Being Human

Episode 247: Scrupulosity 101: OCD, Reassurance, and Real Healing


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Scrupulosity isn't just "Catholic guilt gone too far"—it's a deeply painful form of OCD that can hijack your relationship with God. In this episode, Dr. Greg sits down with Stephanie Muncy, CatholicPsych's in-house expert (and someone who's lived it), to unpack what scrupulosity really is, how it distorts the spiritual life, and why the path to healing might look very different than you think.

Key Topics:

  • How scrupulosity is actually a debilitating form of OCD
  • The scariest part of scrupulosity? It feels like it's about God—but it's really not
  • Why obsessively going to confession or seeking reassurance only makes things worse
  • The true root of scrupulosity isn't spiritual failure—it's unhealed anxiety
  • How the need to "get it right" spiritually often masks a deeper wound
  • Why you can't "logic your way out" of OCD
  • What healing actually looks like—and why it's not about caring less
  • Why even well-meaning spiritual advice can sometimes make things worse
  • The most powerful thing you can offer someone suffering from scrupulosity

Learn More:

  • Blog articles by Stephanie Muncy:
    • How to Settle Anxiety in the Heart and Mind of Someone with OCD
    • The Love that Sets Us Free: A Compassionate Path through OCD
  • Previously on the Being Human Podcast:
    • Ep. #22: A Look at Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and Scrupulosity
  • Catholic Mindfulness Virtual Retreat: An 8-week course that brings freedom from anxiety and depression by showing you how to live as if you really believe in a God who loves you.
  • The Mindful Catholic by Dr. Greg Bottaro: A practical guide to finding peace in the present moment through Catholic mindfulness.
  • CatholicPsych Model of Applied Personalism (CPMAP): Catholic accompaniment training that truly integrates faith and science.
  • Learn more about Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Parts Work:
    • Ep. #160: Healing through Parts Work
    • Ep. #35: Why Do I Feel Like I Have Conflicting Parts?
  • Need help? Schedule a free CatholicPsych consultation
  • Want to help? Learn more about our Certification in Professional Accompaniment

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