In this episode, I speak with a pioneer in the death care industry, Zenith Virago. Zenith is the founder and executive officer of the Natural Death Care Centre Charity Australia. She is a death walker, a celebrant, and an educator.

Zenith has been empowering people to have healthier, healing bereavement with few or no regrets for over 30 years. Our conversation was enlightening and funny, ranging from the significance of graveyards in England, ceremonies for the LGBTQ community, how to support children through grief.

And we even managed to talk about vaginas!

I'm sure you'll enjoy hearing from Zenith as much as I did.

In this episode, we cover:

• Zenith's journey into becoming a 'Death Walker'
• The importance of community in death care
• The enlightening experience of founding the Natural Death Care Center charity
• The impact of generosity in the world of death care
• Zenith's exploration of death care in the UK
• The role of ceremony in complex death situations

Stay tuned for this enlightening episode and remember, let's break the taboo around talking about death. 

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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Zenith Virago, Deathwalker Training

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Ever wondered what it would be like to wake up 200 years in the future, in a young, healthy body with all your memories intact? This isn't science fiction - it's the ambitious goal of cryonics, and it's happening right here in Australia.

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Peter Solapides, founder, director, and chairman of Southern Cryonics. Peter shares the fascinating journey that led him to establish Australia's first cryonics facility in Holbrook, New South Wales. 

From the intricate process of patient suspension to the complex legal and ethical considerations, we delve deep into the world of cryonics and its potential to revolutionise our approach to death and dying.

Peter's enthusiasm is infectious as he explains how cryonics works, dispelling common misconceptions and painting a picture of a future where death might be merely a temporary state. 

We discuss the demographics of cryonics supporters, the challenges of long-term planning, and the profound philosophical questions that arise when we consider the possibility of extending human life far beyond its current limits.

Key points from our conversation:

• Cryonics involves preserving a person's body at extremely low temperatures after legal death, with the hope of future revival
• Southern Cryonics completed their first cryonic suspension in May 2024
• The process involves a team of medical professionals and specialised equipment
• Cryonics supporters tend to be science enthusiasts, secular, and optimistic about the future
• The cost of cryopreservation is typically covered by life insurance policies
• Legal and ethical considerations include next-of-kin rights and the definition of death
• The facility in Holbrook can currently house 40 patients, with potential to expand to 600
• Maintenance costs are surprisingly low, mainly involving regular liquid nitrogen top-ups

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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In this episode, I'm bringing you a conversation that's both emotional and enlightening. 

I had the pleasure of reuniting with an old high school friend Libby Neesham, who shared her incredibly personal experiences with the death of her parents, her unique approach to motherhood, and her valuable insights on dealing with grief as someone with neurodiversity.

🌹 In this episode:

• Libby opens up about the different ways she grieved the death of each of her parents and the lessons she learned along the way.
• She reflects on her journey into motherhood and how it has shaped her understanding of life and death.
• We delve into the importance of having open conversations about end-of-life matters and the impact it has on our lives.

Libby's story is a powerful reminder of the complexities of grief and the strength we find in the most challenging times. Her insights are not just about coping with loss but also about growing from it, embracing life, and cherishing the memories of those we've lost.

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What if the unexplained feelings of grief, anxiety, or disconnection you carry aren't entirely your own? In this compelling episode, I sit down with Michelle Scheibner, author of 'Hush', to explore how the secrets and trauma of our family history can echo through generations, impacting our lives in ways we never imagined.

Michelle's journey of discovery began when she found an old leather suitcase filled with documents after her mother's death. These papers revealed her father's hidden Jewish heritage and his harrowing escape from Nazi Germany - a history that had been carefully concealed throughout her life. 

Through her work in epigenetics and inherited family trauma, Michelle explains how traumatic experiences can actually modify our DNA, affecting future generations. Her research, backed by groundbreaking studies from Dr Rachel Yehuda at Mount Sinai School, demonstrates how children of Holocaust survivors and mothers present at Ground Zero show identical anxiety markers and cortisol levels as their traumatised parents.

As an adult orphan who lost both parents and later her significant other, Chris, to cancer, Michelle's personal story illustrates how unresolved family trauma can manifest in our lives. Through narrative therapy and deep personal work, she transformed her understanding of grief and identity, moving from a place of blame to one of appreciation for the resilience she inherited from her parents. 

Her journey offers hope and practical guidance for anyone seeking to understand their own unexplained feelings or recurring patterns.

Key Insights:

●      The science of epigenetics reveals how trauma can be passed down through generations via our DNA

●      Unresolved family secrets and trauma can manifest as unexplained feelings of grief, anxiety, or disconnection

●      Our relationship with our mother/primary caregiver from birth to age seven creates the blueprint for all future relationships

●      Healing begins when we let go of the stories we've been telling ourselves and embrace our true narrative

Resources and Tools for Healing:

●      Journaling with coloured pens (avoid digital methods)

●      Narrative therapy and coaching

●      DNA testing for understanding heritage

●      Michelle's book 'Hush'

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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How do we ensure that every individual, regardless of their cultural or spiritual background, receives dignified and inclusive care at the end of their life? Today, we tackle this vital question with two incredible guests who are championing change in aged and palliative care.


In this episode, I sit down with Tonina Gucciardo-Masci, Community Engagement Manager at Palliative Care Victoria, and Nikolaus Rittinghausen, Manager at the Centre for Cultural Diversity in Ageing. Both are working tirelessly to ensure that aged and palliative care services in Australia are culturally inclusive and respectful of each person’s individual needs.

Tonina shares her experience collaborating with multicultural and multifaith communities to promote equitable access to palliative care, dispelling myths and advocating for care over cure. Meanwhile, Nikki dives into the innovative strategies his organisation employs to make aged care more inclusive, from diversity mentoring to practical tools like communication cards available in over 70 languages.

Together, we explore the challenges of adapting systems designed for a "one-size-fits-all" approach, the importance of culturally appropriate food and spiritual practices, and the role of open conversations in breaking down taboos around death. This episode is a call to action to put inclusion at the heart of care.

What We Discuss:
•What palliative care is and why it’s about quality of life, not just end-of-life.
•The importance of culturally inclusive care in aged and palliative care.
•How communication cards in 70+ languages are bridging language barriers in care.
•Challenges of integrating cultural and spiritual needs into care plans.
•Practical examples of inclusive practices in aged care, such as tailored menus and spiritual accommodations.
•How advanced care planning can ease the journey for families and individuals.
•Why conversations about death and dying need to happen earlier and more often.

Links and Resources Mentioned:

•Palliative Care Victoria
•Centre for Cultural Diversity in Ageing
•Download communication cards in multiple languages: Communication Cards
•Learn more about inclusive service standards and mentoring programs: Inclusive Service Standards
•Advanced care planning resources: Advance Care Planning Australia


Remember, you may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared. 

Take care, 

Catherine.

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Did you know it can take over 200 hours to manage the responsibilities of an executor? 

For Danielle Phillips, losing both parents during COVID wasn’t just heartbreaking—it became a crash course in navigating the overwhelming task of estate administration. 

This week, we uncover how she turned personal tragedy into Sage Executor Solutions, a lifeline for families facing the chaos after losing a loved one.

 Becoming an executor is more than signing your name on a will—it’s stepping into a mountain of responsibility that can feel endless, especially when you’re grieving. In this episode, I speak with Danielle Phillips, founder of Sage Executor Solutions. 

Danielle shares her personal journey of losing both parents within 15 months, managing her mother’s care, and tackling the exhaustive legal and administrative duties left behind.

From navigating MyGov’s labyrinth of links to realising that even the smallest details—like notifying the Electoral Commission—can come back to haunt you, Danielle recounts the challenges that inspired her to build a service aimed at making this process more humane. 

Whether it’s creating a roadmap for executors, connecting families with trusted experts, or just lightening the emotional load, Danielle explains how proper preparation can transform chaos into clarity.

This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever been an executor, expect to be one, or want to make things easier for your loved ones in the future. Together, let’s demystify death and ensure no one is caught unprepared.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• Why being an executor often feels like a full-time job.
• The top skills you need to consider before accepting the role of executor.
• Practical steps to lighten the load on your executor—starting now.
• How Sage Executor Solutions connects families with experts across Australia.
• The surprising complications that can arise, from insurance claims to superannuation tax implications.
• Why having a clear roadmap and checklist can save months of time and stress.

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Website:  https://www.sageexecutorsolutions.com.au/  

Links & Resources

• Download the Executor’s Checklist at dontbecaughtdead.com/resources

Remember: You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

 Catherine

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Are you feeling disconnected in our modern world? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the heart of social health with Joe Sehee, Executive Director of Social Health Australia. Joe shares his Joeurney from green burial advocate to champion of human connection, revealing how we can combat loneliness and transform end-of-life care.

Joe takes us on a fascinating exploration of 'community companioning', a revolutionary approach to supporting those facing life's toughest challenges. From terminal illness to bereavement, learn how this simple yet profound practice is changing lives and reshaping our understanding of grief and loss.

But that's not all - Joe's insights into co-housing, the funeral industry, and conservation burial grounds will challenge your perceptions of community living and death care. Discover why the way we approach death might be the key to living more connected, meaningful lives.

Key Takeaways:

●      The power of 'community companioning' in supporting those facing illness, grief, and loneliness

●      How co-housing models can combat social isolation and foster genuine community

●      The untold history of the American funeral industry and its impact on our relationship with death

●      The potential of conservation burial grounds to revolutionise both ecology and end-of-life care

●      Why being present is more important than finding the 'right words' when supporting someone through grief

●      The surprising health benefits of social connection and its potential to reduce hospital readmissions

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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Website: https://socialhealthaustralia.org/ 

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In this episode, we dive into the journey of Richard Gosling—a man who left the safe world of civil service to become a funeral director, driven by a desire to connect with others on the deepest level. Join us as Richard shares stories of courage, unexpected life changes, and how facing death can bring new appreciation to life.

Richard Gosling didn’t follow a conventional path to become a funeral director. His journey took root after experiencing his own family’s health crises and realising the vital role that those who manage death play in the lives of the grieving. With humour and insight, Richard recounts his career shift and why he felt the need to serve people in their most vulnerable moments.

Through Richard's stories, we uncover what goes on behind the scenes in a funeral home. From coaxing out meaningful details to creating unique rituals, Richard reminds us that every goodbye is an opportunity to celebrate a life. He also shares his thoughts on why we need to stop shying away from conversations about death and instead embrace them as part of our human experience.

Highlights:

• Richard’s path from civil service to funeral director, sparked by personal family experiences
• The surprising and rewarding challenges in helping families honour their loved ones
• How funeral directors balance empathy with emotional boundaries for self-care
• Insights into voluntary assisted dying and supporting families through that experience
• The power of rituals—religious or otherwise—in easing the grieving process
• Richard's advice on how to take the time to properly honour and remember those we’ve lost
• Encouragement to openly discuss death and capture loved ones’ stories while they're still with us

Chapters: 

0:00 - Introduction  

1:20 - Sound Quality Alert  

1:35 - Meeting Richard Gosling  

2:34 - A Life-Changing Moment  

4:04 - Leaving a Safe Job for a Calling  

7:24 - The Emotional Impact of the Role  

8:37 - Honouring Families’ Wishes  

11:54 - Involving Families in the Process  

13:05 - Navigating the Pressure of Time  

15:26 - Self-Care for a Funeral Director  

16:54 - Facing Mortality  

19:20 - Encouraging Conversations on Death  

21:30 - The Power of Rituals  

24:41 - The Rise of Digital Memories  

27:41 - Understanding the Committal  

30:25 - Misconceptions About Funerals  

35:00 - Why Talking About Death Matters  

37:53 - Learning More About Loved Ones  

41:20 - Stories of Love and Loss  

47:59 - Final Reflections on Life and Death  

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·      Get Richard’s book here: https://www.amazon.com.au/After-Worst-Has-Happened-director/dp/1923022377 

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Imagine caring for someone for over 20 years without anyone ever asking if you want to be their carer. It sounds unthinkable, right? In this episode, we delve into this powerful, often unasked question and explore what it truly means to support someone at the end of their life, without sacrificing your own.

Join me as I chat with Inge McGinn, a Senior Counsellor and Caseworker from Peninsula Home Hospice, who has over 25 years of experience working in palliative care. Inge’s unique journey to this field started with deeply personal experiences that taught her the importance of discussing death openly.

She’s passionate about helping people talk about what’s often left unspoken: death, dying, and the role of carers. In our conversation, we explore how she supports carers in navigating the intense emotional journey that comes with caring for someone at the end of life. Inge’s approach brings compassion to an often-overlooked aspect of palliative care, recognising carers' needs and creating space for their struggles and strengths.

In this episode, Inge and I also tackle the importance of asking carers, “Do you actually want this role?” It’s a powerful moment when carers realise they can have a say in their role. We unpack how understanding their own limits, boundaries, and desires can help carers fulfil their responsibilities with respect for both themselves and those they care for.

Whether you're a carer, know someone who is, or are interested in palliative care, Inge's wisdom and experiences offer a touching perspective on what it means to live—and die—with dignity and support.

Key Takeaways:

• The Question No One Asks Carers: How "Do you want to be a carer?" can transform lives.
• Caring Beyond Assumptions: Recognising the unique challenges and choices every carer faces.
• Self-Care for Carers: Inge’s insights on setting boundaries and maintaining your identity.
• Community and Compassion: How a strong support network can uplift both carers and the dying.


Remember: You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Chapters:
00:01 - Introduction to palliative care journey and experiences in family therapy
02:28 - Inga's inspiration to work in palliative care and early professional experiences
03:17 - Challenges faced in juvenile justice and supporting families through trauma
05:00 - Personal story of discussing mortality with her daughter
08:09 - The role of Very Special Kids and community-based palliative care
09:04 - Importance of boundaries and self-care in palliative care work
11:18 - Inga's personal self-care practices and rituals for maintaining balance
14:11 - Journey to Peninsula Home Hospice and long-term dedication to the field
17:23 - Differences between community and palliative care counselling approaches
18:46 - Overview of Peninsula Home Hospice and its holistic approach to care
21:55 - The role of volunteers and community in palliative support
23:22 - When to seek palliative care and understanding its holistic value
26:29 - Key challenges for clients and carers, including exhaustion and relationship shifts
31:52 - Importance of recognising carers’ roles and boundaries
34:42 - Realities and challenges of providing in-home care
38:56 - Inga’s perspective on compassionate communities and practical support
41:57 - Consistencies and differences in palliative care across age groups
44:56 - Supporting carers and families with authentic communication
48:35 - Most rewarding aspects of palliative care work
52:08 - Reflections on the future of palliative care and government support
56:29 - Navigating complex healthcare systems for end-of-life care
57:52 - Closing thoughts on the importance of community and compassion in palliative care


Resources:

Contact Inge McGinn: [email protected]
Dr An

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In this episode, I chat with Luke Roberts of Mornington Green, a unique final resting place that's revolutionising how we approach death and remembrance. Imagine a lush, 34-acre property that feels more like a botanical garden than a cemetery. That's Mornington Green - a place where loved ones' ashes are infused into the roots of trees, creating living memorials that grow and change with the seasons.

Luke, a former lawyer, shares how his brother's experience with grief led to the creation of Mornington Green. The concept is simple yet profound: instead of traditional burial plots or urns, families choose a tree where their loved one's ashes will be placed. The ashes undergo a special organic treatment process, transforming them from potentially harmful to beneficial for the tree's growth. It's a beautiful cycle of life, where human remains quite literally give new life to nature.

What sets Mornington Green apart isn't just its innovative approach to memorialisation. It's the entire experience they've created around death and remembrance. From the variety of trees available (including jacarandas, oak trees, and flowering gums) to the thoughtful ceremony where families can participate in placing the ashes, every detail is designed to make the process more meaningful and healing. They even host regular events like planting days and Christmas in July, encouraging visitors to create positive, living memories in a place traditionally associated with loss.

Key points from our discussion:

- Mornington Green offers a range of trees for memorialisation, from individual trees to those that can accommodate up to eight people's ashes.
- The ashes undergo a special organic treatment process to make them beneficial for tree growth.
- Families can participate in a meaningful ceremony to place their loved one's ashes, including writing a final note on biodegradable paper.
- Mornington Green hosts regular community events to create positive experiences and memories.
- They're expanding to other states in Australia to meet growing demand.
- A volunteer gardening group is being established to provide purpose and community for elderly clients.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Catherine

Resources: 
Find out more about Mornington Green here: https://morningtongreen.com.au/ 

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