IVF Failed You  - The "So Now What?" Podcast

Embracing Friendships When You're the Only Childless One


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In this episode, Lana dives into the complex emotions that can arise when you’re the only one in your group of friends who is childless after infertility. If you've ever felt like an outsider among your BFFs as they talk about their kids, this episode is for you. Lana explores how to maintain meaningful connections, even when your life looks different from those around you. She shares personal stories and practical advice on how to embrace your unique journey, reclaim your relevance in your friendships, and feel empowered in your childless future.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to recognize that your value in friendships isn’t diminished just because you don’t have kids.
  • Tips on finding common ground with your friends that doesn’t center around motherhood.
  • The importance of embracing your own journey and sharing your unique perspective with your friends.
  • How to set compassionate boundaries with friends who are moms, and why it’s okay to do so.
  • Ways to feel connected and relevant in conversations, even if you don’t have parenting stories to share.

Key Takeaways:

  • You don’t have to relate 100% to everyone’s experiences to feel connected and valued.
  • Your friends appreciate you for who you are, not for how closely your life mirrors theirs.
  • It’s okay to set boundaries when certain topics or events feel too painful, and real friends will respect that.
  • Embracing your journey as a childless woman can deepen your connections with your friends.
  • You have the power to create and maintain meaningful connections, regardless of your childless status.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Free Class: Register for Lana's free upcoming coaching class  on September 10th about how to handle comments and questions when you're childless. If you can’t make it live, don’t worry—register to receive the replay. 
  • Thrive After Infertility Mastermind: Interested in joining Lana’s next Thrive After Infertility Mastermind starting on October 1st? This program is designed for women ready to move beyond their infertility journey and create a life they love. 
  • Free Resource: Get Lana’s free guide, "The Top 27 Things People Say When You're Childless and How to Respond," at LanaManikowski.com/thingspeoplesay.

Support the Podcast: If you enjoyed this episode, please consider rating and reviewing the podcast. Screenshot your review and send it to Lana to receive a $5 Starbucks gift card as a thank you! Your reviews help other women who are searching for resources to find the support they need.

Stay Connected:

  • Follow Lana on Instagram: @LanaManikowski
  • Join the conversation on Facebook: Lana’s Facebook Page

Thank you for listening! Remember, it's never too late to discover your meaning and fall in love with your life again. Tune in next week for another empowering episode.

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