Why do people really give? It is not logic. It is not spreadsheets. It is not persuasion.

In this thought-provoking conversation, Tosha talks with fundraising strategist and neuroscience expert Cherian Koshy about the biology and behavior behind generosity.

Together they explore how the brain rewards giving, why relationships matter more than transactions, and how nonprofit leaders can create emotionally resonant donor experiences.

Cherian shares insights on donor identity, digital fatigue, donor retention, and how to ethically communicate urgency during uncertain times. This episode offers a practical and science-informed look at what motivates people to be generous.

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 – 02:00Introduction and context for why neuroscience matters in fundraising.

02:00 – 09:30How generosity shows up in the brain and why giving is a biological event.

09:30 – 17:30Behavioral finance principles and why money decisions rarely follow logic.

17:30 – 23:00A new understanding of donor fatigue and why emotional connection matters most.

23:00 – 29:30Identity theory and how reinforcing donor values builds long-term relationships.

29:30 – 33:00Digital fatigue and how to create messages that activate attention and memory.

33:00 – 41:30Creating ethical urgency during uncertain times while maintaining trust.

41:30 – EndWhere listeners can find Cherian and final thoughts from Tosha.

Follow Cherian Koshy Online

🌐 Website: https://www.cheriankoshy.com

💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cheriankoshy/

📘Book: https://neurogivingbook.com/

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Resources Mentioned:

Book: Your Money Has Feelings by Shannon Ryan