Charm Spencer opens up about tour life - the late nights, the travel, and the mindset that keeps him grounded while performing on The Boy Is Mine Tour with Brandy and Monica. In this episode, he joins John Corella to talk about learning to move between masculine and feminine energy onstage and how that balance shapes both his artistry and his identity.

He reflects on rejection, growth, and humility with a kind of honesty that pulls you in. How do you stay true to yourself when every role asks for something different? How do you keep your confidence in an industry built on constant change?

Charm’s story connects discipline with self-acceptance and reminds dancers that authenticity is its own kind of power. And for anyone who grew up watching Dance Moms, he shows how those early lessons in adaptability and storytelling still echo through every performance today.

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Behind the Scenes of The Boy Is Mine Tour

06:00 Charm Spencer’s Journey to Becoming a Professional Dancer

09:03 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Dance

11:57 Breakthrough Auditions and Career Lessons

15:05 A Real Look at Tour Life

47:59 Handling Criticism and Protecting Your Energy

49:47 What Touring Dancers Teach Each Other

54:08 Dance Moms and Early Influences

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