Enough Factor Podcast

There is an answer to every relationship issue. The problem is you don't know what your answer is.

In this episode Suzette challenges relationship advice that operates in the clever but does absolutely nothing to address the real question, "Am I enough? And if so, why?" Instead of how-to's and should-I's, Suzette zeroes in on the misdiagnoses and mis-definitions that cloud your vision and your judgment and paves the way to your Authentic Truth. Clarity is everything!

If you feel so turned around in your relationship that you can't determine what to do, reach out. Three ways to contact Suzette are:

Email: [email protected] (send a direct message)
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us (join her mailing list)
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free (schedule a free consultation)

Send Suzette an email, join her mailing list, get on her calendar or do all three.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Lights, camera, action...woman acting interested Take One! Isn't that what women have been taught to do since someone decided that having a man want you was the ultimate accomplishment? That's why I balked at a post I saw on Facebook urging women, "if you are interested in a man, act like you're interested." And while I fully understand the intent of the post, as a woman who spent all of her adult life trying to be good enough for the men she wanted to want her, I know that "acting interested" does not guarantee anything. Besides, it's disempowering and downright manipulative to "act" to get what you want.

That's why, in this episode, Suzette rejects the premise that acting interested is good advice. Rather, she believes that "being interested" is better. It's honest! Being interested is behaving in alignment with your authentic truth.

If you don't know what your authentic truth is, you're not alone. Many high functioning women struggle with it. You've been taught to accomplish. That's different from relating. That's why relationships can be challenging. To help, Suzette offers a one-time free consultation for women to help them to connect with their authentic truth and be present in their relationships.

If that sounds like something you'd like to explore, here are three ways to contact Suzette:

Email: [email protected]
Website: suzettesolutions.com/contact-us
Calendar: calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free

Send Suzette an email, join her mailing list, get on her calendar or do all three.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

Are you desperate for someone to love you? Before you give me the strong woman roll of the eye that says, "I ain't desperate for nobody," let's look more closely. Many times, desperation is hiding behind that poker face and seemingly unbothered stance.

In this episode, Suzette examines the desperation for answers, for validation, to feel alright again after failed relationships and the Destiny Vision that's required to heal.

Is something inside of you declaring a different experience of love and have been praying for what to do? Who to connect with? Then I invite you to reach out to me. I might just be the answer to your prayers!!

Free consultation: https://calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free
Email: [email protected]

In the meantime, join my community of Enough Warriors. Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

I've got some free resources that will reinforce what you're learning on these episodes as well as make sure you're first-to-know and get first dibs on products, services, pop up drawings and deeper discounts than those on social media.

See you soon!

Closure. Let's talk about it and why not having closure isn't because the guy who jilted you won't tell you why. Let's talk about why closure has nothing to do with anybody else but you.

In this episode, Suzette amplifies your vision, challenging the belief that closure is what someone else owes you. It's what you owe yourself.

If you help with moving on from a breakup or the guilt of breaking someone's heart, reach out.

Free consultation: https://calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free
Email: [email protected]

In the meantime, I invite you to join my community of Enough Warriors. I've got some free resources that will reinforce what you learn on these episodes as well as make sure you're first-to-know and get first dibs on products, services and pop up drawings. You also qualify for deeper discounts than those on social media.

Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

See you soon!

Love will make you do crazy things? This was Will Smith's conclusion as he gave remarks after having received his first ever Oscar for Best Actor. An achievement soured by his bizarre waltz onto the Oscar stage, slapping Chris Rock only a few moments earlier. Although there has been much speculation as to his reasons, one thing's for sure, love had absolutely nothing to do with it.

Though Will's behaviors were front row center for all the world to see, ours are more insidious. That's why, in this episode, Suzette shines light on the distorted thinking that fuels misattribution, a fancy word for assumptions, and the subterfuge of misplaced anger. But she doesn't stop there. She offers a step by step healthier alternative.

If after listening to today's episode, you feel that distorted thinking is sabotaging your success at love, reach out.

Book a free consultation: https://calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free
Request Anger Distortions handout: [email protected]

In the meantime, join my community of Enough Warriors. Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

I've got some free resources that will reinforce what you're learning on these episodes as well as make sure you're first-to-know and get first dibs on products, services, pop up drawings and deeper discounts.

See you soon!

Enabler defined is someone or something that encourages or enables negative or self-destructive behavior in another. The irony is most enablers don't mean any harm. Nevertheless, them "being there" for the one they love prevents their loved one from discovering their own power and walking in its authority. God is not an enabler.

In this episode, Suzette exposes the crutches that keep people of faith from doing their part in resolving their relationships challenges. And offers them a broader vantagepoint from which to see God's help and love.

If you need a judgment-free place to heal and get insights and tools that'll help you gain the clarity that you need, reach out.

Free consultation: https://calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free
Email: [email protected]

In the meantime, I invite you to join my community of Enough Warriors. I've got some free resources that will reinforce what you learn on these episodes as well as make sure you're first-to-know and get first dibs on products, services and pop up drawings. You also qualify for deeper discounts.

Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

See you soon!

How did you go from being happy and self-assured to not knowing who you are anymore? In this episode, I share how growing up in a patriarchal approval-seeking culture has conditioned even the most powerful women to lose themselves in relationships. By exposing two ways this happens, I hope to shake you from "waiting" on a man's yes to owning your no.

If you haven't listened to last week's episode, "I See You", I suggest that you do. It sets the stage for Season 4 and how it will focus on providing answers that will help you show up more powerfully in your relationships and attract healthy love into your life.

In the meantime, I invite you to join my community of Enough Warriors by getting on my mailing list. I've got some free resources that will reinforce what you learn on these episodes as well as make sure you're first-to-know and get first dibs on products and services. You also qualify for deeper discounts than those on social media.

Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

If you want to talk with me in real time, click this link>> https://calendly.com/suzettevearnon/free and schedule a free consultation with me. You'll get caring, honest advice.

See you soon!

The cry of unrequited love is SEE ME! I want you to see me as "The One" you've been looking for, waiting for, praying for! When you don't feel seen, it can be the loneliest feeling ever.

That's why Season 4 of my Enough Factor Podcast will focus on you, the unseen. The sadness behind your smile, the dissatisfaction that you feel in your relationships.

And not just affirming your frustration, but offering you answers. What helped me to go from failed attempts at love to experiencing real love every single day (without selling my soul to have it). So if the relationship book you just read about loving yourself hasn't really hit the spot or the relationship conference you just attended didn't give you the answer you needed, hang with me. Grab a seat and let me take you behind the scenes of my relationship journey and how I navigated my way from loneliness and suffering for love to experiencing a love greater than I could wish for, pray for or even imagine was possible for me.

Over the next 20 or so episodes, I'm going to share with you the things I thought I knew and thought were right and why they weren't. I'm going to share with you what kept me in a cycle of betrayal and mistrust and how I got out. I'm going to share with you why I kept attracting unavailable men and what had to change in order for me to attract (and recognize) great love into my life. But most of all, I'm going to share how you can stop your bad experience of relationships and discover what truly makes you enough.

In the meantime, I've got some free stuff I'd love to give you. Join my community of Enough Warriors by getting on my mailing list and get it. You'll get the first-to-know and first dibs on products and services, get offered the deeper discounts than those on social media and yes, get some free resources to reinforce what you're learning on this podcast. Here's the direct link>> https://wp.me/P8fkVt-7Y or go to my website, suzettesolutions.com and click on "Contact Us" at the top.

See you soon!

Just mention women and hair and you’ll get an almost visceral reaction. Why? Because I don’t know a woman alive who doesn’t have a hair story. And for Black women, it’s been especially complicated. Generationally, Black women have been taught that their natural texture is nasty, dirty, unruly and unattractive. But over the past few years, there’s been a migration towards embracing it.

That’s why I reached out to Award-winning Hair Designer and Business Woman Miki Wright who has dedicated her life to changing the face of the hair and beauty industry but also empowering other Hair Professionals to build thriving businesses. With Miki, I was able to go beyond hair care tips and styling tricks to the soft underbelly of how hair is attached to feelings of worth and enoughness.

ABOUT MIKI

Miki Wright went from struggling Stylist to booked solid in months, not years. She then went on to own a salon where she trained her Stylists how to duplicate her success. Wright was one of the first Owners of a full service Salon and Day Spa in the country. Fabulous Finishes, her former Salon and Spa, was named one of the “200 Fastest Growing Salons in the Country” by Salon Today Magazine – for three consecutive years!!! Why not learn what it really takes to grow your Salon business from someone who’s been in your shoes?

Miki loves helping Hairstylists increase their income and boost their confidence and their salon profits. She is a Salon Pricing Strategist and founder of www.BeautySuperStars.com and continues to share her knowledge to help Beauty Pros create the clientele, income and lifestyle they desire with the Beauty SuperStars Online Academy. Miki hosts the Beauty SuperStars Talk podcast, where she offers weekly interviews with the best and brightest Black Beauty Bosses to give entrepreneurs and beauty enthusiasts a backstage pass to Experts in Beauty.

MENTIONS

Cindy Tawiah, Diva By Cindy Products in Sally’s Beauty Supply
https://divabycindy.com/.

Trichology
https://trichologists.org.uk/what-is-trichology/

Beauty Superstars Talk Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beauty-superstars-talk/id1543041694

OTHER WAYS TO CONNECT WITH MIKI

Website: https://www.beautysuperstars.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvw135-2omImaGadNvkItNw
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mikiwrighthair/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mikiwright/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/salonbizcoach1/

CREDITS

Music by DH The Composer https://linktr.ee/dhthecomposer
Cover Design by Odyssey Administrative Services LLC http://odysseyadministrativeservices.com
Cover Photo from gallery of royalty free photos on Pixteller.com

Today’s episode is a blast from the past--September 30, 2013 to be exact--with relationship experts Stephanie McKenzie and Stephan Labossiere. The top 3 common relationship questions they hear most, qualities of a good woman and a good man, and preferences vs standards are just a few of the areas we dive into and get both a male and female perspective on. Their insights and advice are just as relevant today as it was 8 years ago!! That’s why I proudly present to you “The Truth About Relationships” (Disclaimer: because this is an encore, some information may have changed or offers expired)

ABOUT COACH STEPHANIE

As an award winning marketer, author, TEDx Speaker, multi-certified coach and entrepreneur with three decades of expertise, I offer a lot of my clients that most coaches cannot. In my decade, of coaching, I have a 100% success rate in marital coaching. And many of my clients are not only healing but launching their next fruitful seasons.

Regardless of the goal life, love or business, I empower high achieving coaches, owners and leaders on what it means to BE YOUR OWN SUPER HERO and shift into self love and abundance WITHOUT GUILT.

Website: https://stephaniedmckenzie.com/
Facebook; https://www.facebook.com/stephaniedmckenzie
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephaniedmckenzie/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvRDvCNLSd-wANP1bK7YP1Q

ABOUT COACH STEPHAN

Stephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to help you experience happier and more fulfilling relationships. As a certified relationship coach, speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both males and females, overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships.

From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.

Website: https://www.stephanspeaks.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stephan.labossiere.3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stephanspeaks/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/StephanSpeaksVideos

MENTIONS

5-minute dating questions
The Business of Dating (book)
https://www.amazon.com/Business-Dating-Traditional-Marketing-Principles/dp/1628650451

The Relationship Firm
https://stephaniedmckenzie.com/the-relationship-firm-2/

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT

Because of unexpected family circumstances, I’ve had to halt my participation in October’s WELLNESS FOR THE MODERN WOMAN Workshop. I truly regret it as I was looking forward to being a part of this much-anticipated event. My sincerest thanks to Wellness Coach Tiffany Matier for understanding the gravity of the matter, supporting this decision and choosing postponement over cancelling. In the meantime, I solicit your prayers for me and my family.

CREDITS

Music by DH The Composer https://linktr.ee/dhthecomposer
Cover Design by Odyssey Administrative Services LLC http://odysseyadministrativeservices.com
Cover Photo from gallery of royalty free photos on Pixteller.com