What are you avoiding that you don’t want to die wondering about?

In this conversation with Harrison Bly, author of Bent on Men, we explore a simple but confronting rule of life: don’t die wondering.

We talk about what it looks like to:

• Say the honest thing in friendships
• Share your story instead of hiding it
• Get curious about your attractions instead of fearing them
• Take small, meaningful risks that move you toward connection

Harrison shares how vulnerability didn’t come all at once, but through a series of small decisions to stop avoiding and start engaging.

This episode is an invitation to stop playing it safe — and start living with courage, curiosity, and faith.

Because the greatest tragedy isn’t failure… It’s living a life where you never stepped forward — and always wondered what could have been.

About Harrison Bly:

Harrison Bly is an author and speaker helping men find hope and freedom in the tension between faith, identity, and same-sex attraction. His book Bent on Men is a raw and honest look at his journey toward authenticity, healing, and connection. https://harrisonbly.com/

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