Dying Alone, Together

By Necessary Outlet Productions

Weekly podcast featuring NYC LGBTQIA+ creative Jack Tracy, the creator of Dekkoo original series Danny Will Die Alone. Jack is back to discuss gay dating and behind the scenes of Danny Will Die Alo

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September 15, 2021 13. "Owning the awkwardness" with Benjy Bradshaw
Jack and JJ own the awkwardness of being attracted to someone you're dating's friend. They also consider the reverse, what happens when someone you like likes one of your friends.
In segment two the boys have a philosophical debate about the expectation of privacy when sharing nude pictures on the hookup apps.
Today’s special guest is NYC-based recording artist Benji Bradshaw, who joins the boys to discuss red flags.
Finally, Jack leaves love and light to DIxon Place, and JJ picks a fight with lube...AGAIN!
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1h 5min
September 08, 2021 12. "Your eyes are bigger than your hole" with Oscar Montoya
Jack is back from Provincetown Bear Week, and he is feeling himself. He talks with JJ about his time there and his use of statement tanks to make friends.
In segment two the boys take a break from swiping and discuss their "bottom journeys."
Today’s special guest is LA-based writer and comedian Oscar Montoya who joins the boys for a WILD game of Good Giving and Game!
Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the bear community, and JJ leaves love and light to tequila.
Follow Oscar: https://www.instagram.com/ozzymo
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1h 12min
September 01, 2021 11. "The tiniest Yeezys" with Alec James
Brazil loves Jack, and the feeling is mutual. At the top of today’s show Jack relays a conversation with a recent Brazilian lover explaining why his romances with men of that particular ethnicity tend to go sour. The boys then dive into a discussion on racial fetishes more broadly.
In segment two the boys take another week off of swiping to discuss their love language. No gifts please.
Today’s special guest is JJ’s childhood friend and former(?) paste eater Alec James who makes the boys play a new game—Where Is This Going?—where we must guess the next chapter of a wild dating story.
Finally, JJ picks a fight with drunk dancing, sort of, while Jack lays into other dog owners.
Alec James: https://www.instagram.com/alecatraz
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1h 9min
August 25, 2021 10. "Grandpa's sounding rods" with Dina Massery
Condom use, PREP and STIs oh my! In segment one, the boys talk about their safer sex strategies and perceptions around STIs.
In segment two the boys go back to swiping Tinder and discuss Jack swiping and chatting with a former lover of JJ's. We also find a thirst trap filled profile adamantly decrying people seeking hookups.
After the break, the boys are joined by friend of the pod and host of Best Bars in Brooklyn Dina Massery to play a new game—Virtue Signal. In the game, Dina must decide whether her hypothetical date’s virtues are dealbreakers.
Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the people at Leather Man NYC and JJ picks a fight with smart cars.
Dina's Best Bars in Brooklyn: https://www.dinamassery.com/
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1h 12min
August 18, 2021 09. "You can hear the face I'm making" with Brennen Savon
The boys discuss the post-pandemic resurfacing of old flames, attempts to rekindle and desire for closure. It turns into a conversation of how each deals with lovesickness and heartbreak.
In segment two, the boys skip swiping in order to review the “Art of Seduction” types and figure out which one they match with.
After the break, Jack and JJ pimp out Necessary Outlet fan Brennen Savon—a sexy artist and teacher in Philly—who is looking for a man of all seasons.
The episode concludes with a double love and light—JJ to kissing strangers and Jack to Maxi.
Date Brennen: www.instagram.com/brennensavon/
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1h 10min
August 11, 2021 08. "Emotional Spanking" with J.R. Price
JJ is stalking you on the internet, and we talk about it at the top of the episode. How much of a deep dive you do on a new romantic interest? Jack discusses what it's like to have a LOT of content on the internet when dating and tells stories where he was forced into nonconsensual content on a date.
After the break, Jack and JJ swipe Grindr and quickly find someone Jack has already had sex with. The conversations turns into one about roleplay, kink and a childhood trauma of Jack's and how it might all relate.
Then the boys are joined by body positive queer musician J.R. Price to talk about red flags and the homophobia in Nashville, and then you get a listen of Jack and JR's new single, "Don't Compare" (Remix), which is now streaming everywhere. Don't forget to also grab JR's new song "Golden Hour", out now.
After our music break, Jack and JJ both pick fights with skateboards but in very different ways.
More from JR: www.instagram.com/jrpriceless5eva/
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1h 15min
August 04, 2021 07. "Free and Horny" with Joseph Patrick Conroy
JJ’s got an aura about him and he’s not afraid to show it! Jack clocks his positive vibe in segment one before the boys talk about best breakup practices.
After the break (new Satisfyer ads you guys, we know you like the ads), the boys swipe OKCupid and talk about the appropriate amount of filtering on photos, how early to discuss whether you want kids in the future, and whether you must send a message along with a like on an app.
Then the boys are joined by filmmaker Joseph Patrick Conroy for an extremely moving conversation about his eight year battle for sole custody of his daughter. Get your tissues.
Jack and JJ give love and light to and comedian Jessica St. Clair and tattoo artist Christian Lord, respectfully.
More from Joe: www.josephpatrickconroy.com
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1h 11min
July 28, 2021 06. "JJ, Max and the Volcano" with Jim Silvestri of Thotyssey
Jack and JJ are feeling polyamorous at the start of this week's episode. They discuss their interactions with the nontraditional relationship model in segment one, and after the break swipe OKCupid to consider the best approach for contacting someone who matched Jack who Jack very much wants to meet, but doesn't have romantic interest in.
Later, they are joined by Thotyssey.com's and NYC nightlife staple Jim Silvestri to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Passive aggressiveness, boys with crazy exes, indecisiveness, and guys who've never had a boyfriend all come up, among others. Then stay tuned for a VERY SPECIAL love and light/pick a fight.
**NOTE this episode was recorded in April 2021 and the discussion of lockdown/quarantine/vaccination is of that time period.***
Follow Jim: www.instagram.com/th0tyssey
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1h 20min
July 21, 2021 05. "Just mangled guts pretending" with Brandon Salerno
Jack and JJ start off this week’s episode by shitting where they eat—discussing workplace romances. JJ has a story about young love at a part time job and Jack talks about the difficulty of employees slipping into his DMs.
In segment two, the boys check Jack’s Grindr Home Screen to find someone too young, someone who is likely stepping out on a girlfriend and someone who lives in Jack’s building.
Later, they are joined by Brandon Salerno to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Brandon’s red flag is actors, which he also considers to be his own flag. JJ doesn’t like people who are uncomfortable with silence and his flag is his need for control and closure. Jack stays away from people with complicated relationships with sex and discloses that he’s the guy who’s had nothing but terrible breakups (buckle up, we get into them). Finally, Jack and JJ both pick fights—with lube and Bowen Yang.
Follow Brandon: www.instagram.com/brandonsactor
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1h 25min
July 14, 2021 04. "Where are the hole pics?" with Corry J. Ethridge
It's an all out assault on astrology at the top of the show this week, with Jack being the most Capricorn he's ever been. JJ partially defends the zodiac and Jack explains why he couldn't date a sexy otter obsessed with tarot (spoiler: Jack does NOT "believe in energy").
In segment two, the boys swipe Hinge and take a detour to evaluate Jack's own picture selection. Jack also has a hot take on French people ("they're all assholes") which is immediately validated by a Hinge swipe, and oh boy is everyone wearing a hat today in their photos!
Today’s guest is dancer, actor, singer and all around instagram pretty boy Corry J. Ethridge, who has agreed to get PIMPED OUT by the co-hosts. YOU SHOULD DATE CORRY OR AT LEAST SEND HIM NUDES. Jack and JJ review his dating app presence and give a few pointers. Finally, JJ leaves love and light to YouTube skincare tutorials and Jack picks a fight with gay Republicans/conservatives.
**REMINDER - There is a lot of discussion of the pandemic and reopening as this episode was recorded in April 2021.**
Date Corry: www.instagram.com/corryjethridge
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1h 18min

FAQs about Dying Alone, Together:

How many episodes does Dying Alone, Together have?

The podcast currently has 84 episodes available.