Everyone keeps asking, “How has motherhood changed your marriage?” The truth is, motherhood did not just make me a mom. It refined me as a wife.

Not in the cute Pinterest-worthy “soft girl mom era” way.

In the God-is-sanctifying-me-at-the-core-of-who-I-am-while-I-am-wiping-milk-off-the-counter-and-learning-patience-in-real-time way.

Modern culture told us that marriage after baby means either:

• losing yourself,

• resenting your partner, or

• taking a “break” from your business & brand until the dust settles.

But scripture says something different.

In this episode, I am sharing the very real ways motherhood exposed the strengths in our marriage… and the places my ego, expectations, and independence had to grow up.

Inside, we talk about:

• Why you do not “check out” after becoming a mom—you become more attentive

• Work as worship, not hustle or martyrdom
• Why you are the energetic thermostat of the home
• Discernment over emotional reactivity in marriage
• Legacy-driven partnership (not “roommate survival mode”)
• Delegation, support, and not doing it all yourself
• The difference between rest and idle distraction

This is the episode you listen to when you want more than “survival mode marriage” energy—you want a kingdom-built home, real partnership, and a marriage that grows stronger as you grow.

No aesthetic wife era.

Just refinement, maturity, and peace in practice.

Similar Episodes

• Ep 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For: Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures
• Ep 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were: The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More
• Ep 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed (with My Husband, Eduardo Gomez Del Casal)

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