Speak The Truth

EP. 179 Most Downloaded Episode of 2023 – Reclaim Your Marriage: Grace for Wives Who Have Been Hurt by Pornography W/Author's Jenny and Curtis Solomon


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In this episode of 'Speak the Truth,' Shauna and Mike welcome Curtis and Jenny Solomon to discuss their new books, 'Redeem Your Marriage' and 'Reclaim Your Marriage.' The Solomons explore how their books address the impact of pornography on marriages, offering support for both the offending and hurt parties. They delve into the process of writing their books, sharing personal insights and struggles, and emphasize the importance of lament and genuine repentance. The discussion also covers practical advice for biblical counselors and pastors on how to use the books as resources for couples and even touches on parenting strategies to protect children from the influences of pornography.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:25 Book Review Series Launch

00:48 Meet the Guests: Curtis and Jenny Solomon

01:09 Curtis Solomon's Background and Roles

02:11 Introducing Jenny Solomon

03:13 Discussing the Books: Redeem Your Marriage and Reclaim Your Marriage

04:17 Challenges and Joys of Writing

09:01 The Importance of Lament in Healing

11:06 Addressing Misconceptions: Don't Blame Yourself for His Sin

15:58 The Role of the Spouse as an Ally

19:34 Creating a Safe Home Environment

20:15 Parenting Tips for Navigating Digital Dangers

22:55 Engaging in Open Conversations with Children

24:16 The Importance of Both Parents in Sex Education

25:48 Teaching Modesty and Privacy to Children

27:24 Healthy Cross-Gender Relationships

31:08 Using the Book in Counseling and Church Settings

38:12 Writing the Book: Inspirations and Challenges

40:16 Final Thoughts and Future Plans


Episode Mentions
Curtis's Book for Husbands
Jenny's Book for Wives

Lament References:
Dark Clouds Deep Mercy
God's Healing for Life's Lessons

Counseling & Consulting
Solomon Soul Care

Training & Equipping
Southern Seminary - Biblical Counseling Concentration Degree

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