Grief Grower

E28: Supporting Someone #2: Why "Sorry for Your Loss" Isn't Enough—And What to Say Instead


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"I'm sorry for your loss" is one of the most common phrases people say to grievers after a loss—but does it really help? I explore why it often falls flat and share what grieving people actually want to hear.

You'll discover:

  • Why we default to "I'm sorry for your loss" in the first place

  • How this phrase can unintentionally feel empty or obligatory

  • Real examples of how grievers experience these words

  • What to say instead that brings comfort, connection, and care

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