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You've probably heard it—or maybe even said it: "I can't imagine what you're going through." It sounds compassionate on the surface, but it often creates emotional distance instead of connection.
In this episode, I explain why this common sympathy phrase misses the mark for many grievers and what to say that's actually comforting.
You'll learn:
Why "I can't imagine" feels dismissive to grievers
The deeper message this phrase unintentionally sends
Short, compassionate alternatives to "I can't imagine what you're going through"
...
Get FREE grief workshops, quizzes, and so much more on my website: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/links
Keep Grief Grower ad-free by becoming a Patreon supporter: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
Join my online course + community, Life After Loss Academy: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/life-after-loss-academy
Listen to more episodes of Grief Grower, view episode transcripts, and submit a question for the show: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-grower-podcast
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You've probably heard it—or maybe even said it: "I can't imagine what you're going through." It sounds compassionate on the surface, but it often creates emotional distance instead of connection.
In this episode, I explain why this common sympathy phrase misses the mark for many grievers and what to say that's actually comforting.
You'll learn:
Why "I can't imagine" feels dismissive to grievers
The deeper message this phrase unintentionally sends
Short, compassionate alternatives to "I can't imagine what you're going through"
...
Get FREE grief workshops, quizzes, and so much more on my website: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/links
Keep Grief Grower ad-free by becoming a Patreon supporter: https://www.patreon.com/shelbyforsythia
Join my online course + community, Life After Loss Academy: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/life-after-loss-academy
Listen to more episodes of Grief Grower, view episode transcripts, and submit a question for the show: https://www.shelbyforsythia.com/grief-grower-podcast

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