Tuck speaks with sex educator and ~sensualist~ Ev'Yan Whitney (they/she). Topics include:

• What sensuality looks like when it's painful to be in your body
• The superpower of being an asexual sex educator
• Advice for folks worried that transitioning will harm their romantic relationships
• Is it fine to dissociate our way through the pandemic?
• Plus: We've been eating apples wrong this whole time?!

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Find Ev'Yan at evyanwhitney.com and @evyan.whitney. Their book and podcast are both called Sensual Self.

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