There is a revival happening among women right now.

A return.

A remembering.

A rising of the full woman — the regal, elegant, sensual, spiritually grounded woman who holds herself to a standard that rebuilds her entire life from the inside out.

Not the watered-down version of womanhood we’ve been sold.

Not the chaotic, burnt-out, self-sacrificing archetype we silently normalized.

And not the “soft girl aesthetic” that’s all ambiance and no substance.

Soft x Savage is the whole woman waking up.

In this episode, we are naming the identity behind the movement.

The identity that rebuilt my marriage, my motherhood, my presence, and my business — but more importantly, the identity that is becoming the new standard for women who lead with depth, mystery, conviction, and class.

Inside, we talk about:

- The awakening of the *regal woman* — sensual, elegant, magnetic, and spiritually grounded

- Why every powerful woman goes through an identity crack before she rises

- How postpartum, purpose shifts, and marriage refinement expose the deeper standards you’ve outgrown

- The identity standards that rebuild a woman’s home, marriage, brand, and self—without forcing or performing

- The difference between feminine softness and feminine leadership

- The revival of women who want to be full, turned-on, multidimensional, creative, disciplined, wealthy, and deeply embodied

- Why identity must shift *before* your brand, business, or content can elevate

- The Soft x Savage woman as an emerging cultural archetype for 2026

This is not a self-help episode.

This is an identity recalibration for the woman you’re becoming.

The woman with taste.

The woman with standards.

The woman with presence.

The woman with emotional and spiritual authority.

The woman who makes her life — her home, her brand, her marriage, her body — a reflection of who she truly is.

Soft x Savage is not a vibe.

It’s a revival.

And you’re here because you feel it too.

Similar Episodes

-Ep. 195: The Woman Who Forgot Who She Was — and the Holy Rebuilding That Followed-Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were — The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More

-Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage — Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women

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Every woman has a moment where she quietly admits…

“I don’t know who I am right now.”

For me, it wasn’t dramatic.

It wasn’t cinematic.

It was a slow unraveling in the middle of postpartum, business demands, NICU memories, and a marriage trying to find its footing again.

Motherhood didn’t just give me a baby.

It exposed the parts of me I had ignored.

The places I was operating from self-sufficiency instead of surrender.

The ways I was hustling instead of being held.

And the subtle ways I had slipped out of alignment with the woman God was shaping me into.

This episode is the truth about the identity erosion that happens in survival seasons — and the holy, humbling, deeply personal journey of becoming her again.

Inside, we talk about:

- The moment I knew I wasn’t myself anymore

- How the NICU changed me in ways I’m still processing

- The emotional fog postpartum creates (and why no one prepares you for it)

- The quiet grief of losing the “old you”

- How God used depletion to rebuild my character

- The first small, non-aesthetic steps I took to come home to myself

- Why identity rebuilding had to happen before I could rebuild my brand, my marriage, or my confidence

This is the episode for the woman who is tired of pretending she’s “fine.”

The woman who wants to feel grounded again.

The woman who knows she’s in a rebirth… but hasn’t had the language for it until now.

No quick-fix identity hacks.

No “bounce back” pressure.

Just truth, refinement, and the woman God is forming in the fire.

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• Ep. 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For — Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures
• Ep. 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were — The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More
• Ep. 190: The Unhinged Things I Did to Get My Dream Life, a Multi-Six-Figure Business, and a Baby
  

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Everyone keeps talking about “10x energy.”

More action. More output. More expansion

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But what if the real wealth — the rich-as-fck* energy — isn’t about going harder, it’s about going deeper?

In this potent conversation, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Megan Hatfield, a feminine leadership mentor redefining what it means to be powerful, prosperous, and deeply feminine in business.

Together, they dismantle the hustle-coded version of success that teaches women to “go big or go home,” and explore what it means to live from open, receptive power instead — the kind that doesn’t burn out, but magnetizes.

They dive into the dark feminine, the truth about intimacy in high-ticket spaces, and why authentic leadership isn’t about the illusion of strength — it’s about depth, honesty, and wholeness.

If you’ve ever felt like you have to dim your power to be liked, or keep proving your worth to be paid — this conversation will unlock a richer, truer frequency of leadership and wealth.

Inside, we talk about:- Why “10x energy” keeps high-achieving women broke and disconnected

- The difference between *high-vibe* and *true-vibe* wealth

- How the dark feminine holds the codes for intimacy, magnetism, and money

- Reconciling the parts of yourself that have been shamed or exiled

- Why leadership isn’t about performance, but presence

- Power that doesn’t harm — how to lead without self-abandonment

- Reframing “quantum leaps” as homecomings to your truth

- The secret to high-ticket sales: it’s not proximity, it’s intimacy

Memorable Sound Bites

“What makes something high-ticket isn’t proximity — it’s intimacy.”

“For the deep feminine, a quantum leap is just a homecoming.”

“I disagree with the idea that a leader must always appear strong to be trustworthy.”

“Your power isn’t dangerous — your disconnection from it is.”

“True wealth is found in depth, not effort.”

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• Ep. 171: The Frequency of Wealth — Leading From Depth, Not Hustle
  

• Ep. 182: Healing the Hustle — Reclaiming the Soft Power of the Feminine Leader
  

• Ep. 189: Quantum Leaps and the Dark Feminine — Trusting the Depth Instead of the Drama
  

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Everyone keeps asking, “How has motherhood changed your marriage?” The truth is, motherhood did not just make me a mom. It refined me as a wife.

Not in the cute Pinterest-worthy “soft girl mom era” way.

In the God-is-sanctifying-me-at-the-core-of-who-I-am-while-I-am-wiping-milk-off-the-counter-and-learning-patience-in-real-time way.

Modern culture told us that marriage after baby means either:

• losing yourself,

• resenting your partner, or

• taking a “break” from your business & brand until the dust settles.

But scripture says something different.

In this episode, I am sharing the very real ways motherhood exposed the strengths in our marriage… and the places my ego, expectations, and independence had to grow up.

Inside, we talk about:

• Why you do not “check out” after becoming a mom—you become more attentive

• Work as worship, not hustle or martyrdom
• Why you are the energetic thermostat of the home
• Discernment over emotional reactivity in marriage
• Legacy-driven partnership (not “roommate survival mode”)
• Delegation, support, and not doing it all yourself
• The difference between rest and idle distraction

This is the episode you listen to when you want more than “survival mode marriage” energy—you want a kingdom-built home, real partnership, and a marriage that grows stronger as you grow.

No aesthetic wife era.

Just refinement, maturity, and peace in practice.

Similar Episodes

• Ep 186: The Season No One Actually Prepares You For: Balancing Postpartum, Marriage & Multi-6 Figures
• Ep 166: Stop Trying to Be Who You Were: The Identity Shift That Prepares You for More
• Ep 160: 0 to Married (and Pregnant) in Under a Year: The Unfiltered Tea You Didn’t Know You Needed (with My Husband, Eduardo Gomez Del Casal)

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- @itslaurapatriciamartin

- Soft x Savage Podcast

- Apply for Soft x Savage Society Mastermind — My 12-month mastermind for high-level women building legacy as wives, mothers, and CEOs.

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In this bold and unfiltered episode, Laura Patricia Martin sits down with Monica Yates — coach, speaker, and author of Becoming Her — to unpack the modern woman’s paradox: how feminism gave us freedom… but also left many women feeling disconnected, exhausted, and unsupported.

Together, they dive into the raw truth of motherhood, business, and relationships in an era that tells women to “have it all” — without showing the cost of doing it alone. Monica shares insights from her book Becoming Her, revealing how true feminine empowerment isn’t about competing with men, but about returning to internal safety, softness, and surrender — while still building powerfully in business.

If you’ve ever felt torn between being the high-achieving woman and the nurturer, this conversation will feel like exhaling after years of holding your breath.

Key Takeaways

- Modern feminism gave women choice — but not always peace.

- True feminine empowerment blends ambition and surrender, not one over the other.

- Motherhood and business both require strong support systems and emotional safety.

- The “independent woman” narrative often isolates us from the relationships we desire.

- Feminine leadership is about knowing when to lead and when to lean back.

- Becoming Her explores how internal safety creates the foundation for freedom.

Memorable Sound Bites

- “Support is the backbone of balancing motherhood and business.”

- “True feminine empowerment blends strength with vulnerability.”

- “Clear communication is the cornerstone of modern relationships.”

- “Internal safety unlocks the power of surrender.”

- “‘Becoming Her’ delves into the essence of feminine power.”Connect with Monica Yates:

- Instagram

- Website

- Book: Becoming Her

Connect with Laura Patricia Martin:

- Instagram- @itslaurapatriciamartin

- Soft x Savage Podcast

- Apply for Soft x Savage Society Mastermind

- Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training

Everyone keeps asking, “How do you do it all and still make money?”

Here’s the truth: I don’t believe in balance. I believe in systems.

In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on the backend that actually runs my business—the automations, workflows, and client systems that keep everything moving while I’m baking cookies, raising my baby, and living my Soft x Savage dream life.

Most coaches won’t tell you this part because it’s not “sexy” enough for Instagram. But these are the exact systems I built *two years before I ever met Edy*… because I knew the woman I was becoming—a wife, a mom, and a CEO—deserved a business that could hold her life, not consume it.

If you’ve ever looked at women who seem to “do it all” and wondered how, this episode gives you the full breakdown:

- The backend systems that automate my income and client delivery

- How I structure my calendar for energy management (not time management)

- The non-negotiables I protect as a wife and mom

- Why I built all of this before I ever “needed” it

This is the episode you listen to when you’re done glamorizing hustle and ready to build something that lasts.

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-Ep. 158: “The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO”

-Ep. 165: “How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women”

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Everyone loves to talk about strategy, structure, and timelines…

But no one talks about the unhinged decisions—the ones that make zero sense on paper and total sense in your soul.

In this raw and honest episode, I’m breaking down the wild, intuitive moves that created my dream reality:

a thriving multi-six-figure business, a loving relationship, and a baby I once only prayed for.

If you’ve been doing “all the right things” but still feel stuck, this episode will shake something awake in you.

Because the truth is—your dream life isn’t built from logic. It’s built from leaps.

💡 You’ll Learn- The 6 “unhinged” choices that changed everything in my business, love life, and motherhood

- How feminine energy and faith create quantum results

- Why playing it safe keeps high-achieving women stuck in survival

- The mindset that turned my chaos into clarity and cash flow

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Ep. 158: The Pre-Motherhood Structure That Made Me A Multi-6 Figure CEO
Ep. 165: How to Stay Soft While Leading Like a Savage: Feminine Balance for Type-A High-Achieving Women
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What if feeling “rich” wasn’t about your bank account—but about how you move through your day?

In this episode of the Soft x Savage Podcast, I’m pulling back the curtain on the 5 biggest daily actions that keep me in my rich AF energy—the kind of energy that builds premium brands, attracts high-ticket clients, and creates the soft life of freedom, expansion, and luxury.

These aren’t random habits or fluffy routines. These are strategic, intentional actions that I use to regulate my nervous system, amplify my creativity, and hold the frequency of wealth daily—so the money, clients, and opportunities flow.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

- The exact mindset shift that makes me feel wealthy every single morning (no matter what’s in my Stripe account).

- Why structure and discipline actually create more freedom—and how I use them to balance motherhood and million-dollar moves.

- The wealth rituals that collapse time around results and keep me magnetizing high-value clients without burning out.

- How I weave both soft and savage energy into my daily life to stay powerful, playful, and paid.

- The secret behind building momentum that compounds into consistent high cash months.

If you’ve been craving behind-the-scenes of how I embody my “rich AF” identity—not just in business, but in my relationships, health, and lifestyle—this episode will give you the blueprint.

Who this episode is for:

Women building premium personal brands, coaches scaling to six and multi-six figures, and ambitious leaders preparing for their next era of freedom—whether that means motherhood, marriage, or million-dollar years.

Tune in, take notes, and start embodying your rich AF life now.

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Most women live like life is one big race — rushing to “get their body back,” rushing to hit the next income milestone, rushing to move on to the next chapter. But here’s the truth: when you trust yourself, you don’t have to rush.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what this looks like in my own life right now. Postpartum, business, relationships — I feel safe in every chapter because I’ve built the practices that make me trust myself no matter the season. That’s the difference between living anxious and living anchored.

We’ll dive into:

• Why women feel anxious attachment to life (and why it’s not your fault)
• How building mastery in money, health, and relationships changes everything
• Why safety isn’t about rushing through a chapter but owning the one you’re in
• The real secret to resting without guilt and still knowing momentum is inevitable

If you’ve been feeling like you’re sprinting from one milestone to the next, this episode is your permission slip — and the strategy — to slow down, anchor in, and actually feel safe where you are.

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What does it really take to build a personal brand that not only makes you money, but gives you the freedom to live boldly and love deeply?

In this episode, Laura Patricia Martin (@itslaurapatriciamartin) sits down with Samantha Smith (@_samanthadaily)—7-Figure Personal Brand Consultant, creator of Million Dollar Messaging™️, and host of the Makeshift Happen Podcast (1.8M+ downloads)—to talk about what it means to chase big dreams while also building a fulfilling life.

Sam shares her raw story of moving to Spain, starting her business from scratch, and the challenges and triumphs that shaped her journey to seven figures. Together, Laura and Sam unpack:

- How to navigate the tension between ambition and intimacy

- Why courage is the secret ingredient to building both brands and relationships

- The role of supportive partnerships when pursuing your boldest goals

- What it really looks like to align your business with your purpose

This is a conversation about choosing courage over comfort, finding safety in your ambition, and building a brand that lets you live fully on every level.

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