Nik Fialka is back and shares a powerful reflection from a recent trip with a fellow pilot—one where the conversation never turned into a true connection. The key takeaway? Asking questions matters. Whether you're chatting with a recruiter, networking at an event, or riding the airport bus, showing interest in others is how real relationships begin. Nik dives into the value of humility, connection, and turning one-way conversations into meaningful two-way streets. If you want to stand out, build authentic relationships, and create unexpected opportunities, it starts with curiosity. It starts with asking.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The importance of asking questions

Why being curious makes you memorable

How to build genuine relationships in aviation and beyond

What happens when we shift from self-centered to other-centered

Simple ways to practice asking questions

Why even “small” connections (like with a grocery clerk or bus driver) matter 

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