While the majority of people want, or say they want, a long term, monogamous, relationship it turns out that most of the time that doesn't work and a lot of people don't even want to be monogamous or even married. But how does that work? And it turns out that you the same issues in dating monogamously show up in non-monogamy. We talk to a real expert Dr. Joli Hamilton about how to negotiate all of it. Find her here