You’re just trying to buy avocados, and suddenly you’re defending your entire educational philosophy.

In this hilarious and eye-opening episode, Christy-Faith breaks down why announcing “We homeschool” turns into a social experiment. From the grocery store to family gatherings, she explains the psychology behind other people’s awkward reactions and how to stay confident, calm, and kind through it all.

You’ll learn four powerful psychological tendencies (status quo bias, shame projection, cognitive dissonance, and confirmation bias) that explain why people question your homeschool choices and how to gracefully respond without getting defensive or drained.

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OTHER EPISODES FOR YOU 👀

The Future of Education: Why Families are Leaving Public Schools

🔗 https://christy-faith.com/podcast/the-future-of-education-why-families-are-leaving-public-schools/ 

Behind the Scenes of Thrive Homeschool Community.

🔗 https://christy-faith.com/podcast/behind-the-scenes-of-thrive-homeschool-community/

🎧 SHOW RECAP

✅ Why “We homeschool” feels like a social experiment
✅ The real reason people get uncomfortable when you choose differently
✅ Four psychological biases that fuel homeschool skepticism
✅ How to respond gracefully without overexplaining
✅ What to say when someone projects their own parenting fears on you
✅ How to reach the ultimate level of unbothered confidence
✅ Why thriving homeschool kids often trigger cognitive dissonance in others
✅ How to stop trying to be the perfect homeschool ambassador

Your calm doesn’t need to be defended, it just needs to be lived.

📌 Like, subscribe, and share this with a homeschool mom who’s tired of defending her decision and ready to walk in confidence.

💬 What’s your go-to response when someone questions your homeschool choice? Share it in the comments or tag Christy-Faith on Instagram to join the conversation.

The Christy-Faith Show | Ep. 89

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