Psychology Has It Backwards

Episode 197: You're Not Special. Unique, Maybe, but Not Special


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As we grow up, we start to think about ourselves.  We react to our parents' and other adults' expectations of us, and measure our worth against our performance.  We watch people we admire and compare ourselves to them.  The more we start to wonder how we're doing, the more we use our thinking to compare ourselves to others when we feel uncertain or insecure.  Some people brag and "talk a big game."  Some people feel more and more inadequate and either tell others about the things they don't like about themselves, or just fade out of social interactions.  No matter what we think about ourselves, it is just the "reality" we're creating with our own thoughts.  The common attribute we all share is that we have the remarkable gift TO think, and whatever we bring to mind appears real to us.  We are all creating our own unique reality.  There's nothing special about any one thinker.  Every human being lives in the power to create their experience of life.  We enjoy life when we accept the ordinary fact of ever-changing thoughts, and just appreciate our ordinary life as thinkers.

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