Loads of great response to Ruth’s interview in episode 104: lots of praise, some questions and a bongo load of mystery. We talk about why the questions and wrestling are important, and how we have to learn to live alongside grief, rather than get rid of it. Meanwhile, Nick has a sore throat and Joe has had a power nap.

• Episode 104: ‘Strength to walk the journey’
• Megan Devine, It’s OK that you’re not OK
• Richard Coles: ‘My life is not over. But it feels like it is sometimes’