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There’s a moment in early January when you’re putting away the holiday decorations and you suddenly stop.

You’re holding an ornament.
Or a wreath.
Or maybe a holiday mug you don’t even remember buying.

And you think:
Why do I own this?
And maybe… do I still need it?

In this episode of Encore Living, I talk about how that moment—packing things away after the holidays—can become a powerful metaphor for this season of life, especially if you’re an empty nester (or close to it).

Because January isn’t just about putting away decorations.
It’s about deciding what you’re ready to stop carrying forward.

If your house feels unusually quiet…
If your kid just left after the holidays and won’t be back for months…
If January feels heavier than you expected…

This episode is for you.

January invites us to do more than declutter our homes.

It gives us permission to ask:

• What beliefs am I done carrying?
• What pressures no longer belong in this season?
• What part of me feels ready to wake up again?

Not forever.
Not dramatically.
Just… for now.

Putting something away doesn’t mean erasing your past.
It means making room for what’s next.

Reflection questions from the episode

You might want to sit with these slowly, or come back to them later:

• What belief from last year am I ready to put away for now?
• What pressure am I carrying that doesn’t belong in this season?
• What small part of me feels ready to wake up again?

January isn’t asking you to have everything figured out.
It’s just asking you to clear a little space.

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Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

It’s April—aka College Decision Month. Your teen is making a huge life decision. But have you stopped to consider your own?

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If you're an empty nester (or soon-to-be), now is the perfect time to ask: What do I want next? This episode is about reclaiming your power to choose—and giving yourself permission to start planning your next chapter, just like your teen is planning theirs.

In this episode:

• "My kid is making a huge decision—shouldn’t I be focused on them?"
  Yes—but don’t forget your own future matters too. You can support them and invest in yourself.
• "I’ll figure it out later."
  Will you? Or will you keep waiting for the 'right time'? (Spoiler: now is the right time.)
• "Okay… but where do I start?"
  I’ll give you one small decision you can make this week to start shaping your next chapter.

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Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Feel lost after the kids leave? You're not alone. Today I share one shift that can change your empty nest experience.

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In this heartfelt episode of Encore Living, Dr. Thor unpacks a feeling many people experience but rarely talk about — that disorienting sense of loss after your kids leave home.

If you’ve ever said, “I should be enjoying this, but I just feel… off,” you’re not alone. This episode offers validation, perspective, and a gentle path forward.

It’s not a midlife crisis — it’s a midlife recalibration. And it’s 100% normal.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why the empty nest often triggers identity confusion (even when you were “ready”)
• The unexpected emotional wave that follows years of parenting
• How to honor your feelings without rushing to “fix” them
• Why feeling lost can be the starting point for your greatest chapter
• A simple mindset shift to help you start living with more clarity and confidence

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Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

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Ever found yourself caught in the traffic, complaining about how it's ruining your day? What if I told you that you can transform your life by simply changing the way you react to such situations? 

In this episode, I continue to break down my experience in "No Complaining Week." I just completed this week in "Mental Muscle," a spiritual boot camp experience I've done multiple times.  "No Complaining Week" happens in the second week of "Mental Muscle."

Drawing from this experience, I delve into the negative power of complaining, and how it strips us of our power to take control of our lives.

This episode is an exploration of the causes and consequences of complaining, with a focus on making positive changes to our habits.

I share my personal experiences and the questions I ask myself when I notice a complaint brewing, inspired by the teachings of Dr. James Mellon and the wisdom of Wayne Dyer and Eckhart Tolle. 

We'll also examine the underlying beliefs that often provoke our complaints.

As always, thanks for listening!

You can find Dr. James Mellon's book, "Mental Muscle", here on Amazon:
https://a.co/d/2Eo6s4y

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Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Ready to break free from the endless loop of complaints? Join me in this first episode of a four part-series on complaining.

In this episode, I explore why complaining rarely solves problems. The key takeaway: redirecting your energy toward proactive solutions can change your life.

Inspired by Dr. James Mellon's "Mental Muscle: 16 Weeks of Spiritual Boot Camp," I'll explore the foundation of complaining and how it reflects our unconscious mind. 

• When are you most likely to complain? 
• What situations or relationships trigger your complaints? 
• And most importantly, what can you do about it? 

I'll delve into these questions and more, using insights from Randy Pausch's Last Lecture to guide our thoughts. 

By the end of our discussion, I hope to inspire you to invest your energy into solving problems rather than complaining about them, and in doing so, achieve greater happiness and fulfillment in your life.

As always, thanks for listening!

You can find Dr. James Mellon's book, "Mental Muscle", here on Amazon:
https://a.co/d/2Eo6s4y

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

In this episode, I share my perspective on a TED talk given by author Anne Lamott. Her talk is called, "12 Truths I Learned From Life and Writing."

You can find her talk HERE.

As I mentioned, you can watch MY TEDx talk here:

https://www.thorchallgren.com/tedx

Anne Lamott shares 12 truths in her talk, and I look at 3 of them in this episode. Here are three quotes from her talk that I unpack:

• "Every writer you know writes really terrible first drafts, but they keep their butt in the chair. That's the secret of life. That's probably the main difference between you and them. They just do it. They do it by prearrangement with themselves. They do it as a debt of honor. They tell stories that come through them one day at a time, little by little."
• “Everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes. Including you.”
• "Everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy and scared, even the people who seem to have it most together. They are much more like you than you would believe, so try not to compare your insides to other people's outsides."

I love this talk and highlight recommend you watch it, and listen to my thoughts on it, and how we can apply it in our own lives.

As always, thanks for listening!

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Can you truly attract abundance into your life by conveying the impression of increase to others?

In this episode, I explore into Chapter 14 of Wallace D. Wattles' classic work, "The Science of Getting Rich," written back in 1910.

This marks the conclusion of my four-part series on this influential book.

Wattles' insights continue to resonate even a century later. Success writer Bob Proctor recommends reading specific chapters from this book, including Chapter 14, for 90 days to reprogram your mind for success. In this final chapter,

Wattles emphasizes the importance of conveying the impression of advancement in everything you do and inspiring others with your unshakable faith in your own journey towards success. By doing so, you not only attract people to you but also motivate them to seek their own success.

Wattles reminds us that the desire for increased wealth is not negative; it's the aspiration for a more abundant life in all aspects.

The key takeaway is that when you genuinely desire success for yourself and others, people will be drawn to your energy and want to be associated with you.

If you're inspired by these ideas, consider reading the book and applying Wattles' principles in your life for 90 days to witness the transformation.

Subscribe or follow the show on your favorite podcast app and join me in this journey of self-improvement. As always, thanks for listening!

You find the first three episodes in the series here:

#142: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 4
#143: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 7
#144: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 11

You can find Wattles' book here:
https://a.co/d/9CEH51B

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Can mere thoughts alone bring riches, or is action an essential ingredient for success?

In this episode, I explore Chapter 11 of Wallace D. Wattles' timeless book, "The Science of Getting Rich," written over a century ago.

I delve into the question of whether thoughts can manifest wealth independently or if they must be coupled with personal action.

The key takeaway here is that thought and action must go hand in hand to achieve prosperity. I elaborate on Wattles' emphasis on not dwelling in the future but rather concentrating on the present and taking action in your current circumstances.

By tuning in, you'll gain valuable insights into how combining thought and action can help you manifest your desires and enhance your life.

You find the first two episodes in the series here:

#142: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 4
#143: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 7

You can find Wattles' book here:
https://a.co/d/9CEH51B

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Immerse yourself in a transformative journey as we crack open the wisdom of Wallace Waddles' 1910 classic, the Science of Getting Rich, and uncover the profound power of gratitude. Not just in saying thank you, but as a pivotal mental adjustment that aligns us with the universe's bountiful creative energies.

In this episode, I talk about Waddles' principles of success and reveal how practicing gratitude can quickly multiply the good things in our lives - from wealth and health to relationships and success.

Let's decipher together Waddles' words, "Many people who order the lives rightly in all other ways are kept in poverty by their lack of gratitude," and discover the peril of dwelling on dissatisfaction and the transformative power of habituating gratitude.

Learn how to infuse your daily life with a mindset of appreciation, drawing on century-old wisdom that continues to resonate in today's world. So, get ready to amplify your life with gratitude, and don't forget to express your own gratitude by hitting like, subscribing, or following Every Day A New Thought on your preferred podcast app!

You find the first episode in the series here:
#142: Unpacking The Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles - Chapter 4

You can find Wattles' book here:
https://a.co/d/9CEH51B

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com

Are your thoughts shaping your destiny, or are you simply going through the motions of life?

In this episode, I dive  into the mind-expanding pages of Wallace D. Wattles' 1910 classic, "The Science of Getting Rich."

Have you ever wondered if your thoughts could truly create your reality? Today, I explore this profound concept and uncover the hidden power within it.

In this episode, I'll guide you through Chapter Four, "The First Principle in the Science of Getting Rich," where Wattles unveils the transformative idea that thoughts are the building blocks of the universe.

Wattles challenges us to break free from superficial thinking and understand that true power lies in thinking beyond appearances. It's easy to react to the world as it appears, but the real work is in thinking truth, irrespective of what we see. This episode will show you why transcending appearances is the key to unlocking your full potential.

By the end of this episode, you'll grasp the immense power of your thoughts to shape your reality. You'll learn that by thinking in alignment with your true desires, you can conquer fear, achieve your goals, and become the master of your destiny.

Tune in now and embark on a journey of self-discovery as we unravel the timeless wisdom of "The Science of Getting Rich." Your future success begins with the thoughts you choose today.

As always, thanks for listening.

You can find Wattles' book here:
https://a.co/d/9CEH51B

You can find me here:

Dr. Thor on Instagram @thorchallgren

Website: https://thorchallgren.com