog, correcting dog behavior becomes more manageable.

In my previous blog, I talked about how dogs are big observers.

Even without saying a word, dogs can understand us by the way we talk, the way we react, the way we speak, and the way we change our routines.

Dogs assess us through a combination of body language, tone change, and overall energy. How we react to certain people or circumstances can be adapted by our dogs.

Our behavior can influence our dog’s behavior… all because our dogs are keenly observing us.

Apart from us, their owners, what else affects dog behavior?

I have listed seven of the biggest factors that influence how dogs behave, and these influences can range from internal to environmental.

Different dog breeds have been selectively bred for specific traits and purposes.

These breed-specific traits can greatly impact a dog's behavior.

For example, herding breeds may have a strong instinct to chase and control movements, while retrievers may have a natural inclination to fetch and carry objects.

Socialization changes dog behavior through play and exposure to other people and animals. Proper exposure during their critical socialization period (typically between 3 and 14 weeks of age) can increase a dog’s confidence and eliminate feelings of fear and anxiety.

A well-socialized dog also has an increased tendency to have better manners and behavior around both people and animals.

The training dogs receive during their early weeks has a significant impact on their behavior.

Picture this: a dog whose been trained to obey due to fear. Shouting is heavily involved in the process.

Can you tell me that the dog — when it’s time for behavior correction — won’t be terrified when his name is called?

When we compare them to a dog raised and trained using a holistic dog training program, we can see that dogs trained the better way are more confident, less anxious, obedient, and yes, even fun!

The environment in which a dog lives can greatly influence their behavior.

Factors such as the amount of physical exercise, mental stimulation, social interaction, and the presence of potential stressors (e.g., loud noises, crowded spaces) can all impact a dog's overall behavior and well-being.

A dog's physical and mental health, as well as their genetic makeup, can contribute to their behavior.

Certain medical conditions or genetic predispositions may influence a dog's temperament, energy levels, or susceptibility to behavioral issues.

Because of that fact, regular veterinary care is essential to address any underlying health concerns that may affect behavior.

Past experiences, such as traumatic events or positive encounters, can leave lasting impressions on a dog's behavior.

Dogs who have had negative experiences may exhibit fear, anxiety, or aggression in certain situations.

Understanding a dog's history can provide valuable insights into their behavior and help tailor appropriate training and behavior modification techniques.

Just like humans, dogs have their own unique personalities.

Some dogs may naturally be more outgoing and friendly, while others may be more reserved or independent.

Understanding and respecting a dog's individual temperament and preferences can help create an environment that supports their well-being and encourages positive behavior.

The first step to changing dog behavior is through letting your dog know what is good and what is not.

For example, dogs who follow a routine or a command get a reward, while dogs who misbehave get a timeout.

Ensure that you stick to these rules because eventually, dogs will catch on what they should and should not do. They are incredibly fast learners!

Dog behavior problems come from a deeper reason and not just from their want to misbehave.

Check on an anxious dog and see if their restlessness is caused by taking on the role of a leader. Check through the history of your aggressive dog for experiences or trauma that could cause aggression.

Dog behavioral training is not done in a cookie-cutter style. You have to truly understand your dog to incorporate a method that will create a difference.

Treats, hugs and kisses, attention, a pat, or even play time are powerful rewards for dogs. And when used in correcting dog behavior, dogs can learn fast what actions or habits to continue, and which one to drop.

I understand — training can get absolutely stressful!

Instead of spending more time trying to figure out what training benefits your dog’s behavior more, get the help of a professional dog trainer OR get an online dog training program to guide you.

Not only can you teach an old dog new tricks, but you can still improve dog behavior even when they’re old.

Whether you got your mature or senior dog through adoption, or had them since they were puppies, you can still correct dog behavior.

The best thing about improving the behavior of older dogs is that these dogs are less restless. They are more chill, and have more focus to listen to you.

Older, senior dogs are also more mellow and don’t run around with an abundant amount of energy. Training with them can be less stressful!

When I created the Dog Calming Code, I had this picture in mind: a dog owner FINALLY breathing out a sigh of relief.

“Finally, a dog training program to help me improve my dog’s behavior without the stress!”

Here’s what I want you to know about my online training program for dogs: the Dog Calming Code is an intuitive program that dogs can easily adapt to.

Dogs respond naturally to my training because they know the foundations I teach are what make dogs feel heard, seen, and understood.

The Dog Calming Code does not use fear to make dogs listen or respond to training or behavior correction.

Instead, it uses principles that dogs understand and connect to.

It transforms you, the dog owner, into not just a human being in the eyes of your dog, but a leader who’s in charge. A leader they can trust and make them feel “Don’t feel anxious. I’m in charge. I got you.”

And after seeing the effects of the Dog Calming Code to 88,000 dogs, I can say that when dogs feel more understood and less “in-charge,” successful training eventually follows.

To learn more about the Dog Calming Code, check out the link here.

Remember: you have the power to influence your dog’s behavior. With the right training, and the proper foundations, you can raise and train a dog to great behavior.

You got this!

~ Doggy Dan 😄

Can dogs understand humans even if they can’t speak our language?

As a dog trainer, I have met thousands of dog owners whose eyes yearn to be told that yes, dogs can understand humans.

Dogs don’t speak English, so it’s always a question of whether dogs can truly understand the hugs, or the “I love you!” expressions.

Here’s the good news: YES, they understand us! But dogs understand humans differently.

It’s amazing.

But this beautiful realization also comes with a big responsibility.

Read on to learn more.

• Dogs do not have an automatic understanding of the human language, but they use observation to decipher what we mean.

• Can Dogs Understand Humans: The Story of Buster

Buster's story holds a golden lesson because it vividly illustrates the incredible understanding and emotional connection dogs have with their humans.

(Watch the video below for Buster’s story.)

It also is a great story to answer the question “Can dogs understand humans?”

In this particular case, Buster's owner was enduring a tremendously difficult period in her marriage. She confided in me about the mistreatment she and her dog endured at the hands of her husband.

Throughout the prolonged ordeal, Buster was a silent witness, absorbing all the negative energy and emotions swirling around him.

But one day, when his owner finally decided that enough was enough and it was time to walk away, Buster seized the opportunity to convey a powerful message to her husband.

In a deliberate move, Buster headed toward the area where the husband was engrossed in watching something on the TV.

With a determined gaze, he positioned himself directly in front of the screen and, to everyone's surprise, left a sizable poo behind.

Now, I can only speculate, but it seems clear that Buster's gesture was his way of declaring, "We're finished here. This is my parting gift."

Throughout the difficult journey, he had been attentively observing everything, and this was his final act to communicate his unwavering support for his owner and his disapproval of the husband's actions.

Buster's memorable action serves as a powerful reminder of the depth of understanding and empathy that dogs possess.

They have an uncanny ability to perceive and respond to our emotions, even in the most challenging circumstances.

In this case, Buster's poignant message conveyed not only his loyalty but also his unwavering support for his owner, leaving an indelible mark on their shared journey.

Whenever I tell people about the story of Buster, I’m often asked:

“So, Doggy Dan, does it mean that dogs understand our language?”

Apart from the question of whether dogs can understand humans, I’m also frequently asked if dogs get the English language. Or just about any other language!

A quick answer is this: no. Understanding human language for dogs isn’t a natural talent, but instead a skill developed by constant observation.

Dogs are amazing with familiarizing with words, including intonations and tone. The understanding of dogs is shaped not only by what we say but also by how we say it.

In their quest to understand humans, dogs skillfully interpret both human spoken language and body language.

Just like in Buster’s case, the dog knew that the household was on high stress probably because of the shouting, the arguing, and the fear of his owner.

Dogs possess a remarkable ability to read beyond our literal words, instead placing greater emphasis on our tone and body language.

When trying to understand human words and body language, they attentively focus on us, keenly observing our physical cues.

They carefully analyze our facial expressions, posture, and body movements, while also listening intently to the tone of our voice.

By combining these various observations, dogs form a comprehensive understanding of our meaning and desires. And then they get us!

What does your dog feel when you nuzzle them close? When you hold them and give them kisses?

Dr. Brian Hare, a canine cognition expert, confirms that dogs mentally understand human affection.

In fact, dogs have the ability to boost our oxytocin levels — just like what happens when parents and babies interact with each other — and vice versa.

It’s a popular notion that dogs don’t like hugs because they feel uncomfortable with a human’s grip.

However, I believe that each dog is unique, and some dogs really love the cuddles and snuggles!

I would just like to emphasize that dogs respond to the energy that comes with a hug.

Additionally, if our hug feels safe, comforting, and respectful of their boundaries, our dogs can respond positively to a hug.

Kisses are powerful… especially in conveying love for our dogs. Here are three things that a kiss can communicate to dogs.

Dogs are highly social animals and form strong emotional bonds with their human companions.

When you kiss them, they may interpret it as an expression of love and affection.

They can feel the warmth and tenderness conveyed through the physical contact, which reinforces the bond between you and strengthens their feelings of security and attachment.

Kissing your dog can provide a sense of comfort and reassurance.

The physical contact, combined with your soothing voice and gentle touch, can help alleviate any anxiety or stress they may be experiencing.

It reassures them that they are loved and cared for, promoting a sense of well-being and contentment.

Dogs are highly responsive to positive reinforcement, and kisses can serve as a form of reward or praise.

When you kiss your dog, they may interpret it as a signal that they have done something right or have pleased you in some way.

This positive reinforcement can strengthen their confidence and encourage desired behaviors, fostering a harmonious relationship between you and your furry friend.

Buster’s story always lights a bulb to people who hear it.

“Doggy Dan, it simply means dogs can understand human emotions!”

Just like understanding human language, perceiving human emotion takes a lot of processing for dogs. But they can. Like what Buster demonstrated, dogs can understand human emotions.

How do they do it? Here are five ways that dogs process human emotions.

Dogs have an incredible ability to sense and mirror the emotions of their owners

When we are happy, they often respond with wagging tails, playful behavior, and an overall joyful demeanor.

Similarly, when we are sad or upset, they may show concern, offer comforting gestures, or simply stay close by our side.

Dogs are highly empathetic creatures.

They can pick up on subtle cues, such as changes in our tone of voice, body language, or facial expressions.

When we are feeling down or experiencing grief, dogs often provide comforting companionship by staying close, offering gentle nudges, or even resting their head on our lap.

Dogs are incredibly attuned to the energy and atmosphere around them.

They can sense when we are feeling anxious, fearful, or stressed. They can observe our conversations and the differences in how we react, or how the energy is.

And our energy sends a strong message to our dogs how we feel!

Dogs are keen observers of human behavior, so they can detect changes in our routines, habits, and emotional states.

When we are feeling fearful, dogs may become more alert and vigilant, displaying protective behaviors. Conversely, when we are happy and relaxed, they may mirror our moods and engage in playful antics.

Dogs can understand humans and emotions through simply observing us, so we don’t need to talk. Or directly say things to our dogs.

They notice how we react, how differently we behave, and even how we treat people. That’s how observant they are, so it’s no surprise they can get us fast.

Tears never go unnoticed. Most of the time, these observations are mirrored.

We can tell that they get us when they also mirror our behavior.

The beauty in this is they also have an innate ability to offer emotional support to their owners during challenging times. They can provide a nonjudgmental presence, lending a listening ear (or attentive ear, in this case) when we need it most.

Their unwavering loyalty and unconditional love can be a source of comfort and solace, helping us navigate through feelings of sadness, grief, or fear.

In my best-selling course, the Dog Calming Code™️, I emphasize over and over again that dogs see everything in pack-mentality.

Dogs do not have the solid concept of family, but they would either see us as a member of the pack to protect, or the leader to follow.

In the eyes of an untrained dog, we are part of the pack that they need to protect. When this is etched in our dog’s mind, our pets become frantic in ensuring we’re safe 100% of the time.

This frantic desire to protect is exhibited in restlessness, constant anxiety and stress, and — in most cases — a dog’s refusal to listen to you.

One of my training foundations in my years as a dog trainer is to first help dog owners establish themselves as the leaders that their dogs can trust, respect, and rely on.

By assuming the role of a strong leader, we instill a sense of security and structure within the pack dynamic. And then dogs can start understanding humans.

Dogs thrive in an environment where they have a clear understanding of their position within the hierarchy.

This clarity enables them to relax, focus, and be more receptive to our guidance.

When we establish ourselves as leaders, our dogs learn to trust our decisions and follow our instructions.

They start to relax and stop being on constant alert. Your dog starts to realize that’s your job, not theirs (this is where the naughty behaviors subside).

Our pets recognize that we have their best interests at heart, and this trust forms the foundation for effective communication and a harmonious relationship.

“Doggy Dan, if I want to be a leader in the eyes of my dog, can I still be affectionate to them?”

Yes, a pack leader can absolutely be affectionate towards their dogs.

In fact, expressing affection is an important aspect of building a strong bond and trust between a dog and their leader.

While being a pack leader involves establishing boundaries and providing guidance, it doesn't mean that affection should be withheld.

Affectionate gestures such as petting, gentle hugs, praising, and offering treats are valuable ways to show love and reinforce the emotional connection with your dog.

This is one of my 5 Golden Rules.

When they jump on you, expecting attention, this needs to be ignored, and it’s only when you call them over that you deliver the pats and cuddles.

It’s like a child always demanding attention. If you succumb, you have lost their trust because they know they can win you over.

However, if you establish that you call the trust, they will respect you.

Now, I know this might sound harsh to any loving parent and dog owner. But this rule is necessary in establishing leadership.

If your dog (or child) knows they can get you with whines and puppy eyes, they will start to thinking you’re a pushover. And it’s not good for training dogs or raising kids.

But if you don’t give in, they start to see who’s charge, and who the trusted leader really is.

Moreover, if you show that you’re not easily controlled, they’ll be looking up to you.

Affectionate interactions help create a positive and nurturing environment, promoting a sense of security, happiness, and well-being in your dog.

However, it's important to note that while affection is encouraged, it should always be provided in a way that respects the dog's individual preferences and boundaries.

Additionally, some dogs may enjoy more physical contact, while others may prefer less.

So it's crucial to observe your dog's body language and respond accordingly. This ensures that the affectionate gestures are comfortable and enjoyable for them.

By combining affection with effective leadership, you can create a harmonious balance that fosters a strong emotional bond, trust, and mutual respect between you and your dog.

As responsible dog owners, it is crucial to acknowledge that dogs possess a remarkable ability to understand and absorb emotions and energy.

With this awareness, we must remember that we truly impact our dogs’ emotional and mental well being.

Here are seven ways we can help our dogs mentally and emotionally.

Ensure your dog has a designated space where they can retreat and feel safe.

Provide a comfortable bed, their favorite toys, and a quiet area away from loud noises or excessive activity.

This safe haven allows them to relax and recharge, promoting emotional well-being.

Dogs absorb energy and emotions, so imagine what could happen if there’s constant high stress and toxic emotions in the home.

Being mindful of the stress and energy levels in the home is crucial for maintaining a healthy environment for your dog.

Embracing the power of nature walks can significantly benefit the emotional well-being of dogs and humans alike.

Through regular walks in natural settings, dogs can release pent-up emotional stress, enjoy sensory exploration, and engage in physical exercise.

These walks foster mental and physical health, while strengthening the bond between us and our beloved four-legged companions.

Socialization is crucial for a dog's emotional well-being, but it's essential to expose them to new experiences gradually and in a controlled manner.

Introduce them to new people, animals, and environments at a pace that allows them to feel comfortable and confident. This helps prevent overwhelming situations.

Moreover, it promotes positive social interactions.

Engage your dog's mind through interactive toys, puzzle games, and training exercises.

Mental stimulation for dogs helps alleviate boredom and promotes a sense of accomplishment, boosting their emotional health.

Incorporate new activities regularly to keep their minds sharp and engaged.

Handle your dog with care and respect.

Be aware of their body language and respond appropriately to their signals of discomfort or stress.

Gentle handling and positive experiences during grooming, vet visits, and other forms of physical contact help maintain their emotional well-being and prevent traumatic associations.

Moreover, once they feel you’re relaxed, they can relax, too.

Recognize that dogs absorb and understand human emotions, so you can also guard your emotions and energy.

Avoid exposing your dog to intense or negative emotions, as they can easily pick up on them.

Create a positive and harmonious atmosphere at home, and provide opportunities for relaxation, play, and bonding to enhance their emotional health.

By embracing dog ownership that radiates calm energy, positive reinforcement, and clear communication, the code helps dogs feel secure and reduces anxiety.

With the Dog Calming Code, you can foster trust and strengthen the bond between dog and you. Additionally, you can have enough tools to address behavioral issues effectively.

Moreover, this holistic program creates a nurturing environment, allowing dogs to thrive emotionally and lead balanced, fulfilling lives.

When we communicate with our dogs in a healthy and healing way, we open up channels of trust and compassion.

We become attuned to their needs, respond better to their emotions, and able to provide the love and comfort they seek.

This reciprocal exchange of understanding and affection strengthens the bond between us and creates a foundation for emotional healing.

Let us cherish this remarkable connection with our dogs and approach it with love, empathy, and respect. So when we talk to them, we are sure that they get us.

By connecting and communicating with them in a healthy, healing way, we can bring joy, comfort, and a sense of emotional well-being to both their lives and ours.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

If you’re looking for ways on how to bond with your dog, I’d recommend focusing on these three pillars: connection, being present, and trust.

Dogs have this beautiful reputation of being loyal, loving animals. And they truly are!

And creating that connection with dogs through dog communication and bonding with your dog allows you to feel and see how dogs relay their love and loyalty to you.

I always say this: to be able to connect with dogs is a privilege. And it’s a privilege I want every dog owner to have.

What are the best ways to understand and bond with your dog so you can feel that deep connection with them?

Read on to learn more.

• Dogs don’t use words, but they sure communicate with us on a daily basis. We just have to understand how our dogs communicate to get them better.

1. The Story of Chief: How He Connected With His Dog Owner To Bid His Last Goodbye

I once worked with a lovely dog owner and their dog, Chief.

(Watch the full video below for Chief’s story.)

He was a strong, active, loving dog, and had grown up alongside his devoted owner. Because they were so close, they have this really POWERFUL connection.

In Chief's final days, there was an unspoken communication between them that was deeply felt.

While on his way out for his usual walk to the fields, Chief halted and fixed his gaze upon his owner. In that moment, the owner sensed that Chief was bidding them farewell, expressing gratitude, love, and the inevitable need to move on.

That experience touched me and continues to tug on my heartstrings because it was a proof that dogs want to talk to us.

Because it serves as a poignant reminder of how easily we can overlook our dog’s subtle cues of really, really wanting to communicate with us.

What makes Chief’s connection with their owner so, so strong?

Just like in our human relationships, we also have to bond with our dogs to help us truly get what they mean with certain gestures.

Our dogs can’t use words; but they surely use body language to communicate love, anxiety, fear, satisfaction, and stress.

And we have to know them better to avoid confusing the thought that they want to communicate with you.

The key to understanding dogs is a mix of establishing with your dog that they can trust you, respect you, and communicate freely with you.

How? Read on.

In my online program The Dog Calming Code™, I emphasize the importance of being in charge. Of being the pack leader.

You take control of the walks, the food, the routine, and the entire training because they need to see you as a leader.

Why?

Because the dogs are programmed to feel like they’re in charge. And if they’ve take on the role of the protector, creating a strong bond can be difficult.

When your dog is more relaxed because they no longer have to worry about the home or the people and pets they have to protect, they’ll be more open to you.

Playtime is not just about having fun; it's also an excellent opportunity to strengthen your bond with your dog.

What better way to make strong connections with your dog than in a relaxed and fun environment!

Engage in interactive play sessions where you can actively participate with toys, games, and activities that your dog enjoys.

Whether it's a game of fetch, hide-and-seek, or puzzle toys that stimulate their mind, the key is to be present and fully engaged in the experience.

This shared enjoyment will help tell your dog “You can relax with me, you are safe with me, you can trust me.”

Taking your dog on regular walks, dog exercises, or outings in nature is not only beneficial for their physical health but also a wonderful way to bond.

One of the benefits of exploring the outdoors with your dog is having the opportunity to start recall training.

In my experience, my approach to recall training has allowed me to deepen my bond with my dogs.

Recall training in the outdoors has helped me

You can read my blog about doing recall training right here.

Whether you're exploring a local park, hiking a trail, or simply strolling around your neighborhood, make it a point to embrace the outdoors and allow your dog to explore and engage with their environment.

Training sessions are not only an effective way to teach your dog new skills and behaviors but also an opportunity to build trust and enhance your bond.

During these training moments, you can establish that you lead with love and gentleness… not fear.

Use positive reinforcement techniques such as treats, praise, and rewards to encourage and reinforce desired behaviors. Training sessions should be fun, interactive, and filled with positive energy.

Bonding with your dog doesn't always have to involve high-energy activities, even calm moments help, too.

Dogs also appreciate moments of relaxation and tranquility. You can have a dedicated time for quiet bonding, such as cuddling on the couch, enjoying a gentle grooming session, or simply sitting together in peaceful coexistence.

These serene moments will allow you to connect on a deeper level. Additionally, this will give a sense of calm and security for your beloved pet.

One of my favorite nuggets of dog training wisdom in the Dog Calming Code™️ is learning how to REALLY communicate with dogs.

Despite your best efforts in knowing how to bond with your dog, it will be hard to connect with a dog that is not focused on YOU.

Keeping a dog calm and focused on YOU is crucial to establish this essential aspect of your relationship! Especially if you want to stay sane while bonding with your dog!

When you and your dog are constantly challenging each other, your relationship will suffer, just like any human relationship. It loses its joy and becomes strained.

That's why establishing a healthy relationship with your dog is crucial as a dog owner. And the Dog Calming Code™️ will guide you in achieving that.

Once you have this foundation in place, everything else naturally falls into place, and connecting with your dog no longer feels like a battle.

Dogs are the masters of body language. They don’t speak words, but they surely speak their hearts through wagging, leaping, and growling.

If you want to understand how dogs truly communicate, be familiar with some of the most common dog body language.

Your dog's tail can be a powerful indicator of their emotional state because different tail positions convey different messages:

By looking at the position of your dog’s tail, you can kind of tell their feelings from the get go.

A wagging tail signifies happiness and excitement. The faster and broader the wag, the more joyful your dog is.

A tail tucked between your dog's legs indicates fear or anxiety. It's also a submissive gesture, suggesting they don't want to engage in conflict.

When your dog's tail stands tall and curved, it may signal fear and a sense of being threatened. Be cautious as they may resort to defensive behaviors like snapping or biting.

Your dog's mouth can provide additional insights into their emotions and state of mind:

An open mouth with a relaxed expression indicates a content and happy dog. Additionally, a relaxed mouth signals calmness.

If your dog clenches their jaw tightly, it suggests caution and suspicion towards something in their environment. Also, it might suggest aggression.

Outside of mealtimes, licking their nose and lips can indicate fear or anxiety. Also, it could indicate their feeling of stranger danger.

Dogs may yawn when they feel fearful or stressed, signaling their discomfort in a particular situation.

When your dog pants excessively, especially on a cool day, it could be a sign of stress or worry.

Like humans, dogs communicate a range of emotions through their eyes. Observe their eye expressions for valuable cues.

If your dog maintains a fixed gaze, especially with a lot of white visible around their pupils, they may be preparing to react aggressively to a perceived threat.

When your dog intentionally avoids eye contact, it signals an attempt to avoid confrontation or evade blame (like when they've caused mischief).

A calm and happy dog often has soft, relaxed eyes. Moreover, calm eyes indicate that they don’t feel threatened.

In addition to body language, dogs use vocalizations to express themselves. Pay attention to the pitch and context of their sounds:

High-pitched barks or whines, especially when around familiar people, accompany excitement and playfulness.

Growls or deep barks are often indicators of feeling threatened or defensive.

Multiple barks in rapid succession typically suggest focused attention on a specific stimulus, like a passing dog or the arrival of the mailman.

Your dog may whine to convey a need or desire. If they're near the door, it might indicate a need for a bathroom break, while proximity to their food bowl could mean hunger.

Howling is a unique vocalization that dogs use to communicate with other dogs or respond to external sounds like sirens.

Trust and loyalty — the kind that lasts — is developed with your dog day by day.

“But Doggy Dan, I feel like my dog and I didn’t really have a great start. Can I change it?”

As a dog owner, you will not be spared from making mistakes. But there are ways you can restore the relationship.

If you’re looking for ways how to bond with a dog and improve dog-owner relationship, here are some suggestions below.

Dogs thrive when they have a clear understanding of their boundaries and know who is in charge.

When they see you as a leader, their trust in you SOARS. They will begin to listen to you, respect you, and follow your expectations.

And if a dog sees you as the leader, your relationship can become smoother.

Establish yourself as a calm and consistent leader by setting rules and expectations for your dog's behavior. Although this can be challenging at first, it will significantly help your relationship.

Consistency and follow-through will help them feel secure and understand their place in the family hierarchy.

Creating a safe and nurturing environment is crucial for your dog's overall well-being.

If you’re not a big fan of restless dogs who can’t stop barking or running around, here’s my tip: provide a place where they feel safe.

Moreover, apart from establishing that you’re in charge, ensure they have a comfortable space to rest and feel protected.

Remove potential hazards, provide appropriate chew toys, and establish a routine that offers stability and predictability.

When your dog feels safe and not always on the edge because of anxiety, they can be more relaxed and at ease around you.

Positive reinforcement is a powerful tool for building a strong bond with your dog.

Focus on rewarding desired behaviors with treats, praise, and affection. Also, avoid punishment or harsh training methods that can erode trust and create fear.

Leading with gentleness and positive reinforcement will foster a positive and trusting relationship with your dog because your relationship won’t be based on fear.

Just like humans, dogs have their own unique personalities, preferences, and needs. But dogs communicate their needs differently.

Practice active listening by paying attention to their body language, vocalizations, and cues. Seek to understand their communication signals and respond appropriately.

By showing empathy and being attuned to their needs, you strengthen the bond and build trust.

Building trust takes time and patience because your dog has to know that you are the leader. They need to trust that you won’t burst into scary fits.

Respect your dog's individual pace and avoid rushing the bonding process because this can help you establish trust more.

Be patient during training, allowing them to learn at their own speed. Consistently provide love, care, and support to demonstrate your commitment and reliability.

Trust is the foundation of a strong relationship, and as it grows, so will the depth of your connection with your dog.

Although dog communication is important for responding to a dog’s essential needs — hunger, exhaustion, stress, illness — it’s also needed for understanding more of your dog’s feelings.

If you truly want to understand your dog beyond body language and words, here are some things you can practice.

Develop a sense of empathy towards your dog because it is in putting yourself in their paws and understanding their perspective that we truly get them.

By developing intuition and tuning into their emotions, you can respond appropriately and provide the support they need.

Touch is a powerful means of communication for dogs, so pay attention to how they respond to gentle strokes, scratches, or massages.

Notice their body's reactions, such as relaxation or tension, as it can indicate their comfort level and emotional response.

Practice being fully present with your dog, engaging in compassionate and non-judgmental awareness.

Moreover, by setting aside distractions and focusing solely on their presence, you create a safe space for them to express themselves authentically.

Reflect on your dog's behavior and consider the underlying emotions they may be experiencing.

Are they seeking comfort, reassurance, or companionship?

Respond to their unspoken needs with empathy and understanding.

Cultivate a state of mindful awareness when interacting with your dog. Let your dog know that you’re 100% aware of what they want to say.

Tune in to their unique quirks and patterns, allowing you to comprehend their emotions and intentions.

Observe how your dog reacts to different environments, people, and stimuli.

Take note of their responses to certain sounds, scents, or situations because these will give you the biggest clues.

Understanding their triggers will help you create a safe and nurturing environment that supports their emotional well-being.

Instead of focusing solely on training and obedience, prioritize building a genuine connection with your dog. Strive for mutual understanding and cooperation.

Embrace their individuality and unique communication style because this allows for a deeper level of understanding.

In the journey of building a strong and meaningful bond with your dog, the secret really lies in truly connecting with them.

Because it is through this connection that you can begin to understand and appreciate the depths of their emotions, desires, and unique personality.

When you make this genuine, lasting connection, you pave the way for a profound and fulfilling relationship with your canine companion. And you also send a message that you love your pet.

Additionally, attentively observing and empathetically interpreting these signals, helps you gain a deeper understanding of their needs, fears, and joys.

And this understanding is a gift both your dog and you deserve.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

There are hundreds of helpful tips on how to make progress in dog training. However, there is only one POWERFUL rule on how to make dog training successful: sending a clear message to your dog.

In this blog, we’re talking about the dog training benefits of delivering a clear expectation to your dog, and how sticking to it can massively impact dog training!

Read on to learn more.

• Consistency in routine, messaging, and activities can significantly predict whether your training will fail or will succeed.

1. The Story of Chief: How to Make Dog Training Successful With Rules and Boundaries

If there’s one thing I have learned from working with thousands of dog owners, it is this: furparents do things out of love.

And love is a great tool in dog training. However, on the flip-side, love can also be detrimental to a dog’s progress.

(I talk more about Chief’s story in the video below. )

Let me share with you the story of Chief.

Chief — a dog I had the lovely honor to have a consultation with — was showing challenging behavior to his dog owners.

He was stressed, he had behavioral issues, and no training seemed to work.

While talking with me, his owner suddenly added “But Jack sleeps with us on the bed. In fact he sleeps on my husband’s head!”

Now, if you’re familiar with my dog training principles, you would know that hearing her words was a lightbulb moment.

AHA!

I knew exactly what the root of the problem was.

Chief felt he was in charge. No matter how lovingly his dog owners care for him, he still felt in charge.

And even though the decision to let Chief sleep on the bed was done out of love, it truly affected how the training was working for the family.

“Leaders walk the talk… and they keep walking.” – Tejraj Singh Anand

I read that quote a few days ago, and I felt like it communicates clearly why inconsistencies make dog training fail.

Just like raising kids or leading a team, those that we need to guide will believe us if we send clear, consistent expectations.

Consistency is key when it comes to successful dog training because dogs thrive on routine and clear communication.

One common mistake that can hinder progress is sending mixed signals to your furry friend.

You’re training them to not scratch on the furniture, but you may not be using timeouts when they do.

You want your dogs to see you as a leader, but your actions could be telling your dog “I can boss this human around!”

Successful dog training stars with a clear, consistent message — one that you 100% stick to.

Make sure everyone involved in the training process — including family members and housemates — is on the same page.

Consistency in the commands, gestures, and expectations will prevent confusion and provide a solid foundation for your dog's learning.

A well-planned and consistent routine provides structure and clarity for both you and your dog. Additionally, a great routine paves the way to effective learning and progress.

Not having a consistent messaging and routine during dog training can lead to confusion, frustration, and hindered progress.

Dogs rely on clear communication and structure. Inconsistency can result in mixed signals, behavioral issues, and a lack of trust between you and your dog.

The first step in creating a routine is to define your training goals.

What specific behaviors or commands do you want your dog to learn? Are there any particular challenges or behavior issues you need to address?

By clearly identifying your objectives, you can tailor your routine to focus on the areas that require attention.

Embrace the mindset that mistakes are part of the journey.

Dogs are incredibly forgiving and resilient, and they respond well to consistent and patient training efforts.

By remaining committed to the right dog training path, even when mistakes occur, you demonstrate your dedication and desire to improve the relationship with your dog.

Adapt your training approach, reinforce the correct behaviors, and maintain a positive and encouraging attitude.

Remember that your dog looks to you for guidance and relies on your consistent messaging and support.

Show them empathy, understanding, and patience as you navigate the training process together.

Now that we have established that consistency IS KEY to dog training success, here are five ways that you can make consistency possible.

Consistency starts with clearly defining the rules and expectations for your dog.

If they did something positive, use positive reinforcements and really great treats.

But if a behavior issue arises, communicate to your dog immediately that what they did wrong, and use timeouts if necessary.

Be consistent in what behaviors are acceptable and what are not. Communicate these expectations to everyone involved in your dog's care.

The best partner to staying consistent in dog training is observing a routine and really sticking to it.

Set aside dedicated times for training sessions and follow your schedule regularly. Regularity helps your dog understand that training is a consistent part of their daily life.

Ensure that you use the same verbal cues and commands consistently.

Teach your dog specific words for each behavior and use them consistently across all training sessions.

Reward your dog consistently for displaying the desired behaviors.

This can be in the form of treats, pats and cuddles, or playtime.

Consistent positive reinforcement strengthens the association between the behavior and the reward.

Consistency requires a calm and patient demeanor.

Avoid getting frustrated or angry during training sessions. Dogs respond better to a positive and patient approach, which fosters a trusting and conducive learning environment.

“But Doggy Dan, I didn’t know what I was doing was hurting my dog’s progress in training. I had all the good intentions.”

Honestly, I absolutely never judge dog owners who are unconsciously doing things that are actually harmful to proper dog training.

However, I always remind them to catch these habits early on to make dog training successful.

Here are a few examples.

A successful dog trainer knows that they have to be a leader in the eyes of their dogs.

Your dog has to know that you call the shots, you lead the way, you set the routine. Dogs are quick learners — they’ll immediately catch on.

In fact, they catch on so fast that when you allow your dog to dictate the training process, it can significantly stall your training.

When your dog leads the way, it can result to confusion and inconsistency.

Take on the role of a leader by setting clear expectations, providing guidance, and being proactive in shaping your dog's behavior.

My program, the Dog Calming Code™, can help you take the steps in becoming the leader in your dog’s eyes.

All you need to do is change a few of the everyday things you are already doing with your dog.

By so doing, this which will change how they see you in terms of leadership and who is actually in charge!

The leadership training will show you:

• the best approach to controlling your dog’s food

Let’s be honest — our dogs are adorable! Their puppy eyes can easily win us!

But let me tell you this: don’t let the puppy eyes win!

Yielding to your dog's demands or allowing them to get away with undesirable behaviors undermines the training process.

A habit of simply giving treats freely or giving them cuddles even after a rowdy episode can affect dog training negatively.

Establish and enforce consistent boundaries, rewarding only the desired behaviors and redirecting or ignoring unwanted ones.

I always tell this to new and veteran dog trainers: patience is a powerful partner.

Our dogs can catch even the slightest sign of impatience which could make them lose confidence in us.

Also, our impatience can result to relationship issues that can make dog training more difficult.

Impatience can hinder progress and frustrate both you and your dog.

Instead, practice patience and understand that training takes time. Break down tasks into manageable steps and celebrate small victories along the way.

Each dog is unique and learns at their own pace. Comparing your dog's progress to others can create unrealistic expectations and discourage you.

Instead, focus on your dog's individual progress and celebrate their achievements based on their own abilities.

Consistent reinforcement is crucial for effective training. Dogs understand good and bad behavior better with rewards.

Forgetting to reward or withholding rewards can demotivate your dog. Even while progressing, they can ask “Am I really doing things right?”

Never underestimate positive reinforcement using treats, praise and affection.

Positive reinforcement will be more effective when you reward good behavior promptly with treats, praise, or play to reinforce your dog’s learning.

Establishing leadership between you and your dog is paramount for successful training. Dogs are pack animals, and they instinctively look for a leader to follow.

Without clear leadership, training can become challenging and less effective.

Leadership is not about being harsh or dominating; it's about earning your dog's respect through fair and confident interactions.

Show calm assertiveness, provide clear direction, and reward positive behavior to reinforce your role as the leader.

And always, always, make sure you doing the foundational work of implementing the rules of the Dog Calming Code™.

This is what your dog will see and respond to almost instantly and hand over the leadership reigns to you.

You must control the food, and show them you control what is danger and what is not. It is your role to show them that you only do things on your terms, not on theirs, and you show them you control the walk.

Consistency is crucial for successful training. Instead of training sporadically, try to work on your dog's established behaviors randomly and regularly throughout the day.

Once you are confident that your dog understands a command, avoid repeating it excessively.

If your dog ignores you, it could be due to incorrect training, distractions, or a rebellious attitude.

In such cases, take your dog to a quiet place and attempt the command again. If there's still no response, go back to basics and retrain the behavior.

Also tap into the power of timeouts.

Giving dog timeouts can effectively communicate what you truly expect from your dog. In my previous blog, I wrote about timeouts and how to really make it work. Don’t forget to check it out.

It's important to find the right balance in training session duration. Sessions should typically last around 20 minutes to maintain your dog's focus.

If your dog appears bored, consider shortening the session and concluding it on a positive note.

Starting in a safe and enclosed area is recommended, but as your training progresses, it's beneficial to expose your dog to various environments, such as different locations, people, and animals.

This helps your dog become more responsive in diverse and busy situations.

Treats are helpful for teaching new behaviors. However, once your dog understands the behavior, start substituting treats with praise, play, or other forms of positive reinforcement that your dog enjoys.

Training with force, anger, or irritation can intimidate your dog and create a negative training environment.

On the other hand, training with excessive energy, high-pitched excitement, and forced elation can also hinder learning.

Aim for a calm, kind, and confident approach to achieve the best results.

Just like human children, dogs have unique personalities and quirks that affect their learning styles.

Take into account your dog's personality, age, size, breed, energy level, and history when designing your training strategy.

Adapt your approach to meet your dog's specific needs, whether it requires building confidence in a shy dog or providing structure for an energetic, boisterous dog.

An effective and successful dog training strategy almost always includes a dog trainer or take an online program about dog training!

Let’s talk about the factors that tell you “It’s time to get professional help!”

If you've been consistently working on training your dog but haven't seen any significant progress or are feeling frustrated, it may be time to seek the help of a professional dog trainer.

They can provide guidance, expertise, and fresh perspectives to overcome training challenges.

If your dog displays persistent behavior problems such as aggression, excessive barking, separation anxiety, or destructive behaviors, a dog trainer can help address these issues.

They can assess the root causes, develop behavior modification plans, and provide effective strategies to manage and modify problematic behaviors.

If your dog consistently ignores commands, has difficulty following instructions, or only responds sporadically, guidance from a dog trainer (or from their online program) can assist in improving their obedience.

They can teach you effective communication techniques and implement training methods that encourage consistent responses from your dog.

If your dog exhibits fear or aggression towards other dogs, animals, or people, proper socialization becomes crucial.

A dog trainer or online training program can guide you in desensitizing and counterconditioning your dog. It can help them become more comfortable and confident in various social situations.

If you are wondering how to make dog training successful, a guidance from a professional dog trainer can help.

A dog trainer (or an online training program from one) can provide targeted instruction and guidance.

They can help you and your dog reach your goals effectively and efficiently.

If you're a first-time dog owner, a dog trainer’s help can be immensely beneficial. With their help, you will begin to understand basic obedience, house training, and even your dog's behavior.

They can equip you with the knowledge and skills needed to establish a strong foundation for a well-behaved and happy canine companion.

If your personal circumstances — such as a demanding schedule, physical limitations, or health concerns — prevent you from dedicating sufficient time and effort to training, a dog trainer can step in to support you.

A professional perspective (and experience!) can make dog training successful by providing guidance, and assistance to ensure your dog receives the necessary training and care.

Thanks to technology, you no longer have to travel long distance just to get expert help.

As a dog trainer, I made it a goal to reach even those far from me so they can achieve the behavioral goals they want for their dogs.

My two popular video courses — the Dog Calming Code and the Puppy Coach — has helped tens of thousands of dog owners. Without them or me needing to travel OR pay crazy fees!

If you want to learn the foundations of dog training plus so much more from a top dog trainer in your own home — and in your own pace — don’t forget to check out my courses.

If there is no dog trainer near you, or traveling to one isn’t an ideal option, you can consider online dog training programs.

When you go for an online dog training program made by an actual dog trainer, you get the benefits without the high cost. Plus, you’re going to train your dog yourself.

Isn’t that amazing?

Here are other benefits of online dog training courses that you can also enjoy.

Online dog training programs allow you to learn at your own pace.

You have the freedom to set your training schedule, ensuring that it fits seamlessly into your busy life.

This flexibility enables you to adapt the training sessions to suit your dog's learning style and progress gradually.

Compared to traditional in-person training methods, online dog training programs offer a more affordable option.

You can save on expenses such as travel costs, registration fees, and the need to purchase specialized equipment. This cost-effectiveness allows you to access expert guidance without breaking the bank.

With online dog training programs, you can access expert guidance and valuable resources from the comfort of your own home.

There's no need to worry about geographical limitations or time constraints. The convenience of learning remotely allows you to focus on the training process without the hassle of commuting or scheduling conflicts.

Online dog training programs provide access to expert trainers and valuable insights regardless of your location.

These programs ensure that you have access to high-quality training materials and guidance wherever you are.

Online courses serve as a valuable resource that you can revisit as often as needed. This allows you to reinforce your learning, refresh your knowledge, and adapt the training techniques to suit your dog's individual needs.

You can revisit specific modules or lessons, ensuring a comprehensive understanding of the training concepts.

In the world of dog training, the answer to “How to make dog training successful?” lies in having a clear goal and a consistently communicated message.

As you embark on this training adventure with your furry companion, remember to stay focused, be patient, and maintain a consistent approach.

Celebrate the small victories along the way and never lose sight of your ultimate goal.

By having a clear goal and a clearer, consistent message, you are not just training your dog. You are also building a lifelong bond based on trust, understanding, and effective communication.

Embrace the power of a clear goal and a consistent message, and let the journey of successful dog training begin.

The possibilities are endless, and — with consistency in your message and routine — you’re one step closer to success.

~ Doggy Dan 😄

In the perfect world, the best dog recall training concludes with you able to let out a call and a whistle and your dog rushing towards you. But that’s not always the reality.

Our dogs love to explore — sometimes leaving a significant gap between us and them. That kind of independence is good! But it’s anxiety inducing when your dog becomes too far from you and you aren’t sure your call can make them come back.

It’s important that before we let our pets roam freely, we need to assure that wherever they are and whatever that do, with just one call they’ll come back to you.

The foundation of teaching recall training to dogs is this: your dog should know that you calling out to them is ALWAYS a good thing.

How do you practice dog recall that makes your dog come back to you every time? Read on to learn more.

• There’s power in giving random treats to your dog when you’re doing recall training.

1. What Makes Dog Recall Training Fail AKA Why Your Dog Isn’t Listening To You

“Dan, I try calling and whistling and my dog isn’t responding. I have to chase him to ensure he’s safe and get him home.”

This scenario is common to me: dog owner starts recall training and doesn’t get any results. Dogs ignore recall training by not responding, or running away even more.

But what makes dogs not listen to recall? What makes a recall not work at all?

The answer is this: dog recall training fails when owners don’t build confidence in dogs that being called in is always A GREAT THING.

The best way on how to recall train a dog is to make the recall really good news. Helping your dog associate recall with perks can make training easier.

(I talk about my unconventional strategy in the video below.)

When they are called in, it should always mean REWARDS; be it hugs, treats, or play time!

Once we have established positive association with recall, it will be much easier to call our dogs in.

Another rule I have for a successful recall training is this: always making sure that my dogs will get a treat or a reward THAT THEY LOVE!

The outdoors is exciting! Our dogs will be busy chasing around birds and jumping on puddles.

We have to make sure that when we use the whistle or the call, we have something that they love!

They’ll come running to us EVERY TIME with this strategy.

Over the years, I have learned of a super successful strategy for recall training that made dog owners say

“Wow! Dan, you totally made him come back!”

Will you be surprised if I tell you my recall training is inspired by the slot machines at the casino?

Like what I mentioned above, you need to remember the two things that make recall training work:

a.) Dogs need to know that when you call, it’s always for something good.

b.) They should know that if they come, a delicious treat is waiting!

Now here’s my Number #1 tip: GIVE RANDOM REWARDS.

Before I start recall training for dogs, I always let my dogs see the rewards they’re going to get when they come to me.

It’s like letting them know “There’s a jackpot here!”

In a bag, I would have my dog’s favorite treat. Let’s say they like chicken. I would mix it in with other great treats like cheese and bacon.

Then I would let my dog smell the bag to let him know a treat is waiting for him when he comes back.

“But Doggy Dan, will my dog like it if I don’t give my dog his favorite treats every time?”

One of the biggest misconceptions when using treats in dog recall training is that the more we give them their favorite treat, the more they will come back.

If we go back to slot machines, will it still be exciting if we get a dollar for every dollar we put in? Over time, it will become boring.

Your dog’s favorite treat will feel ordinary when they get it every single time.

“Ehh. My mom is calling. I’m going to get cheese again. Let me chase that butterfly one more time.”

Now compare it to giving their favorite treats randomly!

They will come back again and again because they’ll be waiting for that golden jackpot — that favorite treat among the treats.

Every time you call, they will be thinking “I could be getting cheese this time!” and they’ll be running to you swiftly!

How many different names, phrases, or tones of voice do you employ when summoning your dog?

Let's be truthful! Many individuals possess an assortment of commands. Some are used when the dog is in trouble, while others signal the arrival of a treat.

However, the reality is that this array of words, expressions, and vocal inflections only serves to confuse our dogs.

Ideally, we should aim for a single word or phrase, consistently delivered in the same tone, whenever we want our dog to come. This word or phrase should signify "Come here, and I will reward you with food before allowing you to resume playing."

The more varied our commands, voices, and sounds are, the more inconsistent the message becomes for our dog or puppy.

I understand that it's not always easy, but maintaining a calm demeanor and utilizing a consistent command, even when our dog fails to respond, is crucial for successful recall.

Above all else, refrain from scolding them upon their eventual arrival. Simply attach the leash and ignore any misbehavior.

It is remarkably easy to undermine a strong recall by angrily reprimanding them when they do come. This creates a detrimental cycle, making it even less likely for them to respond the next time they are called.

Therefore, remember this: The one clear command must convey the message "Come here, and I will reward you with food before allowing you to resume playing!"

The whistle produces a consistent sound. Regardless of your frustrations, haste, or distress, when you blow the whistle, it emits a steady tone. Surprisingly, your dog responds remarkably well to this neutral sound.

Operating a professional dog whistle is a breeze (just be cautious with metal ones in extremely cold temperatures, as they may stick to your lips).

The sound of a whistle carries a great distance, much farther than your voice can travel. Voices do not carry well, particularly if you have a soft voice. The whistle I utilize can reach up to 500 feet, and it spares strain on your vocal cords!

Effective dog whistles operate at a high frequency, making it effortless for dogs to detect while remaining gentle on human ears.

The high-pitched tone also cuts through background noise, such as people shouting, wind, and the rustling of trees and bushes, due to its unique sound.

You will never again need to shout or raise your voice in front of others.

Also, the fastest way to establish a reliable recall is to begin anew with a distinct sound. The whistle grants us this opportunity.

If you’re just starting whistle training for dog recall, or if you want to use the whistle the right way, you can check out my Whistle Training Masterclass. This training course will help you master the right way to use the whistle in no time. Free whistle included!

Whether you’re starting recall training for dogs, or you want to teach recall better to your dogs, here are some helpful rules to remember.

Remember, it's important not to offer special treats to your dog too freely and frequently.

By keeping these rewards limited, you make them more valuable and maintain your dog's motivation to respond to your call.

Create a strong association between your dog coming to you when called and receiving rewards. This helps them understand that coming to you promptly leads to positive outcomes, reinforcing their recall behavior.

To make recall training extra enticing, prepare special treats that are exclusively reserved for these training sessions. This way, your dog will associate the unique treats with the recall command, making it even more rewarding for them.

Have faith in your furry friend's abilities! Believe that they can successfully learn and improve their recall skills. Your confidence in them will positively influence their performance and reinforce a strong bond between you both.

During recall training, consider using a long line or leash. This allows you to maintain control while giving your dog the freedom to explore and respond to your call. It provides a safety net and helps build a reliable recall even in distracting environments.

Choose a clear and distinct command for recall, such as "Come" or "Here." Consistency is key. By using the same command consistently, your dog will become familiar with the recall cue and respond accordingly.

Boost your dog's motivation by letting them know that their hard work during recall training leads to tasty treats. Reinforce the idea that their efforts are rewarded, encouraging them to come to you eagerly and promptly.

Avoid overusing the recall command. By only calling your dog when necessary, you prevent diluting the importance and effectiveness of the recall cue. Reserve it for situations that require their immediate attention or potential danger.

Consider incorporating a professional recall whistle into your training routine. These whistles produce a consistent and easily distinguishable sound that carries well, ensuring your dog can hear it even from a distance. It provides a fresh start and a unique signal for recall training.

Now I know choosing the best dog recall whistle can be a tough choice. Believe me — I have tried every type of professional dog whistle for recall.

As a dog trainer, I always make sure to recommend the one that checks all the boxes. This is why I decided to design and manufacture a dog whistle that truly addresses dog recall issues of thousands of dog owners. You can check it out here!

One common reason for recall training failure is inconsistent reinforcement. If rewards are not consistently given when the dog responds to the recall command, they may not associate coming when called with positive outcomes. This inconsistency can confuse the dog and undermine the training progress.

Dogs may fail to respond to recall commands if they do not find the rewards or reinforcement offered during training sessions motivating enough.

It's essential to understand what truly motivates your dog, whether it's treats, playtime, praise, or a combination, and use those incentives effectively during training.

Recall training conducted solely in a controlled or familiar environment may not translate to real-life situations.

Dogs need exposure to various environments, distractions, and stimuli to generalize their recall behavior. If training is limited to one setting, dogs may struggle to respond reliably in new or stimulating environments.

Dog communication breakdowns can hinder recall training.

If the dog does not understand the recall command clearly or if the owner uses inconsistent cues or body language, the dog may become confused or unsure about what is expected.

Clear and consistent communication is vital for successful recall training.

When it comes to dog recall training, the duration of the training process can vary from dog to dog.

Dogs, like humans, require time to adapt to new skills and behaviors, and recall training is no exception. Consistency plays a crucial role in achieving success.

First and foremost, it's important to understand that dog recall training is not an overnight accomplishment. Dogs need time to grasp the concept and fully integrate the recall behavior into their routines. Patience is key during this process.

Consistency is a vital factor in the effectiveness of dog recall training. Regular and consistent training sessions provide dogs with the opportunity to reinforce their understanding of the recall command.

It's not enough to practice the recall command occasionally or sporadically. Regular exercise of the recall behavior helps dogs build a strong association between the command and the desired action.

To achieve optimal results in dog recall training, consistent exercise is necessary.

Practice the recall command in various environments and situations, gradually increasing the level of distractions. This allows your dog to learn to respond to your call regardless of the surrounding stimuli.

By exposing your dog to different scenarios, you help them generalize the recall behavior, making it more reliable and applicable in real-life situations.

It's important to note that the timeline for dog recall training can vary widely.

Some dogs may catch on quickly and demonstrate progress within a matter of weeks, while others may require more time and repetition to fully grasp the concept.

Each dog is unique, and their individual temperament, previous training experiences, and ability to learn all play a role in the duration of the training process.

Remember, successful dog recall training is a journey that requires dedication, consistency, and patience.

With time, effort, and regular exercise of the recall behavior, you can establish a strong and reliable recall response from your dog.

In a controlled indoor environment, call your dog's name followed by the recall command ("Come" or any preferred cue).

Use an excited and positive tone. When your dog comes to you, reward them with praise and a high-value treat. Repeat this exercise multiple times throughout the day.

During regular walks, incorporate recall training by periodically calling your dog to come to you. Start with shorter distances and gradually increase the distance over time.

Use treats or toys as rewards when they reach you promptly. This exercise strengthens recall skills while adding distractions and reinforcing the behavior on-leash.

Find a quiet outdoor area with mild distractions, such as a park or a backyard.

Allow your dog some freedom to explore, but intermittently call them to come using the recall command.

Increase the difficulty by introducing distractions like toys or other dogs. Reward them generously when they respond promptly despite the distractions.

Play a game of hide and seek indoors or in a securely fenced area. Have a family member or friend hold your dog while you hide. Once hidden, call your dog's name followed by the recall command. When they find you, reward them with treats and praise. This game makes recall training fun and reinforces their response to your call.

Incorporate recall training into your dog's mealtime routine. Before placing their food bowl down, call them using the recall command. When they come to you, reward them with their meal. This reinforces the recall behavior and adds value to responding promptly to your call.

Dear dog owner, your dog loves you and will naturally come to you.

However, it isn’t enough to know our dogs will come back to us. We have to be assured that through our command, we can help them be safe.

I know recall might be a daunting task, but it’s a skill that will not only keep your dog safe. It’s a skill that can help you create a lasting bond and connection with your beloved dog.

Through consistency and the right strategy, you can make your recall training efforts yield successful results.

Best of luck with your recall training!

~ Doggy Dan 😄