The matching pajamas. The elaborate elf setup. The perfect presents.

We pour ourselves out every December trying to create “magic” for our kids—but what if they won’t even remember it?

In this freeing and research-backed episode, Christy-Faith uncovers what kids truly remember about their childhood holidays (and what they don’t). Through the science of memory and emotion, she reveals why the pressure for “perfect” holidays actually blocks memories from forming and what to do instead.

The Christy-Faith Show | Ep. 91

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Episode 39: Dealing With Family Criticism in Homeschooling with Marni Love & Denise Vibbert 

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Episode 80: Are Homeschool Moms More Patient? 

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🎧 SHOW RECAP

In this heart-calming episode, Christy-Faith helps you:

✅ Understand childhood amnesia—and why your kids won’t remember most early holiday details
✅ Learn how stress literally blocks memory formation in both parents and kids
✅ Discover the three-part formula for creating memories that truly last
✅ Identify which traditions build connection versus which just create more work
✅ Feel peace in letting go of “perfect” and focusing on presence

If you’ve ever stayed up too late wrapping, baking, or planning just to feel like you missed it all—this one’s for you.

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💬 What holiday tradition are you letting go of this year to reclaim your peace? Share it with us—we’d love to hear.

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