Husband Material

By Drew Boa

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and m

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The podcast currently has 345 episodes available.

Husband Material episodes:

January 14, 2026All About HMA Triads (with Rich Savoy)
What are HMA Triads? What makes them different from accountability groups? Why is joining a small group essential for outgrowing porn? Rich Savoy explains everything you need to know about HMA Triads, what makes them different than porn accountability groups, and why you should consider joining one. Join HMA by January 18, 2026 at joinHMA.com.
Rich Savoy is HMA's Director Of Small Groups. He is also a board member of Husband Material Ministries and an international speaker on emotional intelligence with Global Leadership Partners. Contact Rich inside the Husband Material Community.
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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30min
January 13, 2026How God Designed Your Brain To Heal Itself
God designed your brain to heal itself under the right conditions. How can we understand self-healing from a Christian perspective? What are the optimal conditions for self-healing? How can self-healing accelerate the process of outgrowing porn? In this episode, you'll not only get answers to these questions—you'll witness a powerful demonstration of Brainspotting with Drew Boa and Mike Chapman.
This episode was recorded at the 2026 Porn Free Man Conference sponsored by Husband Material Academy (HMA). Join HMA now at joinHMA.com
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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1h 21min
January 05, 2026Experience Healing Through Brainspotting (with Dr. David Grand)
What is Brainspotting? How can it help men heal and outgrow porn? Find out from Dr. David Grand himself! In this episode, you'll learn how Brainspotting works, why it's unique, and how it accelerates recovery from porn/sex addiction.
David Grand, PhD is the developer of Brainspotting, the groundbreaking relational brain-body, mindfulness-based method. He is the author of Brainspotting: The Revolutionary New Therapy for Rapid and Effective Change and the co-author of This is Your Brain on Sports. Dr. Grand has been widely featured in the media, including The New York Times, NBC National News, The Discovery Channel, CNN, MSNBC, Sports Illustrated, and Sirius Radio.
Curious about Brainspotting?
Read the book by David Grand
Find a Brainspotter near you on the international directory
Work with Mike Chapman, Dr. Doug Carpenter, or Drew Boa (who are all Brainspotting Practitioners and Certified Husband Material Coaches).
Join HMA to witness the power of Brainspotting (and maybe even try it out yourself) at Fantasy Fridays.
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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40min
December 29, 2025K-Pop Demon Hunters: A Story Of Hiding And Healing
What can the movie "K-Pop Demon Hunters" teach us about shame, hiding, and healing through vulnerability and connection? In this extended episode, Drew and his friend Andy offer an in-depth analysis of the film—addressing theological concerns, highlighting takeaways for sexual recovery, and tracing each character's redemptive journey. Enjoy!
Drew and Andy became friends at Wheaton College, serving together in college, church, and summer camp ministries. Andy has degrees in Christian theology and adventure-based experiential learning, and has been a participant and collaborator with Husband Material since 2023.
K-Pop Demon Hunters is available on Netflix. We recommend watching the "Sing-along" version.
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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1h 41min
December 22, 2025When A Leader Relapses (with Nate Larkin)
In this incredibly vulnerable episode, Nate Larkin tells the story of how he returned to lying, hiding, binge drinking, and destructive sexual behavior while leading a sexual recovery organization. You'll also hear Nate's wisdom on how to be vulnerable as a leader and the importance of telling the truth.
Nate Larkin is the founder of the Samson Society, a fellowship of Christian men who are serious about authenticity, community, humility, and recovery. Learn more at samsonsociety.com
Buy Nate's book: Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men To Authentic Brotherhood
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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40min
December 15, 2025Revealing The Future Of Husband Material Ministries
What’s next for Husband Material? In this episode, you’ll hear the exciting new vision for how we want to help the next generation of young men and couples change their brains, heal their hearts, and save their relationships.
Here’s how you can be part of it:
Pray: husbandmaterial.com/pray
Give: husbandmaterial.com/give
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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56min
December 08, 2025How Technology Can Help You Connect And Heal (with Chandler Rogers)
How can technology help you connect, heal, and outgrow porn? In this episode, Chandler Rogers tells his story of finding freedom through connection with others (even online) and shares what he has learned from overseeing hundreds of online groups. You'll find out what you're missing out on if you track your sobriety without tracking your recovery—and what healthy, shame-free accountability looks like.
Chandler Rogers is the CEO and co-founder of Relay, a group-based program to break free from the unhealthy system of addiction and find lasting freedom.
Join Relay at joinrelay.app (App)
Listen to Beyond Sexual Brokenness (Podcast)
Download The Official Guide To Overcoming Pornography (PDF)
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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37min
December 01, 2025Arousal, Addiction, And Intimacy (with Chris Chandler and Andrew Engstrom)
What exactly is arousal? Is it more than just sexual? In this episode, you'll learn the four types of arousal (uppers, downers, all-arounders, and deprivation) and how we use addiction to avoid intimacy ("into messy"). Along the way, you'll also find out why recovery is not a "don't touch your penis" program and how the skill of "tension holding" can transform your relationships. Great conversation!
Chris Chandler (LMHC, LPCC, EMDR, CSAT-S) is a licensed therapist, coach, and Clinical Advisor at Relay Health. He is also the founder of Christian Recovery Groups LLC, a national program helping men and women heal from compulsive and addictive behaviors through faith, community, and neuroscience-informed recovery practices. Over the past 20 years, Chris has led thousands through individual and group recovery experiences. His mission is simple: to restore people to wholeness by integrating clinical insight with authentic, Spirit-filled community because true recovery happens in relationship.
Schedule a 30-minute consultation with Chris here.
Andrew Engstrom is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with Seattle Christian Counseling, where he helps individuals and couples heal by understanding themselves better first. Andrew is certified in MDFT (a holistic approach to counseling treatment) and uses PREPARE/ENRICH in pre-marital and marital counseling. He offers support and insight for overcoming obstacles that stand in the way of forming lasting, fulfilling relationships with others and God.
Learn more and connect with Andrew here.
See a preview of Chris and Andrew's intensives here.
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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39min
December 01, 2025The Villain, The Victim, and The Hero
How do you see yourself? Do you ever feel like a villain, like everything is your fault? Do you ever feel like a victim, overwhelmed and powerless to change your life? Do you ever feel like a hero, as if you have to succeed because the whole world is depending on you? Today, we’re talking about how to see yourself accurately and understand yourself better through three lenses: your villain story, your victim story, and your hero story. These categories are inspired by “The Karpman Drama Triangle” by Dr. Stephen B. Karpman. The original drama triangle describes common patterns in dysfunctional relationships. I’ve adapted it for the context of story work for men outgrowing porn.
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
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16min
November 17, 2025D.I.R.E.C.T. Psychodrama (with Dr. Doug Carpenter and Drew Boa)
In this episode, Doug and Drew explain their powerful, unique approach to psychodrama: DIRECT. You'll learn how this powerful modality can help you experience deeper healing and freedom from porn.
D.I.R.E.C.T. = Dynamic, Intuitive, Redemptive, Embodied, Communal Transformation.
Come experience D.I.R.E.C.T. at a Husband Material Healing Weekend! See all upcoming healing weekends and retreats at husbandmaterial.com/retreat
The doors to HMA are OPEN!
Enroll now at joinhma.com
The doors close on January 18.
Support the show

Take the Husband Material Journey...

Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube

Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community

Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn

Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy

Thanks for listening!
...more
46min

FAQs about Husband Material:

How many episodes does Husband Material have?

The podcast currently has 345 episodes available.

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