Decide to Heal

Ep. 27 Are You a Control Freak? This Will Break the Cycle for Good


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If you’ve ever wrestled with trust, struggled to let go of control, or felt scared to truly surrender, this episode is for you. I open up about why trust feels so hard, how control masquerades as safety, and why surrender is the key to lasting healing.


Here’s what you’ll discover:

  • ✨ Why trust and surrender must go hand-in-hand for true freedom
  • ✨ The surprising childhood moments that shaped your “trust muscle”
  • ✨ How control drains your peace, presence, and intimacy with God
  • ✨ Practical ways to release anxiety and loosen your grip on outcomes


This conversation is raw, biblical, and deeply personal, an invitation to stop hiding, hand your fears to God, and step into real healing.


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Key moments of this interview:

00:00 Why Trust and Surrender Feel Impossible

02:48 The Hidden Moment Your Trust Was Broken

06:12 The Cycle of Self-Doubt That Follows You Into Adulthood

10:18 How Broken Trust Spills Into Marriage, Work, and Faith

14:15 Why Control Is a False Safety Net

18:04 The Generational Cycle of Distrust

22:53 Shame: The Emotion That Makes Us Hide

25:54 Trust Without Surrender = Anxiety in Disguise

28:55 A Powerful Picture of Letting Go

30:16 Your Invitation to Practice Trust and Surrender


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