There is a situation that occurs with some couples in the lifestyle in which the male partner will behave in an inconsistent manner. When he is horny, he acts as if he is all for the lifestyle, when he is not, he would rather not deal with it and will sometimes even become angry or frustrated. This behavior can leave some women feeling like a “Kink Dispenser” (thank you Mistress J for that term). In this episode Scarlet and Michael talk about Kink Dispensinsing and the damage that it can cause. Do you treat your partner like a kink dispenser? Does your partner make you feel like one? This is an episode that you need to listen to in order to find out.