I talk about the red flags to look out for in unhealthy or toxic relationships. Are we really victims? People project their issues on to us and often abuse us mentally, physically, and emotionally, and I don't condone these projections. We do, however accept the treatment towards ourselves. We allow ourselves to be abused, even though we always have the choice to walk away. Sometimes we find it hard to forgive ourselves for not walking away sooner, but every single relationship or situation has a purpose in our lives and teaches us something about ourselves. Nothing is wasted.