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In this 

🌷 Inspirational Resource — Welcome to Holland

A deeply meaningful poem that reframes the unexpected paths of life and parenting with beauty and acceptance:
 👉 https://www.emilyperlkingsley.com/welcome-to-holland

🎧 Healing Support — Nervous System Meditations & Music

EmpowerHer Pathways: Healing Between the Beats
Music & nervous system meditations designed for emotional release, regulation, and recovery — especially helpful if you struggle with emotional overwhelm or people-pleasing patterns:
👉 https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzhfGIpKuH1ZqoapUzt1iO76d1zidF8X

💛 If you can’t afford counseling or coaching

Ready to grow with focused and affordable support?
 Join our Online Mini Power Sessions — short, practical, empowering sessions to help you build confidence, resilience, and advocacy skills:
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✨ Remember

Parenting isn’t about being perfect —
 it’s about learning, growing, and equipping your child to thrive when you’re not there.

Thank you for listening, for showing up, and for choosing empowerment —
 one breath, one decision, one moment at a time.

💛 With love and commitment,
 Anita Sandoval

Stay empowered.
 Speak without apology.

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What if helping your child is actually teaching them to stay quiet, comply, and people-please authority figures?

In Part Two of this powerful series, Anita Sandoval, LPC, and Gladys Cortez, LPC-S, unpack the uncomfortable truth many parents never realize: over-protection and misdirected advocacy can silence a child’s voice instead of empowering it.

This episode dives deep into IEPs, 504 plans, ADA rights, neurodivergence, and developmental readiness, revealing how well-intentioned parents may accidentally place adult-level responsibility on children whose brains are still developing.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Why your child won’t ask for help
• Why accommodations exist but aren’t used
• Why “good parenting” sometimes creates anxious, compliant adults

👉 This episode is for you.

🎧 Watch or listen now — because advocacy should build confidence, not compliance.

🔥 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN

✔️ Why including children in advocacy matters more than speaking for them
✔️ How schools can unintentionally manipulate accommodations by placing decisions on kids
✔️ Why children cannot always identify or verbalize overwhelm — and why that’s normal
✔️ The hidden danger of telling kids to “just ask for help”
✔️ How people-pleasing behaviors start in childhood
✔️ The real difference between IEPs vs. 504 plans (and why it matters long-term)
✔️ How ADA rights extend into college, work, and adulthood
✔️ Why protection without empowerment creates fear, anxiety, and compliance
✔️ What parents should advocate for themselves vs. what kids can learn over time
✔️ How to raise a child who knows their rights without shame or pressure

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In this powerful Part 1 conversation, Empowering Women in Conversations host Anita Sandoval, LPC, is joined by Gladys A. Cortez, MS, LPC-S, RPT, CRC, TF-CBT, EMDR-Trained, to explore the hidden cost of people-pleasing in parenting — especially when advocating for neurodivergent children within school systems.

Many parents stay quiet in IEP, ARD, and 504 meetings because they don’t want to be labeled “difficult,” “emotional,” or “that parent.” But what happens when silence costs a child the support they are legally entitled to?

In this episode, Anita and Gladys unpack how people-pleasing shows up in advocacy, why guilt and fear keep parents silent, and how education — not confrontation — is the foundation of effective advocacy. This conversation centers on shifting from emotional reactivity to informed, values-based advocacy that protects children and empowers families.

This episode is especially for:

• Parents navigating IEP, ARD, or 504 meetings
• People-pleasers who struggle to speak up in systems of authority
• Families raising neurodivergent children
• Parents wanting to model healthy self-advocacy for their children

✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why people-pleasing can unintentionally harm children
• The difference between emotional reactivity and effective advocacy
• How guilt, fear, and social conditioning silence parents
• Why advocacy is rooted in education, not confrontation
• How knowing your rights changes the power dynamic in school systems
• Why advocacy is about long-term impact — not short-term comfort

🔹 Key Takeaways:

• Advocacy is not being difficult — it’s being responsible
• Silence protects systems, not children
• Parents are the experts on their children
• Education builds bridges; avoidance builds barriers

👩‍⚕️ Meet Our Guest: Gladys A. Cortez, MS, LPC-S, RPT, CRC, TF-CBT, EMDR-Trained

Gladys Cortez is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Council-Approved Supervisor in Texas, and is also licensed in Missouri. She is a Registered Play Therapist, Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy provider, Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist, and EMDR-trained therapist.

Gladys currently serves as Chair of the South Texas Chapter of the Texas Association for Play Therapy and is an active member of:

• UMOS Mental Health Advisory Board
• DECODE IT Community Advisory Board
• Community Inclusion Task Force
• American Counseling Association

With nearly 13 years of service on the Texas Council for Developmental Disabilities, including 10 years as Chair of the Project Development Committee, Gladys brings extensive experience in advocacy, training, and family support. She has led workshops on the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), parenting skills, and has supported families through ARD and school advocacy processes.

Beyond her professional work, Gladys is a devoted wife of nearly 20 years and a mother of two teenagers. She is deeply passionate about empowering individuals and families with diverse needs.

🏢 Practice Information

Cortez & Associates Counseling Services LLC
📞 Phone: 956-507-0035
📧 Email: [email protected]

▶️ Up Next — Part 2

In Part 2, the conversation continues into:

• Advocacy for teens and young adults
• College accommodations and workplace protections
• Why silence later can cost even more

You’re not alone in this. If you’re a parent navigating advocacy and people-pleas

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🎙️ Stop Calling It Love: The 7 Toxic Traps That Keep Women Stuck

How to Know When to Mend a Relationship — or Walk Away

Guest: Kate King, MA, LPC, ATR-BC
Licensed Professional Counselor | Board-Certified Art Therapist
Founder of The Radiant Life Project

🌿 Episode Overview

In this powerful episode of Empowering Women in Conversations, Anita Sandoval sits down with therapist and author Kate King to explore why so many women stay in unhealthy relationships — and how to know when it’s time to mend or move on.

Kate breaks down the 7 Toxic Traps that keep women stuck, including people-pleasing, trauma bonding, codependency, and emotional avoidance. Together, they explore how to recognize misalignment vs. toxicity, why “being nice” isn’t the same as being healthy, and how to reclaim your voice and autonomy.

This episode is especially meaningful for women who feel exhausted, emotionally overextended, or unsure why they keep repeating the same relationship patterns.

📘 Featured Book

Mend or Move On: A Guide to Healing or Leaving Toxic Relationships
By Kate King, MA, LPC, ATR-BC

👉 Order here:
🔗 Mend or Move On: A Guide to Healing or Leaving Toxic Relationships

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🌐 Connect with Kate King

🔹 Website: https://www.TheRadiantLifeProject.com

🔹 Email: [email protected]

🔹 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theradiantlifeproject/

🔹 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theradiantlifeproject/

🔹 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRadiantLifeProject/

🔹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChxGCo2H8iWIReg8X6ADubg

🔹 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theradiantlifeproject

💬 Final Thought

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why do I stay?” — this episode will help you find clarity, courage, and compassion for your next step.

🎧 Listen now and start choosing yourself.

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If this episode resonated with you and you’re ready to stop people-pleasing, set healthier boundaries, and build empowered relationships, come join us inside the EmpowerHer Community.

✨ A supportive space for women healing from toxic patterns
 ✨ Weekly guidance, tools, and conversations
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What if the very love you’re giving is the thing keeping you stuck?

In this powerful episode of Empowering Women in Conversations, host Anita Sandoval, LPC, sits down with Dr. Eluterio Blanco, Jr., Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor and Nationally Certified Master Addiction Counselor, to unpack one of the most dangerous myths women believe:

“If I love them enough, they’ll change.”

Together, we explore how addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s about compulsive behavior, loss of choice, and continuing patterns despite negative consequences. We also examine how people pleasing and codependency can function like an addiction, keeping women emotionally bonded to unhealthy relationships and chronic burnout.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why love, pressure, and ultimatums don’t create real change
• What addiction really means (and why language matters)
• The difference between supporting recovery and enabling harm
• How intrinsic motivation—not sacrifice—is the foundation of change
• Why boundaries don’t fix them, but they do free you
• How women can begin reclaiming their voice, identity, and self-trust

This conversation is compassionate, honest, and empowering—especially for women navigating relationships affected by substance use, compulsive behaviors, or emotional over-functioning.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted, resentful, or confused by giving everything and still feeling like it’s not enough… this episode is for you.

🔗 Connect & Learn More

📚 Recommended Reading
Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

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Support, resources, and conversations for women moving from people-pleasing to empowered living.

🎓 About Our Guest
Dr. Eluterio Blanco, Jr. is a Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor, Nationally Certified Master Addiction Counselor, and Clinical Associate Professor at The University of Texas Rio Grande Valley, where he coordinates the Bachelor of Science in Addiction Studies.

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What if your “little food problem” — the restriction, bingeing, or rigid food rules — is actually your nervous system trying to survive?

In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Marnie Davis, LMHC, Certified Eating Disorder Specialist and Consultant, Certified EMDR Therapist, EMDRIA-Approved Consultant, and HAES®-aligned clinician.

Together, we explore the hidden link between people pleasing, trauma, neurodivergence, and eating disorders — and why so many women, clinicians, and families completely miss what’s really happening beneath the surface.

This is a compassionate, non-shaming, neurodivergent-affirming episode that reframes eating disorders from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What happened to me, and how did my system try to keep me alive?”

✨ In This Episode, We Explore:

• How, from a trauma lens, eating disorders are maladaptive coping strategies that once made sense to your system
• The impact of attachment injuries, perfectionism, and people-pleasing on food, body image, and control
• Why eating disorders are not about vanity or willpower, but about safety, power, and relief from overwhelming sensations and emotions
• The role of culture, family rules, and “finish your plate” messages in shaping food beliefs
• How neurodivergent brains (ADHD, autism, sensory sensitivities) can be especially vulnerable to disordered eating
• Why one person dies every hour from an eating disorder and why a comprehensive medical + therapeutic team is crucial
• What healing can look like: becoming more self-led, value-driven, and authentically you

👤 Connect with Our Guest: Marnie Davis, LMHC, CEDS
Website:
🔗 www.MarnieDavisLMHC.com
Email:
📩 [email protected]

LinkedIn:
🔗 https://www.linkedin.com/in/marnie-davis-lmhc-ceds-c-33187b45/Instagram:
🔗 @marniedavislmhcFacebook:
🔗 MarnieDavisLMHC
🔗 Davis Counseling and Consulting

🌿 Connect with Your Host, Anita Sandoval, MA, LPC-S
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Start here for everything: podcast, free tools, courses, communities & more.
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💌 If This Episode Spoke To You…

• Share it with a friend, client, or loved one who struggles with food, people pleasing, or feeling “never enough.”
• Subscribe so you don’t miss future conversations on people pleasing, boundaries, trauma, neurodivergence, and empowered living.
• Take a quiet moment after listening to ask yourself:

You’re not broken. You’re a system that learned how to survive. 🩷

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Why are so many women struggling with reflux, IBS, bloating, and chronic stomach pain—despite changing diets, taking supplements, and doing “all the right things”?

In this powerful episode, Dr. Scott Rower, PhD—clinical psychologist and founder of Rest and Digest—joins Anita Sandoval LPC-S to reveal the real root cause of women’s gut issues: the gut–brain connection and the hidden impact of chronic stress, overgiving, and people-pleasing.

If you’ve ever wondered why your symptoms flare during stress, why tests come back “normal,” or why your digestion falls apart during burnout… this conversation may completely change the way you see your body.

💡 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why women are more likely to develop gut problems—especially people-pleasers
• How the sympathetic nervous system shuts down digestion (and what to do about it)
• The difference between functional GI disorders and organic diseases
• The “stress bucket” model and why your symptoms flare on overload
• What GI psychology is—and why most people have never heard of it
• The 3 pillars of digestive healing (medical, diet, and gut-brain regulation)
• Why guilt, perfectionism, and emotional suppression fuel gut symptoms
• How to begin down-regulating your nervous system so your gut can finally heal

🌿 Connect With Dr. Scott Rower

Explore his free resources and gut-brain healing tools:

🔗 Website: www.restanddigest.org

🔗 Insight Timer: https://insighttimer.com/RestAndDigest

🔗 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RestAndDigestGuide

🔥 Key Moments:

• 00:04:00 — The three pillars of gut healing
• 00:07:00 — Why slowing down feels unsafe to people-pleasers
• 00:14:00 — Sympathetic overdrive and digestive shutdown
• 00:17:00 — The stress-bucket overflow and gut responders
• 00:23:00 — What “disorders of gut–brain interaction” really are
• 00:33:00 — Polyvagal theory and why safety matters for digestion
• 00:39:00 — The truth about resentment, guilt, and chronic symptoms

✨ If You’re a Woman Healing From People-Pleasing…

This episode is for you. Awareness is the first step toward reclaiming your health, your boundaries, and your peace.

✨ Work With Anita & Begin Healing People-Pleasing

Ready to stop overgiving, reclaim your boundaries, and finally honor your emotional and physical energy?

Join my transformational 12-Step People-Pleaser Recovery Group:
 👉 www.anitasandoval.com/support

Explore more ways to work with me, including courses, resources, and community support:
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STOP HEALING WRONG: Why Mindfulness, Not Hustle, Ends Toxic Cycles with      Dr. Kasim Al-Mashat

If you’ve been trying to heal by doing more—reading more, achieving more, fixing more—this episode will feel like a breath of truth.
Dr. Kasim Al-Mashat, Registered Psychologist, Certified Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Teacher, and Founder of the Center for Mindfulness Canada, joins Anita Sandoval to unravel one of the biggest misconceptions in healing: you can’t hustle your way out of pain.

Together they explore how mindfulness invites you to slow down, reconnect to your body, and end the toxic cycles of people-pleasing, burnout, and emotional self-abandonment.

🪞 In This Episode You’ll Learn:

📍 Why “doing more” can actually deepen emotional burnout
 📍 How mindfulness helps you notice when old people-pleasing patterns return
 📍 The power of non-judgmental awareness and self-compassion
 📍 Why curiosity is a superpower in your healing journey
📍 How to tell when you’re safe to trust again after trauma
📍 Practical tools to ground yourself when emotions feel overwhelming

🧘‍♂️ Connect With Dr. Kasim Al-Mashat:

🌐 Website → centreformindfulness.ca

🌐 Personal Site → drkasimalmashat.com

📱 Instagram → @dr.kasimalmashat

✨ Ready to take the next step?
Join the EmpowerHer Women’s Community for exclusive support, mindfulness resources, and connection:
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🌿 Coming Soon: The 12-Step People Pleasing Recovery Program — designed for women who are done fixing everyone else and are ready to reclaim their power.

💖 Need quick relief?
Start with the 5-Day Relief Program — your gentle reintroduction to calm, clarity, and confidence.

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Now That the Mask Is Off: Navigating Love, Boundaries & Burnout as Neurodivergent Adults (Part 2 w/ Eric Tivers)

What if taking the mask off isn’t the end—but the beginning of finding love, belonging, and peace as your authentic self?

In Part Two of my conversation with Eric Tivers—Licensed Clinical Social Worker, ADHD coach, and host of ADHD ReWired—we explore what life looks like once you stop people-pleasing and start living unmasked.

Eric shares the truth about:
 ✨ The difference between fitting in and belonging
⚡ Why consistency isn’t the goal—resilience is
💗 How community and accountability help ADHD adults thrive
🌿 The power of being loved because of who you are, not despite it

If you missed Part 1, start there first: listen in: 

Or watch with the amazing visual for my neurodivergent community: 

Video: Unmasking the People Pleaser

 That’s where we unpack how masking begins and how unmasking starts the journey toward authentic living.

Then come back for Part 2 to learn how to build healthier relationships, find your people, and protect your peace.

💡 Key Takeaways:

1️⃣ Fitting in disconnects you—belonging heals you.
 2️⃣ ADHD growth = resilience, not perfection.
 3️⃣ Accountability and safe community create lasting change.

🔔 ⏰ Time-Sensitive Announcements:

💻 ADHD ReWired Accountability Groups – Open Enrollment Now!
If you’ve been waiting to join a supportive ADHD community that helps you stay consistent, connected, and confident—this is your moment.
👉 Apply before registration closes: https://www.adhdrewired.com

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Unmasking the People Pleaser: How ADHD and AuDHD Shape Relationship Struggles
with Eric Tivers, LCSW – Founder of ADHD reWired

What if your people-pleasing isn’t weakness—what if it’s masking?

In this deeply honest and eye-opening episode of Empowering Women in Conversations, host Anita Sandoval, LPC-S, is joined by Eric Tivers, LCSW and founder of ADHD reWired, to explore the powerful intersection of neurodivergence and relational patterns—especially in women who are recovering people pleasers.

We explore:

• What is AuDHD and how it shows up differently in women
• Why ADHD and Autism are often missed or misdiagnosed
• The emotional and relational toll of masking and people-pleasing
• Real stories of late diagnosis, sensory overload, and emotional burnout
• The difference between kindness and character, and how masking can impact intimacy, boundaries, and belonging
• How ADHD reWired’s Adult Study Hall and coaching groups help bridge the gap between intention and action

You’ll hear vulnerable stories, laugh-out-loud moments, and radical truth-telling that will make you feel seen, validated, and empowered.

Whether you’re neurodivergent, wondering if you might be, or supporting someone who is—this conversation will open your eyes and soften your heart.

✨ Want visuals with the audio?
📺 Watch this full episode on YouTube:
https://youtu.be/4MTkgHpqAoI

🔗 Links & Resources

🎧 Connect with Eric Tivers:

🌐 Website: https://www.adhdrewired.com

🎙️ Podcast: ADHD reWired on Apple

💻 Adult Study Hall Virtual Co-Working: https://www.adhdrewired.com/studyhall

🧠 Coaching Groups: https://www.adhdrewired.com/coaching-rewired