Decide to Heal

Ep. 15 Why Most Marriages Fail & Why It Has Nothing to Do With the Other Person


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In this episode, I sit down with two incredibly brave souls, Gina and Gary, a couple I had the honor of coaching through my 180 Method for couples. Their story is one of healing, hard truths, and deep transformation. This was Gina’s fourth marriage and Gary’s second, and by the time they found me, they were on the brink of walking away. They’d tried therapy. They felt stuck. They felt unseen. But what happened next was powerful. They turned the mirror around. They stopped trying to fix each other and started doing the inner work. We talk about the pain of not being heard, the power of releasing expectations, and how real healing begins with a decision. If you’re in a marriage that feels more like roommates than soulmates, or if you’ve ever felt like you’re doing it all wrong, this one’s for you. Their honesty will move you. Their growth will inspire you.


Key moments of this interview:

00:00 Meet Gina & Gary, A Story of Redemption

3:30 Blended Family, Broken Cycles

7:00 “You just have to deal with it.”

12:00 “The less I felt heard, the louder I got.”

16:00 Childhood Wounds & Core Beliefs

20:00 Gina's Truth: “I have to be right.”

22:00 Core Memories & Different Realities

27:00 Acceptance of Who They’re Not

30:00 “This isn't a magic fix.”

34:00 “You will repeat the cycle.”


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