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Step into the captivating world of familial dynamics, personal growth, and the intricate interconnectedness of human relationships with "Unveiling The Family Flywheel." In this thought-provoking show, renowned author Aaron Shelley takes center stage to discuss his groundbreaking book, "The Family Flywheel."

Join us as we delve deep into the pages of Shelley's enlightening work, exploring the multifaceted aspects of family life and the subtle yet powerful forces that keep it spinning forward. With his profound insights and eloquent storytelling, Shelley artfully dissects the complexities of our most intimate relationships, revealing the hidden mechanisms that drive families to thrive or falter.

In this intimate interview, viewers will gain exclusive access to the mind of Aaron Shelley, an author celebrated for his ability to blend psychology, sociology, and personal anecdotes into a compelling narrative. With "The Family Flywheel," Shelley introduces a new lens through which we can view our interactions with family members, unraveling the intricate threads that bind generations together.

Expect to be engaged, enlightened, and inspired as Shelley discusses the key concepts behind his book. From the importance of communication and empathy to the ways in which family history shapes our present, each episode unveils a fresh layer of understanding. As the interview unfolds, viewers will discover actionable strategies to foster stronger bonds, navigate conflicts, and create a lasting legacy of love and connection.

"Unveiling The Family Flywheel" isn't just an interview; it's a transformative journey through the heart and soul of families. Whether you're a parent, a sibling, or simply curious about the dynamics that shape us all, this show is a must-watch. Join us as we embark on an exploration of human connection, growth, and the unbreakable ties that make us who we are.

Tune in to gain unparalleled insights from Aaron Shelley himself, and let "Unveiling The Family Flywheel" inspire you to build deeper, more meaningful relationships within your own family, one spin at a time.

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Step into a world where empathy and masculinity intersect in a conversation that's bound to reshape your perspective. Join the Fallible Man in this captivating episode as he fearlessly delves into the intricacies of empathy, demystifying its challenges for men. Uncover the truth about sympathy versus empathy and how the discomfort it brings can be turned into a strength.

Through relatable stories and a fresh perspective, Brent challenges the stereotype of "vicariously experiencing" emotions and unveils a more approachable definition. Learn to navigate emotional situations with practical tips, masterfully tailored to the male mindset. Whether in professional dynamics, romance, friendships, or parenting, discover the game-changing impact of empathy.

This episode's practical example of consoling a grieving coworker unlocks a transformative strategy. Brent outlines five key questions that frame situations for empathetic responses, shifting the paradigm for better connections. The social science related to empathy makes it unappealing for a lot of men but it is core to powerful connections. Tune in to this enlightening episode of The Fallible Man Podcast and equip yourself with tools to enrich your relationships through genuine understanding and kindness. Don't miss out – embrace empathy's power today!

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Do you want to break free from the burden of societal expectations and improve your mental health as a man? Are you searching for a solution that can help you achieve a greater sense of self-awareness and overcome the stigma surrounding mental health? Look no further. In this episode, our guest David Milan will share the key to unlocking improved mental well-being and a deeper understanding of oneself. Discover how challenging stigma and seeking support can lead to transformative results in your mental health journey.

"Expressing emotions is vital for mental health. Suppression is depression. It's time to break the stigma and become more self-aware." - David Milan

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Unpack the intricacies of male identity and its dilemmas in a rapidly evolving society.

• Reveal the veiled stigma attached to men's mental health and explore avenues for garnering support.

• Unearthen the virtues of emotional evolution and its role in holistic personal development.

• Decipher the cryptic language of feelings and emotions, easing their navigation.

• Investigate the necessity of self-awareness and the significance of reaching out for assistance.

My special guest is David Milan

Here’s David Milan, a passionate advocate of men’s well-being and an expert in rapid response crisis intervention. His own confronting experiences with childhood trauma ignited his journey into this field. David's unique strength lies in his ability to bridge the gap between deep-seated societal expectations and the often unmet emotional needs of men. His emphasis on understanding feelings and the core self has been a beacon of enlightenment for many. David arms men with the tools they need to adapt, evolve and thrive, encouraging them to explore a realm of mental health often left uncharted.

Guest Contacts for David Milan:

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https://mymilan.com.au/

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https://www.linkedin.com/company/your-milan/

The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Exploring Male Identity00:01:10 - Meeting Needs and Evolving00:02:19 - The Importance of Emotional Adaptation00:03:40 - Balancing Responsibilities and Personal Growth00:04:02 - Introduction to David Milan00:16:03 - Random Fact: Hearing Dog Whistles00:16:46 - Growing Up without Shoes00:19:07 - Passion for Helping People00:21:28 - Stigma around Men's Mental Health00:25:09 - Emotional Evolution for Men00:30:22 - The Influence of Early Identity00:31:59 - Upgrading Our Operating System00:35:09 - Taking Things Personally00:36:59 - The Connection Between Identity and Roles00:39:48 - Redefining Identity00:45:15 - Understanding Feelings as States00:46:26 - Importance of Identifying Feelings00:48:12 - Building Resilience through Feeling00:49:01 - Artificial Regulation of Emotions00:52:53 - Overcoming Vulnerability through Confidence00:58:47 - Old Habits and Patterns00:59:23 - The Impact of Science01:00:27 - Evolving with New Information01:02:17 - Emotional Regulation and Self-Awareness01:05:25 - There's Always Hope

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🎙️ Welcome to a special milestone episode of The Fallible Man Podcast! 🎉 Join us as we take a trip down memory lane to celebrate our 200th episode. Three years ago, we embarked on this podcasting journey, and today, we're revisiting where it all began.

In this episode, we're rewinding the clock to Episode 1 and reflecting on the evolution of our show. From that very first awkward moment in front of the microphone to the polished presentations you've come to expect, we've grown together. While the cringe-worthy moments of the past make us chuckle, the heart of our message remains unchanged.

Join us in a captivating conversation about the essence of masculinity. Discover how being a man is akin to a lighthouse – standing tall on a foundation built to weather life's storms. Each man is unique, just like these lighthouses, embracing life's challenges with individual resilience.

Dive into the 3x3 or 4x4 approach, a method introduced 200 episodes ago. Imagine four pillars shaping your foundation – perhaps God, Family, Country, and People, as explored by our host. Unearth your core values – the compass that steers your ship through life's vast ocean.

Delve into the distinction between Beliefs and Values, unraveling their impact on our lives. Explore the power of principles and the depth of values, and discover how they harmonize to form a blueprint guiding our actions in every circumstance.

Our journey leads us to define our values – Integrity, Gratitude, Honor, and Service, for example – and understand how they transform interactions, no matter the situation.

Embark on this introspective expedition, as we unveil the synergy between beliefs and values. Craft a robust foundation that empowers you to conquer challenges with unwavering strength. Together, we embrace growth, learning, and the timeless essence of what it truly means to be a man.

Join us in celebrating this milestone episode – a testament to our collective growth and shared wisdom. Thank you for being part of The Fallible Man Podcast family! 🎈🎊

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In a world filled with negativity and distractions, Yoni Rios shares the secret to personal growth and success through the power of positive habits. But just as he discovers the key to unlocking his potential, a sudden twist of fate throws him into a challenging situation, leaving us wondering - will he overcome this unexpected setback?

My special guest is Yoni Rios

Presenting Yoni Rios, a dedicated father, a skilled soccer player, and a seasoned entrepreneur. Having moved to downtown LA from Mexico at a young age, he faced daunting challenges and legal obstacles in his early years. But Yoni's belief in hard work and making the right choices propelled him from a troubled youth to becoming a thriving entrepreneur, running a trucking, a brokerage company, and a real estate enterprise.

“Whatever you dream of, it is possible.” - Yoni Rios

In this episode of The Fallible Man Podcast, Brent Dowlen welcomes guest Yoni Rios who shares his inspiring journey of personal growth through positive habits. Yoni highlights the importance of journaling, meditation, and self-reflection as transformative practices that have enhanced his well-being and performance. He encourages listeners to surround themselves with positive influences and eliminate relationships that drain their energy. Yoni stresses the significance of being true to one's word and consistently giving their best effort, regardless of their profession or title. He urges listeners to challenge assumptions and remain committed to their personal growth journey. With his own ambitious goals and projects, Yoni showcases the power of genuine effort and believes that by helping others and doing his best, he will achieve the success and blessings he deserves. The episode serves as a reminder to strive for personal excellence and make a positive impact on others.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Harness the transformative power of progressive habits, essential for ascending the stairway of personal growth and success.
• Understand how to unwind hidden thoughts and feelings through journaling to empower self-reflection.
• Learn to cultivate an enriching environment by handpicking positive influences, enabling you to prosper.
• Comprehend the significance of honoring your commitments and words, underlining your character.
• Grasp the value of ambition in setting forth an era of positive sway on the lives of others.

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The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:00 - Dreaming of Impact, 00:01:09 - Introduction to the Fallible Man Podcast, 00:03:40 - Random Trivia and Superpower, 00:05:19 - Impactful Purchases and Dinner with Kobe, 00:07:41 - Overcoming Adversity, 00:14:23 - Becoming a Father and Changing Priorities, 00:15:23 - Raising Self-Awareness and Making Better Choices, 00:16:50 - Overcoming Challenges and Inspiring Others, 00:19:35 - Building Successful Businesses and Living on Your Own Terms, 00:28:03 - Understanding the Power of Habits, 00:29:13 - The Addictive Nature of Positive Habits, 00:31:00 - The Importance of Accountability, 00:33:04 - The Power of Simple, Consistent Actions, 00:35:19 - Owning Your Morning, 00:41:32 - Journaling and Meditation, 00:42:04 - Breaking Bad Habits, 00:42:25 - Surrounding Yourself with Positive Influences, 00:43:12 - Being Impeccable with Your Word, 00:45:40 - Future Goals and Impact

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Welcome to The Fallible Man Podcast, a transformative show dedicated to all Men out there seeking to master the art of parenting. Join us on an exciting adventure as we delve into the exhilarating yet unpredictable world of fatherhood.

In this show, we explore the essence of being a dad and unravel the secrets to successful parenting on an ever-changing terrain. With each episode, we'll reveal essential insights and practical tips to help you embrace the individuality of your children, and foster unbreakable bonds that last a lifetime.

From learning to see the world through your child's eyes to creating a nurturing space where their concerns and fears are heard, we'll cover it all. Explore ideas on setting the example, disciplining with love, and providing a safe recourse for your child's actions.

As fathers, our love for our children knows no bounds. Discover how to express that love in ways that resonate with each unique personality, leaving a lasting impact on their lives.

Subscribe now and embark on this extraordinary journey of fatherhood, where we celebrate the triumphs, tackle the challenges, and forge unforgettable memories together. Let's unlock the true potential of being a dad and create a legacy of love that will shape generations to come. 

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Does this sound familiar? As an expectant father, you've been told that your role during childbirth is limited to providing support and staying out of the way. Yet, you can't help but feel an overwhelming desire to be more actively involved, to embrace the divine masculine energy that lies within you. This discrepancy leaves you feeling disconnected, unfulfilled, and longing for a deeper connection to the miracle of childbirth.

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Understand the often overlooked momentous role of men in childbirth, via appreciation of the divine masculine.
• Identify the lack of adequate resources for men awaiting fatherhood, underlining the urgency for rich, comprehensive guidance.
• Absorb the essence of 'holding space' and its role in pioneering a fresh understanding of masculinity.
• Grasp the dynamic potency of 'holding space', exhibiting its function to receive emotions without the instinct to rectify.
• Delve into the importance of deep, introspective work for men, essential for modernizing masculinity constructs and nurturing vulnerability in fatherhood.

My special guest is Dr. Nathan Riley

Meet Dr. Nathan Riley, a trailblazer in the childbirth space. With two specialties under his belt, Obstetrics and Hospice Palliative Medicine, Dr. Riley adopts a unique approach that blends medical expertise with empathy and understanding. This charismatic professional deviates from conventional childbirth procedures, passionately advocating for a deeply personalized, patient-focused approach. Dr. Riley's ceaseless exploration of the birth process and his ability to build strong relationships with his patients have made him a beloved figure among expectant parents.

The key moments in this episode are:          

00:00:00 - The Lack of Resources for Expecting Fathers         

00:01:16 - The Role of Men in Childbirth         

00:05:18 - The Burning Man Experience          

00:06:56 - Reclaiming Masculinity Through Inner Work          

00:08:30 - Introduction to Dr. Nathan Riley          

00:12:52 - The Meaning of Technology for Humanity          

00:13:32 - The Influence of Television         00:14:41 - Dad Jokes and Embarrassing Kids         

00:16:28 - The Impact of a $100 Purchase          

00:18:03 - Maintaining Identity in Medicine          

00:19:17 - Unexpected Strength          00:21:55 - Honoring Personal Virtues          

00:26:22 - The Shift from Traditional to Conventional Birth          

00:27:09 - Disillusionment with Hospital Births          

00:28:36 - Better Outcomes with Minimal Interventions          

00:29:12 - Exploring Homebirths       

00:31:29 - Personalized Care and Involving Partners         

00:38:57 - The Importance of Home Birth         

00:40:00 - Is Home Birth Safe?          00:43:58 - The Role of the Father        

00:46:31 - Clarity for Fathers        

00:52:42 - The Importance of Oxytocin in Human Behavior         

00:53:59 - The Role of Oxytocin in Childbirth         

00:56:05 - The Impact of Oxytocin on Bonding and Breastfeeding           00:57:35 - The Man's Role in Supporting an Undisturbed Birth         

01:05:02 -  Introduction to the Born Free Method         

01:05:36 - Addressing Male Factor Infertility        

01:05:58 - HPV and Natural Clearing          

01:06:23 - Empowering Individuals in Healthcare          

01:08:32 - Claiming Responsibility and Finding Freedom         

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https://www.belovedholistics.com/

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Welcome to "The Fallible Man Podcast" on YouTube! In this episode, we're diving into the top 5 game-changing strategies for men to master in their 20's, leading to long-term success.

Your 20's are a critical phase filled with immense potential. Discover how establishing healthy habits, building valuable skills, and seeking your purpose can set you up for a lifetime of achievement.

Uncover the secrets to financial wisdom, entrepreneurship, and creating the future you desire. Learn why surrounding yourself with like-minded individuals can open doors to exciting opportunities.

Learn how women can impact your future and how intention can move the needle for the next 60 years of your life.

Ready to unlock your potential and embark on a journey of self-discovery? Join us as we guide you toward a life of purpose, prosperity, and personal growth. Hit that play button and take charge of your destiny on "The Fallible Man Podcast"!

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If you're feeling frustrated and overwhelmed by your inability to build meaningful connections and achieve the business success you desire, despite your best marketing efforts and networking endeavors, then you are not alone!

In this episode, you will be able to:

• Discover how to strike a harmonious balance between your personal growth and business success.
• Harness the power of storytelling, allowing yourself to connect with others on a profound and emotive level.
• Uncover and embrace your unique life narrative, using it as a tool to build authentic relationships.
• Overcome fear, seize opportunities for improvement, and foster the courage to take meaningful steps towards a more fulfilling life.
• Cultivate a nurturing tribe, seek useful guidance, and chart a course for spectacular personal growth.
• Strike a rewarding equilibrium in your life and business goals allowing for personal exploration and entrepreneurial success.
• Utilize the persuasive force of stories and vulnerability, and witness the depth of connections you can develop.
• Learn the art of embracing your unique experiences to forge real connections, built on the immutable foundation of your true self.
• Conquer fear, step forth into promising territories, and reap the benefits of active engagement in personal improvement.
• Build a supportive network, gain wisdom from their experiences, and set a trajectory for continuous self-development.
• Learn the successful merger of personal development with thriving business growth, leading to a balanced life.
• Adopt the art of storytelling, reaching others' hearts and souls by simply sharing your true self through your vulnerability.
• Realize the beauty in your uniqueness, and use it as a key to unlock genuine bonds.
• Win over fear, engage in constructive activities for self-improvement, and witness the betterment of various aspects of your life.
• Align yourself with a supportive tribe, seek their sage advice, and ascend towards the summit of personal growth.

My special guest is Matt Shoup

Matt Shoup is a name that resonates with tenacity and determinism. Having had a humble beginning as a young boy in New Jersey who experienced bullying and fear, Matt channeled his entrepreneurial spirit to create his own small business by the age of ten. No stranger to adversity, Matt's path led him through a maze of challenges and experiences, which included a brief stint as a loan officer and subsequent abrupt termination, igniting his journey into starting his own painting business. Capitalizing on his strength in sales and marketing, and using adversity as his fuel, Matt turned a disappointing career setback into a thriving seven-figure enterprise, proving that resilience and drive can indeed turn tables.

The key moments in this episode are:

00:00:00 - The Importance of Your Story                

00:00:31 - Reaching Our Full Potential      

00:01:20 - Introduction of Matt Shoup       

00:01:56 - Silly Question: How Many Times Do People Laugh?             

00:04:26 - Impactful Purchase: "The Relentless Elimination of Hurry"           

00:06:27 - Weirdest Thing Ever Eaten: Spanish Delicacies        

00:12:42 - The Power of Small Actions       

00:13:14 - The Relevance of Degrees      

00:13:57 - The Life-Changing Camino        

00:14:25 - Coffee Preferences       

00:15:35 - Being a Proud Father        

00:25:14 - The Founding of M and D Painting      

00:26:20 - Taking Control and Building a Successful Business    

00:29:23 - Overcoming Negative Self-Talk        

00:30:52 - The Painted Baby Story      

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🔥 Unlock the Secrets to Profound Connections! 🔥

Ready to shatter the barriers holding you back from genuine relationships? Join host Brent Dowlen in this eye-opening episode of The Fallible Man podcast as he reveals the five common mistakes sabotaging your quest for deeper connections. 🚀

Discover why sacrificing your individuality pushes people away, how making yourself too available dampens attraction, and the importance of nurturing your passions for magnetic appeal. Plus, learn the ultimate secret to keeping existing relationships thriving and why sidelining your purpose is the kiss of death for authentic connections. 💔

Don't miss this transformative journey of self-discovery and empowerment! Tune in now and take the first steps toward building the powerful and fulfilling relationships you crave. 🎧🤝

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