A suggestion by a fan points Episode 19 of The Sissy Whisper in the direction of Strappy vs Pegging.  Pegging, a term coined by Dan Savage and his podcast listeners actually has a reason for being.

In this episode, I will discuss that reason. Also, I will give my opinion on the two, and might even give you another way to look at the term.

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