Emotionally Unfucked

By Emotionally Unfucked Pod

Are you a woman who seems completely put together but doesn’t actually feel that way? Meet Emily and Stassi, two recovering people-pleasers (and Columbia-trained therapists) reviewing their favorite l... more

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The podcast currently has 21 episodes available.

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June 22, 2023Letting Go of Anxiety and Becoming Your Most Authentic Self with Talia Bombola
On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we’ve invited Talia Bombola to chat with us about her work as a Confidence and Assertiveness Specialist. Talia is the CEO and Founder of Newport Counseling Center for Individual, Couples, and Family Therapy, Inc. She holds a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology with an Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy. We chat with Taila about trauma responses, how generational trauma affects your ability to rest, and her retirement from hustle culture and boss babe life.

We get into:
Why confidence and assertiveness are important traits to foster

Dealing with productivity guilt

How resting is vital to your nervous system and why it should be prioritized

Internalized and societal pressures to go, go, go

How these issues can manifest in partner relationships

Can’t get enough of Talia? We get it!
Find out more about her on her website- https://www.therapywithtalia.com/
Follow her on Instagram here- https://www.instagram.com/taliabombola/

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56min
June 15, 2023How to Use Practical Spiritual Tools for More Peace with Kassi Underwood
On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we’re chatting with Kassi Underwood on her spiritual journey and how she created her own morning practice that resonates with so many people. She is the author of May Cause Love, her memoir, and host of the podcast Big Energy with Kassi Underwood.

We’re diving into how Kassi came to find radical self-acceptance even through difficult times and how she developed The Practice, a method for taking your sad and unproductive thoughts to a place of love and energy that promotes manifestation.

We get into:
Her memoir May Cause Love, and her journey through grief and self-acceptance after abortion

Emily’s experience working with Kassi

The societal pressures and expectations surrounding grief

The moving parts of healing and how they fit together

Using spiritual tools to create physical outcomes

Different ways you can utilize a spiritual practice in your own life

Can’t get enough of Kassi? We get it!
Visit her website to learn more and download her morning practice for free-

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1h 10min
June 08, 2023The Invisible Work of Emotional Labor with Gemma Hartley
On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we welcome Gemma Hartley, author and writing coach, as a guest to talk to us about her book Fed Up. Gemma’s article "Women Aren’t Nags; We’re Just Fed Up" went viral in 2017, sparking a national conversation on the mental load that women have been expected to burden and leading to her book, Fed Up. Her book not only names the problem of invisible work but also lays down the groundwork for men and women to learn how to wield emotional labor to live more full and satisfying lives.

We’re chatting more about:
How her viral article idea turned into a book

What is emotional labor and how it breaks down into 4 different parts

The conversations partners should be having to help the burden

The first step is to start dividing the emotional labor in a household

Negative effects of not sharing the mental load
Gemma’s upcoming 6-week live course (August 23rd - Sept 27th) Pitched to Published to help freelance writers learn to pitch and get published in online publications and print magazines. She has extended a special offer for our listeners! Use code emotionallyunfucked to save $50 when signing up for Pitched to Published. Visit the link to learn more!
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Can’t get enough of Gemma? We get it!
Learn more about her and her book Fed Up here- http://www.gemmahartley.com/

Follow her on Instagram here- https://www.instagram.com/gemmalhartley/
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1h 5min
June 02, 2023The Unflustered Mom Approach with Amber Trueblood
Our guest on today’s episode is that amazing Amber Trueblood. Amber is a licensed marriage and family therapist, best-selling author, speaker, and mother of four sons. Her experience and expertise in the field of mental health began 25 years ago and include providing community-focused psychological services, private therapy for individual clients, group workshops, and personal wellness retreats.

Her newest book The Unflustered Mom (releasing on June 6th!) helps you uncover your anxiety style and find tools to help you find a centered, unflustered mom life. We received an early copy of the book and absolutely loved it!

In this episode, we cover:
The different styles of anxiety that Amber has identified

How everyone has different ways of refueling and reviving themselves

Small and quick ways to reconnect with yourself

The difference between superficial self-care and true self-care

Can’t get enough of Amber? We get it!
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More information on Amber- www.ambertrueblood.com

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1h 15min
May 25, 2023Looking at Perfectionism in a New Light with Katherine Morgan Schafler
On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we have the amazing Katherine Morgan Schafler join us for a conversation on perfectionism. Katherine is a psychotherapist, writer, speaker, and former onsite therapist at Google. She earned degrees and trained at UC Berkeley, and Columbia University with postgraduate certification from the Association for Spirituality and Psychotherapy in New York City. She works with women who self-identify as perfectionists

This episode isn’t about “overcoming” perfectionism as you’ve probably heard before. Katherine has a beautiful view of perfectionism and how that she also shares in her book The Perfectionist’s Guide to Losing Control. Perfectionism is not a mental illness, and treating it as one is causing countless people, mostly women, to suffer needlessly. If you’ve ever thought of yourself as a perfectionist this episode will be incredibly powerful for you to listen to.
We cover:
The five types of perfectionists Katherine identifies in her book

How Katherine’s health shaped her own view on perfectionism

Why perfectionism isn’t inherently bad or something that needs to be “fixed”

The difference in the need for power and control when it comes to perfectionism

Can’t get enough of Katherine? We get it!
Purchase her book here- https://www.perfectionistsguide.com/
Follow her on social media- https://www.instagram.com/katherinemorganschafler/
Take the quiz now- https://www.perfectionistsguide.com/quiz

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37min
May 18, 2023The Power of Community for Women with Radha Agrawal
On this episode of Emotionally Unfucked, we’re so excited to have Radha Agrawal as a guest. Radha is the CEO and Chief Community Architect of Daybreaker, the early morning dance and wellness movement. She is currently teaching joy practices on DOSE every week, supporting her members on their journey to joy and pioneering the field of functional happiness.

We were so thrilled to talk to Radha about her amazing community-building skills, her badass entrepreneurship journey, and the day-to-day practice of joy. She shares so much on this episode we can’t wait for you to listen!

We get into:
Her time spent touring with Oprah through Daybreaker

Why community is vital and what happens when you don’t prioritize it in your own life

Overcoming feelings that you don’t belong and how to make strong connections anyway

How cultural pressures can make motherhood feel unnecessarily isolating and lonely

The different approaches between men's and women’s parenting styles that can create a divide in a relationship

Can’t get enough of Radha? We get it!
Learn more about her here at her website- https://www.radhaagrawal.com/
Check out her book to hear more about community building- Belong: Find Your People, Create Community & Live a More Connected Life

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59min
December 08, 2022 Listener Questions with Laura Danger
We had such an influx of questions we hopped back in with Laura Danger to answer YOUR questions! Join us as Laura discusses book recs and more in this follow up episode.
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15min
December 01, 2022 Weaponized Incompetence and Fair Play with Laura Danger
Join us as we unpack emotional labor, domestic engineering, weaponized incompetence, and more with expert and fair play facilitator, Laura Danger. Together we unpack male blindness and privilege and tackle the question everyone has on their minds, “what if my partner doesn’t agree?”
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59min
November 24, 2022 Reviewing “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” with author Dr. Lindsay Gibson
Together with Dr. Gibson, we examine the complexities of emotionally immature adults. We review key components of personality and the effects it has on adult children.
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1h 24min
November 17, 2022 The Bad Indian Therapist
Join us as we dive into the unique intersections of culture and religion with The Bad Indian Therapist, Tracy LMHC. Together we address the challenges of people pleasing, and the power of shame and guilt have in motivating behavior.
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1h 1min

FAQs about Emotionally Unfucked:

How many episodes does Emotionally Unfucked have?

The podcast currently has 21 episodes available.