Easy Biblical Marriage

From a spiritual perspective, it’s important to recognize that to get married is to come under the authority of your husband in just as real a way as when you choose a church you come under the spiritual authority of the pastor.  But what does that look like when your husband is not a believer or is involved in actively sinning?

Find out SPECIFICALLY and PRACTICALLY on this episode!

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Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

So much of what wives try to solve interpersonally, is actually a spiritual issue. This week on Easy Biblical Marriage, I’m unpacking when to use interpersonal skills in marriage and when to go inward and do business with God. 

Women often ask me whether to deal with marriage issues interpersonally or spiritually. The answer is always both, but it is usually a lot less interpersonal than we think.

For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 NLT

This episode will help clarify when to apply interpersonal principles of relationship versus when to pause and do business with God first (spoiler alert: always go to God first).

When you realize your true power as a wife, interpersonally and spiritually…everything changes. 💫

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

This episode continues the Five Keys to Transformation series, focusing on how to let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness.

You will learn about the negative impacts of holding onto grudges, the importance of repentance, and the process of spiritually cleansing oneself to re-establish a connection with God.

Licensed therapist, Lucy Martin, shares personal experiences and provides actionable steps to help individuals move past emotional pain and improve their relationships through a heart posture of thankfulness and faith.

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

Do you wonder what to do when someone who lives with you is opening doors to the enemy or acting out generational trauma patterns?

This episode is a reminder of how powerful we really are. Our battle is not against flesh and blood. 

Often we sabotage ourselves by going to the interpersonal, opening further doors through offense, conflict and chaos. 

The great news? All of this is within our control and the battle has already been won by Jesus! We just need to step into who we are in Him more fully.

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

Are you praying like you actually believe God can restore your marriage to better than you can ask, think, or imagine?

A good way to check yourself is whether your mind feels renewed by the way you are praying.

Do you feel renewed and refreshed, like you have gained a heavenly perspective?

Want support? Here are some ways to get it:

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

So many women want a man's man, and yet our culture undermines the very qualities in us that will help us be successful in such a relationship. In this episode, my guest Nicole and I unpack a bit about how unlearning some of our societal upbringing helped us have more intimate and fun marriages.

Join the Facebook community ⁠here⁠. 

Email me at ⁠[email protected]⁠ to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

So many women want a man's man, and yet our culture undermines the very qualities in us that will help us be successful in such a relationship. In this episode, my guest Nicole and I unpack a bit about how unlearning some of our societal upbringing helped us have more intimate and fun marriages.

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

The enemy gives us false choices. If we think that the answer to be a good wife is just to "submit harder" then we give up on God's order easily, thinking it's impossible.

An impossible standard just results in unhappy wives - and unhappy wives create unhappy marriages.

God's word provides true freedom and a better way. Listen in as my guest Nicole and I share vulnerably about how we learned many of these lessons the hard way!

Join the Facebook community here. 

Email me at [email protected] to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. 

The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change now.

• Stop feeling that ick after you interact with him

• Forgive and let go of bitterness (C.S. Lewis said bitterness is like drinking poison yourself so that he will die)

• Know exactly what to say so that he actually feels respected

• Stop feeling exhausted and resentful from doing everything

• Know exactly how to turn a vicious cycle into a virtuous one

• Unhitch from the roller coaster of your experience of life being tied to how he shows up

• Enjoy emotional safety with your man - where you can relax and be yourself and he feels the same way.

On the consult, we will talk about what's possible for you specifically inside my private, 1:1 Faith Over Fear coaching program. I'll be inviting you to the coaching program on the call if I feel it's a fit for your needs.

Either way, whether you move forward with my Faith Over Fear program or not, you will walk away knowing exactly what's within your power to change in your marriage. A fresh perspective on a path forward is priceless!

When men feel disrespected, they withdraw.

Whereas, when they feel respected, it’s like oxygen to them.

Suddenly they become affectionate!

You will have more influence. My husband just explained this on my teacher’s podcast, that before the respect was there, he didn’t respect me either.

Since respect has been restored in my marriage:

He is more loving.

He is more motivated to provide and make my dreams come true.

He reaches for me in his sleep.

The bedroom is night and day better.

I get the best of him, and it just keeps getting better!

I know there’s a lot out there vying for your attention, but learning what respect means to your man deserves your attention. It really is a game changer!

I used to get vulnerability wrong.

I thought it was about letting him know how I REALLY FELT.

Like, “tell me how you really feel!” type of thing. And guess what? He wouldn’t take it well at all. So it never got me what I wanted.

No, that’s easy. Anyone can do that. Vulnerability is different. It takes courage.

Vulnerability has completely changed my marriage and all my relationships.

I feel so much more connected to people.

I love my life more.

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