Dying Alone, Together

Our libidos are out of control, and we aren’t ashamed to talk about it.  At the top of this week’s episode, Jack and JJ describe their recently supercharged libidos and how it complicates looking for a serious long-term relationship.

In segment two, we borrow a game from a much more famous podcast and play Best/Worst in which Jack and JJ each reveal their best and worst hookup.

After the break, Jack and JJ are joined by LGBTQ+ celebrity interviewer Denny Patterson to play a game of Self Cancellation.

The episode concludes with JJ leaving love and light to the french fries at Cannabis Bar in Nashville, and you get to hear a SECOND take of Jack picking a fight with a local tattoo artist because the first take got too spicy.

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Jack and JJ own the awkwardness of being attracted to someone you're dating's friend. They also consider the reverse, what happens when someone you like likes one of your friends.

In segment two the boys have a philosophical debate about the expectation of privacy when sharing nude pictures on the hookup apps.

Today’s special guest is NYC-based recording artist Benji Bradshaw, who joins the boys to discuss red flags.

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to DIxon Place, and JJ picks a fight with lube...AGAIN!

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Jack is back from Provincetown Bear Week, and he is feeling himself. He talks with JJ about his time there and his use of statement tanks to make friends.

In segment two the boys take a break from swiping and discuss their "bottom journeys."

Today’s special guest is LA-based writer and comedian Oscar Montoya who joins the boys for a WILD game of Good Giving and Game!

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the bear community, and JJ leaves love and light to tequila.

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Brazil loves Jack, and the feeling is mutual. At the top of today’s show Jack relays a conversation with a recent Brazilian lover explaining why his romances with men of that particular ethnicity tend to go sour. The boys then dive into a discussion on racial fetishes more broadly.

In segment two the boys take another week off of swiping to discuss their love language. No gifts please.

Today’s special guest is JJ’s childhood friend and former(?) paste eater Alec James who makes the boys play a new game—Where Is This Going?—where we must guess the next chapter of a wild dating story.

Finally, JJ picks a fight with drunk dancing, sort of, while Jack lays into other dog owners.

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Condom use, PREP and STIs oh my! In segment one, the boys talk about their safer sex strategies and perceptions around STIs.

In segment two the boys go back to swiping Tinder and discuss Jack swiping and chatting with a former lover of JJ's. We also find a thirst trap filled profile adamantly decrying people seeking hookups.

After the break, the boys are joined by friend of the pod and host of Best Bars in Brooklyn Dina Massery to play a new game—Virtue Signal. In the game, Dina must decide whether her hypothetical date’s virtues are dealbreakers.

Finally, Jack leaves love and light to the people at Leather Man NYC and JJ picks a fight with smart cars.

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The boys discuss the post-pandemic resurfacing of old flames, attempts to rekindle and desire for closure. It turns into a conversation of how each deals with lovesickness and heartbreak.

In segment two, the boys skip swiping in order to review the “Art of Seduction” types and figure out which one they match with.

After the break, Jack and JJ pimp out Necessary Outlet fan Brennen Savon—a sexy artist and teacher in Philly—who is looking for a man of all seasons.

The episode concludes with a double love and light—JJ to kissing strangers and Jack to Maxi.

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JJ is stalking you on the internet, and we talk about it at the top of the episode. How much of a deep dive you do on a new romantic interest? Jack discusses what it's like to have a LOT of content on the internet when dating and tells stories where he was forced into nonconsensual content on a date.

After the break, Jack and JJ swipe Grindr and quickly find someone Jack has already had sex with. The conversations turns into one about roleplay, kink and a childhood trauma of Jack's and how it might all relate.

Then the boys are joined by body positive queer musician J.R. Price to talk about red flags and the homophobia in Nashville, and then you get a listen of Jack and JR's new single, "Don't Compare" (Remix), which is now streaming everywhere. Don't forget to also grab JR's new song "Golden Hour", out now.

After our music break, Jack and JJ both pick fights with skateboards but in very different ways.

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JJ’s got an aura about him and he’s not afraid to show it! Jack clocks his positive vibe in segment one before the boys talk about best breakup practices.

After the break (new Satisfyer ads you guys, we know you like the ads), the boys swipe OKCupid and talk about the appropriate amount of filtering on photos, how early to discuss whether you want kids in the future, and whether you must send a message along with a like on an app.

Then the boys are joined by filmmaker Joseph Patrick Conroy for an extremely moving conversation about his eight year battle for sole custody of his daughter. Get your tissues.

Jack and JJ give love and light to and comedian Jessica St. Clair and tattoo artist Christian Lord, respectfully.

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Jack and JJ are feeling polyamorous at the start of this week's episode. They discuss their interactions with the nontraditional relationship model in segment one, and after the break swipe OKCupid to consider the best approach for contacting someone who matched Jack who Jack very much wants to meet, but doesn't have romantic interest in.

Later, they are joined by Thotyssey.com's and NYC nightlife staple Jim Silvestri to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Passive aggressiveness, boys with crazy exes, indecisiveness, and guys who've never had a boyfriend all come up, among others. Then stay tuned for a VERY SPECIAL love and light/pick a fight.

**NOTE this episode was recorded in April 2021 and the discussion of lockdown/quarantine/vaccination is of that time period.***

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Jack and JJ start off this week’s episode by shitting where they eat—discussing workplace romances. JJ has a story about young love at a part time job and Jack talks about the difficulty of employees slipping into his DMs.

In segment two, the boys check Jack’s Grindr Home Screen to find someone too young, someone who is likely stepping out on a girlfriend and someone who lives in Jack’s building.

Later, they are joined by Brandon Salerno to play Flag4Flag—a game about red flags in others and about ourselves. Brandon’s red flag is actors, which he also considers to be his own flag. JJ doesn’t like people who are uncomfortable with silence and his flag is his need for control and closure. Jack stays away from people with complicated relationships with sex and discloses that he’s the guy who’s had nothing but terrible breakups (buckle up, we get into them). Finally, Jack and JJ both pick fights—with lube and Bowen Yang.

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