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January 21, 2015 What Constitutes A Healthy Relationship?
Last week I popped a post up on Facebook asking people for their definition of "love".
Many wonderful shares emerged!
This radio show is a deep journey into this important topic, as well as what constitutes conscious and unconscious love and how we can move our love experiences from abusive and painful to joyous and abundant ones.
For the upcoming transcript of this radio show, you can go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com

To find out more about my healing Program which creates liberation from painful relationships go to: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/services/narc-abuse-recovery.htm
40 min
December 10, 2014 Co-dependency Checkup Part 2
In this Part Two Radio Show the conversation deepens, about how our powerless behaviors are NOT logical, and why we REALLY do them, as well as how to REALLY heal them.
Also we will look at how co-dependency, independency and interdependency work, and how to move through the different levels.
Also we investigate how we can not only up-level ourselves, but also the important relationships in our life, to a new level of "sharing power" instead of taking it or handing it over.
And much, much more ...
1 hr 6 min
December 03, 2014 Co-dependency Checkup - Part One
Because it is nearly the end of the year, this is a great time to reflect – to see where we are, and what we have grown through this year.
I believe a big part of that is checking in with where we are at with co-dependency. Are we still handing power over to things and people outside of ourselves, or are we more anchored into our own internal solidness?
“What Is co-dependency?” My definition of it is this: “trying to seek wholeness and internal peace from sources outside of self, rather than establishing those states within self”.
What this means is: we can feel empty, fragmented, afraid and powerless when things don’t go right, or life hasn’t turned out the way we wanted it to. We can get panicked and feel unsafe, and in this state we can hand our power over and make repeated choices which don’t serve us.
Co-dependency can be very serious. It leads us further away from integration of self (authentic powerfulness) and takes us down a slippery slope of disintegration of self (powerlessness) – especially if we continue to hold people and things outside of ourselves responsible for the state of our lives.
This radio show is a Part One deep spiritual journey into why we are co-dependent, the many ways that it manifests, and how we can shine light into our disowened parts in order to become a true Source to ourselves, rather than trying to gain false substitutes for love, worthiness and wholeness.
59 min
November 20, 2014 Thriver Show #20 - Jill
This story is one of an incredibly courageous lady who suffers many debilitating auto-immune illnesses – ulcerative colitis, arthritis, fibro myalgia, migraines and Multiple Sclerosis.
Jill suffers from extreme fatigue, and has no support with my 3 kids, and then all of this, naturally, was made so much harder as a result of the huge double-whammy of narcissistic abuse.
Jill’s life-changing realisation was that she had been focusing on others her whole life, and that she had always been trying to be “perfect” for others. She was over-functioning as an over-achiever, as a successful business woman, and having to have a perfect home and life.
Her life now has changed considerably as a result of finding out and focusing on her needs and what she really wants.
In this show she talks about the shift she got out of NARP –“I am loveable for all I am ‘not’ as well as all that I am”. Jill also talks about how this led her to start enjoying the simple things in life, smiling, laughing and spending time with her kids.
Jill’s children also started shifting as a result of their mother transforming.
I know you will enjoy this incredible show, and it will give you hope, if you too have suffered narcissistic abuse on top of crippling health conditions.
1 hr 13 min
November 13, 2014 The Narcissist's Marriage To The False Self
This radio show is an in-depth look at why narcissists would rather be "right" than "happy", and why no-one can compete with the narcissistic versions of reality that they think.
You will learn in this radio show how and why a narcissist is married to his or her ego.
You will also discover the truth regarding the narcissist's behaviour according to this union with the False Self.
The later part of this radio show is information regarding how we can escape the illusions and pain of narcissistic abuse by marrying our True Selves - and what that union looks like, and what is creates.
To see the transcript of this show, you will see it on my blog at blog.melanietoniaevans.com.
37 min
November 05, 2014 How We Show Up
This radio show is one that investigates how we may be showing up in ways that don’t inspire life and others to support us.
During this radio show I talk about the ways our ego can derail us, and suck us into outer delusions and illusions that keep us separated from the truth of “what is really going on.”
I hope that this radio show will really allow you to understand the truth of how your thoughts and behaviours are generated from beliefs, and how believing it is an “outside deal” simply means handing our power away.
Most of all I hope this radio show can assist you to midwife your breakthrough, so that you can begin showing up in authentic co-generative ways in life.
39 min
October 30, 2014 Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #19 Marie
This Thriver show features Marie, a mother of 5 children, who endured a 7 years relationship with a narcissist.
We talk about how one of the biggest discoveries Marie made, is how co-dependent she was – and how she always had to fill her life with activities and people, and after escaping her relationship with the narcissist, how she couldn’t initially bear to be alone.
During our conversation Marie shares about how working on establishing her Identity has been key, and she shares her involvement with Co-Dep (Co-dependents Anonymous) and how fascinating her children are as “a mirror” to make her recovery not just about herself, but also about them.
You will also learn from this interview about Marie’s new partner, who is the father of her youngest two children, and how incredibly different the relationship is from her previous narcissistic one.
To find out more about the program that helped facilitate Marie's recovery visit:
www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp
59 min
October 22, 2014 From Trapped To Freedom Part 2
During this radio show I am responding to people's posts about their trapped situations, and talking about how to generate freedom.
I hope this show can help you know that self-liberation is possible, no matter how powerless you may feel presently.
57 min
October 15, 2014 From Trapped To Freedom
This radio show is all about how we can feel "trapped" by outer circumstances and our own emotions – especially after suffering narcissistic abuse.
During this show I am sharing my life story, and how I escaped crippling emotions and severe "stuckedness" in order to expand into life as "freedom".
I address in this show what being "trapped" really is, and how we can be truly free to expand into becoming life-force itself, and then living the life we truly wish to live
49 min
September 30, 2014 Narcissists In The Workplace
This radio show is one that has been asked for by many people.
During this radio show you will learn about the dynamics of narcissism in the workplace. Why narcissistic bosses and co-workers do what they do, and how they do it.
You will also learn about the crippling effect this has on others.
How can you take you power back in these situations? Listen to find out!
40 min

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Melanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take back their power in order to create a life of deservedness whereby they can attract and sustain genuine and healthy love relationships.