Although on the outside, Joan Peters’ life appeared to check all of the desired boxes – a PhD at 25, a new job, and a loving relationship – and despite having no history of any “headline-making” traumas, privately Joan struggled with recurring nightmares and relationship challenges that left her confused, anxious, and unable to achieve relief with standard psychotherapy. In this episode of “Unpacking Possibility,” Joan shares how two psychoanalyses helped her uncover the deep-seated fears and “smaller” traumas that were derailing her happiness. Ultimately, engaging in this deep inner work helped solve the mystery of Joan’s nightmares and healed her dreams, her relationships, and her life.

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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:26 Joan K. Peters' Background and New Book

01:12 The Impact of Psychoanalysis 

05:10 Early Life and First Encounters with Therapy

10:23 Uncovering Childhood Trauma

14:09 The Journey to Understanding and Healing

19:36 The Role of Psychoanalysis in Personal Growth

23:33 Parental Influence and Emotional Impact

25:53 The Connection between Restless Leg Syndrome and Emotional Processing

26:25 The Impact of Childhood Emotional Needs

28:41 Transference in Psychoanalysis

29:24 Personal Therapy Experiences and Breakthroughs

34:18 Parenting and Psychoanalysis

41:21 The Role of Therapy in Personal Growth

49:40 Generational Trauma and Compassion

55:44 The Healing Power of Psychoanalysis

58:46 Conclusion and Final Thoughts