Empower Evolution

Smear campaign and flying monkey spreading rumors and lies about things that not even happening she been doing this for years she had nothing better els to do she had destroyed a lot of relationships including her own daughter. Instead of her worrying about what my brother Bryant and I got going she needs to focus on how she going to repair the relationship she had with her own daughter 

No Matter how hard you put your energy into that relationship no matter how much you try to love them more and love them more guess what anything you tried to do it is not good enough for that person.

I was in a very dark place where I was battling my own demons I wasn’t happy with the relationship that I was in I was very unhappy for a long time I felt trapped I was finding my way to get out of this situation before it gets worst. 

Everything is documented in my life story that everything that happen is nothing but the truth. I had to tell my truth there no reason for me to lie about any of this not even about my narcissistic grandmother and not even about my mother as well. 

You can go beyond and try to please someone all that pleasing and going so hard for somebody starts to fade away overtime because their nothing you do for them will be good enough to that person they still won’t be happy. 

We are all responsible for the role we play it takes guts to come out and say you know what I was wrong I messed up I shouldn’t never done that to you and you don’t deserve to be treated like this I never once heard my grandmother told me to my face Brandon I’m wrong I fucked up for what I did she very invasive and unapologetic she not the type to take ownership of anything that she done wrong well that what a narcissistic person does.

A lot of Things Happen Behind Closed doors in my grandmother house at 15 Edgar road west orange New Jersey the house number 15. A lot of those fight happens was because of her and I just couldn’t quite understand why it would happen the way it did because she was being dishonest with the information that was giving to me she wanted to see how much I care about her by flipping out on somebody els. I was under her influence and possession by the demon because I was battling my demons a lot of those times even though I’m still struggling with it til this day. 

Have you ever been in a situation where you call somebody out on their behavior that they were doing ? Because you was there and witnessed everything that went down and they still want to say it not me nah uh it not my fault it your fault ?. Accountability is kryptonite to these two women that was in my life I never not once heard them say I’m sorry it was fault I messed up so bad I’ll take full responsibility they only apologized whenever they feel like it they will wait until the situation dies down or a month later than it turns to a year that when they apologize. By the time by then that apology will be too late because your apology won’t be accepted because the damage is done. 

Facing financial abuse as being the golden child it really came with the price it was never about the relationship where it’s two people connecting to each other where they build that bond with one another to have that foundation it was never about that with my narcissistic grandmother it was based on money everything was money when it came to her she was very self centered like the world involved around here she made the situation to be about her all the time it was always me me me me it was never about anybody els that was important to her. She a pathological liar she was not always honest when situations take a dark turn she never take accountability for what she did wrong for example she will apologize than she will backtrack on her apology by taking it back so that not coming from a genuine place when a person do that. 

The lies she told my older brother Bryant and the lies she told other people I learned over the years of knowning this woman she not a very good liar that for sure she not very good at covering her tracks she put the blame game on other people like it everybody fault and not hers. She a type of woman who thinks she perfect in everybody eyes like she could do no wrong to nobody and not understanding her actions come with a consequences and a price of losing relationships especially several failed marriages she definitely couldn’t keep that man at the table when the person  who is the problem is really in the mirror.