Should you really be vulnerable in relationships and if so, to what extent? How do you deal with your deepest insecurities and strong, challenging emotions?

This is a very raw & honest conversation about dealing with your deepest insecurities, whether you can really be vulnerable in relationships and if so, to what extent, how to deal with strong, challenging emotions, healing your relationship with your parents and so much more…

Charlie Houpert is the co-founder of Charisma On Command, a YouTube channel with over 6 Million subscribers and the host of the Dropping in Podcast.

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CHECK OUT OUR RESOURCES:

- Check out the DRVN Goal Sprint Guide: https://bit.ly/drvnnewsletter

- Download the "10 Journaling Exercises That Changed My Life" PDF: https://bit.ly/drvnnewsletter

CHECK OUT CHARLIE'S CHANNELS:

- Charisma On Command: https://www.youtube.com/@UCU_W0oE_ock8bWKjALiGs8Q

- Dropping In Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@UCbKLRsBRSYDQwq8yd8C3ZYA

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TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) Intro

(0:52) Why People Don't Really Want To Be Confident & Happy

(7:45) The 5 Archetypes of Charisma

(13:21) How Pickup And The Manosphere Is Hurting Young Men

(20:18) How To Trust In Relationships & How To Open Up (The "Right" Way)

(24:59) How To Let Go Of Control

(33:20) The Difference Between Your 20s And 30s

(38:33) How To Overcome Fear Of Connection

(46:58) The Key To Mastering Your Emotions (Aries & Aphrodite Story)

(54:47) Why Men Need Their Feminine & Women Need Their Masculine

(57:37) Should You Really Be Vulnerable As A Man?

(1:04:49) How To Free Yourself From Your Biggest Fears

(1:11:49) Why You Should Have An Ego

(1:18:37 )The Biggest Lessons From His 30s vs 20s

(1:24:42) Why It's So Hard To Communicate Your Needs

(1:30:16) How To Master Your Emotions, Especially When You Feel Numb

(1:35:15) How To Start Your Emotional Journey

Chase Hughes is the US Government’s brainwashing and interrogation expert training the intelligence agencies, a neuroscientist, and the world’s #1 human behavior expert.

He spent 20 years in the US military and trains intelligence agents and companies on human hacking, influence, persuasion, interrogation, and negotiation.

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CHECK OUT OUR RESOURCES:

- Check out the DRVN Goal Sprint Guide: https://bit.ly/drvnnewsletter

- Download the "10 Journaling Exercises That Changed My Life" PDF: https://bit.ly/drvnnewsletter

- Apply to join the DRVN community: https://www.skool.com/drvn

OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- NCI University: https://www.nci.university/

- Chase Hughes' channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCUBj_5pwQZaoXfBrEQQbADw

- The Behavior Panel channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCx_8ri2rYergbu_06VNSPlw

- Methylene Blue that Chase is using (Use Code "LEON" for 5% off): https://www.mitozen.club/?ref=vifklyvv

- Chase's academic papers on methylene blue: https://www.academia.edu/101664825/Neurological_Mechanisms_of_Action_and_Benefits_of_Methylene_Blue

- Book - Simulation & Simulacra: https://www.amazon.com/Simulacra-Simulation-Body-Theory-Materialism/dp/0472065211

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TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) Who is Chase Hughes?

(00:48) How To Spot A Psychopath & Narcissist

(09:31) How To Read Anyone & Know Their True Intentions

(19:11) Why We Wear Masks & How To Be Authentic

(30:10) 3 Things To Look For In An Intimate Partner, Friend & Business Relationship

(40:07) Influence Tactic: Don't Ask Questions, Say This Instead

(49:44) Spot A Liar: 7 Signs You're Being Deceived

(55:05) Mind Virus Technique: How To Make Anyone Reveal The Truth

(1:05:54) How Your Personality Shows Up In Your Face

(1:13:04) People Who Are Easily Influenced Are Happier. Here's Why.

(1:15:06) His Horrific Brain Disease And How He Healed It

(1:23:57) The Miracle Compound He Took To Heal

(01:35:09) How To Decrease Your Ego

(1:39:47) Fake Reality: Proof That Our World Is A Simulation

(1:48:47) 3 Signs of Societal Collapse

(01:54:06) The Truman Show: Breaking Out Of The Simulation

(02:03:48) Why The Desire To Be Liked Is A Deadly Disease

(02:10:10) The Dopamine Map: Where Are You Getting Dopamine From?

(02:17:18) How To Build A (Healthy) Cult

(02:25:07) Where To Find Chase

In this episode we dive into how to work less and achieve more, crushing the last few months of this year and why I look different.

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) Intro

(0:35) Feeling overwhelmed? This is the easiest solution.

(6:00) Passive Productivity: How To Make Progress Without Working

(13:54) This Is Counterproductive, But Doubles Your Productivity

(22:07) The Most Important Piece To Maximize Progress

(29:07) How To Crush The Last 90 Days Of This Year

(36:53) Join Our 90-Day Challenge!

(37:23) Why I Look Different Now (Face, Jaw, Body)

(47:34) Leon Has Lucky Genetics (lol)

APPLY TO JOIN THE COMMUNITY:

https://www.skool.com/drvn

OTHER RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- Stronger gum link: https://www.strongergum.com/

In this episode we dive into how to get unstuck, using pain as a necessary motivator to drive you, a 30-day plan to reinvent yourself and the community gives me their honest thoughts on monetization.

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) Intro

(0:27) Why you’re stuck and need pain to change

(9:42) Why you enjoy being stuck (& what keeps you there)

(12:35) How your self image can keep you stuck

(15:15) How to get unstuck

(24:23) Why Leon is stuck financially & gets feedback from the crew

(30:39) Reinvent yourself in 30 days

Apply to join the community:

https://www.skool.com/drvn

In this episode, I'm diving into why ambition makes you lonely (and how to overcome it), the recent MrBeast controversies and allegations (and my take on it as someone who had a few conversations with him 1-on-1) as well as the mindset of outliers.

Let me know what you think!

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TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) - 3 Topics For Today

(0:23) - TOPIC 1: Why Ambition Makes You Lonely

(2:39) - How Leon Experienced "Achiever's Loneliness"

(5:38) - 3 Reasons Why Achiever's Loneliness Is So Common & Difficult To Solve

(14:16) - The 5 Stages Of Achiever's Loneliness

(14:39) - Phase 1 & 2: You Notice That You Don't Fit In

(20:33) - Phase 3: You're By Yourself & How To Overcome It

(29:22) - Phase 4: You Find Like-Minded Friends, But Still Struggle To Connect (How To Move To Stage 5)

(35:58) - Why Leon Started The DRVN Community

(36:36) - TOPIC 2: Addressing MrBeast Allegations & Controversies

(37:56) - How MrBeast & Leon First Connected

(39:55) - What Leon Learned About MrBeast When Talking To Him

(42:08) - Why People Are Actually Upset

(45:33) - Vulture Culture On YouTube & What We Can Learn From All This

(51:30) - TOPIC 3: Mental Models Of Outliers

(55:00) - The #1 Question To Ask Yourself To Become An Outlier

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Join the DRVN community here:

https://www.skool.com/drvn

Eric Wen is a personality analyst specializing in Personality Type Teaching and Analysis. He teaches professionals about their personality patterns so they can level up their communication, self awareness and relationships.

The MBTI (Myers Briggs) personality test is widely known and commonly misunderstood. It breaks down 16 personalities using combinations of 4 letters.

Extroverted vs. Introverted (E vs. I)

Intuitive vs. Sensing (N vs. S)

Thinking vs. Feeling (T vs. F)

Judging vs. Perceiving (J vs. P)

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- Take the 16 personality test: https://www.16personalities.com/

- Check out Eric's channel: https://www.youtube.com/@EricWen

- Check out Eric's in-depth channel: https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkMoreDeeply

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) - What the Myers-Briggs Test Is Really About

(1:48) - Introversion vs. Extroversion (Widely Misunderstood)

(3:28) - Intuition vs. Sensing: What Information You Trust First

(6:55) - Thinking vs. Feeling: What People Get Wrong

(8:37) - Judging vs. Perceiving: How You Organize Things

(10:55) - Cognitive Functions: Understanding How You Think

(20:47) - Introversion Is Not About Social Confidence

(23:15) - Should You Take Advice From People Who Are Different Than You?

(26:31) - Should You Focus On Your Strengths or Weaknesses?

(29:55) - How Much Can You Change It?

(34:42) - Eric Breaks Down Leon’s Personality Type

(38:19) - The Biggest Growth Area For Thinkers

(41:34) - How To Improve Dating & Relationships With Personality Types

(48:43) - “Personality tests are BS and not science.”

(52:45) - How To Resolve Relationship Conflicts

(54:39) - How To Take The Test (Free)

Rachel Starr, a top adult film star, shares why she hired the world leading brainwashing and interrogation expert to learn from him, how she manages her money and how to read anyone to stop a liar.

Leave your preconceived notions at the door and give this one a listen because she is an absolute savage.

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00): How much money does she have?

(2:39): Why She Hired The Government Brainwashing & Interrogation Expert (Chase Hughes)

(9:41): How To Read Anyone In Minutes

(18:05): How To Apply It In Business & Money Mastery

(21:16): How Tony Robbins Coached Her 1-on-1 In Front Of Thousands Of People

(30:15): Growing Up In A Cult

(39:33): How She Got Into The Adult Industry & Dominated

(52:39): What The Adult Industry Is Really Like

(56:15): Nature vs. Nurture: What Made Her Driven?

(1:00:33): How To Stop Caring What Other People Think

(1:07:02): Her Experience With Psychedelics & Spirituality

(1:10:55): The Best Personality Test To Take

What if we could use the highly addictive hacks that social media uses to get us hooked to, instead, get addicted to challenging work?

I found 10 strategies that I will implement myself and here they are.

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) - 10 Strategies To Get Addicted To Challenging Work

(1:37) - The Truth About Dopamine

(5:13) - #1: RIRT (Random Intermittent Reward Timing)

(7:48) - #2: Celebrate Efforts, Not Outcomes

(11:29) - #3: Don't Dopamine Stack

(14:17) - #4: Avoid Big Spikes

(18:22) - #5: Increase Dopamine Baseline

(19:24) - #6: The Winner Effect

(23:09) - #7: 'Go Worse' Technique

(25:39) - #8: Create Certainty & Desire

(29:36) - #9: Increase Clarity

(33:26) - #10: Gamify It

(35:45) - Bonus One (Insanely Powerful Instant Overnight Success Hack Holy Bananas Dude Where's My Car?)

(36:44) - The 'Fish With Legs' Hypothesis

(40:04) - Why This Channel Sucks (& How To Improve)

Chase Hughes is the US Government’s brainwashing and interrogation expert training the intelligence agencies, a neuroscientist, and the world’s #1 human behavior expert.

He spent 20 years in the US military and trains intelligence agents and companies on human hacking, influence, persuasion, interrogation, and negotiation.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) - What Really Happened At The Trump Assassination Attempt?

(6:28) - The Weird Crowd Behavior At The Rally Explained

(11:39) - What Does a Government Brainwashing Expert Actually Do?

(14:12) - Trump vs. Biden: What Brainwashing Tactics Are They Using?

(20:30) - How To Make Someone Do Anything

(26:17) - The #1 Tool To Control People (& Why)

(35:19) - How To (Un)intentionally Brainwash Yourself

(39:58) - The #1 Key To Unshakable Confidence

(48:35) - The #1 Confidence Killer: How To Always Be The Most Comfortable In The Room

(58:15) - How To Stop Caring What Other People Think

(1:04:56) - How To Be Treated Differently By Others

(1:14:16) - How To Brainwash Yourself For Success & Behavior Change

(1:26:47) - How To Become a Leader Worth Following

(1:39:11)- How To Spot A Liar

(1:50:28) - How To Stop Being Awkward Or Shy

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RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- Chase Hughes’ Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@chasehughesofficial

- Behavior Panel’s Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheBehaviorPanel

- Chase Hughes website: https://www.chasehughes.com/

- Check out Chase Hughes’ Authority Assessment Tool: https://bit.ly/3ygi82H

This episode is a masterclass on finding your passion, uncovering your unique superpowers to maximize your output, and defining a higher purpose for your life to get you out of bed in the morning.

We’re also talking about a fun experience we had meeting Alex Hormozi and Sam Ovens at the monthly Skool Games. Chaos ensued.

TIMESTAMPS:

(0:00) - Find What You Love Now

(1:32) - Why You Need An Identity Crisis

(4:07) - Lie #1: You only have to find it once (The 4 life phases)

(11:20) Lie #2: Passions don’t require discipline

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

- The 4 life phases video: https://youtu.be/ym0mSXSNZsU?si=PSHcDhSO85ZPPG62

- Myers Briggs personality test: https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

- DISC personality test: https://www.truity.com/test/disc-personality-test

- Kolbe working style test: https://www.kolbe.com/

- Enneagram test: https://enneagramtest.com/

- 12 Types tests: https://www.12types.com/

- Jordan Peterson’s tests: https://www.understandmyself.com/